Xa injineli esebenza kwinkampani yezizwe ngezizwe kuMbindi Mpuma yaya kwiNkundla yoSapho apha ukuze iqhawule umtshato nomfazi wayo, injineli yesoftware, ngezizathu zokuba wayengasebenzi kakuhle ngokwesondo kwaye akazange akwazi ukuwugqiba umtshato wakhe, lo mfazi waye-shell- othukile.
Waliphikisa ngokukrakra ibango yaze ijaji yacela uncedo lweengcali.
Phantsi kovavanyo lwe-psycho-diagnostic, inyaniso yaphuma ngaphandle. Yayiyindoda eyayiphepha isondo esiqhelekileyo ukususela ngosuku lokuqala lomtshato wabo.
Isizathu: wayechatshazelwa ngokwasengqondweni ngokubukela imifanekiso engamanyala, ekhokelela kukungasebenzi kakuhle kwe-erectile.
Elakhe lelinye kuphela lamatyala amaninzi axoxwa yiNkundla yoSapho apha: amatyala oqhawulo-mtshato aqalwa kukuvezwa okugqithisileyo okanye okukhobokisayo kwiphonografi ye-intanethi.
Ezinye iinyani eziqhelekileyo zezokuba amadoda afuna ukuba abafazi baphinde into abayibona kwiividiyo zamanyala, zihlala zidlalwa kwigumbi lokulala.
Kwezinye iimeko, bengakwazi ukuxela oku nakubani na, kwaye phantsi koxinzelelo okanye ukuxhatshazwa, abafazi bashiya amakhaya omtshato, bebeka isiseko seengxabano ezinkundleni. Iingcali zithi umlutha wephonografi kwi-intanethi ngoku ngubhubhani othuleyo owonakalisa imitshato.
Njengoko iinkundla zityekele ekujongeni ukwala ngenkani ukugqiba amaqhina omtshato njengenkohlakalo kwiqabane likabani, ingxaki idluliselwa 'njengenkohlakalo' kwiinkqubo zoqhawulo-mtshato.
Ngaphezu kweminyaka emithathu njengejaji yenkundla yosapho, ndibone uninzi lwamatyala okungasebenzi kakuhle ngokwesondo okubangelwa ngamanyala emadodeni okubangele ukuthuthunjiswa okungaqhelekanga nokunganyamezelekiyo, ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo, kubafazi, utshilo u-TCS Raja Chockalingam, IJaji yeNkundla yoSapho apha. Uthe amakhosikazi asoloko engonwabanga kukufuna ukuba baxelise izenzo ezenziwa ngabadlali bamanyala. “Xa amadoda enyanzelisa oku, kubakho umphumo ombi kulwalamano lomtshato. Olu hlobo lokukhotyokiswa ngamanyala ngowona mxholo uphambili kumatyala amaninzi oqhawulo-mtshato afakwe ngenxa yenkohlakalo.”
Ngesinye isihlandlo, indoda ekwintsapho ekumgangatho ophakathi yafuna uqhawulo-mtshato ngenxa yenkohlakalo yomfazi wayo. Emva kovavanyo olunzulu, kwafunyaniswa ukuba umyeni wayefuna ukubopha isandla somfazi wakhe okanye ambethe ngebhanti ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo.
Ukwala kwakhe kwakhokelela kwisicelo soqhawulo-mtshato. Kwelinye icala, umyeni wayechasa isini esiqhelekileyo, kodwa wayefuna ukuba umfazi wakhe aphinde izenzo ezibonakala kwividiyo engamanyala awayeyidlalile kwigumbi lokulala.
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