Ngokucacileyo, ukungabi nako ukufumana ukulungiswa yinkinga engokwemvelo, kodwa izinto ezininzi, kubandakanya iingxaki zonyango okanye zengqondo, kunye neengxaki zengqondo kunye nemvakalelo zingabangela. Nazi ezinye ezimbalwa zezizathu eziqhelekileyo: uxinzelelo lwegazi oluphezulu, isifo senhliziyo, isifo sikashukela; ethile imithi; ukusetyenziswa kotywala nokusetyenziswa kweziyobisi, ukutshaya; ukuxinezeleka, uxinzelelo, umsindo, ukuxhalaba; ukugqithisa, ukuzenza umfanekiso, ukuhlawula okuphantsi. Njengoko olu luhlu lubonakala ngathi, into engenakwenzeka ukuba ibonakale kuyo nayiphi na inkcazo yezizathu zentsholongwane ye-erectile iyinzondo.
Kodwa akufuneki ukubukela iphonografi kuncede ekufumaneni ulwakhiwo, hayi ukuthintela enye? Mhlawumbi, mhlawumbi akunjalo.
Ngaphambi kwe-intanethi, ukungena kwi-porn kumiselwe kumabonwakude nakwiimagazini, njenge-Playboy ne-Penthouse. Ngelixa abanye abantu babeqokelele, abafana abaninzi banokufikelela okuncinci. Kodwa i-Intanethi ngoku yenza ukufumaneka kwiimifanekiso ze-porn kunye neevidyo zevidiyo ziphantse zize zize zingenamkhawulo.
Ukubonelelwa okungapheliyo kwemifanekiso yesondo kubonise umnqweno wendalo wamadoda kubo bobabini "ukuzingela" kunye nokucinga ngesondo. Nje ngeziphumo, ukunandipha ukuxilwa ngokwesini kunye nokubonelela okungapheliyo kwemifanekiso evuselelayo kuye kwajika ukujonga i-pornography ibe ngumdlalo wokufuna imifanekiso enomdla ngakumbi kunye neengcamango ezininzi, amadoda amaninzi. Le ngenye ye Izizathu ezinkulu zokuba kutheni amadoda abukele iipopayi, kwaye ingaba yinto eqhelekileyo njani kwaye itye iiyure ngeeyure. Nantsi into omnye umfazi andixelele yona:
Njengothusayo njengoko oku kunokuba kunjalo, ndinayo Amadoda avuma kimi kumcebisi Yokufumana i-porn ngakumbi nangakumbi kunale ndoda. Njengalo myeni, uninzi lwamadoda alunalo nofifi lokuba lukhulu kangakanani umcimbi wabo wokubukela iphonografi. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ayiqhelekanga na into yokuba amadoda afune ukujonga umfazi oze? Ewe, kodwa ukugqithisa kwayo nayiphi na into kubangela iingxaki- kwanezinto ezintle (nangona iphonografi ayisiyonto intle).
Ngoku inani elikhulayo lamadoda libika ubunzima bokufumana nokugcina ulungiso xa besondelene namaqabane abo. Ndiyazi amadoda anengxaki yokufikelela kwi-orgasm xa elala nabafazi babo okanye iintombi zabo. Kwaye amanye amadoda anokulahla umdla wokulala ngesondo kunye nomfazi okwenene. Ngaba ngoku amadoda awacingi ngokucinga ngesondo rhoqo emva kwemizuzwana emi-6? Ngaba abafanelwe ukuba bajolise kwisini ukuze babe neentlobano zesini phantse ngalo naliphi na ixesha? Yintoni enika? I-Porn iyakwenza iingxaki zokulungiswa.
Ukuvuswa kwezesondo kukhulula i-chemical dopamine engqondweni. Njengeyiphi na into, i-dopamine kakhulu ingaba yingxaki. Xa ukujonga iifostile kuba yinto eqhelekileyo kunokubangela ukuba imisipha echosheni ibe yinto engathandekiyo kwaye iphendule kwi-dopamine. Oku kubangela ulwalamano oluqhelekileyo lwesondo (kunye nomfazi okwenene) enganeleyo ukuvelisa i-dopamine eyaneleyo yokuvusa. Isiphumo solu tshintsho kwingqondo (eguqulwa yindlela) ibonakala kwiingcaciso ezidlulileyo zamadoda afuna unobunono obuninzi kunye nokugqithiseleyo ukuba avuke aze afumane i-orgasm.
Kukho ezinye iiklinikhi ezithi i-erectile i-dysfunction i-dysfunction iyingcali. Kodwa kukho abantu abaninzi abakholelwa ekuziphatheni ngokugqithisileyo. Akukho nto ndivumelana nayo.
Inyaniso malunga neentlophu zobugqwetha kukuba inika ulonwabo lwexesha elifutshane kodwa kunye nezo zivela kwiingxaki zexesha elide. Ukukhwabanisa ngokugqithiseleyo ngokuphindaphindiweyo kwexesha eliphakamileyo kukuphakamisa umda onyanzelekileyo ukuvusa isondo, kunye ne-orgasm. Ngenxa yesiphumo socansi, nokuba yinyani okanye yedijithali, eyasetyenziswa ngokukhawuleza ukudala injabulo ayisayi kwenzayo, kwaye ngokunjalo nangaphezulu, kwaye kuyimfuneko entsha kunye neyomtsha.
Ukuqonda konke oku akunzima ukubona ukuba isondo esiqhelekileyo nomntu obukade unaye ngaphambili ngekhe kuvuse umsebenzisi we-porn njengaye. Indoda enye endiyiphatileyo ngenxa yeziyobisi ezingamanyala kuya kufuneka iphinde iphulula amalungu esini kunye ne-orgasm emva kokulala nomfazi wayo.
Iindaba ezilungileyo kukuba i-erectile i-dysfunction ye-porno iyabuyiselwa. Yeka ukubukela i-porn kunye nokuhlaziya i-masturbating, kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo kwiinyanga ze-3 iqondo le-dopamine ebuchosheni bakho liya kubuya kumazinga aqhelekileyo. Nangona kunjalo, ukuyeka ukujonga i-porn kunokuba lula kunokuthetha. Naphezu kweenjongo ezilungileyo, amandla okulonda i-pornography kunye nokufikeleleka kwawo lula kulula ukuba amadoda amaninzi ayeke ayeke ngaphandle kootitshala abancedisayo.
Kukho iinkolelo zamama sonke esizivayo njengabantwana. Omnye wamazwi omama adumile kakhulu, “Nxiba ibhatyi. Uza kubanjwa yingqele. ” Kodwa elinye libandakanya i-human anatomy, "Ukuba uqhubeka udlala ngayo, iyokuwa ngolunye usuku." Ndiyicinga ukuba, “Ukuphulula amaphambili kuya kukwenza ungaboni.” Ngokucacileyo, ayizukuwa kwaye awuyi kuba yimfama, kodwa yintsomi ukuba ukujonga iphonografi akunabungozi kwaye inyani kukuba ukungasebenzi kakuhle kwe-porn erectile kunokuba sesinye seziphumo.
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