Eli nqaku (umguquli kaGoogle) ucaphula iingcali ezintathu ezithi iphonografi ibangela iingxaki kwezesondo: uSocionomen Inger Björklund, ugqirha wezengqondo kwiKlinikhi yeRFSU; Ugqirha oyintloko kaStefan Arver kunye nentloko yeZiko leAndrology kunye neMedical Medicine kwisibhedlele iYunivesithi yaseKarolinska eHudding; Ugqirha wezengqondo uGoran Sedvallson.
Ngakumbi nangakumbi abafana abaselula banengxaki "yamanyala." Kwiwebhu, bakhangela abantu abanengxaki efanayo. "Ndandisondele xa ndandibukela iphonografi - hayi kunye nentombazana yam," utshilo omnye wamaxhoba.
Indawo yase-US Ingqondo yakho kwi-Porn ibonelela kumadoda athanda ukubukela iphonografi kwaye awasakwazi ukufumana isikhundla xa bezama ukulala ngesondo. Ujoliso kukujonga ukuba ukubonwa kakhulu kweephonografi kuyichaphazela njani inkqubo yomvuzo wobuchopho kwaye kukhokelela kuphazamiso "lweepateni zokukhanyisa", ekuthi umntu angonwabi liqabane "lokwenyani".
Ngoku kubonakala ngathi olu phuhliso lufike eSweden. Kwi-net kukho iingxoxo ezininzi apho iingxowa zamadoda, ikakhulu ezincinci, zixubusha ingxaki yokufumana isikhundla ngexesha lokulala. Ngokuqhelekileyo baninzi ukuba bahlala behlambalaza xa bebukela i-pornography.
Ucwaningo lwemibuzo ngokubandakanya iBhodi leLutsha lubonisa ukuba abaselula abayisithoba abashumi abatye bajonga iipilisi ngaphezulu okanye ngaphantsi rhoqo, inani elilinganayo labasetyhini abaselula baneminyaka emithathu kwishumi. Amantombazana ahlala esabela ukuba basebenzisa imifanekiso engamanyala ukuba bajabule, bafana, nangona kunjalo ukuze banelise.
Indoda eneminyaka eli-19 ubudala ibhala kwi-nätsajt yaziva ukuba kukho into "engalunganga" kwaye yafuna ulwazi malunga nokuba kutheni ingenakufumana sithuba xa yayihleli nentombi yayo. Wayenemincili xa ebukele iphonografi kwaye ephulula amalungu esini ngelixa. Xa umfazi ohamba ze elele phambi kwakhe ebhedini, akukho nto yenzekileyo, yena nayo yonke le meko babengonelanga yimincili.
I-Socionomen Inger Björklund, wengqondo yengqondo kwi-Clinical RFSU e-Stockholm iminyaka emihlanu, ithi amadoda aninzi kunye nabasemadeni abakhulu abonakala benengxaki yokulungisa emva kokubukela i-pornography eninzi. Yena kunye nabalingane bakhe abazange baqwalasele ubunzima bokuzikhukhumeza i-porn ngaphandle kokuzama ukubona ingxaki kumxholo.
-Kodwa kubonakala ngathi inyani ayonelanga ukudala ulonwabo olomeleleyo ngokwaneleyo. Indoda "amazinyo" ayiloqabane lokwenyani. Ayisiyonto intsha le, kodwa iphonografi yanamhlanje iyafumaneka ngeenxa zonke. I-fowuni, ii-I-pads, iikhompyuter, oomabonakude- nangaliphi na ixesha kwaye naphi na apho ubona iifilimu ezandayo, utshilo u-Inger Björklund.
Uthi le nto ngamanye amaxesha inokuba malunga nayo ngezizathu ezahlukeneyo kunokubonakala kunzima ukuhlangana ngokusondeleyo nomnye umntu. Ke kulula ukuba baphile ngokwesini sabo kwihlabathi eliyintelekelelo.
- Kubomi "bokwenyani", usengozini. Nabani na ojonga iphonografi akenzi ubudlelwane nabanye. Ke ngoko, ukusetyenziswa kakhulu kwe-porn kwenza kube nzima ukufumana ubomi obuqhelekileyo kunye obuqhelekileyo bokuphila ngokwesondo.
Ngaba ikhona isisombululo kule hlobo leengxaki? Ewe, uphendula Inger Björklund. Into ebalulekileyo kukuba uqaphele ukuba unamathele ekuziphatheni okubi. Isinyathelo sokuqala kukuchaza ukuziphatha kwabo njengengxaki okanye into ofuna ukuyitshintsha.
-Ukuba ufuna uncedo lokophula ipateni kwaye uzame ukuqonda ngakumbi ukuba kulunge njani kunye ukuthetha nonyango njengendlela yokufumana kwakhona ubomi besondo obusebenzayo.
Kwiziko le-intanethi ubhala umfana osemtsha kwaye engazange alalane ngesondo ngaphambi kwexesha le18.
Xa wayeza kuba neentlobano zesini okokuqala, "wayengekho phezulu uWillie" kunye ne "blåvägrade" ukuba bazama kangakanani. Lo mfana waqala ukukhangela ulwazi kwi-Intanethi. Apho wafumana ezininzi iingxaki ezifanayo. Uyaqhubeka:
"Kwavela ukuba iphonografi kunye nokuphulula amalungu esini njengoko kunjalo. Ukuba ixesha elithile-kum yayilixesha leminyaka emithandathu-ukuphulula amalungu esini kunye ne-porn zihlala zihlala zisetyenziswa kwingqondo malunga ne-dopamine receptors ukukhanyisa kukhuthazo olubonakalayo. Ngamanye amagama, umzimba unokuba li-horny kwaye wonwabe malunga nokujonga iphonografi kunye nokuhambisa amalungu esini kwangaxeshanye. Ngaba intombazana ehamba ze ilala phambi kwebhedi yam akukho nto yenzekayo, umzimba awucingi ukuba wonele ngokwaneleyo. ”
Ugqirha oyintloko kaStefan Arver kunye nentloko yeZiko leAndrology kunye noNyango lwezeSondo kwisibhedlele iYunivesithi yaseKarolinska eHuddinge. Uvile malunga nesenzeko se "porno impotence" yokuba umntu aveze okuninzi malunga nokwabelana ngesondo ngoononophelo kangangokuba ekugqibeleni alahlekelwe ngumdla.
-Ndinokucinga ukuba uninzi lwamadoda amancinci angenawo amava ezesondo anokuphazamiseka ngokwesini ukuba babukela iphonografi kakhulu. Ukuhlala kwihlabathi lamaphupha ngaphandle kwabantu abaphilayo, njengoko iphonografi ibonelela, kunokudala ukulindelwa okungenangqondo kwendlela obusebenza ngayo ubomi besini. Inokukhokelela kubunzima bokufumana ukusondela kunye nokukhuseleka kunye neqabane labo, nelingakhokelela kwiingxaki ezinje ngokufumana isikhundla.
Kwizibhedlele eKarlskrona, ukufumana isinilo esithile kwi-1984. Umphathi uGoran Sedvallson, kunye namava amaninzi njengengqondo yesifo sengqondo kunye no-psychotherapist, uthi abo ababukela ubuninzi boononophelo bavame ukuphela kwiipatheni ezingenzi kakuhle.
-Kungenzeka ukuba amadoda angabinakho okanye azive onwabile xa esabelana ngesondo okwenyani. Zibhalwe zangumfanekiso wobuxoki kwiifilimu ezingamanyala kangangokuba azinakukwazi ukuphatha ngesondo ebomini bokwenyani. Ngokucacileyo oku kunokubangela iingxaki kumntu ngamnye nakubudlelwane.
Ingxaki yokungabi namandla kwe-porn iya kukhula, ngenxa yokunyuka kokufumaneka, kholelwa nguGoran Sedvallson. Yena noogxa bakhe eKarlskrona bathathe kunyaka ophelileyo ngokuchasene neendwendwe ezitsha ezingamashumi amahlanu. Izigulana beziphakathi kweminyaka eli-17 ukuya kwengama-80- kwaye bonke baziva ngathi baneengxaki ezinzima ngokwesini sabo.
- Okwangoku asikafumani makhwenkwe kunye namadoda afumana "ukungabi namandla kwe-porn." Uvavanyo lwam kukuba kwindawo yokuqala ndijonge kwiiklinikhi zolutsha kunye nezinye izinto - ngoku bafuna uncedo konke konke. Kumntu ofikisayo, akukho lula ukuvuma ukuba, umzekelo, usenokungakwazi xa ukunye nentombazana.
Thomas Lerner
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