Sithatha phi umgca phakathi kokusetyenziswa ngokugqithiseleyo kunye nokulutha kwi-intanethi eyaziwayo? UCharlotte Loppie, iNjingalwazi ye-UV kwiSikolo soLuntu lwezeMpilo, iNkqubo yeNtlalo, kunye noPhando loLwazi lwezeMpilo lwaBantu baseMakhaya, lutsha nje lubonile ukwanda kwenani labafundi besilisa abafuna isiluleko malunga nokungasebenzi kwe-erectile ubudlelwane ngenxa yobungqina obuninzi beentlekele .
I-intanethi ye-intanethi inokuthi "ekugqibeleni ihlaziyekile," uLolpie uyachaza, kuba "ukuvuselela umlilo ngokukhawuleza" kwento engacacanga ngokucacileyo kushiya umbukeli akakwazi ukuvuswa ngesondo nomntu wangempela.
Enye imeko yeli qhekeza yi-self-proclaimed addicted porn and year-year Writing Principal, uSpencer Thompson, owathetha uLippie malunga namava akhe ngomlutha kunyaka odlulileyo. ULolpie uthi uThompson waqala ukuhlangabezana necala ngokuchanekileyo njengoThompson kodwa wongezelela esithi, "Ndiye ndafunda nabafundi baneminyaka engama-70 ubudala."
U-Thompson uchaza ukuba umdla wakhe wokubambisana noononophala waqala kwiBakala 10 kwaye uyaqhubeka ehlushwa yi-addiction. Uthi: "Ndiyaqhubeka ndijamelana nomdla," ushilo. "Ayikho ikhambi."
"Ngamanye amaxesha ndifuna ukuba ndiyinkwenkwe yamashumi asibhozo. Abazange bajongane [neekhomputer]. "
Kwimiqulu ye-2015 ye Ukuhlaziywa kweTexas yoMthetho kunye nezoPolitiko, UAlexandra Harrison ubhala athi: “Ukuba likhoboka lamanyala kwi-Intanethi kuqulethe izinto ezibonisa ukuba likhoboka lesini kunye ne-Intanethi, nto leyo enokwenza ukuba ibe yingozi kakhulu kunezinye iziyobisi. Umbutho weAmerican Bar Association (ABA), uchaza ukuba likhoboka lezesondo 'njengokuxhomekeka okunyanzelekileyo nakweyiphi na indlela yokuziphatha ngokwesondo ethatha isiyobisi, oqhubeka nokusebenza ngokunyanzelekileyo njengemiphumo enyukayo kwaye ofumana ukunyanzelwa ngaphaya kwamandla akhe okuxhathisa, ukulawula, okanye uyeke. '”
Kwiintsuku zakhe "ezinzima," ukubukela iifostile kwanikela kuphela uvuyo lobomi buka Thompson. Wayeqhele ukugquma isikolo ukuba abukele iphonografi ekhompyutheni, kwaye ekugqibeleni wahluleka ukudibanisa ngesondo nangokwemvakalelo enokuthandana. Uthi: "Xa [ndineengxaki], ingqondo yam iyahamba kwaye mna ndiyakhuthazwa ngumzimba."
IHarrison iyaqhubeka Texas Texas: "I-ABA iyaphawula ukuba ngelixa 'umlutha ukhula, umlingo kufuneka uhlanganyele kwiimeko eziqhelekileyo okanye ezikhuselekileyo ukuvelisa ukukhawuleza kwezinto eziphilayo,' kunye nokukhathazeka, ukunyamezela, kunye nokufuna iminyanzelo yokuqhubeka, 'kunokuba kwenziwe izinto ezithile, phawula umlutha. "Ngoko ukunyaniseka akusayi kuba ngesondo ngesinye kodwa malunga nomsebenzi othile wokubukela i-intanethi.
"Uqhubela phambili kwizinto ezigqithiseleyo kuba [uhlobo oludlulileyo] alukwenzi oko kuwe. . . kodwa ngexesha elifanayo, isazela sakho sithetha ukuba [into enobungcipheko], "kuchaza uT Thompson.
Ngokuka-Emma Carter weZiko loLwaphulo loPhando lwe-BC (CARBC), akukho phando okwenziwa ngoku malunga nokulumkisa i-pornography. Njengoko uphando olwaneleyo lugxininisa imicimbi emininzi kwimiba yecalografi, iimbono zonyango ezihlukileyo ziyahluka. Yintoni ekwasekwa ngokufanelekileyo kukuhlukana phakathi kwamava kunye namabhinqa ngamava eonografi. Kuyo yonke iminyaka yam [esebenzayo kwimpilo yesondo], andikaze ndive umfazi uthi [u] ubukele isohlwayo oluninzi kangangokuthi [akanako] ukuthokoza nomlingani owenene, "kutsho uLippie.
Incwadi ye-2007 uDkt Daniel Linz Iimifanekiso ezingcolileyo kwi-intanethi: Iimbono zokuchasana ithi "amabhalana afana 'nesondo sobisi ngokwesini' okanye 'iidemon zoxhatshazo' angasichazela ngakumbi malunga noluntu kunye nolwahlulo lwezesini kunokuba siphumelele nasiphi na isifo esitsha." I-Linz ibonisa ukuba ekubeni abo bafunyaniswa ngokuthi "abaxhatshazwa ngokwesini" baxhomekekanga kubantu, Abaphandi bakholelwa ukuba uluntu olulindelwe ngabesilisa abanokuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo lunokubangela ukuba amadoda aveze ubukhulu babo besondo ngokugqithisa ngokwesondo.
Ngokutsho kweHarrison, i-"Coolidge Impact," echazwe njengento efuna ukuvelisa ubulili, ithetha ukuba i-pool engapheliyo ye-intanethi ye-intanethi iyinto efanelekileyo ekuququzeleleni umlutha wesilisa.
Nangona kunjalo, iLoppie imibuzo nokuba umlutha yixesha elichanekileyo. "Ndicinga ukuba into esiyibonayo [ngokubhekiselele kwi-intanethi yokulumkisa i-porn] iyisebenzisa kakhulu uhlobo oluthile lwe-stimuli."
Kungakhathaliseki ukuba, abanye abahlali be-intanethi basebenzela ukujongana nalabo abahluphekayo kwi-intanethi yokusetyenziswa kakubi okanye ukuxhatshazwa. Kwi-2011, i-subreddit ebizwa ngokuba yi-NoFap yavela kwaye ekugqibeleni yafumaneka njenge-app. Enye iwebhusayithi ethi YourBrainOnPorn.com ifundisa abasebenzisi kwimiphumo yenzululwazi yoononophala kwaye ikhuthaza inkqubo ebizwa ngokuba yi-Reboot apho abasebenzisi bayeka ukuhlambalaza kunye neentlobano zoonografi kwiintsuku ze-90. UThompson uqinisekisa ukuba inkqubo yokubuyisela phambili isebenza ngempumelelo ekulungiseni ukungasebenzi kwe-erectile ebangelwa i-intanethi.
UThomas unikezela ngcebiso kubantu abaxhalabisayo banokudlula kwi-intanethi: "Nangona ubona izinto ezinqabileyo [izinto] kwi-intanethi, [kwaye] ucinga ukuba yintoni. . . ukuba ungene, andiyi kuyenza loo mgwebo de ube usukile. "
Ukuba ucinga ukuba unokuba ngumlutha kwiimifanekiso engamanyala e-intanethi, abacebisi be-UV bafumanekile ukunceda. Tyelela ibhulogi ye-Thompson ukuze ufunde kabanzi ngamava akhe: spencerthomp.wordpress.com
By UCayden Johnson Februwari 4, 2016
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