Ufumanise njani malunga / r / nofap?
- Ndiqale ndafumanisa ukuba akukho nofap ngokubukela ividiyo yeTed Talks malunga neziyobisi ezingamanyala, bakhankanya uluntu oluku-intanethi oluxhasa abantu, kwaye ndachukunyiswa yile nto yokuba nenkqubo yenkxaso engaziwayo ngokupheleleyo.
Yayinjani imbonakalo yakho yokuqala?
- “Wow intle lento! Abantu banobubele apha, kufana necawa! ” yayiyingcinga yam yokuqala.
Ngaba / r / nofap ndikuncede woyisa umlutha wePMA?
- Ndiza kuphawula ukuba impilo yam inyani notshintsho olwenzeka kubomi bam bobuqu kunye nezithethe kunye neendlela zomendo. Iwebhusayithi emehlweni am, yindawo enabantu abanengqondo ebuthathaka, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo ndikhanyiselwe koku ngaphezulu kwexesha lokuba lapha.
Ukhe wasebenzisa / r / nofap rhoqo?
- Andizukuthi "ndiyisebenzisile" kwaphela ngaphandle komgcini wexesha, ngaxa lithile khange ndingene kwiinyanga ezi-2 kuba bendikholelwa ukuba ndigqibile. Akufuneki ukuba ndibuyele kuba ndifuna ukunceda abanye abantu ngokukhuthaza nokunikezela ngolwazi lwam.
Itshintsha njani indlela yakho yokuyeka ukuyeka i-PMO okoko wayisebenzisa / r / Nofap?
- Kwakhona andizukusebenzisa igama elithi "kusetyenziswa". Ndingathi uthathe inxaxheba kuba akukho nto ikunikezelayo ngaphandle kolwazi, nguwe kuphela owenza okunye. Ukucinga kwam kutshintshile ngendlela endingasacingi ngayo ukuba ndifuna iphonografi, kwaye eso sisitshixo sempumelelo apha.
Ngaba ikhona "ingqondo ye-hive" kwi / r / nofap? Ungayichaza njani?
- Ngokuqinisekileyo kukho ingqondo ye-hive kwi-NoFap, njengokuba kukho ingqondo-ngqondo ejikeleze i-hysteria yeNoFap ejikeleze i-reddit. I-taboo yayo ukuthetha naphina kwenye indawo yeNoFap kwiReddit kuba zonke zizinja zophondo, kwaye ziyaphambana ukuba azizincedi themselves
Ngaba zikhona izithuba ekuncedileyo?
- Akukho nto ibalulekileyo ngokwaneleyo ukuyikhumbula apha.
Ngaba zikhona izithuba ocinga ukuba zazingabalulekanga okanye zinobungozi?
- Uninzi apha lubonakala ngathi imigca yeepopiki ezingaqhelekanga kwisihloko esifana "Ndizoku fap ngoku, ngaphezulu kwayo ndiyeke le nto ingekhoyo" emva koko eposini bathi "Ngaba yile nto ithethwe yingqondo yam kwiiveki ezimbalwa ezidlulileyo!". Ngokukodwa ezo zizithuba zam zezilwanyana zasekhaya ezikufutshane neNofap, azonakalisi.
Ucinga njani / r / nofap ucinga ngabafazi?
- Ngaba ucinga ukuba uluntu lwamkelekile kwiifapfondosikazi zowasetyhini? Ndiyakholelwa ukuba uninzi lwabantu balapha luyabahlonipha abantu basetyhini, ngokungafaniyo nento ababekhe bayenza ngaphambili, oluloyiso olukhulu kuthi thina bafana, kunye namantombazana. Ewe bamkelekile kwiifapstronuau zabasetyhini, kuba akukho mntu unqobayo ukuba ngumlutha.
Yeyiphi ukungavisisani okukhulu ngaphakathi / r / nofap uluntu?
- Uninzi lwabantu apha luphatha le subreddit njengehlelo kuba yiyo yonke into abayaziyo, inkawu iyabona, inkawu iyenza. Abasokuze bafunde nokuba ucacisa kangakanani. Uya kuvotelwa phantsi xa uthetha into enje.
Usoyika ntoni / r / nofap izakuba? Ngaba unethemba lokuba iya kuba yintoni?
- Ndiyoyika ukuba abaNofappers abanamava baya kwenza le ndiyenzileyo, ethi inikwe ithemba kwaye yatsiba emkhombeni ngaphambi kokuba itshone. Akunakuphepheka ukuba indlela yokuziphatha ebonwe kwicandelwana itshintshile kakhulu okoko ndajoyina iinyanga ezi-6 ezidlulileyo. Ndiyathemba ukuba bangayilungisa, kodwa ndicinga ukuba kuyafana nokuzama ukuqala imoto ngaphandle kwepetroli.
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