Molo apho uNFF,
Ndifuna nje ukuqala ngokuthi ukuba bekungekho kule ndawo incinci, ngendingabikho kule ndawo ndikuyo namhlanje. Nonke niyakhaba iesile. Ndenza iNoFap malunga nonyaka ngoku, ndivaliwe. Owona mgama wam mde ujikeleze iintsuku ezingama-50, kodwa ndinemigca-mini emininzi ukusukela ngeveki ukuya kwiintsuku ezingama-30. Ke hayi, andililo ilwanyana elineentsuku ezingama-300, kodwa ndicinga ukuba ndifunde ngokwaneleyo kwiimvavanyo zam ukuze ndiziphucule.
Ke imeko yam okwangoku ayiyonto intle; Ndihlala ekhaya emadlelweni nabazali bam. Ukusebenza iiyure ezingama-40 + ngeveki kwaye unamathuba ambalwa kakhulu okuhlangana nabasetyhini. Kwiveki ephelileyo sithathe iholide yosapho saya eVermont, sahlala “kwinkampu yosapho” echibini. Ndenyuka kunye nolindelo lokuchitha ixesha lam elininzi ndloba, ndibhukuda, ndifunda, ndihamba intaba kwaye ndiphumle. Ndonwabile kwiveki enyanzelekileyo yeNoFap (ikhabhathi encinci enamalungu osapho, hayi ithuba). Ndandinomhla we-8 okanye njalo xa ndenyukayo, ke ndaziva ndonyuka kwiveki yokuqala esele ikho. Ngomhla we-2 apho, ndadibana nentombazana entle eyayisebenza apho. Uvela eYurophu, kodwa uza kusebenza ngexesha lasehlotyeni. Siyibethe kwangoko. Ukuncokola, ukuhleka, ukuncuma, kuyasebenza. Ukuhamba kweveki, ndithathe isigqibo sokuba ndiyithathe le meko ngeempondo kwaye ndizame ukumazi kangangoko. Isebenzile. Eyona nto yayintle kukuba ngaphezulu kweNoFap, ndandingaseli, nditshaye imbiza okanye ndenze nayiphi na eminye imisebenzi yokundiphazamisa kubomi bokwenyani. Kwaye bendikwindawo entle eholideyini, ke amandla am obomi bobomi abephezulu esibhakabhakeni. Ngokuhamba kweveki, saqala ukuchitha ixesha elininzi kunye. Ndicinga ukuba i-vibes endandiyikhupha yayilungile ngokwaneleyo ukuba indivulele phantse yonke into ebomini bayo; sakhe isiseko esomeleleyo sokuthembana ngokukhawuleza. Ndingaya kwiinkcukacha malunga nolunye unxibelelwano lwethu, kodwa ndiza kukugcinela ixesha.
Ngobusuku bokugqibela, wandifumana kwaye savalelisana ngokusuka entliziyweni. Ndabona ukuba ngenene akafuni ukuba iphele, njengoko nam ndenze njalo. Kwenzeka ukuba aphume aphume esixekweni sam kwimpelaveki elandelayo, ndaye ndacela ukubuya, ndixhomeke ngeempelaveki kwaye ndimqhubele ezantsi ukuya kubamba ukubaleka kwakhe. Wayebonakala ebotshelelwe kolu luvo, kwaye yayinyani yonke into endinokucinga ngayo ngeveki ekhokelela kuyo. Sasiba neveki emnandi apho (khange simbone kakhulu, kodwa kufanelekile) kwaye sahamba kakuhle ukubuyela esixekweni. Ngaphambi kokuba ndimshiye, ndavuma ukuba ndandinemvakalelo enamandla ngaye kwaye kwakuza kuba nzima kakhulu ukumbona ehamba. Wayenza yacaca gca into yokuba iimvakalelo ziyafana. Uziva kakuhle.
Nangona kunjalo, kule veki iphelileyo bekunzima. Ukuzibuza ukuba ingaba yintoni, ukuba ndakuze ndiphinde ndimbone kwakhona, njl.njl.Yayiyinyani yothando lwasehlotyeni eyayinomhla wokuphelelwa lixesha. Kodwa ngaphezu kwako konke, phakathi kobuhlungu endandibuva, ndaqonda ukuba ndizivile ezi zinto. Ndichithe iminyaka emininzi yobomi bam ndiphulula amalungu esini kwi-porn, nditshaya imbiza, ndisela kwaye ndidlala imidlalo yevidiyo endiye ndaphelelwa yimvakalelo yokwenene. Ndikwimeko yolonwabo yokungazi, 24/7. Emva kokufumanisa i-NoFap, ndizisusile ezi zinto zinditsalele ezantsi, kwaye ndathatha ezitsha ezonyuse umgangatho wobomi bam (umthambo, ukutya okunempilo, ukucamngca ukubala ezimbalwa).
Kuqala kwakoyikisa, olu hlobo lweemvakalelo lwandibetha nje ngesikwere ebusweni njengoko ndandikhupha isikhululo seenqwelomoya. Andiqhelanga. Kodwa bendisenza ukucinga okuninzi ukusukela ngoko, kwaye ndiye ndagqiba kwelokuba nangona ndiwele intombazana endingenakuba nayo, yayiyinto entle kakhulu. Unxibelelwano lwalutshintsha ubomi. Eyona ndawo ibalaseleyo kuko konke yayingeyiyo eyokuqikelela ukutsalelana kwethu, endikhe ndakwenza okuphindaphindiweyo ngaphambili. Ndaziva ngathi ndiyathandabuza ukuyazi, ngokuqiniseka kwe-100%, ukuba waziva ngendlela efanayo nam.
Uxolo ngebali elide, kodwa kufuneka ndigqibe ngesiphelo. Ndinoluvo lokuba uninzi lweeFapstronauts lukhuthazwa lithemba lokufumana ubekwa ngenxa yeNoFap. Ngelixa iyinjongo esempilweni, andikholelwa ukuba sisiseko sale nto. Unxibelelwano oluyinyani, umtsalane wokwenyani, kunye nemvakalelo ngaphezulu kwehlabathi lokuntywila xa uthetha nentombazana oyikhathaleleyo? Nantso into yokwenyani. Ukwabelana ngesondo kuya kulandela, kodwa ukuba ngumntu wokwenene onokuthi umntu adibanise ngokwenyani kwinqanaba leemvakalelo, ndiyakholelwa, kubaluleke ngakumbi.
TL; DR Emva kweminyaka yokufota kunye nokuthintela, ekugqibeleni ndaqhagamshela kwintombazana endiyikhathalele kakhulu. Iimvakalelo zazinzima, kodwa uphawu olwamkelayo lokuba wired ngokufanelekileyo (ekugqibeleni).
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