Ke ngoku ndilapha. Andizukuthetha nantoni na enje ngokuba "sisihogo sohambo" kwaye ungalindeli nantoni na enobulumko okanye eguqula ubomi. Yile ndlela ndinje ngayo, i-asshole ethandabuzayo. KODWA! Ndiya kuthi akukho nofap yatshintshe ubomi bam. Ilula njengoko kunjalo.
Ndiziva ndingumntu ongcono, ophucukileyo, okhule ngakumbi kunangaphambili. Ndiva ngathi ndinethuba ngoku lokufikelela ngokupheleleyo.
Ndifunde lukhulu malunga nokuziphatha, malunga nokuhlonipha abantu basetyhini kunye nabantu ngokubanzi. Ndingazibophelela ngakumbi kwiiprojekthi ezinjengezinto zesikolo okanye ibhendi yam.
Ndihlakulele imikhwa elungileyo, njengokusebenza kakhulu, ukubaleka rhoqo, ukubetha ngakumbi, nokumamela ngakumbi.
Ndenza izigqibo ezingcono, ndiyakwazi ukwahlula phakathi kokulungileyo nokungalunganga, okubalulekileyo nokungabalulekanga.
Ndichitha ixesha elininzi ndifunda, ndizifundisa, ndicamngca, kwaye nexesha elincinci ndinexhala, imidlalo, ukubukela iimovie.
Ndinentembelo engakumbi yokuthetha esidlangalaleni, ukwenza amahlaya okanye izimvo, ukuba yinxalenye yeqela.
Olu lutshintsho endilubonileyo "kuhambo" lwam.
Ukuba ufunda le kwaye uqala ngoku kungenanto, zezi zinto ndifuna ukukuxelela zona:
- Ayizukuba lula. Ndiyazi, andithethi clichés, kodwa le yinyani ecacileyo. Kuza kubakho amaxesha apho uqalekisa yonke into esihogweni.
- Kodwa kufanelekile. Ewe, enye into, uxolo, kubonakala ngathi andikwazi ukuzilawula. Inqaku liyazicacisa, jonga uluhlu olungentla malunga notshintsho endilufumeneyo, okanye iingxelo zabanye abantu.
- Kuya kufuneka uphumeze olu tshintsho, abayi kuza ngokwabo. Kuya kufuneka uzibeke phaya, uzame ukusilela, zama kwakhona njalo njalo. Oko kusebenza kungekuphela kwe-nofap kodwa intle kakhulu yonke into kobu bomi.
- Ukuba uyasilela, vele ubuye umva kwangoko. Kulula ukuthi, ndiyazi, kodwa ukucinga ngokusilela kwakho kukuchitha ixesha. Buyela phaya phandle kwaye ubonise ukuba unokwenza ngcono.
Ke olu lutshintsho endilubonileyo kwaye ezi ziingcebiso zam kuye wonke umntu.
Hlala womelele nako konke oko.
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