Ndingumfundi, 21 iminyaka. Ukuqala kwam ukubona i-porn xa ndandineminyaka eyi-11 ndicinga. Ndandifunda amabanga aphantsi yaye kwafuneka ndibe nekhompyutha nomkhuluwa wam. Wayenento eninzi yebullshit kwikhompyuter kwaye rhoqo xa ndifuna ukusebenzisa ikhompyuter kwakufuneka ndivale yonke iphonografi ayivulileyo.
Emva kwexesha, nam ndaqalisa ukuyibukela. Ke ndiye ndalikhoboka ukusukela kwi-13, ndiyacinga. Ndandifuna iminyaka eyi-8 yokulwa nobu bullshit, ukufikelela kwiintsuku ezili-100. Ngoko, ungaze unikezele. Ok, sisiphelo sesiqalo esi. Andizukuchaza ubomi bam bonke, kuba abunamsebenzi.
Ndenze njani? Ikwalibali elide.
Ndandingafuni ukuyenza oko ndandineminyaka eyi-14. Ndathi ndakubona ukuba ndilikhoboka. Ukususela ngelo xesha ndandizama ukuyiyeka, ndandiba nekhefu leveki enye, maxa wambi zibe mbini. Irekhodi lam lalisele kwiintsuku ezingama-30 ngaphambi kweyunivesithi. Ngelo xesha ndaye ndaphumelela kancinci, kuba ndandingenzi yonke imihla. Eyunivesithi ndafumana iNoFap kwaye ndaqala ukulwa nayo ngokungqongqo. Ewe, ndiphulukene namaxesha amaninzi, kodwa andizange ndiyenze rhoqo, ngenye imini ndade ndafikelela kwii-7x iintsuku. Ngoku, ndifikelele njani kwezo ntsuku zili-100?
- Ndatshintsha indawo. Ndaya phesheya kangangeentsuku ezingama-70 ukuya kwelinye ilizwe ukuze ndiqeqeshelwe umsebenzi. Elo xesha ndiya kulikhumbula kude kube sekupheleni kobomi bam. Ndidibene nabantu abaninzi, ndifunde izinto ezininzi kwaye bendinepati nzima 😀 Ngoku ndinezihlobo ezininzi, ndiyathemba ukuba ndizophinda ndidibane nabo kwixesha elizayo. Ngaloo ndlela ndafikelela kwiintsuku zokuqala ezingama-70. Andizange ndibe nexesha lokucinga malunga ne-fapping okanye i-porn.
- Ndililungu lombutho, zininzi izinto ekufuneka sizenze. Ndifumana amava. Ngamanye amaxesha kuye kufuneke ndithethe nabaphathi beenkampani. Yinto epholileyo. Kwaye ndinabahlobo abaninzi abasuka kulo mbutho.
- Ndidibene namantombazana amaninzi kwaye bendineentsuku ezimbalwa. Umhlobo wam osenyongweni yintombazana, ngamanye amaxesha sithetha ngawo onke amantombazana kunye namakhwenkwe esasithandana nawo (Kodwa ungumhlobo nje, ungabhali naziphi na izinto ezizidenge kumazwana :d). Zama ukuphuma, ukudibana nabantu abaninzi 🙂
- Sebenza nzima. NgoMeyi, ndingenza ii-push-ups ezili-100.
- Yiba nosukelo. Kulo nyaka wokufunda ndineenjongo ezingama-36 ekufuneka ndizifezekise. Namhlanje ndifumene i-4th.
- Nabahlobo bam. Ndiyakuthanda ukudanisa. Phantse yonke iMigqibelo ndiya kwi-salsa disco yokudanisa i-salsa kunye nezinye izitayile zesiLatini.
- Musa ukucinga ngexesha elidlulileyo. Kwixesha elidlulileyo ndakhangela iprofayile kaFB yentombazana enye amaxesha amaninzi. Ndamfaka engqondweni yam yonke indawo nangandlela zonke. Kwezi 100 iintsuku I propably wamkhangela FB malunga 2 amaxesha. Khumbula nje izinto ezibalulekileyo, iinkumbulo ezintle, impumelelo, ukungaphumeleli (ukwazi indlela yokufumana impumelelo kwixesha elizayo).
- Musa ukuchitha ixesha elininzi kwi-FB nakwezinye iiwebhusayithi. Ngokukodwa kwiiwebhusayithi ezineememes.
- Funda kakhulu. Yidla ulwazi. Kwincwadi yokuqala ndincoma incwadi ngobomi. Abaqeqeshi abaninzi babhala olo hlobo lweencwadi, ngoko kulula ukuzifumana.
- Vuka kwangoko. Ukuba ndichitha ixesha elininzi ebhedini ekuseni, ndifaka intombazana enye engqondweni yam.
- Nceda. Ndicinga ukuba ndincede kakhulu kwezi ntsuku.. Kwaye ndiyanikela ngegazi.
Ngamacebiso ambalwa lawo. Ndicinga ukuba lusuku lwam lokugqibela kwiNoFap. Ndandilapha kuba ndandifuna ukufikelela usukelo olunye lobomi bam. Ngoku ndinezinye izinto endifuna ukuzenza, ngoko ke andizukuchitha xesha apha. Enkosi nofap ngayo yonke into, ngaphandle kwakho, bendiya kulahleka. Kwaye kubo bonke nina, abalwayo - ungaze unikezele. Mhlawumbi awuyi kufikelela kwiintsuku ezili-100 ezizayo. Ndandifuna iminyaka eyi-8, Uya kufuna ngaphantsi, mhlawumbi ngaphezulu. Kwaye khumbula-ayiyi kugqiba xa ufikelela kwiintsuku ezingama-90 okanye ezili-100. Ayinakuphela, ngoko ke kufuneka silwe kude kube sekupheleni kobomi bethu. Ndiyathemba ukuba ngenye imini ndizakuvuka ndizixelele “oh, ke namhlanje yimini ye-1000”. Lixesha lokuba ndithi bye, ithamsanqa kwaye ...
Namhlanje ndicinga ukuba lusuku lwam lokugqibela kwi-nofap. Khange ndibhale kwizithuba ezininzi kule forum, nje ezimbalwa, ngoko ke propably akukho mntu uya kundazi. Kodwa ndicinga ukuba kufuneka ndibhale lo myalezo, ukuze ndikubonise indlela endiye ndayiqonda ngayo enye yeenjongo zam.
Bye.
LINK - Ke, injongo elandelayo ifikelelwe-iintsuku ezili-100 ... ixesha lokuthi bye NoFap
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