Iingcebiso zam zobuqu ezikhawulezileyo zokuba uphumelele kolu hambo:
- Ziqhelise ukunyaniseka okungagungqiyo nokungagungqi kuwe nakwabanye. Khululeka xa ungenamava kuyo nantoni na ebomini. Uya kuzikhulula kulindelo kwaye uqale ngokuphila. Le yinkqubo yokuqinisekiswa kwangaphakathi kunye nothando lokwenene lokuzithanda. Xa ungasatyalwanga koko abanye bacinga ngawe.
- Funda incwadi "iimodeli" kunye "nobugcisa obufihlakeleyo bokunganiki fuck" nguMark Manson. Utshintshe umbono wam ngokupheleleyo malunga nokuthandana kunye nokuphila nje. Undifundise ukubaluleka kokwazi amaxabiso akho. Oku ayizizo “Indlela yokwenza u-X, Y, Z no-GET LAID” uhlobo lweencwadi. Ezi ziincwadi eziza kukunceda ukuba uqalise ukutyhila iinyaniso ngawe oyoyika ukwamkela nokwamkela lonke eli xesha. Ndifundile ukuba ukusilela kwam ngaphambili nabasetyhini bekungenanto yakwenza nale bendiyithetha okanye ndiyenzayo. Kodwa ngakumbi indlela endandiziva ngayo ngam ngokubanzi. Zifunde. Ndiyacela.
- Uza kuqala ukufezekisa iinjongo zakho ngokwendalo wakuyeka ukucinga ngento yonke esebomini kwaye wakuyeka ukuxelela abantu ngeenjongo zakho. Gcina iinjongo zakho kuye kwaye uyeke ukuphupha malunga nentombazana yakho yamaphupha, umsebenzi wamaphupha, ukuphupha nantoni na i-fuck.
- Yenza into. Xa ungenayo "inkuthazo", wenza into. Nantoni na. Nantoni na eya kukuhambisa.
- Ungakhupheli kwimidiya yoluntu.
Kimi, kwiintsuku ze-101 ezidlulileyo, ndophule i-6-unyaka omile wokungabelani ngesondo. Kwiminyaka yokugqibela ye-6, bendisenokunxibelelana nabasetyhini obahlukeneyo kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo ndinamathuba okufota okanye ukuqhuba ubudlelwane obunokubakho, kodwa andiphumelelanga ukuthatha inyathelo elininzi ngendlela ebefanele ndiyenze ngayo, kunye nenyaniso yokuba i-mindset yam ibingekho kwindawo elungileyo ngala maxesha.
Kwisithuba nje sonyaka omnye (Feb 2016- mars 2017), ndiye ndahlala ekhaya ndaye ndaxhomekeka kwezemali kubazali bam kwiminyaka eyi-23 ukuya nokuhlala ndisebenza kwelinye ilizwe ngokupheleleyo kumazwe amabini awahlukeneyo: e-Australia nase-Australia ngoku okwangoku kwiiPhilippines.
Kuninzi kakhulu endinokukuxelela kona kwaye ndiyitsho, kodwa ndifuna nje ukuba wazi ukuba nonke sele nikhulile kwaye niyakwazi ukwenza oku. Ndifuna le posi ikukhuthaze, kwabo baxhomekeke ngokubambisana kusapho lwabo okanye kubahlobo. Khange ndicinge ukuba ndingazimela, kodwa ndiyibonisile. Unamandla ngaphakathi kwakho. QHAWULA UKUQHUBA UMNTU!
Qhubeka usilwa abazalwana.
LINK - IINTSUKU ze102 [AMAXESHA AM AMAXESHA AM + AMABALI]
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