Ewe ndikwenzile namhlanje i-90 kwaye bendifuna nje ukubelana ngeengcinga ezimbalwa kwaye ndicacisa uhambo lwam ngokunzulu ngakumbi ukuba ngethemba lokukhuthaza abanye ngendlela efanayo namabali empumelelo awenze kum xa ndisiya kwiintsuku ze-90.
Ekuqaleni bekungekho lula kodwa ndingatsho ukuba ihlawule kwaye umzamo ubufanele. Kum ayisiyonto ingako I90 yeentsuku eyinto ephambili kodwa uhambo kunye notshintsho ohamba ngalo ukukhaba into ebendiyilele njenge-Im ngokuqinisekileyo ibililungelo labanye abambalwa abaphantse baba ngumcimbi wobomi obukubambe umva kuzo zonke iindlela ezingalunganga.
Bendikuphi: Ukukunika nje imvelaphi, ndiyi-25 kwaye bendikade ndine-PMO'ing probs ukusuka nge-11 ukuba ayikho mncinci kwaye ngokuthe ngcembe iye yaya ngokuthe rhoqo kwaye inyanzela kwinqanaba apho ndanele. Andifuni ukungena kwiinkcukacha ezininzi kakhulu njengoko ndifuna ukunqanda naziphi na izinto ezibangela okule posi kwaye ezi zinto azibalulekanga kangako kum. Ndibe nethamsanqa ngokwaneleyo ukuba ndingabinamava e-ED kodwa ndiye ndanexhoba le-DE ngamanye amaxesha. Ukuqala kwam ukwaphula le patheni ngokuwina kuphela ngeveki. Kodwa ndiye ndajoyina olu luntu malunga neenyanga ezintlanu ezidlulileyo njengesiphumo sokubuyela umva emva kwexesha le-noPMO kwiiveki ezine. Ukubuyela kwakhona kwandikhuphela ngaphandle kwinto yokuba into yokuqala endiyenzileyo yayikukufumana umhlobo onoxanduva lokuphendula kwi-Intanethi apha. Ndingacebisa nabani na ukuba afumane umhlobo onoxanduva lokuphendula. Ezam zilungile, kulungile ukuba sabelane ngeengcinga kwaye sikhuthazane ngokukodwa xa bevela kwilizwe elinye, belilingana iminyaka yobudala efanayo kwaye baneentshukumisa / ekujolise kuwe.
Kwenzekentoni: Iiveki ezimbalwa zokuqala zazicelomngeni ngoononophala zisanda kubakho engqondweni kunye nesilingo sokunikezela ekubeni yinto elula rhoqo. Kwam yayiyeyona nto imbi kakhulu emva kokusela ngeempelaveki kunye nokuxhonywa kunye nokubhonga, kodwa amandla kunye nokuzimisela kundiphumelele kwiveki zokuqala. Ndicinga ukuba bendikhe ndane-flatline kwiiveki zokuqala ze-2-3 kodwa oku kuye kwaphela. Ndiza kuba nephupha elimanzi ngamathuba athile, ebelililokuqala kum, ezi zinto azincediwe ndiye ndazihoya ezi. Xa ndakwazi ukuqhubela phambili ngaphaya kweeveki ezine zangaphambili apho yonke imihla emva kwenkqubo entsha kunye nerekhodi elitsha, ndafika kwindawo apho umnqweno wokuqhubeka kunye ne-noPMO wawukhulu kunomdla wokubuyela kwakhona kwaye oku kulungile into ekhuthazayo.
Ndibhentsise i-YBOP kaninzi ngeveki malunga nemizuzu ye-10-15. Le ndawo igcwele ulwazi oluncedo kuluhlu lwezihloko ezinomdla kodwa ngaphezulu koko, ndicinga ukuba kuyanceda ukugcina usemgceni wendlela yakho kunye nokuqinisa ukuba kutheni usenza oku. Kukho imicu emininzi kakhulu ukukhankanya eye yandinceda, ndingakhankanya indlela yeNoarousal iye yandinceda kakhulu. Bendiqinisekile ukuba le ndlela kwaye kude kube ngoku isekhona. Kodwa le nto ikufundisayo kukuzibamba ngakumbi kwaye indenze ndazi ukuba wena ungumntu obhinqileyo ngendlela yesini / engumnqweno kunye nezinye iindlela zesini kwindawo yakho. Ndivakalelwa kukuba uya kuziqhelanisa nokuzisusa kwezi zinto zibangela ukuba ungaphindi ubuye. Ndiqalile kwaye ndaqhubeka nokubhala iingcinga kwincwadi ebhalelwe mna ngokwam ndikhangela inkqubela phambili yam kunye nezinye iindawo ebomini bam eziyindlela ebalaseleyo yokujonga nokujonga inkqubela phambili oyenzayo ekuhambeni kwexesha.
Njengokuba iiveki ziqhubela phambili andizange ndibenamava 'okugqwesileyo' njengayo yonke intombazana ekubonayo ngaphandle kwakho okanye ekulinganiseni izixa zesiphukuphuku. Kodwa into endiyiqapheleyo kukuba bendikhuthazekile ukuthatha inyathelo kwimisebenzi kunye neenjongo ebendizibekele zona ngaphambili kodwa andikaze ndenze into ngaphambili okanye ndizame izinto ezintsha ngokubanzi. Ndikhule ngokwam ukuphucula ixesha elide njengoko ndibona nantoni na enokuphucula ngokwakho kwaye lo mngeni ngokuqinisekileyo ubekhe uyinxalenye yawo (Okwangoku umamele 'i-Slight Edge' njengoko icetyiswe ngu-Underdog kwaye ibiqaqambile ukuza kuthi ga ngoku Ndingabongoza nabani na ukuba ayifunde / ayimamele) Ngenxa yoko ndiye ndisebenza rhoqo ejimini, ndithatha izifundo ze-Kung-Fu, ndifunda ukuvelisa umculo, ndipheka, ndifunda isiFrentshi, ndzoba ukubala abambalwa. Besendikudlula ngoku ukupela owomileyo namantombazana ixesha elingangonyaka kwaye kungekho ntombi, NPMO okanye MO'ing lento yenziwa yabanzima. Ndiye ndathatha inyathelo ndaze ndaphosa ipati yendlu yomjikelo wam (into endingazange ndikhe ndizimisele ukuyenza ngaphambili) eyayimangalisa kwaye ndiyibekile. Andifuni ukugxininisa ngokwaneleyo ukuba ibaluleke kangakanani inkqubo yokuphinda ubhengeze.
Apho ndiya khona: Ndiqale ukubona inkqubela yokwenyani ukuya kwiiveki zokugqibela apho ngokwenene ndaziva ndinolawulo koku. Ndaye ndaziva ndinxibelelana ngakumbi nomntu endifuna ukuba ngaphandle kwembonakalo ye-PMO ukubandakanyeka kwinkqubo yam. Ukusuka kwi-PMO'ing ndiyakholelwa ukuba uya kuba uyifumene ingqeqesho ebomini bakho enokudluliselwa ngokulula kwezinye iindawo. Kwaye ukhuthazo olongezelelekileyo kunye namandla kufuneka ancede ayeke ukubekeka ecaleni kwaye ngethemba kukwenze umntu onemveliso ngakumbi, owonwabileyo kunye nomjikelo ofanelekileyo.
Ndikwindawo apho i-porn indikhonza ngaphandle kwenjongo ngaphandle kokundicima amandla obomi bam kwaye indenze ndincinci kunokuba kufanelekile ukuba ndibekho. Ndisemini ye-90 ngoku kodwa ngoku ndinokuchaphazeleka ekuvuseleleni emva kwezi ntsuku. Ndisazama ukuhendwa ngamanye amaxesha kodwa ndizikise kude kakhulu ukubuyela umva ngoku. Ukufikelela kwiintsuku ze-90 akuyimfuneko kwinjongo njengoko abanye abaninzi besitsho kodwa njengelitye lokunyuka. Injongo yexesha elide kum ayikho i-noPMO ebomini. Ekuqaleni bendiye ndatsho nge-noPMO ngobomi kwaye ndingenakujolisa engqondweni kwaye ndaye ndaphinda ndaphinda ndaphinda emva kweeveki ezine. Ndicinga ukuba kulungile ukuba ube nolindelo oluqinisekileyo kodwa olucelomngeni ukufikelela kulo kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo oku kuyakwahluka kuye umntu. Ndizakujolisa ukuya kwezinye iintsuku ze90 ngoku kwaye ndibone ukuba ihamba njani. Ii-Chains.cc zeeapp zilungile kakhulu ukubona inkqubela yakho ngaphakathi kwe-noPMO kunye nokuphuhlisa ezinye imikhwa. Okwangoku ndonwabile yindlela izinto ezihambe ngayo ukuza kuthi ga ngoku kwaye akazimiseli ukuyeka naliphi na ixesha kungekudala.
Ndivakalelwa kukuba ubomi bam bufikelela ngokuthe ngcembe kwimimandla eyahlukeneyo, Imveliso ngakumbi ngexesha lam kwaye ngoku izinto zihamba ngcono kunoko bekuthelekiswa xa ndandiye kwi-PMO 'ndiziva. Kunzima kakhulu ukuyithetha ukuba ingakanani i-noPMO enefuthe kwezi zinto zophuculo kodwa ndiyakholelwa ukuba inokudlala indima ebalulekileyo ngokuthe ngqo nangokungathanga ngqo.
Ndiyazi ukuba le yenye yeposi ye-esile ende kodwa ndithetha zonke ezi zinto ingekuko kuba ndiyazingca ngokuba ndiyenzile okwangoku, kodwa ndifuna abanye abakulo ndlela yokuziyeka kwi-PMO kwaye ngethemba lokuba ungcono kwinkqubo Ngendlela endiye ndakwazi kwaye ndiqala ngayo ukuphila ngendlela ekufanele ukuba ungabikho kuyo ngaphandle komthwalo we-PMO ebomini bakho.
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