Iintsuku ze-100 ezidlulileyo bendinomlutha we-porn ixesha elide kwaye ndithathe umngeni wosuku lwe-30. Bekunzima ngeentsuku zokuqala kwaye ndaye ndathembela kubantu abaninzi apha ukufumana iingcebiso nenkxaso. Ke yintoni endiyifundileyo endinokuyidlulisela kwabanye?
Okokuqala, eyona nto ibalulekileyo ekufuneka uyiqaphele kwasekuqaleni kukuba UNYANZELEKILEYO. Ungazikhohlisi ngokuzama ukusika okanye uzenze ngathi ungaphiliswa kwaye ngenye imini kuya kuphinda kukhuseleke ukujonga iphonografi. Funda zonke izithuba apha, ngakumbi amabali empumelelo kunye nezinto zokufunda ezichaza iziphumo zoononophala kwingqondo yakho. Ukuchitha iiyure ezimbalwa kwiforum yonke imihla ekuqaleni akuyi kukuqhuba nje kuphela, kuyakuvumela ukuba usebenzise ixesha lakho le-Intanethi ekungabonweni kwe-porn. Kuya kufuneka uye kwinqanaba lokuba uqonde isiphumo se-porn kwingqondo yakho kwaye uzenze isithembiso sokulungisa umonakalo.
Isifundo sesibini kum yayikukuthatha imisebenzi emitsha engabandakanyi ukukhangela kwi-intanethi- inkonzo yokuvolontiya yoluntu, ukugcwala, ukuqala ukulungiswa kwendlu enkulu yimizekelo embalwa. Ukuphambukisa ixesha lakho kude nesilingo se-porn kubalulekile kwiintsuku zokuqala. Ukuba uhendwa ngelixa usemgceni yiya ngqo kule forum de umnqweno uphele okanye uthathe ishawa ebandayo, uphume uphume endlwini ..
Isifundo sesithathu kum yayikukusebenzisa impumelelo ekubetha umlutha we-porn njenge-booster yokuthatha imiceli mngeni emitsha. Ndigqibe kwelokuba ndigxile ekuqineni nasekulahlekeni kwesisindo. Ungazami oku kwasekuqaleni, ndiqalise imiceli mngeni yam eyongeziweyo emva kokudibana nenjongo yam yemini ye-30.
Isifundo sesine kum kukubaluleka kokwabelana nabanye ngeengcinga zakho. Ndinethamsanqa ukuba nomfazi onothando oye wandixhasa kulo lonke uhambo lweentsuku ze-100. Ukuxelela nje umntu yonke into malunga nesiyobisi sakho kunye nomnqweno wokuziphucula kufuneka uphakamise umthwalo omkhulu wamagxa akho. Khumbula ukuba awuhambi wedwa kolu hambo, ukuba awunalo iqabane, umhlobo okanye umcebisi onokuthetha naye, thumela nje umntu PM kule forum.
Isifundo sesihlanu kum sasilungelelanisa nokuba sibe sesimahla i-PMO kwihlabathi elijikelezwe yimifanekiso engamanyala, intengiso egqwethekileyo kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo ukucofa ngokungacacanga okuphosa ikhonkco kwindawo ye-porn kwiscreen sakho. Ndaye ndacothisisa ukuqonda ukuba bendidla ngokubona wonke umntu obhinqileyo, okwenyani okanye kwifomati njengesihloko esinokubakho samanyala esincinci kuba ingqondo yam yayikwimeko engapheliyo yokuziphatha ngokwesondo. Emva kweentsuku ze-100 PMO simahla, ingqondo yam iyalunyulwa lwe-porn ephezulu kunye neengcinga zam zokuqala xa udibana nomntu omtsha ukunxibelelana nazo njengomntu kwaye unganqweneli sini ngazo. Ewe ungagcina ungaphezulu kwesi siyobisi kwaye ubone umntwana oshushu elunxwemeni kwaye uyabuxabisa ubuhle bendalo ngendlela engeyiyo eyokwabelana ngesondo. Unokujonga kwakhona iimuvi ngobunqunu obucacileyo kwaye unxibelelanise nje imeko leyo kwiyelenqe.
Isifundo sokugqibela kum yayikukuphinda ndibone ubundlobongela bam kwaye ndifunde indlela yokwenza uthando kumfazi wam ngaphandle koononophala kwabangela ukuba abalandeli babonakale. Unokonwaba kwigumbi lokulala ngaphandle kwe-porn kwiscreen kwaye kubaluleke ngakumbi ngaphandle kwe-porn entlokweni yakho. Ewe kuthatha ixesha kunye nomonde omninzi kodwa ukonwaba kokwenza uthando ngaphandle kwamanyala kudlula ixesha elifutshane le-buzz kwi-PMO kwaye njengebhonasi eyongeziweyo awuyifumani loo post PMO ityala okanye ukungaziva ulilolo.
Ke emva kweentsuku ze-100 ndiziva njani ngoku? Ingqondo yam icace gca, bendihlala ndizula-hamba ngenkungu phakathi kweeseshoni ze-PMO. Ndivelisa ngakumbi kuba andizukuchitha iiyure kwi-PMO. Ndiziva ndibukhali, ndithembele ngakumbi kwaye ndinoxolo kunye nam. Into endizisola ngayo kukuba kuthathe ixesha elide ukufika apha kodwa emva kwexesha kungcono kunangaphambili. Ndithathe isigqibo sokungaseti kwakhona ikhawuntari yam ngenye injongo yexesha elide, ngaphandle kokuba benze ukhetho “Obomi bam bonke”
Ndiyathemba ukuba ezi zifundo ziya kukunceda, ukuba usafunda lo msebenzi mde emva koko unokufuna uncedo!
Hlalani nisempilweni zihlobo zam ”…………
I-Lingham
umsonto: Iintsuku ze-100 zeziphi izifundo endinokuzabelana ngazo?
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