Ndiza kuthetha oku ... ukusuka kumava obuqu: I-porn iyalutha; Ndifumene isiqabu ekufumaneni nasekuqokeleleni okuninzi kangangoko ndinako - nangona ndingasoze ndibuyele kuyo nantoni na endiyikhuphileyo kuba bendijonge ngaphezulu, izinto ezifunekayo ezaqala ukungena kwimiphetho.
Emva koko ndasuka kwi-porn eqondileyo kwaye ndawelela kwi-bisexual, i-porn ye-gay-ukufumana into elandelayo efanelekileyo yokuya kuyo. Ndandidla ngokungamhoyi umfazi wam, iimfuno zakhe, inkuthazo yakhe. Andizange ndikwazi ukulinda ukuba ndihle kwakhona - kwaye andinakuyenza ngaphandle kokuvuselela okubonakalayo kwiphonografi. Ixesha le-refractory okanye hayi, ndingenza yonke into endinokuyenza ukuze ndifikelele kuvuthondaba kwakhona-ndifunde kakhulu amanqaku e-neuroscience malunga noku njengoko ndinemfundo ethile kunye nogqirha. Ndiza kuthi ndive eyona nto ingxamisekileyo ye-dopamine engqondweni yam ngexesha le-orgasm; Ndandiyiva le nto engqondweni yam ukuba ndine-orgasm ngaphandle kokumiswa kwaye ngaphandle kokuveliswa kwembewu.
Ukuba oku ayikuko ukuba likhoboka – andazi ukuba yintoni na. Yehla kumfazi wam ukuba andibambe, kwaye athethe nezinye iingcali ukuba ndiyikholelwe le nto. Ngenxa yokuba ndinokucaphula i-BS eninzi malunga nokungalungi kwe-pornography kunye ne-masturbation.
Iinyanga ezilithoba "zokufumana kwakhona" - andizenzi iphonografi, kwaye ngumzabalazo endiwuvayo ngakumbi xa ndixinezelekile. Mna nomfazi wam sithetha ngakumbi; Ndiyakwazi ukuba ne-erection nomfazi wam kwakhona, ndiyakwazi ukuba ne-orgasm nomfazi wam kwakhona (ngoko ke ndikhulula i-oxytocin / i-dopamine rush kunye nokulayita kwakhona ibhondi yomzimba okt umvuzo / indlela yokukhululwa phakathi kwethu.
Iphonografi yam yaqala ndisemncinane kunye nomalume owayeneminyaka eyi-2.5-3 kuphela emdala kunam, kunye ne-penthouse katata. Ndinabantwana abane, yaye ndisebenza ngamandla, ngakumbi namakhwenkwe am, ekubukeleni amanyala. Kulula kakhulu. Mhlawumbi imfuzo indenza ndibe nomdla wokuba likhoboka – andazi. Ndibalumkisile bonke abantwana bam ngalo mjikelo ongathathi ndawo kwiqhina lomntu – kwaye kubudlelwane kusenokuba nokuzicingela kakhulu.
Ukuphulula amalungu esini kuyindalo; iphuma kuphononongo lwendalo…mhlawumbi ngakumbi ngamakhwenkwe ngenxa yokumiswa kwasekuseni kunye nokukhutshwa kwasebusuku. Ukuphulula amalungu esini akulungile - ngaphakathi kwimeko. Iphonografi ayisosixhobo esikhulu se-sex ed; ayisiyombonakaliso yokuba isini sokwenene siyini na. Kunokuba kuhle ukuba izimvo zinonge ubomi bokwabelana ngesondo - kodwa hayi ekuqaleni.
ANDISIYO isazinzulu se-neuroscientist, kwaye andidwelisi naziphi na iimbekiselo kodwa ndiqaqambisa kuphela amava am obuqu njengogqirha. Andibhekiseli kuwo nawaphi na amagama aziwayo abahlobo apha. Ndinika inqaku eliNYE ledatha kumava obuqu ebesenzima kwaye kusenzima ukuyoyisa. UFortuna udwelisa ubungqina obubambekayo nobubambekayo ngokwezibalo, kubudlelwane beFosB – ndiyavuma. Utshintsho lwekhemikhali lwenzeka engqondweni.
Kum-Akukho mathandabuzo malunga ne-porn / i-masturbation addiction, kwaye iqiniswa kuphela yinkcubeko ehamba kude nomntu ukuya kwintsebenziswano yabantu.
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