Ndingu-PMO simahla ngaphezulu kweentsuku ze-90. Andithumeli lukhulu kwi nofap.com kodwa ndiziva ndinesidingo sokwabelana ngento endincedileyo apha endleleni njengoko ndisazi ukuba nonke niyasokola kanye nam… nilwa umlo olungileyo.
Andijonganga ukukhuthazwa okanye ukuvuyisana. Ndifuna nje ukwabelana ngento endifumene ngayo ekugqibeleni kule ndawo ebomini bam. Oku kuthetha lukhulu kum kunye namava / umbono wam ongazukulingana neemfuno zabantu bonke kodwa ngethemba lokuba uyakufumana uluncedo.
Kuqala, ndiyazi oyena nobangela wengxaki yam. Ukusukela ukuba ndandineminyaka eli-13, andikaze ndazi ukuba ndingajongana njani neemvakalelo, ndiye ndazingcwaba. Nje ukuba ndamkele ukuba andikhululekanga ngokujongana nezi mvakalelo, ndiye ndaqala ukunikela ingqalelo kuzo. Endaweni yokugxotha oko kwakundikhathaza, ndaqala ukwamkela iimvakalelo nokuzilungisa. Ndandiye ndixelele abantu xa ndikhathazekile ngento ethile, ndibaxelele abantu “hayi” (leyo yinto endihlala ndinengxaki nayo), kwaye ndandiyamkela xa kukho into endityayo endaweni yokuyiginya. Ukuba uluhlobo olufana nam, kuya kufuneka uyenze le nto. Ndiziva ndinesidingo sokwenza wonke umntu ondingqongileyo onwabe kwaye ndonwabile ekwenzeni izinto. Ngenxa yoku, ndiye ndafunda ukuba ndiyakwazi ukunceda abantu xa bexakekile / bexinekile, kodwa oku kuhlala kuza ngexabiso kwaye kum eli ayiloxabiso endizimisele ukulihlawula kwakhona.
Okwesibini, ukuphendula kubalulekile. Umfazi wam ubengumxhasi wam omkhulu kule nkqubo. Ungumfazi owomeleleyo kodwa oko akuthethi ukuba kube lula. Uyasokola nale nto kanye njengokuba ndinjalo kwaye iphantse yaphela ubudlelwane bethu izihlandlo ezininzi. Ngaphandle kwenkxaso yakhe, nangona ngamanye amaxesha ndithandabuza, ngekhe ndibekhona ngeli xesha ngoku (iinjongo zexesha elide ziseza ukuza kuthi ga ngoku andisayi kufikelela esiphelweni). Ndithetha nomfazi wam ngoku kunokuba bendinayo kule minyaka ili-11 idlulileyo sikunye. Sithetha rhoqo ebusuku malunga nendlela izinto ezihamba ngayo thina sobabini, ubunzima esijamelene nabo kunye nendlela esiqhubene ngayo nabo. Ndifumanise ukuba inkxaso yakhe ibingathembeki ngalo lonke ixesha ndaye ndafuna ukuphinda ndiqalise kwakhona kwaye ndingabinakho ukufumana iqabane elinoxanduva lokundigcina ndithembekile xa ndilifuna kakhulu. Kubalulekile ukuba ube ngumlutha wakho kwaye wamkele ukuba unengxaki kwaye ufuna uncedo kwangoko kule nkqubo.
Okwesithathu, funda! Funda ukuba kwenzeka ntoni kwingqondo yakho. Funda iincwadi ezinje "Ukunyanga isiyobisi esingamanyala", "Amandla oPhonografi" kunye "Ukukuthiya i-Porn" ukukunceda kwidabi lakho nokwakha ubudlelwane kwakhona. Jonga iiblogi, iijenali, kunye namanqaku avela kubantu abakumzabalazo wakho kwaye ufumane ukuba yintoni ebasebenzeleyo. Zifunxe kolu lwazi yonke imihla ukuze ikugcine ugxile kwaye ulumke. Ndifumene le indincedile kakhulu ekuqaleni ukuba ndiqonde ukuba yintoni ebangela ukuba likhoboka lam, ukuba semngciphekweni kunye nezinto ezibangela, kunye nendlela yokuthintela ukubuyela umva. Ngaphandle kolu lwazi, uya kulahleka kwaye mhlawumbi ungaphumeleli.
Okwesine, kholelwa ekubeni iphonografi ayisekho. Ngokukrakra… ayisekho. Oku kundisebenzele ngokumangalisayo. Kuvakala ngathi bubudenge kodwa ndiyifunde kwinqaku (andikhumbuli isalathiso) kwaye itshintshe ikhosi yam. Kuya kufuneka uyamkele ngokwenyani le ngxelo kwaye uyixabise. Kunzima ngamanye amaxesha kuba amajelo osasazo ayazi ukuba uninzi lwabantu lukhobokisa iphonografi ngandlela thile kwaye babeka iintengiso, iintengiso, imiboniso kunye neemovie ebusweni bakho lonke ixesha elibi kunye nemifanekiso kunye neziqeshana zabafazi abathandanayo ... kodwa oku inokukwenza uphumelele kwaye unciphise kakhulu ukuthanda kwakho / ukukhuthaza ixesha elide.
Okwesihlanu, yabelana nabanye ngoko ukufundileyo. Yile nto ndiyenzayo ngoku kwaye ndizifumanele ndiyenza neqabane lam lokuphendula. Akunyanzelekanga ukuba icacise kodwa ukuba unceda umntu omnye osokolayo ngendlela efanayo ukuze uphumelele, kungabutshintsha ubomi bomntu kwaye kukwenzele noxanduva. Le yinto endiyifunayo kwimpumelelo yexesha elide. Ngokwabelana nabanye ngamabali akho kunye nempumelelo yakho kunye nokwenza umzekelo, ikubeka kwindawo yobunkokeli apho ungafuni ukuphoxa wonke umntu. Kuya kundifunxa ukuba ndilandele le posi kwiveki enokubuyela umva!
Ke kwakhona, ndiyazi ukuba ayizukunceda wonke umntu kwaye ndiyazi ukuba kuninzi ukufunda. Kodwa bendidinga ukwaba olu lwazi nolu luntu kwaye ndiyathemba ukuba ngumntu omnye kuphela onokwazi ukudibana nokukufumanisa kuluncedo. Ndidinga ukubandakanyeka ngakumbi kule ndawo ukunceda abanye kunye nokufikelela kwiinjongo zam zexesha elide. Ke nceda, nceda uye nayo nayiphi na imibuzo kwaye ndiza kuba lapha.
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Izibonelelo zokuphumelela
Ndithumele malunga nendlela endafika ngayo kwiintsuku ze-90 kunye nokuzabalaza kwendlela ngaphambili. Kodwa bendifuna ukuthumela into malunga nezibonelelo zempumelelo apha endleleni… njengento ekufuneka ujonge kuyo ukuba usekuqala kuhambo lwakho. Kum, uninzi lwezibonelelo zeza nokumangaliswa kwaye ndivile ukuba zivela nakwabanye. Nje ukuba ezi mvakalelo zilungileyo / unxibelelwano luqale ukuza, kuyanceda ukubonelela ngolunye ukhuseleko kunye nenkuthazo ekuphindeni ubuye.
Isibonelelo sokuqala endisibonileyo sasiziva siphumle ngakumbi. Phakathi kobusuku okanye kusasa kwakungexesha elinzima kum xa ndandinzima kwaye kwakusoloko xa ndifuna i-PMO. Ke, ngokwendalo ndaziva ndiphumle ngakumbi xa oku kuyekile. Ndinengxaki yokulala kwizihlandlo ezimbalwa kwangethuba, ngokunokwenzeka zinxulumene nokurhoxa, kodwa le nto yahamba emva kwenyanga yokuqala. Ngoku, ndivuka ndiziva ndiphumle. Iimeko zomntu wonke ziya kwahluka malunga nokuba ngabona basesichengeni nini, kodwa lindela ukuba nexesha elingakumbi lokwenza izinto ezibaluleke kakhulu.
Ndaye ndaqaphela ukuba ndikho Kaninzi imvakalelo eye yanceda emtshatweni wam. Ndiqwalasele iimvakalelo zam ngoku, kunokuba ndizame ukuzingcwaba. Ukugxininisa iimvakalelo zam kwakuyingozi enkulu kum kwaye xa i-shit ibetha umqhubi, kwakusoloko kuba andizange ndijongane nemicimbi ethile. Ndithetha nomfazi wam yonke imihla malunga nokutya kum kunye nokutya kuye. Oku kuluphucule kakhulu unxibelelwano lwethu kunye nolwalamano lwethu.
Ndithembele ngakumbi kum kunokuba ndandinjalo ngaphambili. Ndingumntu ophumeleleyo kakuhle kwikhondo lomsebenzi wam ngoko ayikaze ibe yingxaki kum, kodwa ukunxibelelana kwam nabantu kuhlala kunento engekhoyo. Ngoku ndiziva ndingenazintloni ngam kwaye ndinikezele ngobomi obukhohlisayo endandiphila ngabo, ndiziva ndikhululekile ukuba ndim. Andisenayo into yokuyifihla ke ndiziva ngcono ngam.
Ndisasokola ukwakha ukuthembana komfazi wam… le ibiyidabi elikhulu kum kunokuba ndiyeke i-PMO. Ndisoloko ndifuna ukuyeka i-PMO. Kwakungasekho khetho kum. Usapho lwam kunye nomtshato wam ubaluleke kakhulu kum kunayo nantoni na. Sinezinto ezininzi zokulwa malunga nale micimbi kodwa ndibona umlo ngamnye 'usisithintelo' kwindlela yam yokwakha ukuthembela kwakhe kum. Yiyo kuphela kwendlela endinokuyenza ngayo intlungu / iinkumbulo ezinxulumene nokulwa. Ubuncinci ke ndiyazi ukuba yinkqubela phambili ekubuyiseni.
Zonwabele izibonelelo ezifanelekileyo apha endleleni, manene. Zivuze ngenkqubela yakho, kwaye uqhubeke umlo.
UHLAZIYO - Iminyaka emibini… Isiganeko 'esingenakwenzeka'
Ndiyazi ukuba ikhawuntala yam iyathetha ukuba iyaphantsi kodwa usuku lwam lokuyeka kwi-PMO yayiyi-2 / 5 / 15 xa umfazi wam wafumanisa ukuba ndisaxakiwe ngumlutha wam. Ndijoyine iNoFap kwaye ndaqala iinyanga zam zekhathalelo kuhambo lwam.
Sele kuyiminyaka emibini KAKHULU ukufika kule ndawo kodwa andizukuyitshintsha. Ndinabantwana ababini, omnye uneminyaka emi-1 ubudala, kwaye ndineminyaka esi-3 nditshatile ngoku. Kwakuyixesha lokuba ndigqithe kubuthathaka bam obukhulu kwaye ndenze into elungileyo kusapho lwam. Umfazi wam wayenomdla omkhulu kum kwangoko. Ngaphandle koncedo lwakhe, ngekhe ndiphumelele kwezi nyanga zokuqala. Konke oku kwakunzima kakhulu kuye kwaye ubudlelwane bethu baphantse bawa izihlandlo ezininzi kunyaka wokuqala. Ukuyeka iphonografi yayiyikhekhe xa kuthelekiswa nento endiyenzileyo ekwakheni ukuthembana nomfazi wam.
Ndifuna abanye bazi ukuba ungafikelela kweli nqanaba kodwa, njengokuyeka iziyobisi, utywala, okanye icuba, kuya kufuneka ufuna ukuyeka. Ukuba awuzinikelanga ngokwenyani ekwenzeni nantoni na eyenziweyo ukufezekisa ubunyulu, ngekhe uphumelele. Yenza ukhetho olululo kwaye ukuba uyatyibilika, buyisela ikaka yakho kunye kwaye uqhubeke nokufunda kwiimpazamo zakho. Zimisele ukwenza nantoni na efunekayo… ukufumana umqeqeshi, ukujoyina iqela, ukucima ii -apps zosasazo zasekuhlaleni kwifowuni yakho, ukuyeka iinkqubo zakho ozithandayo ngobunqunu / umxholo wesondo, okanye ufumane 'isimumu sefowuni'. Ndenze utshintsho oluninzi ebomini bam ngenyanga yokuqala yokubuyela kwimeko yesiqhelo. Isizathu sokuba ndiqhubeke, andikatshintshi kwanto. Ndisenza yonke into ngendlela endandisenza ngayo ukuqala kwam. Ndifumene into esebenzayo kum. Ukunceda abanye kwiNoFap kunceda ukundigcina ndigxile ekubuyiseni kwaye kundinceda ndikhumbule apho ndivela khona. Andihlali ndibhala malunga nam kwiNoFap, kodwa bendifuna ukubhiyozela le nto ibalulekileyo kwaye ndiyathemba ukuba abanye banokufunda kuhambo lwam kwaye bakwazi ukuthumela iminyaka yabo emi-2 apha xa ixesha lifikile. Qhubeka usilwa
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