Andigwebi kwi-porn okanye ukusetyenziswa kwe-porn, kodwa nje uqwalaselo endiye ndanalo kumava akutsha nje malunga ne-fella. Ngoko: Ndihlala kwindlu edibeneyo kunye nabanye abantu ababini, umfana kunye nentombazana. Indlu intle ayinanto, kwaye ngenxa yokuxubana nababoneleli, asifumani intanethi phantse iinyanga ezimbini.
Masibize le ndoda uK. K kwaye siqhubeke ngathi sisibini sezinto eziqhubekayo ngokwenene. Sinexesha elininzi 'lokuvumelanisa' ('heyi, ndinekhathalogu yangasemva ye-Babylon 5 nayo!') iyagula kancinci. Uyandihlekisa. Uhleka kakhulu. Undijonge emehlweni xa ethetha nam. Ujonga wonke umntu ngokungathi unomdla kuye, kwaye umamele ngenyameko iingcinga neembono zabo. Xa ebuya emsebenzini (esebenza njengotitshala wezibalo) uthetha ngomdla onjalo ngomsebenzi wakhe ndifane ndiwubone umtsalane wezibalo ngokwam – akukho nto imbi kumntu ofumene uD eGCSE kwaye usasebenzisa izandla ukubala. .
Ecaleni kwayo yonke le nto, kukho phantse umtsalane womzimba kunye namandla amangalisayo. Ayiqhelekanga into yokuba ndive umtsalane onjalo ngoko nangoko nonamandla kumfana. Kukho nje into engakholelekiyo kwaye enomtsalane yobudoda ngaye, ngathi uqalise i-hindbrain jabbering NJENGALENDODA LENDODA KHAWUJONGE KAHLE I-ARMS YAYO YOMNTU NEFUBA LENDODA AND UMNTU UJONGANA NEMNDODA INDODA kwi-subconscious yam. Ukhangeleka elumkile, ukwicala elijingisiweyo, iindondo, iindevu ezingacacanga, kwaye mhlawumbi unokakayi obuninzi ebusweni bakhe (mhlawumbi uyalufuna nangona egcina bonke ubuchopho bakhe bezibalo). Akathethi ngokuphandle, awona madoda anomtsalane ngokwasemzimbeni. Kodwa ngenxa yesizathu esithile ukho kum. Yonke into yakhe indishiya ndibambekile. Nantsi enye into. Unuka kamnandi, nangona ndingakwazi ukulichaza ivumba okanye ndibeke umnwe wam kulo. Akanxibi emva kokucheba. Ndicinga ukuba yinto nje ngaye. Ndenza izizathu zokuhlala naye kwaye ndibe kufuphi naye, ekulula kakhulu xa uhlala phakathi kweemitha ezilishumi ukusuka komnye nomnye. Kwaye ndicinga ukuba angandithanda nam. Ndiyintombazana yakudala, kwaye ndiyazi ukuba naluphi na uhlobo lobudlelwane nomntu osebenza naye endlini buyintlekele kwindlu ekwabelwana ngayo, ngoko ke ukuzilawula kwam kuyandithintela ekubeni ndiziphose ezingalweni zendoda yakhe kodwa wow. Yayiyinto eyonwabisayo - kwaye ingaqhelekanga njengoko ivakala, ilungile - ukutsaleleka nje emntwini ngendlela ezenzekelayo nengokwemvelo.
Emva koko sifumana i-intanethi.
Kwinyanga ezayo okanye emva koko, izinto zitshintsha kakhulu kangangokuba iyamangalisa ukuba ndicinge ngendlela endandivakalelwa ngayo ngaye. Uchitha ixesha elininzi kwigumbi lakhe, ucango lutshixiwe, avuke kamva kwaye ethubeni aye emsebenzini. Akajongi mntu emehlweni – enyanisweni akasadibani namehlo am okanye nabani na. Akahleki kakhulu okanye ubonakala ethanda ukonwabela nantoni na. Umdla nomdla awayenawo xa ethetha nabantu, okanye ngezibalo, okanye kwiminyaka yamashumi alithoba isci-fi iye yaphela. Wenze amagqabantshintshi kodwa angakholelekiyo amagqabaza angafanelekanga malunga nam kunye nabalingane bam ekhaya kuthi abonakala engaphandle kwaye engaqhelekanga. Ulusu lwakhe lukhangeleka lungwevu kwaye lunamafutha. Wayekhawuleza ukulandela umsebenzi wakhe kwaye ngoku ubonakala ewela ngakumbi nasemva. Kwaye ngenxa yesizathu esingaqondakaliyo, ukusasaza imiboniso yeTV malunga ne-8.30 pm iba liphupha elibi kum okanye komnye umntu endihlala naye endlini.
Umtsalane endinawo ngaye uyaphela. Akasanuki kamnandi. Amehlo akhe akhangeleka efile. Ngapha koko, ithuku lam lomzimba lithathe i-U turn - endaweni yokundikhuthaza ukuba ndiye kuye bandilumkisa ngobuchule ukuba ndingahambi.
Konke oku kunokuba ngamabona-ndenzile, kunjalo. Usengulo mfo kwaye ulungile, kwaye andicebisi ukuba iphonografi imjike waba ngumntu ombi-inguqulelo nje enganeno kwaye ingathandekiyo yendoda anokuba yiyo. Andiyosazinzulu okanye isayikholojisti okanye nantoni na 'ist'. Kodwa andicingi ukuba yiyo nayiphi na ingozi kukho unxibelelwano phakathi kokufumana i-intanethi kunye nale aura ingachazwanga yokunyamalala kobuntu. Indenza ndicinge ukuba i-porn iyakwazi ukuguqula i-chemistry yomzimba kunye nokuzala. Ndicinga ukuba into endizama ukuyithetha kukuba ndiqala ukuqonda ukuba bangaphi abantu endijikelezwe ngokulahlekelwa, ndibandakanyiwe, ngenxa ye-porn. Ndiyazibuza ukuba mangaphi amathuba aphoswe khona, kuba into icinezelwe okanye isetyenziswe okanye iguqulwe ngokuyibukela.
TL; DR Wabethwa yindoda enehomoni zobudoda ezingabonakaliyo, i-intanethi
Hlela: Iblukhwe! Enkosi ngazo zonke iimpendulo zakho. Ndizakuzama ukuphendula izinto ngokucokisekileyo ngobu busuku xa ndibuya emsebenzini. Ukuphendula ngokukhawuleza izinto ezimbalwa eziphindaphindiweyo:
"Wazi njani ukuba yi-porn?" – impendulo emfutshane, ngokucacileyo andikwazi nge-100 lepesenti ngokuqinisekileyo, kwaye andiqinisekanga ukuba uyakhwaza INGABA UHLANGABEZANA NESONO SOONANISM UTHONYANA emnyango wakhe uza kungena phantsi kwenkqubo 'yokuziphatha okufanelekileyo' isivumelwano sezindlu. Nangona kunjalo, ndinokuthi a) akayena umsebenzisi omkhulu wekhompyuter / we-intanethi kwaye akadlali imidlalo yekhompyuter. b) Ubukhulu becala lithuku…ubonakala nje….ecimile kwaye engafuni ukugxothwa ngaloo maxesha – ngathi uyakhubeka ephuma kwigumbi lakhe lokulala, angandijongi emehlweni ukuba ndikwipaseji ngaxeshanye, abaleke ndangena kwi shower. c) xa ndingenile ekamereni ndibuza ngezinto zomntu wasendlini (esoloko enkqonkqoza kuqala) ndiyakwazi naye ukuba acofe ngokukhawuleza kwaye iscreen sikhona. rhoqo Ikhasi lewebhu elingabhalwanga xa ndingena…ngelixa yena ethe saa ngelaptop yakhe ebhedini. Mhlawumbi unento nje yamaphepha ewebhu angenanto, ngubani owaziyo. d) umntu endihlala naye endlini uye wathatha kwaloo 'vibe' e) ikhompyuter yakhe engalunganga igcwele i-malware, ndihlala ndithembisa ukuyilungisa (ndisebenza njengenkawu ye-tech) kodwa akavumi ukuba ndisondele kuyo. Kumava am okulungisa iikhompyuter, ixesha elininzi abantu bafumana i-malware eninzi kunye neentsholongwane ngokusebenzisa i-porn pop-ups okanye ukungakwazi ukusebenza kwe-intanethi. f) amehlo e-zombie, 'ivumba' elingaqhelekanga.
Inkcazo engakumbi: andenzi isigwebo sokuziphatha kwi-porn okanye i-porn, okanye i-masturbation. Yinto eneneni andicingi ngayo kakhulu. Andijongi iphonografi kodwa ndicinga ukuba abantu abaninzi benza ngohlobo lweevidiyo okanye i-erotica. Ngenxa yezizathu zam zobuqu, andizange ndabelana ngesondo kwaye andenzi ngesondo nangayiphi na indlela, njengoko kukhankanyiwe, ndingumntu omdala. Nangona kuhlala kukho imingeni kuloo nto, ndonwabile kakhulu, kwaye ndilinde umntu ofanelekileyo kunye nemeko elungileyo. Inqaku malunga nomtsalane endizama ukukuchaza: Ndixhalabile ukuba abanye abantu bacebisa ukuba ndimxelele ukuba 'ndandinomdla kakhulu' xa ndiqala ukudibana naye kwaye kufuneka ayeke i-porn ukuze sihlangane. Yinto encinci leyo. Njengoko ingaqhelekanga njengoko kuvakala, umtsalane yayingeyonto yesondo ncam (nangona ndiqinisekile ukuba yayiza kuba yeyona nto ibalulekileyo ekuphuhliseni umtsalane ngokwesondo), yayisisiseko ngakumbi. Kwavakala kuyindalo kwaye ingaqhelekanga kwaye inethuku kakhulu, isebenza, ukuguqula ibinzana, inqanaba 'Me Jane, Wena Tarzan'. Kwakumnandi kakhulu “Unuka kamnandi. Unobubele. Ngasizathu sithile ndihlanjelwe bubudoda benu bonke. Jonga ndinxibe ilokhwe intle ndiyakuthanda. Jonga ndikwenzele iitapile unuka kamnandi. Mholo." Ngokucacileyo, ndiyabuthanda ubuntu bakhe kwaye ndonwabile kunye naye xa sasihleli ngaphandle, kodwa ndithetha ngento ekwinqanaba eliphezulu - into onokuthi 'uyinuke'.
Hlela i-2: Ikhefu lomsebenzi! Ezinye izimvo ziye zabuza ukuba ndazi njani malunga r / nofap? Ndiyafunda r/getmotivated kwaye kwakhankanywa. Ndikhumbula ndifunda imisonto apha kwaye ndithabathekile yimbono yamadoda kuyo yonke into. Emva koko ndalibala ngayo, ndafumana la mava, kwaye ndagqiba ekubeni ndiyithumele ngayo. Ndiyaqala nokuba nomdla kwinto engamanyala ye-intanethi enokuthi yenziwe kwisizukulwana sangoku malunga nobudlelwane kunye nokukhangayo phakathi kwesini.
[Kwakhona jonga amagqabantshintshi apha ngezantsi]
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Mholo! Ndimele ndiphawule ngale nto kuba njengomntu owayekade ethandabuza kunye nomfazi womfana oye wakhupha i-porn kunye nokuphulula amalungu esini ixesha elingaphezu kwenyanga ngoku, ndinokuxelela ngokuzithemba okukhulu ukuba utshintsho luyinyani.
TL; DR: Ndaba namava afanayo. Utshintsho luyinyani.
Kwisithuba esingangenyanga edlulileyo ndanditshate ngokoqobo neqokobhe lendoda eyayineemvakalelo ezintathu ezisisiseko. Akuzange kube njalo, ekhathazekile kwaye enomsindo (engabaxiyo apha.) Wayengasoloko enjalo kwaye kwenzeka ngokuthe ngcembe ekuhambeni kwexesha. Ndandicinga ukuba ndim, into endiyenzileyo okanye kukuba wayengasaxoli ngam. Wayengafuni ukwenza nantoni na ngaphandle kokulala, ukutya, ukudlala imidlalo yevidiyo, ukubukela i-tv (kwaye ngokucacileyo ugxotha kwaye ubukele i-porn.) Wayesoloko ephantsi kwamandla kwaye wayecaphuka ngokulula. Ubudlelwane bethu bebubandezelekile kwaye ngenxa yokuba singenabantwana, bendicinga nzulu ukunciphisa ilahleko zam. Ndandiqinisekile ukuba akasandithandi. Kwangaxeshanye ndandiziva edandathekile yaye ndandingafuni ukumlahla. Ndandinethemba lokuba izinto zingalunga, kodwa ithemba lalincipha.
Ubomi bethu bokwabelana ngesondo babumanyumnyezi. Ndiyenze ngaphandle komsebenzi ixesha elide kodwa yaba lizothe emva kwexesha. Andikwazi ngokwenene ukuchaza ukuba kutheni. Ndicinga ukuba ebengandihloniphi emini ekhwela phezu kwam ebusuku ibe ingandifanelanga. Kodwa kwanesini ngokwaso sasinezothe. Ndiziva ndimbi ngokuyithetha loo nto, kodwa yinyani. Wayeza kukhwela phezu kwam ngokusisiseko endisebenzisa njengonodoli oqhumayo. Kwakungathi andikho! Ebemane endiphulula amaphambili. Ngamanye amaxesha ndandisiya kwigumbi langasese emva koko ndihlale apho ukuze ndilile.
Emva koko wafunda into malunga ne-porn kwaye wavuma kum ukuba wayecinga ukuba unengxaki kwaye wacela uncedo lwam. Kwakhona wagqiba ekubeni angabi saphinda. Wayelila ethetha kakhulu. Wathi wayedandathekile kakhulu kwaye wayesiba mandundu rhoqo emva kokubukela i-porn kwaye yayisiba nzima. Wathi kwakungasoloko kunjalo, kodwa ngoku.
Ndandingazi ukuba mandicinge ntoni. Zange athethe nam ngento e serious. Zange alile okanye into enjalo. Ngoko ngokuqinisekileyo ndamxhasa kwaye ndazinikela ukuba ndincede ngayo nayiphi na indlela. Sathenga izihluzi zomxholo wandenza ndaseta iipassword kunye nezinto.
Flash uye phambili iveki e-1. Wayevukile kwangethuba, onwabe ngakumbi, esebenza nzima. Wayencedisa endlini (elungisa izinto ezifuna ukulungiswa,) kwaye endicela ukuba ndenze izinto kunye naye njengokukhwela iibhayisekile kunye nokuya kutya ngaphandle. Wandibalisela indlela endimhle ngayo kwaye wayezicaphukise kakhulu ngenxa yokungaqapheli okanye ukuyithatha njengesiqhelo. Oku kwalandelwa ngamanye amaxesha aphantsi ngokuqinisekileyo. Amaxesha omsindo omfutshane alandela ngokuxolisa ngokukhawuleza kwaye wavuma ukuba wayecinga ukuba uyarhoxisa. Emva koko waqala ukusebenza yonke imihla kwakhona. Ukuncedisa egadini emva komsebenzi kwaye uyonwabele. Izinto endingazange ndilindele ukuba azenze okanye azonwabele ukuzenza, wazenza.
Kwandula ke kwafika into eyayingenakuchazwa. ENDIMTHANDE KAKHULU. Ndandingasatsaleleki kuye kangangeminyaka. Akukho joke. Ungumfana obukekayo naye. Bendingamfuni nje kanjalo. Kodwa ngequbuliso, ngathi yitoni yezitena ndabethwa ngento ephambeneyo. He started kissing me kakhulu zandincamisa zathumela zonke ezi zintlitha apha kum. Kwakhona, bekukho INYUMBA. Bendifuna ukusondela kuye ndimane ndinuka ivumba lomzimba wakhe. Uyamangalisa, akunjalo? Ndiyazi ukuba okuninzi oku kwakunento yokwenza nendlela awayendiphethe ngayo, kodwa kwakukho okungakumbi kunoko. Wayekhupha into.
Akufuneki ukuba sithi ubomi bethu bobulili buye bumangalisa. Ndiziva ngathi ndikwishumi elivisayo kwakhona! Ubomi bumnandi. Njengoko benditshilo bekukho amahla ndinyuka kangangeeveki ezi-3 okanye kunjalo kodwa kwiiveki ezimbalwa izinto bezisanda phezulu. Kwakhona akasacaphuki msinya, uthanda ukusebenza, Uyakonwabela ukuchitha ixesha kunye nam kwaye uyazibandakanya. Ukwasebenza itoni kwaye iingalo zakhe zikhangeleka zimangalisa (ibhonasi nje encinci eyongeziweyo.)
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