Ndilikhoboka le-7 iminyaka (ndingu-16) kodwa ndiqala ukuqaphela ezinye iziphumo ngosuku lwesine kwaye ukusuka apho ziziphumo ezincinci eziqhubeka nokuphucula. Ekubeni ndandingu-9 ndandidla imihla ngemihla kwaye ndandisoloko ndixhalabile kwintlalo kunye nokudandatheka okuncinci kwaye andizange ndibe neentombi okanye abahlobo ukuba ndihlale nabo.
Kodwa ngenxa yesizathu esithile iinyanga ezimbalwa ngaphambi konyaka omtsha andizange ndifake kwaye andiyazi ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba kutheni kodwa ndiyekile. Ke ngeveki kunyaka omtsha ndandinentombi yam yokuqala kunye neqela labahlobo kwaye yonke into yayihamba kakuhle, de kube sekupheleni konyaka omtsha. Ndaqala ukufakela kwakhona kwaye konke kwahla kwehla. Andizange ndiphinde ndibe nabahlobo kuba ndandingafuni ukuxhoma kunye nabahlobo, ndandifuna nje ukuya ekhaya ndize ndifake.
Ke into endiyithethayo ngokuyintloko bubomi bam bonke endibufakileyo kodwa xa ndayeka ndaba nentombi.
Xa bendihlala ndenza ipmo yonke imihla kangangeminyaka embalwa bendiqala ukufumana i-ED kodwa xa ndenze i-nofap kwiinyanga ze-3 ndandiphilile ngokupheleleyo.
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