Ndagqiba kwelokuba ndiyeke ukufakela iminyaka eyi-3 eyadlulayo. Kwakuxa ndaye ndalahlwa yintombi yam yokuqala, ndatshayisa ezantsi. Khange ndikwazi ukujongana nayo kwakhona ngequbuliso ndadibana neNoFap. Ndithathe isigqibo sokuba ndizame kwaye inyathelo ngenyathelo ndiphume emngxunyeni ndizifumene ndingene kuwo.
Ndichithe iiyure yonke imihla kule nkqutyana kwaye kwawushukumisela umnqweno wam wokuwuyeka lo msebenzi ubhubhisayo. Olu luntu oluhle kakhulu kwaye lwandithwala kakhulu ukuya kunyaka wokuqala.
Emva konyaka wokuqala, ngokuqinisekileyo izinto zaba lula. Kuye kwaba ngumkhwa omkhulu kwaye andinayo iminqweno yokuba ndiphinde ndibuye. Ke, xhoma kubafana! Kufanelekile ngokupheleleyo!
Xa ndiyeka ukufota, enye yezona zibonelelo zikhulu yayikukuba ndinamandla ngakumbi. Isitshixo kukusebenzisa la mandla ngendlela enemveliso endaweni yokumosha komnye umlutha. Ziphucule, uncede abantu, uncede umhlaba,…
Esinye isibonelelo kukuba ndoyisile 'uloyiko' lwam kubafazi. Ngaphambi kweNoFap ndandinokuzithemba okuphantsi kwaye ndandineentloni kwaye ndingahlali kakuhle nabantu basetyhini. Ngoku ndiye ndaqonda ukuba bangabantu njengathi. Akusekho ngxaki inkulu…
Ndifuna ukubulela olu luntu lumangalisayo kwaye ndiqinisekile ukuba nonke niyakuyenza. Thatha nje imihla ngemihla.
Isitshixo soku kukukhusela ingqondo yakho kwizinto ezinokubangela. Ezi zinto zinokubangela ukuba zenzeke kuyo yonke indawo, ngakumbi kumabonwakude, kuFacebook, kwi-intanethi, ku-Instagram,… Kodwa ke kufuneka ubenolwazi ngabafazi esidlangalaleni. Uninzi lwabasetyhini luziphatha ngendlela yesondo ukuze ufumane ingqalelo. Luhlobo lomgibe. Nje ukuba wazi oku uya kuba nakho ukukhusela ingqondo yakho kwezi zoyikiso.
Ndingacebisa ukucamngca ngamandla. Nje ukuba uyiqondisise ingqondo yakho, ungabusebenzisa kakuhle ubomi bakho.
Akukho zibangela = akukho zikhuthazo
Ndikunqwenelela okuhle!
Ndingu 22 kwaye ndingu 19 xa ndiqala iNoFap. Ndandinentlungu engapheliyo, intliziyo eyaphukileyo kunye noxinzelelo.
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