Ndenze imitsi emininzi ngaphambili, ehlala naphi na ukusuka kwiiveki ezi-2 ukuya malunga nenyanga. Oku kulandelelana bekungakholeleki nangona kunjalo !! Ndiphantse ndalibala nokubhala le post kuba bendixakwe bubomi!!
Nantsi into endiyiqapheleyo:
Uxhalabe loluntu – imkile. Andisayi kuphinda ndizive ngathi ndingumntu ongaqhelekanga okanye ohambahambayo kwaye andikhathali nokuba abantu bacinga ntoni ngam.
ukuzithemba - ukwanda okukhulu kokuzithemba. Ukwenza intetho encinci nabantu kuyo yonke indawo, ngakumbi kwindawo yokuzivocavoca. Ndidibana nabantu abaninzi kwaye ndenza unxibelelwano oluninzi. Andisawoyiki amantombazana amahle akwidesika engaphambili kwindawo yokuzivocavoca!
Ukulangazelela ukuphonononga -Ndiziva ndilangazelela ngakumbi ukuphuma ndiye kwihlabathi kwaye ndizame izinto ezintsha. Ndiqale ukuya kwintlanganiso yeveki nganye yee-toastmasters ukuze ndisebenze ngezakhono zam zokuthetha esidlangalaleni kwaye ndidibane nabantu abatsha, nangona abanye babahlobo bam becinga ukuba "sisimumu" okanye "sisiqhwala." Banokucinga nantoni na abayifunayo nangona kunjalo!
ukudakumba – Ndandikade ndidakumbile ngokugqithisileyo kwaye ndaziva ndine-bipolar. Noko ke, ngoku ndiziva ndingumntu owahluke ngokupheleleyo. Udandatheko olukhulu endandinalo ngoku alusekho. Ndiziva ndilungile rhoqo okokuqala ebomini bam. Ngokuqinisekileyo ngamanye amaxesha ndiziva ndidimazekile, kodwa ndiyakwazi ukumelana nayo ngoku kwaye ndiyayixabisa into yokuba iimvakalelo zam zinyulu. Kunzima ukucacisa ndiyaqikelela.
Inqaku lomntu: Ndayiphatha intombi yam yangaphambili njenge-shit kwaye kwakunqabile ukuba ndibe nzima kuye ngenxa ye-PMO. Yayimenza azive engonwabanga, engenamtsalane yaye engafunwa. Ndandizicingela, ndilihule, ndandisoloko ndimphatha njengento yolonwabo endaweni yomntu oneemvakalelo. Andifuni kuphinda ndibeke mntu ngaloo nto!!
amandla – indlela amandla amaninzi! Amandla amaninzi.. Ukuzilolonga kuyaphambana. Ndiyigqiba yonke imisebenzi yam yasekhaya kunye nokucoca ngokukhawuleza kwaye ndinexesha lokwenza ezinye izinto ezinemveliso ezifana nokufunda okanye ukubhala.
ukulala – ukuya kulala kunzima ngakumbi ngenxa yawo onke amandla agqithisileyo. Kundithatha ixesha ukuba ndilale, kodwa ndivuka kwangoko ndinamandla alungele ukuqala usuku. Nam ndiphupha kakhulu ngoku. Iyoyikeka!
Ingqondo ecacileyo/inkumbulo/akukho nkungu - Ndiziva kamnandi. Ingqondo yam icacile kwaye ibukhali ngakumbi. Ndiyakwazi ukucinga ngokucacileyo kwaye akufuneki ndikhubeke ngonaphakade ndizama ukucinga into efanelekileyo endinokuyithetha. Ndiyakwazi ukufunda kwaye ndikugcine oko ndikufundileyo ngcono kunangaphambili.
Ezi zezinye zezinto eziphambili endiziqapheleyo ukuza kuthi ga ngoku. Ndiyathemba ukuba kuyanceda ukukhuthaza nabani na onengxaki ye-PMO. Lidabi, kodwa kufanelekile ukulwa ukuze uloyise. Ithamsanqa kumntu wonke !!
Iminyaka eyi-28.
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