Ndiyenzile, iintsuku ezingama-90. Ukulungele ukuphendula imibuzo yakho.
imvelaphi: 28 y/o, indoda, heterosexual. Usapho olupheleleyo (ngexesha lokwahlukana ukusuka kwiminyaka eyi-7 ukuya kwe-12), utata otyekele kancinci, uxhatshazo oluthile (ngokuyintloko ngamazwi, ngokweemvakalelo) ukusuka kwisikolo samabanga aphakamileyo ukuya kwiminyaka engama-25 (ndade ndaqala ukufumana iziqendu zomsindo ongalawulekiyo. njengempendulo).
Amanqaku amahle kakhulu kwisikolo samabanga aphakamileyo nakwiyunivesithi (hayi ubuchwephesha okanye ubungcali bezibalo nangona kunjalo). Kude kube leli Hlobo - abangaphangeliyo, besenza imisebenzi ethile esecaleni (SEO, uyilo lwewebhu, umsebenzi wokwakha, ukupakisha, njl njl).
Izinto azithandayo - ishishini lobugcisa, alinakuxela ngakumbi. Ngoku uhlala nabazali.
Imbali yezesondo: Amava okuqala ngesondo kwi-7 yobudala, isingeniso kwi-mo / pmo ~ 12-14 y / o. Umsebenzisi osebenzayo we-p kude kube yi-24. Ukusukela ngaloo minyaka ndandizama i-nofap, i-halfsa**ed nangona (irekhodi lam laliyi-~50 iintsuku). Abanye bezibhanxa malunga ne-24-26 (akukho kwabelana). Ngeminyaka eyi-26 ngamaxesha amaninzi ndazama ukwabelana ngesondo kunye nomfazi okhangayo kakhulu, i-PIED. Iintlungu zaziyinyani.
Isimo sovakalelo ngexesha le-pmo: zonke ii-classics, ukudakumba, ukuba ndindisholo, iingcinga zokuzibulala, i-paranoia, ixhala loluntu, akukho ukuzithemba iminyaka. Njengo, i-blackpilled kancinane kunye ne-Doomer ekwanti. I-PMO yayikuphela kwento "elungileyo, enkulu kwaye inomvuzo" ebomini, nokuba ndandineentloni emva kweemeko ezithile ze-pmo.
Impilo yomzimba ngexesha le-pmo: I-PIED, i-varicocele, i-prostate inflammation, i-testicular torsion (ngomngcipheko wokulahlekelwa elinye lamasende am), isiqephu se-Insane Renal colics (ngenxa ye-prostate engafanelekanga), akukho (phantse akukho) iinkuni zasekuseni / ukumiswa okuzenzekelayo ukususela kwiminyaka eyi-19.
Iintsuku ezingama-90 Uhambo: Iveki yokuqala - umzabalazo wokuqala (i-testosterone peak). I-Flatline ngeveki ye-2-4. Ukusukela malunga neentsuku ezingama-30 uphawu bendikhululekile kumlutha womzimba, kodwa endaweni yoko ndaqala ukudibana nokwenyani, ukukhotyokiswa ngokwasengqondweni. Ngokungathi isiphaluka sam esidala somvuzo siyaphela, kodwa entsha ayizange isungulwe ngokupheleleyo. Emva kweentsuku ze-80 - ukudakumba okukhulu, ukuxhamla kwi-porn, ukunyamezela. Lilonke malunga namaphupha ama-3 amanzi.
Kutheni ndisebenzisa i-pmo kwixesha lam elidlulileyo: Ndandilijonga ihlabathi kuphela njengemeko-bume echasayo enganyamezelekiyo nenobutshaba, ndizithiyile mna nomzimba wam. I-porn yayindonwabisa, yayiphantse ibe luqhanqalazo oluchasene nehlabathi- "Ndingaba nabani na kwaye ndinokuba nobudlelwane naye nawuphi na umfazi endimfunayo".
Yintoni ephuculweyo: Ukusukela kuluhlu lwam lwangaphambili lweentsuku ezingama-56, ndifumene umsebenzi osisigxina kwi-SEO. Ngoku ndinomvuzo wam, intlalontle, kunye nenkqubo "yangaphandle" yemihla ngemihla. Ngoku uceba ukonga imali ukuze uphume kwaye uqeshe indlu ngoMatshi-Epreli.
Amagqabantshintshi:
- Ingqondo ecocekileyo. Uqala ukubona inyani njengoko injalo. Iyoyikisa, kodwa iyinyani.
- Ukukwazi ukwamkela ukubandezeleka kobomi kunokumelana noko okanye ukubaleka. Yamkele imeko yakho eneziphene - kwaye uqale ukuzinceda.
- Ukubongoza ukufuna unxibelelwano loluntu, ukuziva "ukuvuleleka" ukunxibelelana nabantu (eyona nto iphambeneyo).
- Akukho mfuneko yep okanye ifantasy yokuzivuselela. Umthi wasekuseni wendalo kunye nokwakhiwa okuzenzekelayo. Ndinokuba nemincili ngokujongana kwamehlo nomntu obhinqileyo, okanye ukuba uhleli nje kufutshane nam. Yinto ebangela uluvo. Ndizamile m (akukho orgasm) - ndiyakwazi ukuqhubeka ngokugxila kulonwabo ngokwalo, akukho mfanekiso ufunekayo.
- Ukuqonda ukuba umzimba ufuna ukuphuculwa, kwaye awuchasananga nengqondo. Umzimba oqeqeshekileyo noqeqeshekileyo ubaluleke kakhulu.
Onokuphucula: Kusasokola ukuzazi ukuba ndingubani, ixesha lam elidlulileyo nekamva lam. Ndicinge ukuba kufuneka ndenze amanyathelo omntwana kwaye ndiwuxabise umzuzu.
Eyona nto yanceda kakhulu: "I-Enchiridion" ngu-Epictetus, iminyaka eyi-3 + yesixa esikhulu sophando olusekwe kwi-nofap kunye nobudoda.
Amathandabuzo, iingxaki: Amanye amathandabuzo. Andazi nokuba mandiqale ndithandane na, ndisekwinkqubo yokwenza ubomi bam bube nengqondo. Akukho mabhongo okanye uqhanqalazo oluchasene nehlabathi – ngandlela ithile ndilungile ngokuba ngumfana oqhelekileyo.
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