Molweni bahlali. Lo ngumtya wam wokuqala kwiforum. Khange ndicinge ukuba ndizakuyenza apha.
Ndiyindoda eyi-24 YO. I-PMOed iminyaka eyi-12 kwaye ndizama ukuyeka ukusukela ekuqaleni kwe-2013, xa ndabona ukuba i-PMO iphuma ngaphandle. Ngelo xesha lobomi bam, ndandisekhaya ndedwa kakhulu, ndingenanto ininzi yokwenza. Kule minyaka mi-5 ndizama bendinayo IIPOTI Ukusilela kwibhanti yam.
Ukuza kuthi ga kwinyanga ephelileyo, andikaze ndibenayo i- I-100% yamanyala kunye / okanye ukuphulula amalungu esini isimahla (kubalulekile !!!). Ngokusisiseko ndiye ndaqhubeka ndithatha "iincam zamehlo", ndiskrola imithombo yeendaba zentlalo de ipiks ethile yavela okanye yabukela nje u-P ngesizathu esibi 'sokuzama ukwaphula ikhonkco phakathi kuka-P no-M' ukuze ndiqhubeke nokwenza uM ebomini.
Ingxaki kukuba ndiqale i-M kwiinyanga nje ezimbalwa ngaphambi kokuba uP. Oludibaniselwano luqine kakhulu engqondweni yam, kwaye ngalo lonke ixesha ndizama ukusebenzisa eso sizathu ndaye ndaphelelwa kukuphindeka kwakhona.
Ke, yintoni etshintshileyo?
Ndaye ndabona ukuba ukuthatha i-peeks okanye ukubukela iividiyo ukhangela i-arousal is e nciphisa. Cinga nje ngoku: Ukuba ufuna ukungamameli kwakhona kuDrake kwakhona, kutheni uqhubeka nokuvula unomathotholo wakho ngelixa ukugcwala? Uxolo ngomzobo ophakathi, hahaha.
Ndiyeke ezi zizathu ndizikhankanye ngaphambili amaxesha e-2 kwiveki yam ye-bday (ekuqaleni kwenyanga ephelileyo). Emva kweentsuku ezimbalwa, ingcinga ngasemva kwengqondo yam yahlebeza 'uwedwa kwaye udiniwe. Masenze i-PMO '. Ndandisele ndiza kuthi, xa ndiqonda ukuba bendizithembisile ukuba andizukubukela naluphi na uhlobo lwe-porn okanye i-masturbate kude kube sekupheleni kuka-Okthobha (ewe ndiyazi, wonke umntu mhlawumbi uyenzile loo nto kanye) Umahluko ngoku kukuba ndibonile ngalo mzuzu wokuthatha isigqibo.
Kwakungathi nge-SNAP engqondweni yam. Ndinokuyeka njani ukuba ndiyaqhubeka ndibuyela kuyo? Okubaluleke ngakumbi: NGOBA Ndiyayinqwenela na ukuba indenza ndizive ndingonwabanga kwaye ndilahliwe? Kwakungathi ndingumlutha wokubamba umkhuhlane onamandla kwaye ndiyinqwenele xa ihamba kwaye indenze ndizive ngcono izihlandlo eziliwaka.
Impilo & Amandla - Izibonelelo:
Ngezi ntsuku zokugqibela ze-50 I ilungisiwe ngendlela engaphezulu kunangaphambili. Kwakhona, ukulala kwam kugcwalisa iibhetri zam ngoku. Ndibandakanyeke ngakumbi kwaye ndiyasebenza kwimisebenzi yasekhaya, ndikwanceda intombi yam. Ndafumana uqeqesho malunga nokuvuka kwangoko kunokuba bendikade ndisenza njalo ngenxa yentombazana endisebenza nayo kwaye ndazakhela umkhwa oqinileyo wokufunda umculo kunye negitare (umsebenzi wam ukusukela nge-17 YO).
Ndiyakwazi ngoku phatha uninzi loxinzelelo ngaphandle kokuzama kwaye uhlehlise i-WAAAY engaphantsi.
I-MINDSET-Q&A
Ke usenokuba uzibuza ngokuza kule nqanaba imibuzo embalwa, ke ndiza kusebenzisa le mizekelo ukuthetha nge-mindset.
“Ngaba usaziva unenimba yokurhoxa?”
Ndaziva ndodwa. Kwiintsuku zokuqala ze-10 okanye kunjalo bendikulangazelela kwezinye iimeko. Into kukuba ingqondo iyakhohlisa kwaye ikrelekrele ngokwenene. Ukuba u-PMO xa unomsindo, ulilolo, uphelelwe lithemba, ukhathazekile, udiniwe… Uyazi ukuba yintoni? Ingqondo iqala ukubona ezo mvakalelo kunye nokuzitolika njengophondo kubhabho. Okukhona usenza, kokukhona kuya kuba nzima ngakumbi kwaye kuyazenzekela.
“Usawurhalela na?”
Njengoko benditshilo nje, ngamanye amaxesha iinkanuko zethu ziimvakalelo nje esingenakho ukujongana nazo. Ukuba uthatha inyathelo ubuye umva kwaye, yetyise ngokwenyani, iyahamba. Ungalinda nje kwaye iya kuba ingekho. Kodwa bendinomnqweno weP kwiintsuku ezimbalwa zokuqala kuphela. Eyona nto ilapha ngokwenene ukubona umfanekiso omkhulu. Ngoku lithuba lam lokubuza yonke:
-Ufumana ntoni ngokwenza i-PMO? (Dwelisa izibonelelo kwiimpendulo ukuba uyafuna)
- Ngaba i-PMO 'iyayiphumlisa' okanye kunjalo uxinzelelo kuwe?
- Ngaba ngokwenene uyayoliswa? Zama ukuyithelekisa nobusuku obuhle kunye nabahlobo bakho, isidlo sasemini esihle nosapho lwakho, uhambo ngesithuthuthu, ukufunda ingoma entsha kwikatala okanye ukudlala lo mdlalo mtsha umnandi owuthengileyo kwiPC. Ngaba ibonakala igolide ngoku okanye ibolile nje?
Ukubuyela kwi-MINDSET. Awungekhe uyeke ukuyeka. Awunakho ukukroba. Kodwa kulungile, uyazi ukuba kutheni? Kuba kwangoko uyenza ngokukhawuleza uza kukhululeka.
Awungekhe uzive ngathi uncama into exabisekileyo, kuba awunayo. Ukuyeka kukubona nje ukuba ubomi bunokonwaba njani ngaphandle kokungxamela kuyo yonke into ukuze ufike ekhaya wedwa kunye ne-PMO, wenze into efanayo ngosuku olulandelayo.
Ibali lam lakutshanje:
Umakhulu wam usweleke nje ngumhlaza kwiintsuku ze-17 ezidlulileyo. Ndicime yonke iminyuzi yam yokucwangcisa, ndakhawuleza ndaya kwilizwe lam ukuya emngcwabeni ndihlala kufutshane nabazali bam. Kwelo nqanaba ndandixinekile kwiintsuku ze40.
Kwiintsuku ezimbalwa emva kokuba ndisentlungwini kagogo wam (kwaye ndilahlekelwe yintombi yam) kodwa ke kwenzeka into entle kakhulu: Ndiye ndabona ukuba ndine ZERO iingcinga nge porn. Ke, nokuba umakhulu wam lelona lungu losapho liqinileyo ukuba afe (bendihlala ecaleni kwakhe nge-23yrs), khange ibetheke ngokwakho.
Uqikelela ukuba kutheni? Njengoko ndifunde kwenye indawo, "Sele ulungelelene non-PMOer ngexesha lokuvala isikhangeli sakho".
Ekuphela kwento ekufuneka uyenzile (ukuba usengu-PMO'ing) yile hlolisisa ngesazela indlela oziva ngayo ngexesha nasemva kokubuyela umva. Njengotywala, ayincedi nto kwaye iyenza mandundu.
Ukuba sele ukwibreak yakho, sebenzela ukuyenza I-100% icocekile. NGOKWENYANI 100% icocekile. Sele uyi-NON-PMO'erZikhumbuze rhoqo indlela ekuvakala ngayo ukuba simahla. Yivuye. Ukuba uthatha u-peek, ubuyela kumaphupha amabi. Ndikholelwe. Leyo minyaka emi-5 yokuzama ukuyeka yandifundisa ngendlela ebandayo nenzima.
Qaphela: Oko akuthethi ukuba ujonge kude kwiscreen xa kuvela intombazana entle kuthotho lweTV oyithandayo, kufuneka uhlukane ne-PMO. Asifuni i-PMO kwaye siyazi ukuba ayisincedi, ke ngekhe siyirhalele emva kweentsuku ezithile. Asihlali kwisiqithi esiyintlango, ngenxa yoko siza kubona amantombazana anomtsalane side sife (kwaye kuyo yonke indawo, nayo).
Abafana kunye neegali, ndonwabe ngakumbi ukukunceda kuyo nayiphi na imibuzo. Thumela nje apha kwaye ndiza kubuyela kuwe ASAP.
Uxolo ngaphandle kwaye unamathele kwindlela.
Iphepha elichazayo ukuba awusenanto oyifunayo: IsiNgesi sam asigqibelelanga kuba andinguye umMelika / isiNgesi. Enkosi ngokuqonda.
LINK -Iintsuku ze-50: Ingqondo, impilo kunye nokuyeka + ibali lam (uhlaziyo lweentsuku ze-70)
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