Ndawela enzonzobileni ye-PMO xa ndandineminyaka eyi-16 (26 ngoku). Ndisandul 'ukufudukela kude nosapho lwam kwaye ndandinezinto ezininzi endifuna ukuzenza ebomini bam nesikolo. Kulapho ndafumanisa khona i-PMO kwaye kancinci kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo ndaba likhoboka kuyo. Yaba yindlela yokujamelana nayo yonke into, ukuqala ngamabakala amabi ukunganxibelelani nabahlobo kunye nosapho. Ngoku ngoku ndijonga emva kuyo, sisiporho esikhohlakeleyo.
Okukhona uyi-PMO, ngakumbi inkungu yengqondo, uxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo onalo. Usebenzisa i-PMO ukujongana nayo yonke le nto kwaye uqhubeke usiba mandundu. Andikakholelwa ukuba kundithathe ixesha elide ukuyifumana yonke le nto. Ngokuqinisekileyo ngekhe ndibenayo ukuba andikho kweli qela. Andikwazi ukubulela nina bantu ngokwaneleyo ngokuvula amehlo am!
Olunye uphuculo endilubonile ngesiqu sam kwiinyanga ze-3 ezidlulileyo:
-Ndiziva ngathi ndonwaba ngakumbi nazo zonke iintlobo zabantu kwaye ungathandabuzi ukuthetha. Ukuzithemba ngokuqinisekileyo kuyanda.
Ngoku sendiphelelwe yinkungu ye-PMO, ndiyaqala ngokuqonda imiceli mingeni ebomini endifuna ukujongana nayo. Iziva isoyikeka ngamanye amaxesha kodwa wonke umntu kufuneka aqale kwenye indawo.
Ingqondo yam isebenza ngokukhawuleza ngoku kwaye ndiziva ndithatha isigqibo. Ndibe kukuhlengahlengisa okungapheliyo kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo oku luphuculo olukhulu.
-Ndiziva ndinamandla ngakumbi imini yonke kwaye ndibandakanyeka ngakumbi kwimisebenzi. Ukulunga, ukucamngca kunokuba nenxalenye yokudlala koku.
-Umkhwa wokujongela ecaleni kubafazi uyaphela. Ndivakalelwa kukuba ndikwazi ngokwenene ukuba neengxoxo ezonwabisayo nabantu ababhinqileyo ngoku.
-Andiziva ndidimazekile xa abantu bendala ngoku. Ndiyithatha nje kumqolo wam kwaye ndiye phambili.
Ndifuna ukugcina okona kungcono ekugqibeleni. Ndikwelo bala kwiintsuku ezimbalwa ezidlulileyo kwaye kukho intombazana ehleli ebharini nomhlobo wayo ecaleni kwam. Ngoncedo lwesibindi esingamanzi kunye nale NoFap streak, ndaye ndaya kuye ndathetha naye ithutyana. Ekugqibeleni ugqibile ukundinika inombolo yakhe wandibhalela la magama ngqo:
"Ndiyayixabisa into yokuba abafana beseneebhola zokuthetha namantombazana kwindawo yentselo."
Eso sibhalo sinye sasinokuzithemba okukhulu kuba andinguye andinguye uhlobo lomntu oya emantombini.
Qhubeka usiya phambili, Fapstronauts. Thatha ulawulo lwengqondo kunye nobomi bakho.
Ndingakuvuyela ukuphendula nayiphi na imibuzo ukuba ngaba unayo nayiphi na imibuzo. Masinwabe!
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