Kudala eza. Khange ndiyenzele amagunya amakhulu. Ndiyenzile kuba ibiyinto elungileyo ukuyenza. Kudala ndilwa nale nto ixesha elingaphezulu kwesiqingatha sobomi bam, kwaye ithathe ixesha kunye nengqwalaselo kude nabantu endibathandayo, yonakalise ukuzihlonipha kwam, yonakalisa ubomi bam kunye nophuhliso lwam njengomntu ngeendlela endinokuzenza ungaze uphinde uyibuyise ngokupheleleyo.
I-porn + i-intanethi = ikhubalo eliyingozi, kwaye umntwana ukhubeka kuyo enomxholo omncinci okanye ukhuselo unokutsalwa nzima.
Kwelinye icala, ndiyakholelwa okomeleleyo ukuba amandla anokuwoyisa phantse nantoni na, mhlawumbi ingeyedwa, kodwa ngenkxaso, ubuchule kunye nokuzingisa.
Ukuba unengxaki yokufika apho, nazi izindululo zam ngokubhekisele kwinto endiyisebenzeleyo:
- Zikhumbuze mihla le ukuba kutheni usenza le nto, kufuneka uphulukane noko, kwaye kufuneka uzuze ntoni. Ungalibali: oku kukuchaphazela wena nabo bonke abantu abakungqongileyo.
- Ukufuna ukwazi kwabulala i-streak: zikhumbuze yonke imihla (kwaye nanini na xa unqwenela) ukuba iphonografi iphonografi iphonografi- nokuba yeyiphi na, iya kuphelela kwindawo enye: wena wedwa, uyarhabaxa kwaye uziva woyike, lusizi, nokuzisola.
- Zibekele iziphumo. Ukuba uyaphinda ubuye, thabatha into oyithandayo ngeveki. Yenzakalise (hayi ngokwasemzimbeni, kodwa uyazi). Zikhumbuze ezo ziphumo yonke imihla kwaye unamathele kuzo ukuba ziyafuneka.
- Zilumkele wena kunye neminqweno yakho. Cinga, zikhumbuze ukuba uphile ngalo mzuzu. Thatha usuku ngexesha. Yiyo kuphela indlela yokufika phaya.
- Zinike into yokwenza. Cwangcisa ishedyuli. Joyina iklabhu. Ukuba ukubuyela umva kuthetha ukuba ubheyila kwizicwangciso zakho, unoxinzelelo olongezelelekileyo lokuba nenye into oyifunayo okanye ekufuneka uyenzile. Kulula kakhulu ukuncama ukuba uhleli ujikeleza uzama ukuqonda ukuba wenzeni ngexesha lakho lasimahla.
- Kufana noMboniso weTruman phaya. Ukuba umntu ufuna ukungena ngaphakathi kwaye abone yonke into oyenzayo kwi-Intanethi, banokufumana indlela yokwenza oko. Sukucinga ukuba akukho mntu waziyo ukuba wenzani, kuba amathuba enziwa ngumntu othile. Umsebenzi wakho wokukhangela ungabuya uzokuluma ngenye imini.
- Sukuncama. Ngokwenene. Andikwazi ukukuxelela ukuba mangaphi amaxesha ndihlulekile kwaye ndabuya kwakhona ndaza ndaziphakamisa ndaza ndaza ndaza ndiphumelela kwaye ndabuya kwakhona. Qhubeka uzama, kwaye ukuba kukho into esebenzayo, unamathela kuyo ngokungathi ubomi bakho buxhomekeke kuyo. Iya.
Nantsi into engandisebenzelanga:
- Iibhlokhi ezingamanyala: Ndabajikeleza. Kwaye, uthini xa ungazithembi? Kungcono ukufikelela kwingcambu yengxaki, ndiyacinga.
- Ukuphazamisa kunye nezinye iziyobisi: khange zibonakale kusebenza. Ndingafika ekhaya ndinomnqweno onamandla kwaye ndidlale imidlalo yevidiyo kangangeyure de ihambe, kodwa kwakubonakala ngathi kulibazisa ukungafikeleleki. Kungcono ukujongana nentloko.
- Ndiziva ndinosizi ngam: kususa amandla axabisekileyo ngakumbi. Ukuba uphinde wabuya, jonga okwenzekileyo, funda kuyo, uqaphele ukuba abantu bayazenza iimpazamo, babeke into entle kuyo (hey, ndibuyele kuphela kumaxesha e-x kwiintsuku ezidlulileyo, luphuculo olo!), Khetha ngokwakho, kwaye uzame kwakhona ngempindezelo!
Ngapha koko, kuthathe iminyaka eyi-15 okanye kunjalo, kodwa ndilapha. Ndiyaqonda ukuba ayikapheli, kodwa ingathi sisiqendu esitsha. Ndisafumana izibongozo, kodwa ndiqinisekile ukuba ndinezixhobo zokufikelela kuzo.
Ngamafutshane: bekunzima, kuthathe ixesha elide, kodwa ndiye ndayenza imihla ye-90, kwaye iziva ilungile, ilungile ngokwenene ngendlela enenjongo.
Ndiyathemba ukuba nonke nifikile.
LINK - Iintsuku ze-90: Yintoni esebenzayo, Yintoni engazange isebenze
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