Ndifikelele kwiintsuku ezingama-90. Andizange ndifike kwiintsuku ezingama-90 ngaphambili.
Ngaphambi kokuba ndiqale iNoFap, ndandibukele iphonografi kwaye ndiphulula amaphambili phantse yonke imihla. Ndandisebenzisa i-porn emotweni, ekhaya nasemsebenzini. Ndabeka esichengeni ngomtshato, umsebenzi wam ndade ndazibeka esichengeni sokubanjwa. Ukusebenzisa kwam iphonografi kuye kwafikelela ekubhataleni imali yokukhapha.
Yintoni endiyenzayo ukususela ekubeni ndavuma ukuba ukusebenzisa kwam i-porn kuyingxaki?
Bendisitya ngcono kwaye ndizilolongela yonke imihla. Ndihleli kwiiveki ezi-2 ukuya kwezi-3; awukwazi ukudlula kwi-hump. Xa umfazi wam esexesheni, ndimane ndibukela iphonografi kunye/okanye ndindwendwele ihenyukazi.
Ndenza ntoni eyahlukileyo kweli xesha?
Ndifumene i-porn blocker endingakwaziyo ukuyijikeleza. Ndifumene iqabane lokuphendula endithetha nalo kanye ngeveki. Ndaye ndagqiba inkqubo ye-Strive. Ngoku ndisebenza kwinkqubo yokuqinisa. Ndifunde inani leencwadi kunye namanqaku malunga nokulutha kwe-porn kunye nokubuyisela.
Ndiziva njani?
Ndivuka ndine-attitude eqaqambileyo. Kukho intlantsi entsha kubomi bam bokwabelana ngesondo nomfazi wam. Nangona ndiseneempawu zokurhoxisa ndinesimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo sokuba ukuchasana ne-porn akuchasana nesondo. Ndibhenela ekubeni ngumhlobo womntu wokwenene endaweni yokuba ndenze iintlobano zesini namanyala okanye ihenyukazi. Ndiziva ndinxibelelene ngakumbi nabantwana bam kunye nosapho lwam. Andiziva ndixinezelekile, ndixinezelekile okanye ndinomsindo. Andidinwa kancinci ukusuka ndichwechwela kwigumbi lokuhlambela ebusuku kakhulu ukuya kwi-PMO.
Yintoni endiyibonayo kwixesha elizayo?
Andiweli kumgibe wokukholelwa ukuba ukusebenzisa i-porn yinto nje enye. Ukuza kuthi ga ngoku ndiziva ndinxibelelana neNoFap kunye neqabane lam lokuphendula ukuba ndixoxe ngokusetyenziswa kwam ngamanyala ngokukhululekileyo ngaphandle kweentloni. Ndinemali eninzi kwiakhawunti yam yebhanki. Ndiza kuqhubeka ndibamba ixesha ngakumbi kwaye ndinikele ingqalelo ngakumbi emsebenzini. Ndifuna ukuqalisa ukufunda ngakumbi. Ndiya kuqhubeka ndiqaphela izinto ezibangela ukuba ndiphephe kwaye ndiphephe. Ukuba ndivuliwe, ndiya kuqhubeka ndiphambukisa ingqalelo yam kwaye ndivumele umnqweno udlule kum.
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