Ke "ndiyenzile" kwaye ndijonge "ukuqhubeka ndiyenza", kodwa ndingathanda ukugxininisa ezinye izinto eziye zacaca kum:
- Impilo yengqondo kunye nomzimba - kwaye andithethi iincwadi zokuzinceda, iikowuti okanye ukutya. Ndithetha ngonyango lobuchwephesha kunye notyelelo kwiingcali kwaye, njengoko mna ngokwam (ndingcono emva kwexesha kakhulu kunanini na ngaphambili) ndiza kube ndibona kule veki, ingcali yezondlo. Ezi zilula kwaye azibizi kakhulu (njengoko ziyimfuneko ZOKWENENE kuyo yonke ingqiqo yegama) izinto ayisiyiyo kuphela impembelelo yokwenyani ebomini bakho, kodwa zezinye zeendlela ezilungileyo zokuzintywilisela kule nkqubo, njengoko iyeyona nto ekugqibeleni ekufuneka uyenzile ukuze kulungelwe wena.
- Qhubeka uzama. I-axiomatic, kodwa ndingathanda ukuyishiya apha phakathi kunokuba uyishiye isicatshulwa nale njengento yokugqibela ukunamathela engqondweni yakho. Ndohlulekile kakhulu. Ndizamile ukuziqinisekisa ukuba ndingayenza le nto ndedwa, njalo njalo ukuze ndingadingi kujongana nabanye kwaye ndingaphenduli ngeentsilelo zam. Kodwa ayisiyiyo indlela ubomi obusebenza ngayo. Ndibe nethamsanqa lokufumana iTherapist elungileyo kwaye intombi yam yandinceda kobu bukhoboka. Njengomntu otshayayo ngaphambili (uyeka malunga neminyaka emithathu eyadlulayo) andikwazi kugxininisa ngokwaneleyo ukuba bekuya kunceda kangakanani ukuba kunyango ngoko.
- Gxininisa kwinto ebaluleke ngokwenene kuwe. Kwaye, kwakhona, into endicinga ukuba kufuneka ithethwe apha rhoqo: susa le "alpha male" mbono. Oku akubandakanyi nje kuphela abasetyhini kolu luntu malunga nokululama kubukhoboka boburheletya, kwaye hayi kubomi bamava amabi kwisebe lobudlelwane, kodwa ikwakuqalekisa ngesazisi esingaphezulu, esingaguquguqukiyo ekufuneka uzame kwaye ungene kuso. . Kufuneka kuthiwe, kwelinye icala, ukuba-ngokucacileyo-umntu ozithembileyo kunye nempilo, ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo, uya kuba nomtsalane ngakumbi kwabanye - oko akuthethi ukuba kufuneka kube kuphela isizathu sokuba ukhwebuke kwinto ethile. Njengomzekelo wobuqu osuka kumava am, andizange ndibe nangxaki yokusela, kodwa ndakhetha ngaphezu konyaka ophelileyo, ukuzikhwebula ekuseleni ukuze ndibe nentsingiselo entsha kuko, ebomini bam. Kwiveki ephelileyo ndifikelele usukelo lwam lonyaka omnye kwaye, nangona ibiyinto engaqhelekanga ekuqaleni ukuthi hayi kwibhiya ngamanye amaxesha nabahlobo okanye iqabane lam, kuye kwacaca ngokuthe ngcembe kum ukuba bendibalela etywaleni ezinye izinto eziluncedo, eneneni, yayiziingenelo nje zonxibelelwano loluntu. Kwaye, njengoko ndiqalile ukubona ngoku ngaphandle kwe-porn okanye i-masturbation, yonke into endiyenzayo yayikukuhlehlisa into ebaluleke kakhulu kum: ukubhala nokufunda nokufunda. Ke, nyaniseka kuwe kwaye ulandele into oyiphuphayo-sebenza nzima kuyo, wamkela ukusilela, imiceli mngeni kunye nokuzincama okungaphakathi.
Ewe, mhlawumbi andizange ndithethe nto intsha, ngamava nje aqhelekileyo omfana omhlophe oneminyaka engama-20 ubudala waseBrazil owayene-njengabaninzi-ebukele iphonografi yonke imihla ukusukela kwiminyaka elishumi elinanye okanye elishumi. Ndizamile ndoyisakala kodwa ndiphinde ndazama ndaphumelela. Njengesiqhelo. Njengabaninzi. Ke oku konke kuya kuba kuwe, ekugqibeleni: uzimisele kangakanani ukwenza impilo yakho kunye namava akho entlalontle? Kuya kufuneka wenze isigqibo kwaye uthathe isigqibo malunga nesigqibo - ngakumbi xa iyinto eya kukukhupha kwindawo yakho yokuthuthuzela. Okokuqala ukuya kunyango kunzima ngokwenene, kodwa akunzima njengokwazi ukuba unengxaki kwaye uzimisele ukuyisombulula. Nokuba umlutha awuzange "ubethwe", ukuba lapha kwenza umahluko omkhulu, omkhulu, kwaye ndiyakholelwa ukuba yeyona ndawo intle kwi-intanethi. Ngoku, xa ndikhe ndikhubeke kumfanekiso webhikini okanye ikliphu evuselela inkanuko yesini, ndiye ndiqonde ukuba ubomi bam bonke ndisebenza njengoko ndandifundisiwe: kwakufuneka ndidle abantu, ndibasebenzisele ukuzonwabisa kwam njengezinto zokudlala. Ukwabelana ngesondo okubonwa kwiphonografi kumkhupheli ngaphandle omnye umntu kwi-equation kunye nazo zonke iimvakalelo ngaphandle kombono-into ebekufanele ukuba yinto ebambekayo, enuka kamnandi kunye namava okwabelana iba sisenzo esibonakalayo sokuzingca.
Ke, okokugqibela, ndingathanda ukubulela wonke umntu ondinike iingcebiso kule subreddit, kwaye nani nonke nina nixhasa abanye kwizithuba zabo. Ndithetha kuphela ngam kunye namava am apha, kodwa kuyavuyisa ukubona abantu abaninzi abahlukeneyo, yonke imihla, besiza kuncedana xa kungekho nto ingazuzwayo-ukunceda ngokulunga kwentliziyo. Kwakhona, into endingenakuyigxininisa ngokwaneleyo: enkosi ngokuba ngabantu abalungileyo, kwaye ndiyathemba ukuba "ungayenza" nawe.
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