Ndiyindoda eneminyaka engama-20 ubudala echitha iminyaka engama-10 kumabhayisikobho angcolileyo kunye ne-PMO. Andizange ndibe nolwazi olusesikweni malunga nokuba yintoni isondo kwaye kutheni i-PMO iyingozi kakhulu ebomini bakho phantse yonke indlela kwaye kwafuneka ndilwe nokulwa kwam.
Ndandisoloko ndisoloko ndifumana lo myalelo wokuphefumlelwa kunye neengcebiso. Ndandifuna ukuxelela abanye abanomdla ukuba bakuve kunye nezinye iingcebiso.
- Okokuqala nokuphambili, kuya kufuneka uqaphele ukuba yingxaki leyo. Ngaphambi kokuba uzicacisele ukuba le yingxaki kwaye inefuthe elibi kubomi bakho nakwingqondo, awukwazi ukuqhubeka. Yima esipilini uzixelele “Ndinamakhoboka kwaye iyandenzakalisa 'xyz'.” Ngokwenene hlala kunye noluvo lwentlungu kwaye ukhumbule ukuba kubi kangakanani ukubotshelelwa kwi-monster ongenakubonakala ngathi ungakhululeka kuyo. Le mvakalelo iluncedo kamva, nangona iyindlela ephantsi yokuphefumlelwa ukuba uyeke, kodwa iluncedo kakhulu xa uzifumana ungaziva ungaphefumlelwanga kwaye ukhumbule ukuba kubi kangakanani ukubambeka. Ekugqibeleni uya kufuna ukuyeka ngenxa yezizathu ezingazinzanga kodwa ungafuni ukuba iintlungu ngokuqinisekileyo sisiqalo esihle kunye nenkuthazo eluncedo.
- Qaphela ukuba ungumntu onobulumko kunye nomlingiswa. Awuyena isilwanyana esiza kudla abanye okanye nje ukuqala ukukhupha nayiphi na into ehambayo ngaphandle kokukwazi ukumelana. Unokhetho. Unokuba ngumntu onamandla okukhetha xa ndifuna ukwenza into ethile okanye akunjalo.
- Qaphela ukuba ukuba ubusoloko ubandakanyeka kwi-PMO rhoqo kangangeeveki / iinyanga ezimbalwa, kusenokwenzeka ukuba ubuyicombile ingqondo yakho ukuze ifune oko kukhululwa. Akukho kunqongophala kophando apho ukungqina oku kwaye kuya kusebenza nakubathengi abangxamisekileyo, iziyobisi kwimidlalo, iziyobisi kwimidiya yoluntu nakwiziyobisi. Usebenzisa iindlela zakho ze-neural njengalezo mzila zikaloliwe zitshintsha amanqaku kwindawo enqamlezileyo nanini na uphinda kwaye uqinisa imikhwa emibi. Ukuba ngalo lonke ixesha uziva uphantsi unesuntswana lekhekhe okanye iilekese ukuze uzive ungonwabanga uya kuqala ukufikelela kwidrowa yokutya ngaphandle kokuyazi kwiiveki ezimbalwa. Yazi ukuba iphonografi ayisiyonyani yokwenene ngesondo kunye nokusondelelana. Okukhona usondla kubuxoki, nokuba uyazi ukuba kukuzonwabisa, kuya kuba nempembelelo enkulu kuwe. "Umlutha" ayilolizwi elihle kule mihla kodwa inyani kukuba kukuba awukwazi ukuthi hayi kuyo, ulikhoboka. Ewe inqanaba lokulutha liyahluka ngokuxhomekeke kubunzulu kodwa umbono osisiseko kukuba ulikhoboka ukuba awukwazi ukuthi hayi ngenxa yokuba unevidiyo- okanye ividiyo okanye iqhekeza lekhekhe okanye ufuna imbeko okanye ukwamkelwa . Indoda ekhululekileyo ayinayo inkosi kwaye ayifuni kungeniswa kuyo yonke iminqweno yokuzivelela.
- Yazi ukuba nangona sihlala kwindawo enabantu abanesondo kakhulu, unokuhlala kude nayo. Akukho kunqongophala kwedatha phaya ebonisa ukuba oku akunampilo kuthi kuzo zonke iindawo zobomi. Wonke umntu uyazi nzulu nzulu nayo, kodwa bambalwa bankulu ngokwaneleyo ukuba bavume ukuba inokubonakalisa ubomi bethu kwaye ayiloncedo nakancinci. Yonke indawo ojonga kuyo ujolise ekujoliseni ngokwesondo ngokungaphaya okanye ngokungathanga ngqo. Okukhona uyijongayo uya kuyibona ukuba iphambene kangakanani kwaye ikhona kuyo yonke indawo yobomi bakho. Hlala kude neendawo, izixhobo okanye abantu abanokubangela ukuba usilele. Sukuthatha ifowuni / ilaptop / ithebhulethi yakho uyokulala kwaye UNGAYENZI kwigumbi lokuhlambela. Abanye abayizisi egumbini labo. Musa ukoyika ukuba ngqongqo kuwe, ngakumbi ekuqaleni. Ndiyindoda esele ndikhulile kodwa ndinomkhangeli womntwana kwifowuni yam ukuze ndizikhusele. Andinazintloni koku kwaye nawe awufanele. Yinto ukuqonda kwam ngokusekelwe kuphando lobuqu kunye nokufunda app ngokutsha ukuba amashumi amawaka abantu ezi apps blocker umxholo kwiifowuni zabo kwaye abayi konwaba. Ukuzibamba ayisiyonto imbi- iya kukukhulula. Hlala kude nabahlobo abenza uzive ngathi 'unobuqili' kwaye kufuneka ufumane nenkqubo. Impembelelo kwezoluntu yomelele kakhulu kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo ithathwa njengomntwana kwaye ikrwada ukuba ifune ukuyeka inkcubeko enokwabelana ngesondo ngoku esihlala kuyo. Abantu abakuxelela ukuba uyeke ukuba lusana olunokwenzeka banemicimbi yabo ye-PMO. abazimisele ukuvuma kuwe, kwaye okona kubaluleke kakhulu, ngokwabo. Ukuba uyamfumana umntu oza kuyivuma le nto kwaye wena / uzive ukhululekile ukuthetha ngayo uya kuba nethamsanqa ngenene. Sebenzisa olu lwalamano ukuthetha ngeqabane lakho elitsha kwaye nikhuthazane.
- Jonga isicwangciso somdlalo. Awuyi kuphumelela ukuba awuphumelelanga. Hlala phantsi ngosiba nephepha, uthembeke kabuhlungu kuwe kwaye ubhale phantsi iimeko zobomi ezibangela ukuba ube sengozini yokuwa. Cinga ngezinto zakho ezinokubangela kwaye uzikhusele kuzo. Sukuba neentloni ngaphakathi kweendonga ezine zengqondo yakho ukubhala ezi zinto. Kuza kubonakala ngathi ngumntwana ekuqaleni kwaye uyakuqala ukucinga ngendlela abazizidenge ngayo abahlobo bakho ekusenokwenzeka ukuba bacinga ukuba ungoyena kodwa khumbula ukuba UNGOKUKHETHA kwaye bazizidenge. Nguwe onamandla kwaye ngabo babuthathaka, bathobela yonke imiyalelo abayifumanayo. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba unomntu onokuzityand 'igila kuye kwaye uzive ukhululekile ukwenza njalo, kuya kuba luncedo ngakumbi kuwe. Iintloni ocinga ukuba uya kuziva yimeko yentlalo kuphela ejonge nakubani na HAYI ingene nzulu kwiminqweno yesini njengomntu ongenantlonelo nolahlekileyo.
- Yeka izizathu ezifanelekileyo. Musa ukuyeka ngenxa yezizathu ezingalunganga. Ukuba 'uyeka amantombazana' okanye ngenxa yokuba ufuna ukufumana umhla uyenza kakubi. Kuya kufuneka ufune ukuyeka kuba kuya kwenza ubomi BAM bube ngcono kwaye nokuba bendihlala kwisiqithi sodwa andifuni ukuba likhoboka le-PMO. Yeka ngenxa yokuba ufuna ukubulawula ubomi bakho kunye nolonwabo lwakho. Ukuba ndilikhoboka ekufuneka ndiguqule intloko yam kuyo yonke intengiso okanye wonke umntu wasetyhini ohamba esitratweni ngekhe ndonwabe. Ayisiyiyo loo nto kuphela, kodwa ungacingi ukuba ukuyeka ukujonga kuya kukuthintela- kuya kukuxhobisa kuphela kwaye kwenza ubudlelwane bakho bube ngcono. Ukuba sele usebudlelwaneni, uya kufumana umfazi / intombi yakho inomdla ngakumbi. Okukhona ugoba amanye amabhinqa kokukhona uya kumkhathalela kuba kukho i-1,000,001 XNUMX amanye amantombazana amahle esitratweni kwaye awusoze wonwabe kunye nabani onaye. Ingqondo ingadlala amaqhinga amdaka kuwe ke lumka. Ewe kunokubonakala kungenabungozi kodwa ngalo lonke ixesha ubeka umntu kunye nengqondo-phezu kwabo (nokuba uyayazi okanye awuyazi) uya kubulala ubudlelwane bakho. Ukuba andinokonwaba yilento ndinayo kwaye ndihlala ndijonge yonke into anayo wonke umntu ngekhe ndonwabe kuba naxa ndide ndayifumana loo moto okanye intombazana okanye indlu ndiya kuhlala ndijonge ngaphandle kwaye yonke into endinayo ayizukubaluleka kwimoto eneveki enye ubudala ummelwane wam unendlela yakhe.
- Sukudimazeka kukusilela. Ingqondo yakho iyakukuxelela ukuba usilele kwaye ngekhe uzame ukuba kutheni ungavuli le webhusayithi kwakhona. SUKUMAMELA. Eli lelona qhinga lidala kule ncwadi kwaye ngelishwa lisebenza rhoqo. Ukwazisa ngamandla. Zikhumbuze ngale nto yonke imihla kwaye ukuba uyasilela. Mna ngokobuqu andizange ndixhume ikhawuntari. Ndisete enye kwifowuni yam kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo kuya kuziva kulungile ukubona amanani amakhulu phaya kodwa ke xa ndiwile kuya kuba kubi ngakumbi kunoyolo lokubona amanani amakhulu. Amanani amakhulu alungile kwikamva xa ujonga emva kwaye uthi 'ndikhululekile kwi-PMO kangangexesha le-x. " Phila usuku ngalunye ngokwakho. Injongo yakho kufuneka ibe nosuku olungena-PMO ntsasa nganye xa uvuka. Ukubeka iinjongo ezinkulu kunye nokusilela njengoko uninzi lusenza kunokudimaza kwaye kuya kwenza kube nzima kuwe ngengqondo.
Nje ukuba ulandele isicwangciso esingentla ndiza kuQINISEKISA ukuba uya kuphumelela. Kungathatha iinyanga, kungathatha iminyaka. Uninzi lwayo luyakuxhomekeka ekubeni ubungakanani bomsebenzi owufakayo. Okukhona utyala imali, kokukhona uya kufumana kwaye kokukhona uya kunyanga ngokukhawuleza. Uya kuba nembono esempilweni kwisini kwaye awuzukujonga ukuhlala usondla abo balambileyo kwaye ufumane ulonwabo lokuphela kwemithambo-luvo nanini na xa umzimba wakho ukuxelela ukuba uyayifuna. Awuyi kujolisa kubafazi kwaye uzame ukufumana ulonwabo lokuphela kwemithambo-luvo kubo ngokwengqondo okanye ngokobuqu. Uya kubona ukuba ubudlelwane nomntu obathandayo kwaye ubakhathalele bunokubakho nokuba akukho buhlobo ngalo lonke ixesha kwaye xa kukho INGABAKHO amava amahle, adibeneyo, hayi nje indlela yokufezekisa iminqweno yesiseko.
Musa ukwenza iphutha lokucinga ukuba xa ukhaba umkhwa awuyi kuba nale ngxaki. Iindlela ezihamba nge-neural ze-PMO ziya kusekho kwingqondo yakho nangona zikhona izilwanyana ze-orange kunye nokulumkisa itayiti yokuyivimba. Musa ukuzithemba kakhulu kuba xa iintsuku ezantsi ziza kunzima ukwazi ukuhamba ngokuya kweso sithuthi uze ukhuphe ama-cones. Musa ukuzithemba wena kude kube umhla ofa ngawo.
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