Ndonwabe kakhulu nam kwaye ndikhululekile kulusu lwam endicinga ukuba ndakhe ndakhona. Iliwa kanzima.

Ke yimini ye-97 kodwa andizubhala le post. Ndiyazingca kakhulu ngokufikelela kweli nqanaba libalulekileyo kwaye ndinombulelo ngabo bonke ububele, inkxaso, kunye nobulumko obuvela kumalungu ale sub. Nina niyoyikeka!

Ndiza kunidwelisa kuni bafana iziphumo ezahlukeneyo kunye neenzuzo endiye ndazifumana kunye nezinto endizifundileyo kungekuphela kolu luhlu, kodwa ngalo lonke ixesha lam lokuthatha inxaxheba kwiNofap (~7 iinyanga).

Okokuqala, izibonelelo zomzimba (Ndiza kubandakanya kuphela izibonelelo endinokuthi ndigqibe ngokufanelekileyo ziziphumo ezithe ngqo zeNofap. Kukho neenzuzo ezingathanga ngqo abaninzi abazifumanayo ngenxa yenkuthazo kunye nengqondo yokuziphucula abayifumana ngelixa bekwiNofap):

  • Ukubuya kweenkuni zasekuseni. Ngokusisiseko yonke intsasa ndiba nzima.
  • Umthondo ubonakala uba ngqindilili kwaye ugcwele xa uthambile. Ngokusisiseko andisayi kuphinda ndiyichaze njenge "floppy"
  • Ukumiswa okungakumbi imini yonke.
  • Ukuziva ndiziva ndinamandla kunye nokomelela ngakumbi kunokuba ndandiba nawo xa ndimane ndiphulula amaphambili.

Izibonelelo zeNgqondo:

  • Ukuphucula ngokubonakalayo umfanekiso wesiqu sakho. Ndonwaba kakhulu kum kwaye ndikhululekile kwelam icala endicinga ukuba ndakhe ndalo. Ndizula zula ndibeke amagxa ngomva intloko ndiyinyuse.
  • Ukugxila okuphuculweyo kwaye kunokucinga ngokukhawuleza nangokucacileyo.
  • Ingqondo eyomelela ngakumbi, izinto azindithobi ixesha elide. UKUBA ndinosuku olubi okanye ndiziva ndikhululekile ndidla ngokuziva njengam kwakhona ngosuku olulandelayo.
  • Amandla kunye nenkuthazo ngophahla. Ndizifumana sele ndisenza izinto ekudala ndifuna ukuzenza okwethutyana kwaye ndizama ukuba yeyona nguqulelo ilungileyo kum.

IziBonelelo eziNtlalontle:

  • Ukudibana kwamehlo KUKHULU. Ndandidla ngokuziva ndingathandeki ukujonga abantu ixesha elide ngelixa ndithetha nabo. Ngoku akuyongxaki kwaphela. Ngezolo nje ndibambe amehlo omntu endigqitha ecaleni kwendlela akhawuleze ajonga phantsi- le kaka bendiyenza!
  • Ukucinga ngokukhawuleza kwincoko. Ndifumanisa ukuba ndisabela ngakumbi kwaye ndisezinyaweni zam xa ndithetha nabantu. Ndiyasokola ukuba mandithini kancinci, kwaye akukho kuthula kuncinci. Umzekelo owonwabisayo woku kukuba xa ndisojelwa ngumhlobo ndikhawuleza kakhulu ngokubuya.
  • Ndithetha nje nabantu ngakumbi. Ngaphambili, ndiye ndakhe ndacinga ngento endiza kuyithetha kodwa ndizibambe ngenxa yezizathu ezithile. Ngoku, ukuba into endifuna ukuyithetha ithi qatha engqondweni ndivele ndiyithethe. Kwakhona izinto zokuthetha ziza kum lula kwaye rhoqo.

Ndiyibeke ixesha ukuze ndibethe usuku lwe-90 ngosuku lokuqala endafudukela kwikholeji yam entsha. (Ndiqala unyaka wam omtsha). Lixesha elinika umdla kakhulu kwaye ndikhuthazekile ukuba ndiqhubeke nokuziphucula kwesi sigaba silandelayo sobomi.

Ndikhe ndahlala apha iveki ngenxa yokuqhelaniswa kwaye ndifumene ukuba iNofap ithathe indawo engasemva, indima encinci engqondweni yam. Ukuhlala nomntu ohlala naye kunye nokuba neshedyuli exakekileyo yokuhambahamba ekhampasi imini yonke kuthetha ukuba i-Nofap iza ngokwemvelo kwaye i-PMO ngokunyanisekileyo ayifane iwele eyam. Ndenze isivumelwano nam sokuba andisoze ndibukele iphonografi kwilaptop entsha endiyifumene esikolweni.

Ngokuphathelele umtsalane wamandla amakhulu, akazange abe namathuba amaninzi okuvavanya oko ngexesha lasehlotyeni kodwa iiklasi ziqala namhlanje ukuze ukholelwe ukuba ndikulungele ukudibana nabanye abantu 🙂

Kwakhona, ndiyabulela itoni guys ngeengcebiso kunye nenkxaso kunye nethamsanqa bazalwana noodade, ungayenza!

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