Sele i-2 malunga ne-2 iminyaka ukusukela oko ndaqala le akhawunti kunye nohambo lwam lweNoFap / lokuziphucula. Iminyaka edlulileyo ibinzima kakhulu. Okwangoku ndikuluhlu lweentsuku ezingama-200 ndiyacinga. Andisabalanga, kuba indlela oyichitha ngayo imihla yakho ibaluleke ngaphezu kwenani.
Kwiminyaka eyi-2 eyadlulayo ndandidakumbile, ndinexhala elibi ekuhlaleni kwaye ndandingonwabanga kakhulu ngobomi bam, ndihleli ngaphakathi kuphela kwiPC yam. Ungafunda yonke into kwimbali yam. Ndandibuhlungu ngokungabi nabahlobo okanye ubuhlobo.
Ngoku ndinabahlobo abambalwa, endikhe ndiphume nabo. Ndiya kwimibhiyozo ndedwa ukuze ndihlale. Ndiye ndafumana umsebenzi wam wokuqala, ndancamisa, ndaya kwidate ezimbalwa, ndingaseyontombi, ndithandana nomntwana, ndihlala ndingcono, ndingcono, ndayeka unyango oko ndikhulile (ngokweengcali) kwaye mhlawumbi nangaphezulu. andikhumbuli. Zininzi izinto ezintle ezenzekileyo.
Kuthatha ixesha, ukuziqhelanisa, umonde kunye nomgudu omkhulu, kodwa konke kufanelekile. INoFap yayiyinxalenye nje encinci kuyo, ekuqaleni yandikhuthaza kwaye yandinceda kodwa ayisiyiyo yonke into. Namhlanje andisacingi nokucinga ngayo, andikandwendweli iforum oko ndaqalayo. Olona kukhula luvela ngaphandle, kwihlabathi lokwenyani.
Namhlanje, andikho mgangathweni. Ndisenexhala kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ndiziva ndibuhlungu kakhulu. Kodwa kunjalo nangabo bonke abanye abantu ngamanye amaxesha. Ndiyazi ngoku ukuba ndiyakwazi ukusebenzela into endiyifunayo, kwaye amaxesha olonwabo aphambi kwam.
Into malunga nokunyuka komtsalane abantu bayaqaphela. Ndifumene ukuba iNoFap ayizange yenze amantombazana andithande ngakumbi, endaweni yoko yandenza ndaqonda ukuba sele ndinomtsalane ngendlela endandiyiyo, andizange ndiyazi. Andithi ndimhle kakhulu kodwa andizange ndiqonde ukuba intombazana ingandithanda, kum. Andizange ndiyazi ukuba ndinecala lezesondo kwaye umntu angafuna ukundiphuza, okanye ukuba ndinamandla okuphuza umntu. Ndaziva ndivuleka umhlaba omtsha xa ndiqala ukuncamisa. Ngalo lonke eli xesha ndandicinga ukuba akukho ntombazana inokundithanda, okanye umntu onomdla kum, andizange ndibe nabuganga bokuphuza omnye umntu. Kodwa xa isenzeka ndabona ukuba bubuxoki, ndiyakwazi ukuncamisa umntu, ndiyakwazi ukutsaleleka komnye umntu.
Ngoku ndigxile ekufundeni indlela yokuthetha kakuhle encinci kunye nokwenza abahlobo. Yonke imihla 0 okanye usuku 1 umntu apha. Ukuba ufuna ngokwenene, unokwenza. Okukhona ubeka umsebenzi omninzi, kokukhona uphuma kuwo.
Abantu bahlala bethumela ukuba xa bekwiNoFap bafumana iitoni zokuhoywa kumantombazana. Ndifumanisa ukuba oku akuyonyani. Sele befuna okanye bakunike ingqalelo. Kodwa awuzange ubahoye, okanye awuzange uzithembe ngokwaneleyo ukuba uyakwamkela.
Umhla wam wokuqala waqala ngokunkqonkqoza isitulo sam ndizama ukumbamba ngesandla. Wathi uziva ngathi uya kudliwano-ndlebe lomsebenzi.
Incoko yethu yayilungile, kunye nezimbalwa (oko wakufumanayo) unqumamo olungathandekiyo. Watsho ekhwaza. Khange sicofe. Yayiyiloo nto ke. Qhubeka nje uthandana, unganikezeli. Ekugqibeleni uya kufumana umntu.
LINK - Emva kweminyaka eyi-2 yokuzama iNoFap kunye nokuziphucula
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