Ndisondela kwinqanaba lesiqingatha somceli mngeni wam weentsuku ezingama-90, ke ndiza kwabelana ngamava am ohambo olusemva kwam.
Ndize apha ukuze ndicoceke kwi-MO njengoko ndandisele ndicocekile kwi-P. Andikufumananga kunzima ukuhlala kude no-M, nangona ubuqhetseba bengqondo ngamanye amaxesha bandinika ukhuthazo. Zange ndilingwe nyhani.
Esi sisixhobo sokuqala kuye nabani na ozama ukucoceka: hlala usezingqondweni. Kuza nezinye i-sh * t ezininzi ukusenza sizive ngathi kufuneka siphinde siyeke. Ngokwenene ngumchasi ofanelekileyo kwindlela yethu yegorha.
Ndiziva ndomelele ngakumbi kunokuba ndandiqala, ndizimisele kakhulu ukugxininisa, kakhulu ngakumbi kulungelelwaniso ngobomi, ukonwaba, uxolo lwam. Ndingakwazi ukuqhubeka nokuqhubeka. Inene kufanelekile yonke imigudu endiyenzayo.
Ingcebiso yesibini yile: ugcine ukufunda nokubhala kule foram. Ingqondo izama ukusigcina sahlukile kwabanye abantu kwaye le ndawo yindawo elungileyo yokwenene yokugqobhoza le seli yentolongo.
Ulwalamano lwam nenkosikazi yam luphuculwe kakhulu. Uyayibona ngokwenene into yam yengeniso kwaye onwabile njengam. Sinobudlelwane bokomoya apho sabelana ngokucamngca, simamela i-webinars malunga nokukhula komuntu, ukudibanisa kunye nokukhanya, isiseko sethu kunye nezinto ezinjalo. Kuyasinceda kakhulu ukunxibelelana.
Ingcebiso yesithathu inxulumene noku: zama ukufumana iinjongo 'eziphezulu' ngelixa ususa idosi. Ukuba awukholelwa kumandla athile aphezulu, qala ukukholelwa kokulungileyo okwendalo. Ndibonile abaninzi besilela kuba becinga ukuba banendalo embi. Kutheni ufanele uyikholelwe loo nto? Ukuba unokukhetha, kutheni ungakhethi umfanekiso oqinisekileyo?
Ixesha elidlulileyo lixhalabile, ndizidinisa ngazo zonke iziyobisi. Ngoku ndiya kwiinjongo zam. Ndingumqeqeshi oqeqeshiweyo, zombini i-lifecoach kunye ne-golfcoach yengqondo, ndiyakuthanda ukuseta ukucamngca ngomculo kwaye ndibhala incwadi ngeendlela ezininzi zokuphila ngokusuka kuthi. Yile nto ndiya kule minyaka ilishumi izayo. Andisazibambi. Ukuya ngamathuba am kunye nabantu abasendleleni efanayo.
Ingcebiso yam yesine neyokugqibela iphindwe kathathu: ukuziqhelanisa, ukuziqhelanisa nokuzilolonga. Cinga, yenza ingqondo, uthandaze, wenze i-yoga, nantoni na, kodwa kuya kufuneka uyibone ingqondo yakho ngaphambi kokuba uyilawule. Ukuba awenzi njalo, iya kukuqhatha kwaye uya kuhlala ujikeleza kwizangqa.
Ndonwabile ukuba ndithathe eli nyathelo. Ihlabathi liphantsi kwesipeliti se-porn, esiyintlekele kumadoda, kwimitshato, kwimisebenzi, kwiintsapho nakubudlelwane. Sisibetho sehlabathi esibi kakhulu kuneCorona okanye nayiphi na enye intsholongwane. Ngokufihlakeleyo ibulala amawaka ezigidi zabantu ngokubanqumla kwimithombo yabo. Singabantu abadlamkileyo, abanamandla, abonwabileyo xa siqhagamshelwe kuloo mthombo. Lilungelo lethu ukuba sibe njalo. Abantwana abancinci bavezwa kwi-porno xa bengenalo nofifi lokuba bangena phi. Oku kufuneka kuyeke. Singayimisa ngokusebenza kuthi kwaye siyibonise umhlaba. Wonke umntu uyabala. Qhubeka uhamba wonke umntu. Sukuncama. Uphilisa umhlaba ngelixa uziphilisa!
LINK - Ukusondela kumanqaku asembindini-amava, iingcebiso kunye namacebo
;