Kuthekani ngesinyi esinentloni (paruresis)? I-Paruresis ( / ˌpɑrəˈriːsɪs/ par-ə-ree-sis) luhlobo lwe-phobia apho umntu ogulayo engakwazi ukuchama kubukho (bokwenyani okanye bentelekelelo) babanye, njengakwindlu yangasese/yangasese yoluntu.
Asazi ukuba umlutha we-porn okanye ukusetyenziswa kwe-porn okunyanzelekileyo kunegalelo kule nto okanye hayi, kodwa nazi ezinye izinto ezithethwe ngabantu:
Hay man nam ndinento enye. Awukwazi ukuchama xa kukho abanye abantu (abasemzini) kufutshane. Imvakalelo efanayo, ngathi uyeka ukulinda kwakho okanye into kwaye abanye abantu balindele ukuba ungaphumeleli ekuchameni. Le yingxaki eqhelekileyo ebizwa ngokuba yi-'paruresis' kwaye unokufumana iividiyo ezintle kakhulu ezivela kubafana abanesibindi sokuthetha ngayo ku-youtube. Kukho iindlela zobuchule onokuzisebenzisa ukuze uzinyanzele ukuba uqalise ukuchama ngokubamba umoya wakho (khangela 'indlela yokubamba umoya'). Kumzamo wokuphinda ndiqalise ngaphambili bendikwiveki yesi-4 okanye into kwaye bendiqala ukuziva ngathi ndiyakwazi ukuchama esidlangalaleni ukuba kufuneka ndenze. Andizange ndiyenze, kodwa kwakukho le mvakalelo ikhula "musa ukunika af*ck".
Bendinochuku namhlanje, qho ndizama ukuchama ecaleni komnye umfana emva kwe-orgasm yamva nje andikwazi. Sukuhleka kuba ndifunga ukuba sisizathu! Yingxaki kuphela xa i-orgasm ibikho kwiintsuku ezimbalwa ezidlulileyo. Kungenjalo bendinokuma ngasemva ndiwuwothe umsinga! HLEKA KAKHULU
I-Paruresis (/ ˌpɑrəˈriːsɪs/ par-ə-ree-sis) luhlobo lwe-phobia apho umntu ogulayo engakwazi ukuchama kubukho (bokwenyani okanye bentelekelelo) babanye, njengakwindlu yangasese kawonke-wonke. ~ Wikipedia
Andazi, inokuba ngamabona-ndenzile. Kodwa iminyaka elishumi bendifolele kwiindawo zangasese zikawonke-wonke ukuze ndichame kwi-cubicle, emva koko iinyanga ezimbini kwi-nofap yam, ndizithembile ngakumbi, ndiziva njengendoda, ndijonge abantu emehlweni, Ndime kwindawo yokuchama, ndichama phambi komntu endingamaziyo. ngelixa sincokola naye! WTF iqabane? Nxu lumano
So namhlanje ndithe ndisandongena estandini ndabe sendizokwenza I business zam ndeva kungena intombazana, bendiqhele ukuma okwesibhanxa ndilinde ahambe kodwa ngoku bendizipholele nje ndihoye ishishini lam. Ndonwabe kakhulu, ndithetha ukuba ndiqinisekile ukuba ndiza kulwa nale nto kangangexesha elithile elizayo, kodwa ubuncinci ngoku ndinethemba lokuba i-nofap iya kundinceda ukuba ndikhuphe olu xhala lobudenge lokuchama kwiindawo zikawonke-wonke.
Yiya kule webhusayithi kwaye ujonge iforum. Iitoni zolwazi. Kuya kufuneka wenze iakhawunti. http://www.paruresis.org/
[Lo mfo ukholelwa ukuba i-paruresis yakhe yethutyana yayinxulumene neNoFap-nangona wayonwabile yinkqubela yakhe iyonke]
"Malunga neenyanga ze-4 kuhambo lwam lwe-nofap, ndaqala ukuhlakulela imeko ephakathi ye-Paruresis (i-bladder eneentloni). Ngokusisiseko kunzima kakhulu kum ukuba ndithathe ipiss kwigumbi lokuhlambela likawonke-wonke, nokuba kufuneka ndihambe. Emva kokuba ndifake i-fapping namhlanje, ndahamba ngamabomu ukuya kwindawo yokuhlambela exakeke kakhulu kwiyunivesiti yam kwaye ndathatha ngempumelelo i-piss. Ndiyakholelwa ukuba i-nofap inxulumene ngandlela thile neParresis yam. " Funda ingxelo yakhe yeentsuku ezili-160.
Oko ndakhula bendine 'bashful bladder'. Andikwazi kuchama xa kukho idude ecaleni kwam. Okanye iimbiza ezimbalwa phantsi, ndifuna indawo. Ndiyayinqanda imichamo ngenxa yesi sizathu.
Namhlanje ndiye ndanyanzelwa ukuba ndisebenzise indawo yokuchamela, bendisandula kukhupha umqhagi wam xa umfana emi kanye ecaleni kwam. Ngokuqhelekileyo oku kuya kuba ngumdlalo kum. Ndive uloyiko luyenyuka, ndalungiselela ukukhupha isisu ( ngokusisiseko uneendlela ezimbini ongakhetha kuzo: yima apho njengerhanisi de iimeko ziphucuke okanye wenze ngathi ugqibile kwaye uvale izip up) kodwa eneneni ipiss yeza kunjalo. Bendingayilindelanga tu.
Kwakhona, andazi ukuba inxulumene ne-nofap. Mhlawumbi ndiziva ndingcono ukuzithemba kwaye andisaziva ndoyikeka kule meko. Mhlawumbi yayiyi-off enye. Inoba ndisanda kukhula. Ngubani owaziyo. Ndicinge nje ukuba ndingayibeka apho ukuba kukho nabani na oye waphucula ngale ndlela. ukuphucuka kwesinyi esihlazo?
[Impendulo evela komnye]
Ewe, xa ndikwi-streak, andiboni shit ukuba kukho umntu osecaleni kwam.
Kodwa ukuba umntu ulungile ecaleni kwam kwaye ndibe ne-PMOing, ndiziva ndixhalabile kwaye andinakuhamba.
Iyamangalisa. Ayinangqiqo. Kwithiyori, andiniki shit kodwa kwangaxeshanye, xa ndikulo mzuzu, ndiba ngathi “OMG ndiyayithiya le nto!” Kodwa ewe, ezi zinto zihamba nzulu engqondweni. Andinangcaciso kwaphela ngaphandle kokuba kwenzeke into efanayo nakum. Xa ndikwi-nofap, iyahamba.
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