By Megan Fox -Ye-Novemba 21, 2019.
UAlex Rhodes yindoda enomdla. Kwiminyaka ye-11, uthi waqala umkhwa wokubukela iphonografi iminyaka emininzi. Xa wagqiba ekubeni enze into ngayo, wafumana umphakathi wabantu abakwi-intanethi ababeneengxaki ezifanayo. Waqala inkampani yakhe, Akukho Fap, kwi2011 njengeforamu yoluntu yokuxoxa malunga neziphumo zokusebenzisa kakubi i-porn, ukunyanzeliswa kwezesondo, kunye nokuvuselela. “Fap” ligama eliqhanqalayo lokuphulula amalungu esini. Indlela yeRhodes yokubuyela kwimeko yesiqhelo yaqala ngokumisa ukuphulula amalungu esini ngokuthintela iphonografi.
Uluntu awudalayo lwakhula lwaba ngamanani amakhulu abantu abavela kuzo zonke iindlela zobomi abaye baxhamla kukhuthazo lwe-No Fap. IWebhusayithi ithi, "silapha ukukunceda uyeke ukubukela iphonografi, ukuphucula ubudlelwane bakho, kunye nokufikelela kwiinjongo zakho zempilo yezesondo." URhode uthi akakufuni ukuvala iphonografi okanye ukusithintela nangayiphi na indlela, kodwa wayefuna uluntu apho abantu bachaphazeleka ngokungalunganga banokuxhasana ekwenziweni kwabo iziyobisi. Akukho Fap ayisekelwanga kwinkolo, njengoko iRhode ingenguye umntu wokholo, eyenza indawo yakhe kunye ne-mission yakhe ibe yingozi kakhulu kushishino lwe-porn kuba akanakho ukurhangqwa njenge nzondelelo yenkolo.
Ngelixa umlutha we-porn ungadweliswanga kwiDiagnostic kunye ne-Statistical Manual yeNgqondo yeNgqondo, yingxaki yokwenyani abanokulwa nayo. Ngokwe-Psych Guides, "umlutha wephonografi, oyinto ephantsi ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesini, inokuthetha uluhlu lweendlela zokuziphatha ezenziwa ngokugqithileyo kwaye nefuthe elibi kubomi bomntu. "
Kukho iintaba zolwazi ezikhoyo malunga nefuthe elingendawo lokusetyenziswa kwezithombe ezibonisa amanyala ezinokubakho ebantwaneni, kubandakanya ukwanda kolwaphulo-mthetho ngokwesondo njengoko kuchaziwe e-UK, apho "amanani asuka kwi-30 [imithombo] abonisa iingxelo zolwaphulo-mthetho ngokwesondo ngabantwana abaneminyaka eyi-10 nangaphantsi anophinda-phindwe kabini ukusuka kwi-204 kwi2013-14 ukuya kwi-456 kwi-2016-17. Iingcali zase-UK zikhomba ukonyuka kokufikelela kwimifanekiso engamanyala ngabantwana njengesizathu.
Imilutha yamanyala ikwangunobangela ophambili woqhawulo-mtshato kunye nolwalamano. Psychology Namhlanje umbiko ukuba imitshato ye-500,000 ephelisa minyaka yonke igama lokulutha ngesondo njengesi sizathu.
Unaloo nto engqondweni, umbutho onjenge-No Fap ubonakala ngathi uza kuba sisisombululo esingenakuphikiswa kwabo bayikhethayo ukuba baphinde babuse ebomini babo kwindlela elungileyo. Kodwa abanye abantu ayingobalandeli. Oososayensi bezesondo kunye nomzi mveliso we-porn bayamzonda u-Alex Rhode ngenkanuko bahlala begcinele iithoyi zabo zesini.
URhode ufake isimangalo sokudelela umdibanisi waseKinsey Institute uNicole Prause, isazinzulu esifunda ngokwesondo. URhode ukholelwa ukuba uPrause wamjolisa ekutshabalaliseni ishishini lakhe kwaye wancama igama lakhe. Iingcali zesondo ezifana noPrause zinemibono engaqhelekanga kakhulu malunga nokwabelana ngesondo kwabantu. Kwisifundo sakhe se-Twitter, u-Prause ukhalazela ukungakwazi ukufunda ngesondo sabantwana ngaphandle kokubizwa ngokuba yi-pedophile.
Ayothusi into yokuba ivele kumntu ofunde kwiKinsey Institute. UAlfred Kinsey wayelisilo. Izilingo zakhe zesondo zabantwana kufanele ukuba zambeka emva kwemivalo. Upapashe uphando olubandakanya ubuncinci babantwana be-188 kunye nabantwana abahamba ngesondo bexhotyiswa ngezesondo ngamalungu omzimba abizwa ngokuba yiKinsey ukuze afezekise ii-orgasm kwaye ii-orgasms zazo zibhalwe ixesha kwaye zarekhodwa kolu phando. Uphando lwayo lwalugqitywe ngobuqhetseba nolwaphulo-mthetho, kodwa olu phando lusasetyenziswa ngabantu abanjengoPrause kunye ne-ilk yakhe. Kukho uxwebhu olufumanekayo kwi-YouTube ebizwa "Abantwana kwiTheyibhile 34" malunga nokuphathwa gadalala kwabantwana ngenxa yeKinsey. U-Kinsey wenze okungakumbi ukuguqula i-pedophilia kunaye nabani na ngaphambili okanye emva kwakhe kwaye kukho abantu abazigqala njengabongamileyo ukuba baphumelele kwisikolo esinegama lakhe. Kucacile ukuba uPrause akayiboni ngxaki ngokubandakanya abantwana kwizifundo malunga nokwabelana ngesondo.
(Umfanekiso we-Twitter)
"Ukuba uthetha ngesini solutsha, abantu baya kuthi ukhuthaza ukubonisa abantwana amanyala," ubhale watsho. Kwenzeke kum nakubantu abaninzi endisebenza nabo. Inobundlobongela, iyanyelisa kwaye iyothusa. Kungenxa yoko le nto zimbalwa izifundo zesini kulutsha. Ukoyikisa okunyanisekileyo. ”
Ndifikelele kuPrause ndambuza ukuba achaze ukuba angayifunda njani "inkanuko yesini" ngaphandle kokophula imithetho yangoku malunga nokonakalisa abantwana kunye nokwaphula iminyaka yemvume kwaye andifumani mpendulo. Inzululwazi yabantu abadala ingabujonga njani ubuni babantwana xa abantwana bengavumi kwisenzo sesondo? Lwenza njani olo hlobo lophando? Kuyathakazelisa ukuba iingcali zesondo ezigcuma malunga nokunqongophala kokufikelela kubantwana kuphando ngezesondo ngokucacileyo abazi ukuba zivela njani kubantu abaqhelekileyo abangazange bacinge ngabantwana abalala ngesondo.
Ukuziphatha kuka-Prause kwi-intanethi kwimibutho echasene ne-porn kunye neRhodes kubhalwe kakuhle kwaye kuyathandeka ngokwenene. Ubuchopho bakho kwi-porn buqulunqe i-screengrabs ebanzi yokuziphatha kwakhe kwi-intanethi okubandakanya ukuhlukunyezwa kwezithethi zeTed abo bathetha ngeziyobisi ezingamanyala kunye nobubi be-porn. Kubonakala ngathi eyona nyama iphambili kaPrause kunye neziyobisi ezingamanyala kunceda uluntu kukuba ukholelwa ukuba iphonografi ilungile ebantwini kwaye ayisiyiyo umlutha. Le nkolelo ibonakala imkhokele kwidrasi yokuhlazisa nabani na ongavumelaniyo naye.
Udumo aluthandi ukunxibelelana nomzi mveliso we-porn kunye namabango ukuba uhluke ngokupheleleyo kwisayensi. Kodwa uzimasa kwiminyhadala yemizi-mveliso ye-porn kwaye ufotwa neenkwenkwezi ezingamanyala kunye nabaphathi kwaye ubongoza esidlangalaleni nemibutho yemizi-mveliso ye-porn ukuvimba umthetho abangawuthandiyo. Nguye epinki ngasekunene.
(Isikrini esivela kwi-Twitter)
(Isikrini esivela kwi-Twitter)
ECarl Proposition 60 yayingumthetho wokufuna iikhondom kwiimveliso ze-porn ukwenzela ukuthintela ukusasazeka kwe-HIV. Ukudumisa ngokuchasene nomthetho ngokuchaseneyo nalo mthetho kunye nababhengezi bezentengiso zamanyala. Unokubonwa kwi-Twitter rhoqo ukunxibelelana kunye nokukhusela imboni ye-porn kunye nabathengisi bezesondo.
Umthetho waseRhodes uthi uPrause wamtyhola ngokuba "ngumxhaphazi, umntu oziphethe kakubi, otyhola gadalala, oxhasa ubundlobongela obujolise kwabasetyhini, kwi-cyberstalker, ngokuthintela / anganxibelelani nemiyalelo edibene neqela elinamanyala lokutya [h] adla ngokutyhola udlwengulo." Kukho Ubuncinci bobuncinci bezo zinto zibubungqina obubonakalayo.
Emva kokuba uPrause ethumele ku-Twitter ukuba wenze isikhalazo se-FBI malunga neRhodes, wafuna le ngxelo ngomthetho wenkululeko wolwazi. Oko akufumanayo kuqinisekisile ukuba uyenzile.
"Mnumzana Rhodes," funda ileta evela kwi-FBI ngokuphendula i-FOIA. I-FBI igqibile ukukhangela iirekhodi ezisabelayo kwisicelo sakho… Asikwazanga kuchonga nasiphi na isicelo sefayile kwaye; ke isicelo sakho siyavalwa. ”
Ngaphandle kobu bungqina bokuba uPreuse akazange afake nayiphi na ingxelo enjalo kwi-FBI, uyaphikelela ukuliphindisa ibango esidlangalaleni, into leyo emangalela uRhodes ukuba zonakalisa igama lakhe. URhode ayinguye kuphela umntu azama ukuntywila ngeengxelo zobupolisa obugwenxa. U-Prause uye emva ko-Gary Wilson, utitshala we-physiology onomdla othile kwiziphumo zamva ze-neuroscience, owaseka Ubuchopho bakho kunye neMifanekiso engamanyala. Ukucekisa ityala uWilson uhlala e ukugoba kwaye neengxelo zamapolisa ezininzi zokumhlukumeza. UWilson uthi akukho nanye eyinyani kwaye unamaxwebhu okuxhasa oko. UWilson ubhale kwiwebhusayithi yakhe:
Ngelixa uPrause eqhubeka nokubanga ubuxoki ukuba "lixhoba," nguPrause oqale lonke unxibelelwano kunye nokuhlukumeza abantu kunye nemibutho edweliswe kweli phepha. Akukho namnye kolu luhlu oye wahlukumeza uNicole Prause. Amabango akhe abubuxoki ngokuba lixhoba "lokulandela" okanye ukungaziphathi kakuhle "kwabaphembeleli abachasene ne-porn" abanalo isota esinye samaxwebhu. Bonke ubungqina abunikelayo buzivelisile: i-info-graphic eyodwa, ii-imeyile ezimbalwa ezivela kuye ziye kwabanye ezichaza ukuhlukunyezwa, kunye nokuma okungathandekiyo okuphelileyo kunye nokushiya iileta ezinezityholo zobuxoki. Uyakubona ubungqina benani lezikhalazo ezisesikweni u-Prause afake ii-arhente ezahlukeneyo zolawulo- eziye zagxothwa ngokukodwa okanye zaphandwa zagxothwa. Kubonakala ngathi ufaka ezi zikhalazo zomgunyathi ukuze aqhubeke nokubanga ekujolise kuko konke "kuphantsi kophando."
Mhlawumbi eyona nto ibonakalisa umlinganiswa kaPrause kule saga sisityholo sakhe sokuba iRhodes ngumNazi kwaye umhlophe-omkhulu, njengoko kucacisiwe ematyaleni. Oku akufuneki kumangalise nabani na oye wanikela ingqalelo ukususela kwi-2016. Umzuzu i-SJW ingavumelani nomntu, loo mntu uba ngumNazi. Ngaba ulwaphulo-mthetho lwaseRhodes? Wavumela umhlaziyi wezopolitiko uGavin McInnes ukuba enze udliwanondlebe naye ngelixa esasebenzela Vice. Ukusukela oko uPrause wafumanisa ukuba iRhode yathetha noMcInnes ngaxesha lithile kwaye engazange asisele isisele ebusweni, ebemtyhola ngokuxhasa abafana beProud (abangena engxakini enkulu yokuxabana kwesitalato no-Antifa). Sisengoluleko, ngokoluvo lwam, ukubiza i-Proud Boys nantoni na ngaphandle kweklabhu yendawo yokusela yamadoda, kodwa iRhodes inyanzelise abafana beProud "njengeqela" elinenzondelelo "kangangezihlandlo ezininzi. Wayengazange abe lilungu, okanye umxhasi. Akukho Fap ayikaze ibe yezopolitiko kwaye izinikezele ekunikezeleni uncedo lokulutha nakubani na oludingayo. Oku akuyekisi uPreuse ukuba aqhubeke nokumdibanisa "nee-supremacists ezimhlophe" ngomanyano olungenantlonelo lodliwanondlebe omnye noMcInnes, ongenguye umntu omkhulu kwi-supremacist.
Inkqubo yomthetho kufuneka ibangele umdla ukubukela njengoko kuvula iingxelo kwi-Twitter ukuba ihlolwe ngokusemthethweni. Ngaba uMthetheleli uya kuphenduliswa ngokupapasha amabango obuxoki kumajelo asekuhlaleni?
UMegan Fox ngumbhali we "Bukholwe ubungqina; Ukusweleka kwenkqubo ngenxa yeSalome ukuya kwi #MeToo. Landela kwi-Twitter @MeganFoxWriter
Phawula: Ukuhlawulwa kwezinye iindawo: "Iimfazwe zephonografi zifumaneka buqu kwi-Nut kaNovemba", nguDiana Davison of Isithuba seMinyaka Eliwaka. UDavison uvelise le vidiyo yemizuzu ye-6 malunga nokuziphatha okuziphethe kakuhle kukaPrause: "Ngaba Iphonografi Yakhobokisa?", kunye neli xesha lokuhlukumeza / izityholo zobuxoki: Umda wexesha lemfazwe we-VSS.
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