IINKCUKACHA: Enye yezifundo zekhompyutha ze-4 kweli phepha (yenziwe ngezantsi) iingxelo kwindoda eneengxaki zesondo ezibangelwa isondo (i-libido ephantsi, amathumbu, i-anorgasmia). Ungenelelo ngokwesondo lubiza i-6-iveki yokuziyeka kwi-porn kunye ne-masturbation. Emva kweenyanga ezi-8 indoda ichaze ukwanda komnqweno wesini, isondo eliphumelelayo kunye ne-orgasm, kwaye iyonwabela "imikhwa elungileyo yesondo."
J Sex Med. 2014 Jul;11(7):1798-806. doi: 10.1111/jsm.12501.
Abstract
INTSHAYELELO:
Ukuhlaziya isenzo sesondo ngokuqhelekileyo phakathi kwabantu beeminyaka yonke ebomini. Kuye yavunyelwa ngokuqhelekileyo kwaye yagwetywa njengononyeliso kunye nesono ngeenkolo eziliqela. Nangona kungabonakali njengendlela yokuziphatha kakubi, ukuhlaziya i-masturbation kuvame ukushiywa kwimibuzo yokuxilongwa kwezigulane ezineengxaki zesini.
KUQALA:
Injongo yale sifundo kukunyusa ulwazi lwabagqirha ngokubaluleka kokubandakanya imibuzo malunga neendlela zokuziphatha ngokubambisana kwinkqubo yesondo, ukuhlalutya iziganeko zesini-ntsebenzo zesini (i-SD) ezinxulumene nezenzo ezingaqhelekanga, kunye nokucebisa isixhobo sogqirha ukuxilonga nokulawula iingxaki ezinjalo.
IINDLELA:
Isifundo seklinikhi samatyala amane kubandakanya uluhlu lwezinto ezingaqhelekanga zokuphulula amalungu esini ngamadoda amancinci afaka isicelo sonyango ngokwesondo. Isicwangciso songenelelo esibandakanya imibuzo ethile kwimeko yokuthatha imbali yenziwa. Yayisuselwe kukuqonda okunzulu ngesigulana ngasinye sokwenza ngokwesondo kunye nokubonakaliswa kwaso kwi-SD yakhe.
IINGXELO ZEMISEBENZI:
Iimpembelelo zokuchonga nokuguqula izikratshi zesenzo somsebenzi wesondo.
IINKCUKACHA:
Amadoda amane achaza izinto ezingaqhelekanga kunye neengxaki ezingaqhelekanga, ngasinye sasihlanganiswe neentlobo ezahlukeneyo ze-SD. Ukungaphumeleli kwezinto eziphathekayo ezibandakanyekayo kubandakanyeke ekuphuculeni umsebenzi wabo wesondo.
IMISEBENZI:
Amacala amane kulolu cwaningo abonisa ukuba umbuzo obanzi ngokubanzi wokubaluleka kwemigqaliselo kubalulekile ekuhlolweni olupheleleyo kwaye unyango olwaneleyo lweengxaki zesini kumadoda. Siphakamisela imibuzo ethile malunga nokuziphatha kweemasturbatry kunye ne-diagnostic andrapeutic flowchart kumagqirha kunye neengcali zecala ukujongana neengxaki.
IINKCUKACHA:
Dysfunction Erectile; Ingxaki yokuHlonipha ngokwesondo; Ukugcoba; Ejaculation Retarded; Ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo; Iimbali zoBuchule ezithathayo; UkuSebenza ngokungaqhelekanga
Icandelo le1: I-Dispoactive Sexual Desire Disorder
Indoda enempilo eneminyaka engama-35 engatshatanga ilungiselelwe isondo ngesikhalazo sokuba nakuba "wadibana nothando lobomi bakhe" kwaye wayethandwa kuye ngengqondo nangokwezesondo, wayenqwenela ukulala naye. Kwakungabalulekanga ukuba aqalise umsebenzi wesondo naye kwaye wayenqabe ukuqaliswa kwakhe ngokwesondo. Wayekhungathekile kwaye wayefuna ukuqeda ulwalamano lwabo. Le ndoda yavuma ukuba wayeyifumene izizathu zokumbamba kwaye wayethe umthwalo wakhe onzima ngenxa yokukhathala kwayo. Wachaza ukuba kunye nokunyuswa kwansasa kwansuku zonke kunye nezihlandlo zangezinye izikhathi. Wayephika ukusebenzisa kakubi nayiphi na into kunye nokusebenzisa nayiphi na imithi, kwaye iimviwo zakhe zomzimba kunye neelabhoratri (kuquka neprofayili ye-hormonal) ziqhelekileyo. Uhlolo lokuhlola ngengqondo lugxininisa ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo okanye ukuxhalaba ngaphandle kokudakumba kwakhe kwimiba yakhe yobundlobongela bonke ubuhlobo bakhe obudlulileyo kunye nabesifazane abangaphezu kwe-20 balandela umzekelo ofanayo wokulangazelela kunye nomdla kwiiveki zokuqala, ukuxhaswa ngokukhawuleza ukulahlekelwa ngumdla kunye nesisu esifanelekileyo sesini, ukukhungatheka, nokupheliswa kobudlelwane. Xa ebuzwa malunga nezenzo zokugonywa, wachaza ukuba ngaphambili wayedlala ngokukhawuleza ngokukhawuleza xa ekhangeleka iphonografi ukususela ebusheni.
Imifanekiso engamanyala yayiqala ngokuyinhloko ye-zoophilia, kunye nokugqila, ukulawula, ukunyaniseka, kunye ne-masochism, kodwa ekugqibeleni waqhelana nalezi zinto kwaye wayedinga iziqendu ezingaphezulu zoonografi, kuquka ne-sexender transgender, ubundlobongela kunye nodlova obundlobongela. Wayethetha ukuthenga amafilimu angaphantsi kobugqwetha kwizenzo zesondo zobundlobongela nokudlwengula kwaye wabonakalisa ezo zigcawu kwiingcamango zakhe zokuziphatha ngokwesini kunye nabasetyhini. Wanciphisa kancane umnqweno wakhe kunye nokukwazi kwakhe ukucinga kunye nokunciphisa i-masturbation frequency.
Ukuxilonga ngesondo
Kwixesha elidlulileyo, isigulane sinokuthi sifumaneke ngokuziphatha ngokunyanzela ngokwesondo kunye ne-paraphilia, kodwa xa efika unyango, wanikezela ngengxaki yengxaki yesondo (HSDD).
Ukungenelela ngokwesondo
Ngokubambisana neeseshoni zeveki kunye ne-sexistrapist, isigulane sasicelwa ukuba sigweme nayiphi na into echazwe ngokwesini, kuquka amavidiyo, amaphephandaba, iincwadi kunye ne-intanethi. Ukongezelela, wafundiswa ukuba aphephe ukukhwabanisa. Emva kweeveki ze-6 zokuthotyelwa kwezi mingcipheko, waphawula iimpawu zokukhula komnqweno. Oku kwasetyenziswa ngumgqirha ukuba aqalise inkqubo yokuqwalasela i-masturbation ngelixa esetyenziselwa ukuguquka kwesondo kunye nokunyanzelisa. Wayefundiswa ukuba agxininise kwiimvakalelo ezivuyisayo ngexesha lokuvusa kwakhe, ngaphandle kokuzama ukufikelela kwi-orgasm.
iziphumo
Emva kweenyanga ze-8, isigulane sichaza ukufumana i-orgasm ephumelelayo kunye nokunyuka. Wahlaziya ulwalamano lwakhe naloo mfazi, kwaye ngokuthe ngcembe baphumelela ekunandeleni izinto ezilungileyo zesondo.
IINKCUKACHA NGOKUBHALA
Ngezantsi zincinci ukusuka kwimeko yecala elilandelwa ngam amazwi:
Ungenelelo ngokwesondo lubiza i-6-iveki yokuziyeka kwi-porn kunye ne-masturbation. Emva kweenyanga ezi-8 indoda ichaze ukwanda komnqweno wesini, isondo eliphumelelayo kunye ne-orgasm, kwaye iyonwabela "imikhwa elungileyo yesondo."
Apha sinesifundo sokuqala semeko, sibhala umfana omncinci osempilweni kunye nento ebonakala ngathi kukungaziphathi kakuhle ngokwesondo (ipenisi yakhe kunye nokuqhuba iphonografi kulungile, hayi neqabane lakhe.) Unyango lwalukuqala kwakhona, ukuphumla ukuvuselela okwenziweyo, ukuze "uphinde ufunde" indlela yokuvuselelwa liqabane lakhe kwaye uphinde uphinde uqhubeke ngesondo.
Ukuqalisa kwakhona kusebenze. Kwixesha elihle eliqhelekileyo elihambelana nento esiyibonayo kwi-rebooters kunye noko ndaye ndafumana. Ndathatha iinyanga ze-9 ukuba ndibuye ndifumane umsebenzi opheleleyo wesondo.
Imibuzo enzulu malunga nemigqaliselo yokubambisana ibaluleke kakhulu ekuhloleni okucwangcisiweyo kwaye unyango olwaneleyo lweengxaki zesini kumadoda.
Oogqirha abona abatsha abanempilo ephilileyo beza ngokukhononda nge-ED / esifanelekileyo isondo soqabane babo, kufuneka baceliwe malunga nokusetyenziswa kwabo koonwabo. Ukuba ipenisi yabo isebenza kunye noononophala, kwaye banomnqweno ophezulu wokubukela ubuninzi boononophala kodwa ingabi nomnqweno ophezulu kumlingane wabo, oko bubungqina bobulili-bangela ukungasebenzi. Yilapho banokubuza amadoda ukuba abone ngokulula ukululaza (ukufumana u-erection) kunye ne-orgasm, ngaphandle ukubukela okanye ukucinga ngeefostile.
Inxalenye ebhalwe phantsi: Bacebisa ukuba ukuqaliswa kwakhona kusebenza unyango. Njengokuba kukho uontanga ubuye ubuyekeze ubungqina bokuba luncedo, kuba nje ukucima i-porn kunye nokuhlaziya i-masturbation kwithuba elithile kwandise le nto yokuziphatha ngesondo kunye nomsebenzi wesondo. Oku kuyahambelana nantoni na iingcali ezikule phepha zivakalise esidlangalaleni malunga nokuphathwa kakubi ngokwesondo.
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Abanye abantu ababonisa amanyala baya kuthi "akukho bungqina bokuba imodeli yokulutha iyasebenza kunyango." Ewe, ukuqala kwakhona kwesizwe kunye ne-YBOP kucetyiswa ukuba ubuyise ngokusekwe kwi "modeli yomlutha" kwaye isebenzele amawaka, kubandakanya nam. Umlutha malunga neenguqu zengqondo kunye nokufunda (ukukhuthaza). Olu pho nonongo, kunye namawaka amabali ethu bubungqina bokuthi "umlutha / i-neuroplasticity / imeko yesondo" imodeli isebenza kunyango lwabafana abane-ED.
Into ehlekisayo, ngaba abanye baba bantu bayakubanga ukuba ukuqala kwakhona "kuyingozi." Indlela yokubonisa ukuhleka. Yup, ukucebisa umfana ukuba ahambe ngaphandle koononophala kangangexesha elithile ukubona ukuba kwenzeka ntoni kunokuba yingozi…. Ayilothuba.
wayebethwa kuye ngengqondo nangokwezesondo, wayengenanto yokulala naye.
Maqabane, nikela ingqalelo koku. Wayenomdla kwaye ethandana neqabane lakhe, kwaye wayemfuna ngengqondo nangokwesondo, kodwa wayengaziva nto. Le ngxaki AKUKHO malunga nomtsalane, imalunga nokubiyela ngengqondo / ukufunda. Uninzi lokuqalisa kwakhona luya kukuxelela, nam ndibandakanyiwe, ukuba babenamaqabane afumene anomtsalane ngakumbi emva koko babebukele iphonografi, kodwa abanakuva nto.
Wayephika ukusebenzisa kakubi nayiphi na into kunye nokusebenzisa nayiphi na imithi, kwaye iimviwo zakhe zomzimba kunye neelabhoratri (kuquka neprofayili ye-hormonal) ziqhelekileyo.
Ezinye iinkcazo eziqhelekileyo zabafana abancinci abane-ED zizinto ezinje ngokusetyenziswa kweziyobisi, ukusetyenziswa kwamayeza, imiba ye-organic (hormone). Zonke ezi bezikhutshelwe lo mfana. Wayesempilweni kwaye engasebenzisi iziyobisi.
Uhlolo lwezengqondo ukulawula ukuphazamiseka kwemizwelo okanye ukuxhalabisa
Enye inkcazo eqhelekileyo yabantwana abaselula i-ED kubangelwa ukukhathazeka / ukukhathazeka kwemizwelo. Ezi zilawulwa ngaphandle. Kwakhona, wayenempilweni, kwaye esebenza ngokupheleleyo kunye noononophala, kungekhona kunye naye.
Kwixesha elidlulileyo, isigulane sinokuthi sifumaneke ngokuziphatha ngokunyanzela ngokwesondo kunye ne-paraphilia, kodwa xa efika unyango, wanikezela ngengxaki yokuzibandakanya ngokwesini
Le ndoda yayine-LOW-libido kwiqabane layo, kodwa ngokucacileyo hayi ngoononophala. I-Naysayers ibanga ukuba "abasebenzisi bezonyango abanyanzelekileyo" banomnqweno ophezulu wesini "emva koko abasebenzisi abanganyanzelekanga. Ngokucacileyo kwakungekho imeko yalo mfo. Ngapha koko, oku akunjalo kwimeko yokuqalisa kwakhona. Ukuba umntu akakwazi ukuhlambalaza ngaphandle koononophala, okanye akanakho ukuqhuba ngesondo kunye nomlingane wakhe, kodwa unqwenela uononophala, oku bubungqina bemeko yesondo. Ngapha koko, xa abafana beyeka iphonografi ngamanye amaxesha baya kwi "flatline" kwaye banamava amancinci kwi-libido iiveki / iinyanga. Ngokucacileyo ayisiyonto iphakamileyo ye-libido, kodwa ke ubungqina bobukhoboka okanye imeko yesondo.
Ndithathe ngaphezulu konyaka ukuze ndikwazi ukuphulula amalungu esini ngaphandle kwe-porn. Ngokucacileyo ayisiyi-sex drive ephezulu, kukungasebenzi kakuhle kwe-erectile.
isigulane safundiswa ukuba sigweme nayiphi na into echazwe ngokwesini
Watshelwa ukuba aqalise kwakhona. Ukuqalisa kwakhona ixesha elithile ngaphandle kokuvuselela ngokwesini ukwenzela ukuba ubuchopho bakho buphinde bube nobuzwe kwaye bufanele ukuba uvuselelwe ngumntu onyanisekileyo. Ukuqalisa kwakhona kusebenze.
Oku kusetshenziswe ngumgqirha ukuba aqale inkqubo yokuqonda
Iingcali zincenga ukuqala kwakhona.
Emva kweenyanga ze-8, isigulane sichaza ukufumana i-orgasm ephumelelayo kunye nokunyuka. Wahlaziya ulwalamano lwakhe naloo mfazi, kwaye ngokuthe ngcembe baphumelela ekunandeleni izinto ezilungileyo zesondo.
Kanye emveni kokuninzi. Ukuqalisa kwakhona kuyasebenza. Waqala ukubona ukuphuculwa okujikeleze iiveki ze-6, kwaye ngeenyanga ze-8 wayenokusebenza ngokupheleleyo ngokwesondo kwaye waphinda wafumana i-libido kwiqabane lakhe. Inyaniso yokuba kumthathe iinyanga ezisi-8 ikhupha ithuba "lexesha lokuphikisa" njengesizathu. Njengokuphambana njengoko kuvakala, oku kucetyisiwe ngabantu abambalwa. Ngokuqinisekileyo "ayiqhelekanga" ukuba umfana osempilweni afune iinyanga ukufumana olunye ulwakhiwo.
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