Abanye abantu bayawuthanda umya, kodwa mna ndawuthanda.
Bendiya kuvuka, ndibe netoke. Okanye iqela lamathokheni. Kwaye qhubeka imini yonke de ndilungele ukulala ebusuku xa ndiza kuba nee-bong hits ngaphambi kokulala.
Yonke enye i-100 yeedola endiyifumeneyo (kwaye ndafumana umvuzo omhle kakhulu kumntu olingana nam) ndaya embizeni, ukuthetha.
Ndanditshaya ngaphezu kwakhe nabani na endimaziyo okanye endimaziyo.
Ndanditshaya rhoqo ngeyure ukusuka ngexesha endandineminyaka eli-16 okanye eli-17 ukuya kutsho kwi-24.
Ndifuna wazi ukuba nangona intsangu yayingeyonjongo yam yokukhobokisa ngokwasemzimbeni, ndandilikhoboka layo kakhulu.
Uzamile ukuyeka? Amaxesha amaninzi. Ayizange ihlale ngaphezulu kweentsuku ezi-5.
Ingqondo ihlala ilungelelanisa ukukhotyokiswa. Inokuthi, "ithokheni enye ayizukuba buhlungu." Uyayazi i-drill. Ngalo lonke ixesha ulungile ngezizathu.
Ekugqibeleni ndayeka ngokupheleleyo.
Ndandingumntu ophumeleleyo kwaye ndandiyazi ukuba andiyidingi okanye andiyifuni kwaye ukuyeka kwakungenakunqandwa.
Xa ndayekayo, andizange nakanye ndifumane nentsangu.
Kwakunzima kakhulu. Iinyanga ezininzi ze-flalining ngandlela zonke. Akukho ntlantsi ebomini. Ngaphandle kokuba ndidibene nale ntombazana intsha kwaye ingqalelo yam yayigxile kuyo. Into yokuba ndisazi ukuba akazukufuna intsangu njengesoka yaba ngumnqweno wokugqibela wokuba ndiyeke nangona ndingazange ndimxelele loo nto okanye ndithethe ngentsangu yam.
Kakuhle mhla ndadibana naye ndandigqibele ukutshaya. Ngenxa yakhe, ndiye ndakwazi ukubujonga kwakhona ubomi bam kwaye ndingaphindeli phantsi, ndiphinde ndibuyele, njl.
Kutshanje ndiyekile utywala. Ndaziva ndingento yanto ebomini bam kangangeenyanga eziliqela. Kodwa andizange ndaphinda ndasela. Ndandingengomntu othanda intsangu ngalendlela ndandiyiyo, kodwa ndandivakalelwa kukuba iyabathintela ubomi bam kwaye ndandingasoze ndihambe imini ndingaselanga 3 ebusuku ngamanye amaxesha 4 okanye 5. Ndandingayithandi loo mvakalelo yosoloko ndifuna okungakumbi. .
Ndicinga ukuba zonke iziyobisi ziyafana kwindlela yokuyeka ukushiya ungenanto, i-dopamine ephantsi, kwaye akukho ndlela kodwa ukulima. Ndicinga ukuba umlutha wesondo womelele ngenxa yokuba ingqondo yethu inzulu kangakanani, endiyifunde apha kuGary noMarnia kunye neYBOP.
Kodwa isitshixo sokuyeka sihlala sinje: buyisela indlela yokuziphatha ekhobokisayo ngenye into. Ndandinentombi yam entsha endandiza kugxila kuyo kwaye oku kwenza ukuyeka intsangu kube lula.
Abafana abancinci apha abangenayo intombi kwaye bayeka i-PMO - banobunzima kuba kufuneka bafumane indlela entsha yokuziphatha ukuze bathathe indawo ye-vacuum eyazaliswa yi-PMO.
Ndive ibekwa kanje. Unegadi kwaye kukho ukhula olukhulu oludala kwaye uyalugrumba. Ngoku kukho umngxuma omkhulu omdala kwibhedi yakho yeentyatyambo kwaye kufuneka ubeke into apho kungenjalo olunye ukhula luya kuntshula phaya phezulu.
Esona sitshixo sikhulu: ukutshintsha indlela yokuziphatha kunye nento ekuncede ngayo, indlela yokuziphatha ekhobokisayo, ngenye into.
Ingaba ukuziphatha kwakho likhoboka lakho kukwenzela ntoni? Kwimeko yam, intsangu yandinceda ukuba ndithintele isithukuthezi ebesiya kuba sisithuba esifutshane singonwabi kodwa ixesha elide bekuya kuba buhlungu ngokwaneleyo ukuba ndenze utshintsho oluhle ebomini bam ngokukhawuleza (njengokudibana nabasetyhini.)
Ukuba uya kuyeka i-PMO okanye ukhula okanye utywala, kufuneka ufumanise ukuba yeyiphi imingxuma eya kushiya ebomini bakho kwaye kufuneka uyigcwalise ngokucophelela. Khetha into enempilo, kwaye ungavumeli it ube likhoboka. Ndichitha ixesha elincinci kakhulu kwi-Intanethi ngoku kwaye oko kuvula indawo yezinto ezintsha endonwabile ngazo. Ndicinga ukuba le ngcamango yokwenza into ethatha indawo yokuziphatha yakudala ibaluleke kakhulu.
Abafana abaye baphola baye bafumana into entsha ethatha indawo ye-PMO yokuziphatha. Ngokwesiqhelo ubudlelwane kodwa ndicinga ukuba akusoloko kunjalo. Kodwa kufuneka kubekho into endaweni yayo. Ukuba ulikhoboka le-PMO, kwaye awunabudlelwane, ungakuvumeli oko kukuyekise ukuyeka. Kodwa i-odolo yakho yokuqala yeshishini kufuneka ibe kukufumana into yokutshintsha ixesha le-PMO kwaye nayiphi na i-PMO ibikuzisela yona, okanye mhlawumbi ukuphinda ubuyele umva phantse akunakuphepheka.
Iingcinga zethu akufunekanga zikholwe.
Xa besixelela ukuba “kulungile, ukukroba nje okuncinane” okanye nokuba yintoni na. Yiyo loo nto ukuziphatha ngokupheleleyo, ukuyeka ngokupheleleyo kwaye ngokupheleleyo, yeyona ndlela ilungileyo yokuyeka iphonografi, IMHO.
Abo baphumeleleyo, kwaye ndifunde inani leeakhawunti zabo ngoku apha, benza njalo ngokuyeka ngokupheleleyo, ngokupheleleyo, ngokupheleleyo, 100%. Basenokuthi baphinde babuyele emva kodwa yinto encinci kakhulu ngempazamo. Ukuphulula amalungu esini kuyenye into, kodwa “ukukroba nje iinzwakazi ezithile” okanye nantoni na, yenye into eyahlukileyo.
Ukuba uyayeka i-PMO oko kuthetha ukuba ngokuqinisekileyo UNGAZE UZE ujonge i-porn EVER EVER nokuba ingqondo yakho ikuxelela ntoni.
Iyamangalisa indlela abantu abakholelwa ngayo iingqondo zabo. Iindaba: Iingcinga ziyaxoka.
Ukuba uzibophelele ngokupheleleyo ekuyekeni, uyaqonda ukuba UYA kuba neengcinga zokuba OKUNYE UKUJONGA KULUNGILE kwaye aniyi kukhangela kunjalo. Iingcamango zixoka. Ingqondo yakho iya kukuxelela zonke IINTLOBO zezinto kwaye zonke ziBUBUXOKI.
Uzicingela nje, "le nto u-Emerson athi iya kwenzeka. Iingcinga zam ziyaxoka.” Emva koko ugalela amanzi abandayo kumalungu akho angasese kwaye uyokwenza umsebenzi, nokuba yintoni na. Uyayitshintsha indawo okuyo, wenza into ekuthathayo, nokuba ngu-3 ekuseni. Nokuba yintoni na kwaye nanini na, UZISUSA kwisihendo ngalo mzuzu.
Yiloo nto ufumana abafana ngale ngempumelelo. Iingcinga zakho ZIYA kuxoka kwaye okwenzekayo ke kuxhomekeke koku: Ngaba uya kuqonda ukuba ingqondo yakho ikuxokile, kwaye ngaba uya kuzikhupha kwisilingo kwangoko?
Ndibhale ngokuyeka kwam intsangu notywala namhlanje. Ezi zazinzima kakhulu * kodwa into endayenzayo kukuyeka ngokupheleleyo i-100% kwaye xa ndandihendwa ukuba ndibe ne-bong enye okanye i-shot enye, ndazixelela, "ngqondo, uyaxoka kwakhona, sibheda esikhohlisayo" kwaye Ndazisusa esilingweni ngokuya ndenza enye into.
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