Ukunyanga okulula kwezilwanyana ezingcolileyo
Ndandidla ngokuba ngumlutha wobugqwetha obunzima kangangokuba kubonakala ngathi, andinakukwazi ukuhamba ngaphezu kweeveki ezimbini ngaphandle koononophala (ngokuqhelekileyo ngaphantsi). Emva phantse konyaka ndihlala ndibuyele umva kwaye ndisithi kum "ngekhe ndiphinde" ngalo lonke ixesha ndiphinda ndibuyele, ekugqibeleni ndithathe inyathelo lokwenyani ukuthintela eso sangqa siphindaphindayo. Ndiyazi ukuba ngokude ndine-intanethi ndiza kuphinda ndibuyele ngaphandle nokuba ndizama kangakanani. Ke ndiyikhuphile indibaniselwano yam ye-intanethi. Iinyanga ezi-3.
Iyahlekisa indlela esebenza ngayo ingqondo yethu. Xa i-intanethi yayilapho, ingqondo yayisazi ukuba unokufumana iphonografi nangaliphi na ixesha afuna ngalo ngenxa yoko izibongozo zazikho. Kodwa, xa i-intanethi ihambileyo…. AKUKHO nto. Akukho bantu. Ingqondo ngoku iyazi ukuba i-porn ihambile kwaye nokuba ibirhalela i-porn ayizukuyifumana, kuba ayinakukwazi, ngoku kungekho intanethi. Iintsuku zokuqala zinokuba nzima kodwa emva koko ziye zifumane ii-muco ngcono kwaye kube lula. Inxusa ukuba lihambe kwaye liba ngcono njengoko ixesha liqhubeka.
Ukuyeka i-intanethi kungakusiza kuphela ngokuqalisa kwakhona, kodwa ukuba unomdlavuza we-facebook okanye into efana nayo iyahamba kwakhona. Ukungaxeli umxholo wakho jikelele uphucula kakhulu. Kwaye unyanzelekile ukuba uphume apho kwaye udibana nabantu kwaye wenze izinto ngobomi bokwenene kunokuhlala phambi kwesikrini sakho kwaye udibanise okanye ucofe iqhosha lokuvuselela kwi-facebook.
Ke, ukuba ulikhoboka elinzima kwaye awunako ukuhamba ngaphezulu kweentsuku ezimbalwa ngaphandle kwe-porn nokuba ungazama kangakanani, yeka i-intanethi iinyanga ezimbalwa de ibe ngcono. Kwaye, ewe, cima / utshise nayiphi na imifanekiso engamanyala kwi-intanethi onokuba nayo. Kwaye ukuba ufuna i-intanethi ukukhangela imeyile okanye ukwenza izinto ezibalulekileyo, unokuhlala unomhlobo nge-intanethi ukuze usebenzise eyakhe, u-ceretanlly wont PMO phambi kwakhe.
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