I-Porn and Perception: Ingaba Ubunzima Bakho Bokuqhayisa Umbono Wakho? (2010)

I-Porn inokutshintsha indlela obona ngayo ubomi bakho.

Ukuxhatshazwa koonografi kunokuguqula ukuqondaXa ndibuya kwakhona, izinto kuseto lwasentlalweni ziya kuba nzima. Iyahlakesi. Xa ndinencoko kanye emva kokubuyela umva, ndithetha izinto entlokweni yam ngathi, "Kutheni ndithetha nalo mntu nje? Kutheni befuna ukuthetha nam? Yintoni imali yam, okanye isondo endiyifumanayo ngale ncoko? ” Kunjengokuba xa ndiphinda ndibuya kwakhona kufuneka kubekho isizathu sokubanda ngamatye, ekuvunyelwene ngaso, malunga nezibonelelo zawo omabini amaqela phambi kokuba sithethe omnye nomnye. I-LOL Yile nto ubuchopho benzayo kum xa ndingu-PMO. Kuyinto entle.

Ngaba ukusebenzisa iphonografi rhoqo kunokutshintsha umbono wabasebenzisi ngeendlela ezingalindelekanga? Kwisithuba senyanga okanye ezimbini zokumisa iphonografi, ababengabasebenzisi bebhala kwiforum yewebhusayithi yam bechaza ngokucacileyo kunye nethemba, kunye nokungoneliseki kangako ngobomi babo. Baphinde babone abafazi kunye nobudlelwane ngokwahlukileyo. Kungenzeka ukuba iimpembelelo zoononophala zihlasela kakhulu kunokuba zivunywa ngokubanzi-nangona kunzima ukulinganisa. Omnye umntu wathi:

Eyesibhozo okanye iminyaka esithoba edlulileyo, ndaqala ukubukela iifrasi imihla ngemihla. Namhlanje ndingum21. Ndiyidlwengula ubuncinane kanye ngosuku, kodwa ngokuphindaphindiweyo ukuya kumaxesha e-6. Ngokuqinisekileyo ndandicinga ukuba ayinalo impembelelo ebuntwini bam, kodwa ngolunye usuku ndaqonda ukuba ndihlobo lomntu ohlukeneyo. Xa i-horny ndiyabona abafazi njengento enelisayo, njenge-vaginas eneemilenze ezimbini. Ndiyazi ukuba oku kuvakalekile. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, bonke abahlobo bam becinga ngendlela efanayo, ngoko ke andizange ndifumane isheke.

Utshintsho lokuqonda lufihlakele. Ihlala ithi chu kwaye ayifane ibonakale kumntu ochaphazelekayo. Ewe kunokubonakala kuphela emva kokubona ngokucacileyo. (Thelekisa olo tshintsho kunye nokungasebenzi kakuhle kwe-erectile, uphawu olubonakalayo abasebenzisi abanobucayi abaninzi ingxelo evela kwiividiyo ze-intanethi zamahhala zafumaneka ngokubanzi kwiminyaka emihlanu edlulileyo.)

Kungenzeka ukuba ukuthelekisa imbonakalo yabasebenzisi banamhlanje Ngexesha ukusebenzisa kunye neembono zabo ngeenyanga ezimbalwa emva kokusetyenziswa koononophelo kuyama iza kutyhila ngaphezu kokuthembela ezikhawulezayo ngohlobo lweengxelo ezizimeleyo, okt, ukubuza abasebenzisi bangoku malunga nefuthe le-porn.

Nazi izicatshulwa zakutshanje ezisuka kwizithuba zomsebenzisi wexesha elide loononophelo. Emva kwenyanga engenazo i-porno, wagqiba kwelokuba athuthukise iividiyo ezingcolileyo zoononophala ngaphandle kokuhlambalaza nokubhala ingxelo yakhe.

Iingoma zesithathu neyesine zazifana neyesibini: zitsholwa kakubi kwaye abathathi-nxaxheba babonakala bebandakanyekile kwizinto abazenzayo. Iyesine yayingumfanekiso osondeleyo okwakubonwabisayo kakhulu kwixesha elidlulileyo, kodwa ngenxa yezizathu ezithile zavela namhlanje ukuba zifana nomboniso wokupheka apho umcuphi wayelungiselela uhlobo oluthile lokupheka inyama.

Ividiyo yesihlanu yiyodwa kuphela endiyibukele kuyo yonke imizuzu-eyisixhenxe. Umtsalane wayefakela intombi yakhe intombi (ndiyathembeli ngokuqinisekileyo umfazi) ngaphambi kokulala ngesondo. Wayekrokraza ngefayili, emcela ukuba avimbele ikhamera, kwaye angabonakalisi kwi-genitalia yakhe, kodwa wafuna ukuba enze zombini. Emva koko washiya ikhamera ebusweni ukuya kwifilimu (ngokuchasene nemiyalelo yakhe) ngelixa bexhamla.

Umba ongeyena unomdla wokubambisana kwabo undikhathaze kakhulu, kodwa ndimele ndivume ukuba ndijonge olu hlobo lwezinto eziphathekayo ngaphambili kwaye ndiyihoxisa ngokupheleleyo loo nto. Nangona kunjalo, ekuqaleni kokubili babonakala beyonwabile. Emva koko, lo mfana waqala ukulala ngesondo, kodwa kwakukudlwengulwa. Eli bhinqa laqhankqalaza ngokucacileyo. Umfana akazange amphulaphule ukucela, kwaye akazange abonakale atshintshe ijubane lakhe / i-lubrication ekuphenduleni imibhikisho yakhe. Kungekudala, lo mfazi wabonakala ebuyela ngaphakathi ngaphakathi, engathethi nto kodwa ngezinye iinkqubo (ngokubandezeleka, kwacaca), ngokucacileyo ukusebenza nzima ukunyamezela. Xa lo mntu wagqiba ukugqiba, lo wesifazane wagubha ngokukhululeka ngakumbi kunokuba ndicinga ukuba akunokwenzeka, waza waqala ukukhwaza ngomoya othulileyo. Ndiyazi ngokucacileyo ukuba kukho iividiyo ezithandabuzayo, kwaye (ngokubuhlungu) ndibone abaninzi, ngoko ndiqinisekile ukuba oku kube yintlungu ngokwenene. Ndiyazi ukuba ndiza kuba ne-orgasm kule vidiyo ukuba ndandidla i-masturbating, kwaye ndiyazi ukuba ndiza kuhoxisa zonke iinkathazo eziphazamisayo, mhlawumbi nokuba ziqhutywe okanye zifake ngokusemthethweni.

Wavala loo mkhangeli kwaye wabamba iingcamango zakhe:

Ngoku ndiyabona ukuba uninzi lwephonografi endiyibukeleyo ayisiyonto imnandi okanye ukuxhaphaza. Isimo sam siyatshintsha. Kwixesha elidlulileyo, bendikhe ndadlulisela phambili ngokukhawuleza nakweyiphi na into yokwabelana ngesondo kwilungu lobufazi okanye unxibelelwano oluqinisekileyo lweemvakalelo kwi-anal bits. Kwakhona, kwixa elidlulileyo, bendisoloko ndinenzondo enkulu emfazini wam ngenxa yokungavumi ukulingisa iphonografi, kodwa namhlanje ndiziva ndizisola ngendlela endimphathe ngayo, kunye nombulelo wokuba kubonakala ngathi uyandithanda ngokungathandabuzekiyo. Ewe, hayi ngaphandle kwemeko, kodwa ngokungazingci.

Kwiveki kamva wachaza ngakumbi ngamava akhe:

Kuze kube kutshanje, ndikholelwa ukuba andizange ndibe ne-sex ngokwaneleyo, kwaye ndandingenangqiqo kuba ndatshata nomfazi okhetha isondo esingaphezu kweyodwa ngalunye usuku kwaye akahlali kwindawo yokungena ngokungakhethiyo kuyo yonke i-orifice. Kodwa ke ndiphumelele ngeentsuku ze-31 ngaphandle kokubukela iphonografi, ukuhlaziya i-masturbating kuphela, ukuzama ngokwenene ukuxabisa umfazi ngenxa yesini sakhe ngokwemiqathango yakhe, nokunyanzela ngokunyanisekileyo ukukhumbuza / ukunyanzeliswa okugqithiseleyo okuye kwaqhubeka ukugxila kubuntu bam ngaphezu kweminyaka elishumi edlulileyo .

Ukulandela oku kuncitshiswa kokulinga kwam 'intetho yam yesondo,' kuye kwabonakala ukuba ugxininiso kwinkcubeko yethu lubeka kwimicimbi yesondo, okanye ngokuchanekileyo, ugxininiso kwimicimbi yesondo endinayo 'inkululeko' yokuphucula njengelungu lenkcubeko yethu, ibe yingozi ekukhuleni kwam ngokweemvakalelo, emtshatweni wam, kwisimo sam sengqondo kubasetyhini njengodidi, kwaye ndikuthintele ububanzi bamava am.

Andikalilinganisi ixesha endilichithe ukuphulula amalungu esini, iphonografi, umbono ocacileyo, ndicacisa ukungoneliseki ngokwesini njengokungoneliseki bubomi, njl. Andikabikho kukhululeka ekunyanzelweni ngokwesini, kodwa ndiziva ngokwenyani, ngokokuqala ngqa kwiminyaka eyi-16, ukuba ubomi bam busenakho ukubonelela ngamava anzulu, anentsingiselo ngaphandle kokubandakanya icandelo lezesondo elingenaxhala. Lo mbono wenkululeko kunyanzeliso yinoveli ngokupheleleyo.

Iingcamango kunye nokunganeliseki ngokusemgangathweni ngobomi bam zesondo abubuyanga kunye naluphi na uhlobo lwabo oluqhelekileyo. Umbono wam wam nomfazi ushintsha, naye. Ubonakala ekhangayo ngokukhawuleza. Oku kungabakho ukuphuhlisa okulungileyo!

funda ukujonga ngakumbi ukutshintshwa kweengxelo ezibhalwe ngabasebenzisi abedlule. Jonga kwakhona uLance Tracy's Ukuzonwabisa kwabantu abadala: Ukuchitha i-American Idol, i-documentary ehlakaniphile, ehlekisayo malunga nokulinga okwabonisa into efanayo.

Unokujonga njani ukujonga iifostile ekutshintsheni umbono? Mhlawumbi ngokuhlambalaza i-circuitry reward in ngengqondo. Lo mmandla wokuqala wengqondo ubala indlela esilibona ngayo ilizwe. Xa ibhalansi sidla ngokubona izinto ngokucacileyo nangakumbi nethemba. Xa kunjalo ngaphandle kwemali iimbonakalo zethu zihlala ziphosakele.

Amayeza, uxinzelelo kunye nokuvuselela ngaphezulu kunokutshintsha indlela esiyijonga ngayo. Xa oko kwenzeka, ukugxila kwethu, izinto eziphambili kunye nexabiso lethu lingatshintsha-konke ngaphandle kokuqonda kwethu. Kwimeko yokuvuselela kakhulu, ukutshintshwa kukukhokelela kwinqanaba eliphezulu. Njengoko uRobert Sapolsky wachaza ngo-biologist Kutheni amaqwarha engazifumani izilonda:

Ukunyaniseka kwimizimbilini kunokukwenza ukuba ubomi bubonakale bubuhlunguUkuqhuma okungafunekiyo kwendalo kwamava okwenziwa kunye nemvakalelo kunye nolonwabo kuvusa amanqanaba angaqhelekanga okuhlala. Oku kunemiphumo emibini. Njengowokuqala, kungekudala asisayi kuphinda siyiqonde intlebendwane yolonwabo ebangelwe ngamagqabi ekwindla, okanye kukukrwaqula komntu olungileyo, okanye ngesithembiso somvuzo oza kubakho emva kwexesha elide, elinzima nelifanelekile. Esinye isiphumo kukuba, emva kwethutyana, side siqhelane nala manxuwa ongezelelweyo okuqina. … Intlungu yethu kukuba silamba ngakumbi.

Siyabulela indlela ubuchopho bethu basebenza ngayo, ukuvuselela okungapheliyo ehluleka ukwanelisa; iyakushiya umntu osondeleyo. Omnye unokufumana ukuzibuza ngokuzenzekelayo malunga zonke umfazi, “Ngaba yena zifakwe kwi…?" Kananjalo nayiphi na inzondo evela ngokungahambelani phakathi kwenyani yakhe yokwenyani kunye nenyani yokwenyani inokuphakamisa ukuthandabuza malunga neqabane / umanyano, kumenze angabinangqondo kwaye azicaphukele. Uya kugxila kulwalamano lwakhe akwenzi nikela, kungekhona kuyo ntoni. Akukho ukwaneliseka okumele kuphele apho. Abantu bavame ukufaka iimvakalelo ezinjalo kwezinye iindawo zobomi. Ukhona umntu?

Okulusizi kukuba, umbono ogqwethekileyo ozelwe kukungasebenzi kakuhle kwemithambo-luvo unokwenza umntu amelane kakhulu nokuqonda eyona nto imqhubayo okanye into enokunciphisa usizi lwakhe. Ingqondo yakhe yomzimba imenza aqiniseke ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba kuphela lakhe izidakamizwa ezikhethiweyo ziya kubuyisa iimvakalelo zakhe ezilungileyo.

Kungathatha inyanga engathandekiyo okanye ezimbini ukubuyisela ukuqonda okuqhelekileyo emva kokuqhelana nokuziqhelanisa. Kodwa njengoko iimvakalelo ezingcungcuthekisayo ziba lula, kulula ukufumana ulwaneliseko kuzo zonke iinkalo zobomi.


Imizekelo embalwa:

Kanye ngexesha lokuzibandakanya kwethu kwisondo, ndahamba ixesha leeveki ezimbini apho ndingazange ndihlaziye. Ndaphinda ndaphazamiseka ngokukhawuleza kwimifanekiso engamanyala engamanyala eyandulelayo. Ke loo nto yayinomdla kakhulu. Ndaqala ukuzonda izinto ngokwam, ngaphambi kokuba andinike "isizathu" sokuba, kwaye andizange ndibone i-orgasm kwiiveki ezimbini, into enhle kakhulu engakaze ibe yinto-kwaye andinayo ingqondo eninzi.


Ngolwazi endinalo ngoku, kufana nokuba amehlo am ekugqibeleni avulekele kule nto inyanzelisiweyo bendiyenza kum uninzi lobomi bam. Ngale ntsasa ndivuke ndimile kakhulu, emva kokuba ndiphuphe into entle.

Iphupha kwakunzima kakhulu, kodwa okokuqala ngethuba elide kakhulu ndicinga ukuba ndiyazi oko kwakuzama ukukuxelela. Kwingxenye yalo, ndandinomfazi omhle. Kwakuyimeko enokukhathazeka- wayelele ngoluhlobo oluthile lwamaphepha kunye nesifuba saza savuleka kwaye ndandidla kakhulu. Ndenyuka kuye ndaqala ukumncelisa ngesifuba sakhe, kodwa ngokukhawuleza xa ndizama ukubeka izandla zam phezu komzimba wakhe phantsi kwephepha, yonke into ndivakalelwa kukuba yayisigxina seembalo zensimbi kunye neencingo. Ngaphambi kwam amehlo enu oku kuphila okulungileyo, ukuphefumla kwancitshiswa kumnye uhlobo lomshini.

Ndicinga ukuba esi sisifaniso esifanelekileyo sendlela endiye ndadibana ngayo nabasetyhini kangako kubomi bam obudala. Ukufuna ukonwaba kunye nokuhlutha ngokusebenzisa i-masturbation kunye noonografi, "ndiyilungiselele" into enokuthi ibe yinto enhle, inike-kwaye ithathe, into ephilayo yokusebenzisana. Kwakungulo matshini, kwaye umatshini waphuma kulawulo.


Into yokugqibela endizibona ngayo i-porno yandifundisa kukuba yonke into isondo, ukuba oko kuyenza ingqiqo. Ndiziva ndibona iifostile zixutywe, zifudumele, zitshatileyo kunye nezinye izinto ezininzi entloko. Enyanisweni, kubonakala ngathi banokutshintshana ukuba ubomi bokwenene buyinyaniso. Kuphantse kuvakalelwa kukuba into yokuba umntu wayeyindoda kwaye wayencibilike entloko yam isisombululo esaneleyo sokuba ndibaqwalasele. Leyo yimiqobo yodwa inqobo endiyenayo yokukhetha umdla.

Cinga ngesiseko solunye lwam uloyiko lwe-OCD yamvanje, uloyiko lokuba ngumntwana ohamba kunye. Ndikhumbula iividiyo ezimbalwa ezingamanyala endizibonileyo ezinabafazi abancinci ukuba ingqondo yam indixelela ukuba bajonge abantwana. Kunzima ukungakhangeli (kuba ukungakhangeli kuvelisa uxinzelelo kodwa ukujonga kuya kukhokelela kwezinye iingxaki nangayiphi na indlela) kodwa ndiziva ngathi abo bafazi kufuneka bajongeke bebancinci kunokuba kunjalo. Ingqondo yam isebenzisa oku njengesiseko esithi "Ufanele ubathande abakwishumi elivisayo abancinci okanye abantwana" kwaye awurhaleli ngokwalo mba.

Imizimba yabo ibonakala ikhule ngokupheleleyo (ndiyayazi le nto) kodwa xa benxibe ndibabone bengathandeki. Ndiphantse ndaziva ngathi i-intanethi ye-intanethi ikuvumela ukuba ungayihoyi imiba yomfazi onokuyifumana ingathandekiyo endaweni yokufumana into oyifumanayo inomdla ngokwenene. Kule meko, nangona ndingabufumani ubuso babo okanye iinkalo ezithile zazo ezinomtsalane, imizimba yabo eneetoni yanele. Ndingagxila kwiziklip ezigxininisa ukuba… ndinokukhetha kunye neziqeshana endizifunayo.

Ndiphantse ndaziva ngathi ndenze i-monster yase-frankenstein yomtsalane. Olunye uhlengahlengiso oluchuliweyo lweempawu endizithandayo xa zijongwe ngendlela efanelekileyo azithandeki. Ngokusisiseko, iphonografi yenza ukunqunyulwa okubonakalayo. Inayo yonke i-wham bams yendalo enokubanakho ukugxila kuphela kwi-wham bams oyithandayo kwaye ngaphandle kwesidingo sokukhathalela iphakheji yonke.


Ndiqale ukudwelisa izizathu zokuba ndiyithande iphonografi, kodwa ndaqonda ukuba bendiqala ukucula iindumiso zayo kwaye ayisiyiyo le subreddit. Ke nditshintsha umbuzo wakho entloko kwaye ndidwelise ukuba kutheni mna HANANI nekiso.

  1. Yenza umgangatho ongeyomfuneko wokuphila. Ndithetha ngomzimba kubo bobabini abesilisa apha. Ngokubanzi, sifuna ukubukela abantu abanomdla besabelana ngesondo, kwaye iphonografi ngokungafaniyo isebenzisa abantu abanomtsalane kakhulu. Oku kundenzele iingxaki apho ndiziva ukuba andilingani ngelixa kwangaxeshanye ndingafumani bafana bayilinganayo imigangatho yam.
  2. Yinkcitho enkulu yexesha. Ndingafumana iphonografi kangangoko ndifuna nanini na naphi na apho ndifuna khona. Kukubonelela okungapheliyo kokuphazamiseka. Ndingaziphucula, kodwa endaweni yoko ndibukele abantu abangcono kunam ngesondo.
  3. Ithintela ukuba ndidibanise abantu. Ngokubukela iifoto kunokuba uphume ekukhangela ubulili kwaye usebenze kumdlalo wam, ndivakalelwa kukuba ndiye ndatshutshiswa kwaye ndafa.
  4. Yenza i-loop ingxelo ye-mediocrity. Thatha ezi zizathu zintathu zingasentla: Andiziva ngathi ndinomtsalane, andiziva ngathi abantu endinokudibana nabo ngokwenyani kwaye ibhedi inomtsalane, itya ixesha lasimahla endinokuthi ndilisebenzise ukuphucula mna, kwaye iyagungqa ukukhula kwam ngokweemvakalelo. Kukho amaxesha apho ndiziva ngathi akukho sizathu sokugxila ekuphuculeni ngokwakho kuba ukonwaba kukuzenzekelayo kwiminwe yam 24/7.

Ke ukuphendula umbuzo wakho, into endiyithiyileyo malunga ne-porn yinto endandiyithanda ngayo: ukubaleka endikunikiweyo ebomini bam. Ndonwabile kakhulu ukukunika kwaye ndisebenze kum kunokuba ndihlale ndihlala ndihleli ngelixa ndibukele abanye abantu banakho, benze kwaye babe zizinto endifuna ukuba nazo, zenze ube ndim.

https://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/xf3e2/how_many_of_you_love_watching_porn/c5lspxo/


Xa siqalisa kwakhona, ixesha elininzi lichithwa kwiimagazini zithetha malunga nokuba abafazi banomdla kangakanani xa sihamba ngaphandle kwe-PMO kwaye ngesiqhelo sithetha ngomtsalane njengakumtsalane womzimba. Ndiyazibuza nje ukuba ukhona omnye umntu ophawula ezinye iimpawu ezenza ukuba umfazi abe nomtsalane?

Ndibukele iMidlalo yeOlimpiki kwaye kwenzeka into engaqhelekanga xa ndibukele ezemidlalo yabasetyhini. Ndigudle imizimba efanelekileyo kwaye eshushu. Kuba kube kanye ndiqalisile ukucinga ukuba inyani yokuba iimbaleki zabasetyhini zishushu kungekuphela ngenxa yokuba zinomtsalane kodwa kuba zilungile kwimidlalo yazo. Ukuba uthatha intenetya njengomzekelo. Iziketi ezimfutshane kunye nemilenze zilungile nayo yonke into, kodwa andikaze ndiyiphawule indlela abathandana ngayo xa benolwazelelo olujolise kubo xa belinde iqela labo ukuba likhonze.

Kwaye ndiyifumene imeko eyandingqongileyo ngokunjalo. Ndabona umfazi oshushu onomtsalane ngolunye usuku kwaye ndaqala ukucinga "Cougar" okanye "milf". Emva koko ndabona ukuba ubambe izandla kwaye uyancuma kunyana wakhe oneminyaka emithathu ubudala. Wayenguye, ngamanye amagama, eyi-m in milf kwaye ubushushu bakhe bushiye iitshathi. Ndibone umfundi omhle waseyunivesithi ehamba edlula kum ngolunye usuku esiya kwisikhululo sikaloliwe kwaye ndabona ukuba wayephethe incwadi yezoqoqosho eshinyeneyo (kujongeka ngathi ndimba amantombazana akrelekrele).

Ungatsho ukuba iesile elishushu okanye i-rack entle ayitsali amehlo am. Kodwa ndicinga ukuba le yimveliso yokubukela iphonografi. Uyabona intombazana ingena kwindawo yesehlo kwaye awuyiniki iesile lempuku malunga nokuba injani, yintoni umdla wayo, into oyaziyo kukuba unento entle (faka amalungu omzimba apha) kwaye uza kubethelelwa. Ke loo ngqondo iyazitshintshela kwindlela obabona ngayo abantu basetyhini ebomini bokwenyani. Emva koko uyaqalisa kwakhona kwaye le ngqondo iqala ukuphela.

Yintoni eyenziwa ngabanye abantu?

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Ngobunye ubusuku, ndandihlala nabahlobo bam bakudala abavela kwisikolo samabanga aphakamileyo. Ndithweswe isidanga kwikholeji kule ntwasahlobo, kodwa base-uni. Ndihle ndaya endlwini yabo e-frat ndisela iziselo kunye ne-shenanigans kunye nethuba lokufumana abantu endandingababoni kwiminyaka edluleyo. (LINK ukuya kumsonto)

Ngokomxholo, kuya kufuneka ndikhankanye ukuba ndibekelwe bucala kubantu abakwiminyaka yam kweli hlobo. Kudala ndisebenza iLOT (iimali mboleko zabafundi abangazibhataliyo), kwaye bambalwa endisebenza nabo badala kakhulu kunam. Ke ngobu busuku yayilixesha lokuqala bendihlala ndikhululekile, imeko yezentlalo okoko ndaqala uhambo lwam lweNoFap ngoMeyi.

Ukuhambahamba nokudibana nabantu, NDIKUBONA umlutha we-porn kwiindawo ezithile zabantu, iintloko zabo zizama ukurhoxa kukhuseleko lwamagxa aphakanyisiweyo. NDAYIVA kwilizwi labo lokumemelela. Ndiyayiqonda indlela ethile yokuzikhusela ngaphakathi kwabo evala amandla abo okugcina unxibelelwano ngamehlo.

Ndifunde isifundo esinamandla: ukuba ungumlutha woononophala, uyayilungiselela loo nto. Ingena kubume bayo kwizenzo zethu ngeendlela ezichuliweyo kuthi ukuba siziphephe.

Ndiyifumana ngoku xa ndifunda malunga neFapstronauts baxela ukuba ngokumangalisayo baqala ukuba nabasetyhini basondele kubo. Bayekile ukuthumela i-telegraphing ukuxhomekeka kwabo kwi-jacking off.

Andiphindi ndibuyele kumkhwa wam wakudala, kuba ngoku ndiyayazi inyani eyoyikisayo: Ungayifihla ngokukhawuleza i-wank stash yakho kwilabhulnethi yeefolda ngaphakathi kweefolda ezifihliweyo njengeefayile ezingaziwayo; unokuthi ubambe ngokufihlakeleyo; kodwa xa uphuma uyonxibelelana nabanye abantu, unokufumana u-dick ngesandla, kuba yakho imikhwa ibonakala.


Ukutshatyalaliswa kunye noononografi kunokukuhlahlela kunye nabasetyhini.

Ngoko ndayenza kwiintsuku ze-32 ngaphandle kwe-PMO. Emva koko ndade ndinikela kwiminqweno yezolo. Ndifuna ukwabelana ngamava endikhoyo namhlanje, kuba ndicinga ukuba yinto ebalulekileyo ndiyifunde.

Ndiye ndalala ngobusuku bokugqibela, ndaphuma nentombazana endikhe ndayibona kutshanje. Siye sathandana kuphela malunga nenyanga (ngokuhambelana nokungafaki kwam). Ngokwesiqhelo xa ndikunye naye siba nexesha elimnandi ngokwenene, ndimfumana enomtsalane, kwaye ethandeka kakhulu. Sikhohlisile ngeenxa zonke kwinyanga ephelileyo kwaye ukusoloko ndivulwa kwaye ndinyikima nzima ngala maxesha.

Ewe namhlanje kwahluke kakhulu. Ndamfumana endicaphukisa, bendijonge ukugoduka, bendingaziva nokuba ndiyabhanxa naye. Kwacaca kum ngokukhawuleza ukuba iphonografi endandiyijonge phezolo yayisonwabisa kakhulu kum ke ingumntu wokwenyani, othe ngokungathandabuzekiyo ulusizi.

Nangona ndinqwenela ukuba ndingazange ndibuyele umva, ndiyavuya kuba ubuncinci ndinokufunda kuwo. I-PMO igxotha indlela ojonga ngayo abasetyhini, iyayiphazamisa ngokupheleleyo. Ndibuyele ebhodini nangona bafana! Ukujija isiphumo sokukhuphela, ndisenza kwiintsuku ezingama-90.

Hlela: Ndongeza oku emva kokufunda iikhomenti. Ndifuna ukugxininisa ukuba i-YMMV-le ndiyintombazana endiye ndaya kuyo ukusuka ekukhathaleleni malunga nokuziva ngesiquphe ngokungathi wayengamanyala amanyala. Ewe, andinakunceda kodwa ndibone ukulungelelaniswa kwam phakathi kokujonga iifoto zobusuku obudlulileyo kwaye ngokukhawuleza ndingamkhathaleli njengomntu.


Uneminyaka eyi-65 ubudala umfana wabhala:

Inkqubo yokulinganisa kwakhona kum ibiyinyani. Kwiintsuku ezingama-70 ubuchopho bam busebenza ngokwahlukileyo kunokuba bendikhumbula ngakumbi kwindawo yesini. Kum, isini esime-3 sex-sex vs. 2 sex sex. Andikabi nawo ama-3 ngokwesini okoko ndaye ndaphinda ndalungelelanisa kodwa ndilungiselela ithuba.

Imveliso elungileyo yokulungelelanisa kwakhona kukuba ubudlelwane phakathi kwabantu (kwakhona, kum) buphuculwe kuba ndijolise kwinto yokwenene ayisiyiyo le ndiyicingayo. I-2 sex sex (i-porn, i-fantasy, i-masturbation njl.) Ngena kuzo zonke ubudlelwane bam ngendlela. Ndacinga ukuba indlela "endizibona" ​​ngayo izinto yile ndlela yayinjalo. Ingqondo yam yanika iinkcazo zokuziphatha kwabanye abantu, ngokuchanekileyo okanye ngokungalunganga, kwaye kwakungekho mntu undixelela ngenye indlela kuba yonke le nto yayiqhubeka entlokweni yam ndedwa njenge-2 yesini esilinganayo yinto endiyenzileyo kuphela. Oku kundikhokelela ekubeni ndicofe okwenzeka ebomini bam ngokusebenzisa umbono wam kwangaphambili wendlela izinto ezazikho ngayo, okanye ngokuchanekileyo, indlela endandizibona ngayo okanye endandifuna ukuba zibekho. Kumnandi ukuhlala ulilolo ubomi bakho ngaphakathi kwentloko yakho ngalo lonke ixesha.


apho amandla amakhulu avela khona

Nditshitshise iintsuku ezingama-91. Kwakukho iintsuku ze-91 kungekho fapping kwaye akukho noononophala. Injongo yam ayikafezekiswa okwangoku, kodwa injongo yam kukungaze ndiphinde ndihlaziye okanye ndijonge iphonografi kwakhona. Andiziva ngathi ndibuyile kwakhona kodwa ayindichaphazeli. ubudlelwane bam nomfazi wam bungcono ngeetoni emva koko bekule minyaka imbalwa idlulileyo. ngcono kuwo omabini amanqanaba omzimba kunye neemvakalelo.

njengoko siqhubeka ngokuqhubeka nofap ngendlela esibaveza ngayo abantu ababhinqileyo kunye nokwabelana ngesondo kuqala ukubuyela kwabafazi 'abaqhelekileyo' akusekho boobs elula kunye nelungu lobufazi ekusebenziseni kwethu, kodwa babe ngabantu abapheleleyo abafanelekileyo ukuba babe nobuhlobo kunye nentlonipho. ukuba siyazivumela ukuba siguquke ngaphandle kokuba ziingxowa zedeshi zizonke siqala ukutshintsha umnqweno wethu wesini esingenantsingiselo ngokungenanjongo kokufuna ubudlelwane obunzulu neqabane lokwenyani. Umntu esinokumthemba nokunxibelelana naye kwinqanaba elinzulu emva koko esele siphumelele ngaphambili.


Kupholile ngokwenene ukukwazi ukuba nabahlobo ababhinqileyo ngoku kwaye ungacingi ngokulala nabo rhoqo. Ndiye ndaqonda ukuba andisayi kujolisa kubafazi njengangaphambili.

Ndive amabali othusayo wokuba uTata akasakhululekanga ukunika iintombi zabo kwishumi elivisayo kuba zibenza bazive bengcolile. Ayisiyiyo loo nto kuphela, umbono wokujonga abahlobo bentombi yam yindlela endingena ngayo.

Ndiyabulela kakhulu ukuba andizukujongana nayo. Uluvo lwakho lonke malunga notshintsho lwe-porn xa sele unentombi.


Iintsuku ze-90-Wamkelekile kwiLizwe leNene

I-NoFap yinkqubela ekhoyo ekhoyo eneempembelelo ezinzulu kwingqondo. Ngeenyanga ezilishumi elinesibini endingazange ndandidlelane nayo nayiphi na into, abantu babezama ukubandakanya nam. Wonke umntu wahluleka ukuhlangabezana nokulindela kwam, kuba ndandisetyenziselwa ukubona yonke into nento endiyifunayo kwi-screen. / r / iasip/ wayenomfanekiso omkhulu weMac kunye negama elibhaliweyo elithi "Mhlawumbi ukuba ulahla imigangatho yakho kancinci, uza kubekwa ngaphezulu".

Kuyinyani, kwaye kuhle kakhulu. Ukusukela ukuyeka iphonografi ndivuswe ngokulula ngabantu, kwaye wonke umntu mhle. Iziphene zikhona kuye wonke umntu, kwaye kulungile, enyanisweni iyathandeka intle indlela esingafezekanga ngayo sonke.


Umfanekiselo wam wabasetyhini kwingqondo yam ucothiswa kancinci ukusuka kwihenyukazi elingenangqondo kubuhle bendalo. Kungenxa yeso sizathu le nto nditsaleleka ngesiquphe kumantombazana angaqhelekanga kwisitalato kwaye ndiqhutywa kukuzibandakanya nawo. Lo mnqweno awusoze ube nam ngaphambili, njengoko ndinokufumana into endinokuba nayo kunokuba ibe kwi-1080p kwilaptop yam.

Okumangalisa kukuba, ukunyuka kwam kwimiba ebomini kuhambelana nendlela umfazi oqhelekileyo anqwenela ngayo ngesondo. I-NoFap ihamba ngokukhawuleza kwaye iyenze ibe yilungu elisebenzayo lempucuko.


Andizange ndidibana nomfazi ongenakufumana ubuncinane into ethile intle malunga. Akukho malunga nokuba ujongeka njani; imalunga ukukwazi kwam ukubona. Iphonografi yayigqibezela loo nxalenye yam iminyaka emininzi, kodwa ndicothisa kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo ndiphume kuloo ndawo- kwaye ndibona ubuhle obuninzi ngokundijikeleza yonke imihla yokuba ndihlala kude nobuxoki obukhulu.

Nantsi inyani, kunye nobuhle, nothando. Yonke enye into yinkcitha nje yobomi bam ..

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