Ukudibanisa inokuba lelona nyathelo lilungileyo elakha lenziwa ngookhokho bethu
Izilwanyana ezanyisayo azikho nkulu kumfazi omnye. Kwiintlobo ezingaphantsi kwe-10 ekhulwini kuqhelekile ukuba abantu ababini batshate kuphela. Iphiko leprimate yeqela lithandeka kancinci ekudibaneni. Nangona i-15 ukuya kuma-29 ekhulwini leentlobo zezilwanyana ezihlala kunye zithanda ukuhlala kunye njengezibini, bambalwa kakhulu abazinikela ekubeni nomfazi omnye njengoko abantu besazi—ubudlelwane obubodwa obuphakathi kwabantu ababini.
Ngokucacileyo abantu banengxelo yokungafezeki. Abantu bayathandana, baqhawule umtshato kwaye, kwezinye iindawo, batshata amaqabane amaninzi. Enyanisweni, isithembu sibonakala kwiindawo ezininzi zehlabathi. Ukanti nalapho isithembu sivumelekileyo, lulungiselelo lwabambalwa. Uninzi lwentlalo yoluntu lulungelelaniswe kwingcinga yokuba uninzi lwabantu luza kudibana ukuze lunyamezele, izibini ezizimeleyo ngokwesondo. Kwaye ukuba nomfazi omnye kubonakala kusenze kakuhle iintlobo zethu. “Amaqhina amabini,” njengoko izazinzulu zilubiza ngolo hlobo unxulumano lomfazi omnye, yayiluhlengahlengiso olubalulekileyo oluye lwavela kukhokho wakudala owaba ngundoqo kwiinkqubo zentlalo yoluntu kunye nempumelelo yethu yendaleko. “Sinenzuzo enkulu kunezinye iintlobo ezininzi ngokuba neebhondi ezimbini,” utshilo uBernard Chapais, isazi ngenzululwazi ngendalo kwiYunivesithi yaseMontreal. …
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