Ezinye zee-imeyile ezininzi ezingena kwi-inbox yam yonke imihla-kwaye ezinye ndijonge phambili kuzo zisuka kwiListserve yobuchwephesha endikuyo nge Umbutho weMpilo yabaTsha kunye neMithi okanye i-SAHM.
Namhlanje kukho ingxoxo edlamkileyo nevuselelayo malunga nokufikelela kwiphonografi yabafikisayo kunye nokuba likhoboka lephonografi. Iveliswe yi-imeyile yokuqala eyathunyelwa ngugxa wakhe oyingcali owabhala ngomfana oselula okwiminyaka yakhe yama-20 osandul’ ukumxelela “iphonografi ekwi-Intanethi sisibetho sesizukulwana sam sabafana abaselula.”
Wachaza ukuba likhoboka le-porn kwi-intanethi kunye nokuzahlula kwakhe kunye nesithukuthezi awasivayo kunye nefuthe elinalo "kulindelo lwakhe lobudlelwane."
Ingxelo yobuchwephesha ikhalazela into yokuba ngenene akukho phando lulungileyo kule nto ikhulayo kangako okanye ingcebiso evavanyiweyo malunga nendlela yokucebisa abazali okanye izigulana malunga noku kunye neminye imiba evela "kukukhula kwi-intanethi." Sinokuyibuza njani imibuzo ngendlela efanelekileyo ukuze sifumane iimpendulo? Kuthetha ukuthini ukuba likhoboka? Siyilinganisa njani loo nto? Yintoni esinokuyenza ukuba siyayityhila?
Bekukho iimpendulo ezivela kwihlabathi lophando malunga nokuba likhoboka lemidlalo esele iqwalaselwe iNcwadi yokuDinga kunye neStatistical Manual (ibhayibhile yoxilongo lwengqondo). Ezinye iimpawu ezilumkisayo zisenokuba:
- Ukuzixakekisa ngokudlala kwi-Intanethi/iphonografi
- Iimpawu zokurhoxisa xa i-Intanethi isusiwe
- Uphuhliso lonyamezelo. Oku kuthetha imfuneko yokuchitha ixesha elandayo lexesha lokudlala / iphonografi ukufumana umphumo / ulonwabo olufanayo.
- Ayikwazanga ukulawula imidlalo/imikhwa yephonografi
- Ukusetyenziswa okuqhubekayo nangona ulwazi lwefuthe elibi
- Ukulahlekelwa ngumdla wangaphambili kwizinto zokuzonwabisa, ukuzonwabisa, imidlalo
- Ukusetyenziswa komdlalo/imidlalo ukubaleka imo engathandekiyo
- Inkohliso kusapho, abanyangi kunye nabanye malunga nexesha elichithwe kwimidlalo / kwiisayithi zephonografi
- Ukulahlekelwa ngumsebenzi, ubudlelwane, ithuba lomsebenzi ngenxa yokudlala / ukusebenzisa iphonografi
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