Throughout my journey, my benefits did kick in a little slowly and came very late. But I can assure you it was worth the wait and the struggle. My girlfriend and I have a very strong relationship. It meant a lot to her when I came clean to her about my problem and how I […]
Turning 24 this year, started watching porn at 8. I work in psychiatry. I gave up porn for thousands of reasons, the main ones being acute social anxiety, low testosterone and those sinister black shadows. (feeling like I am being controlled by something I don’t want in my life) It is SO NICE to be […]
Read More… from Age 24 – It feels great to not feel the desire to watch people have sex
It all started when this community was on No Nut November. And now it’s February. This 90 day journey was fucking so hard. But that’s what makes victories so sweet. Lots of blood sweat and tears, I could have easily slipped, it might have happened, luck was part of success, I accept that, but we […]
Read More… from Age 31 – Now, I’m full of life, boundless excitement and energy
Comments: Paper investigates a number of young men who healed chronic sexual dysfunction by eliminating porn use. Introduction to the results section: Having processed the data, I have noticed certain patterns and recurring themes, following a chronological narrative in all of the interviews. These are: Introduction. One is first introduced to pornography, usually before puberty. […]
Read More… from Pornography Induced Erectile Dysfunction Among Young Men (2019)
As everyone here knows, there are many, many people who don’t believe that porn can ever be harmful. One just needs to look at the comments on any other subreddit or any youtube video whenever someone makes a post or uploads a video that questions porn, to know that the internet loves porn. But of […]
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A few months back I stumbled upon this community and posted here that I was going to change my life. I was unemployed, lazy, unfit, and the rest. Since being a kid I’d always had a dream to be in the military but de-motivation had pushed that to the back of my mind. After one […]
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Stats: male 37 years old, IT professional work for a bank, own my own house and three cars, make a good living, single, 6ft tall 85kg 12% bodyfat, no kids, never married, PMO addict for 20+ years, PMO’ed multiple times per day. Things I did during this time: cold showers daily 20min guided meditation with […]
Read More… from Age 37 – Increased desire for sex, intimacy, love, companionship
Update (August, 2020): Serial defamer & harasser Nicole Pause loses lawsuits to Gary Wilson. In August of 2020 court rulings fully exposed Nicole Prause as the perpetrator, not the victim. In March of 2020, Prause sought a groundless temporary restraining order (TRO) against me using fabricated “evidence” and her usual lies (falsely accusing me of stalking). […]
Background Growing up through out elementary school years I was a pretty normal kid. Had a good supporting family, some good friends and was living care free like any kid at that age should. About the time when elementary school ended and I went off to middle school is where I started to take a […]
On Thursday I had sex for the first time and I wanted to share my thoughts and experiences with it. Me nor my girlfriend had ever been with someone physically until each other. For the past few weeks we have been cuddling and kissing and doing some sexual things but we hadn’t actually had sex […]
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