6 months ago, I decided I would try not to look at porn or masturbate (masturbation without porn being impossible to even be thought of) for three days. I did this spontaneously, after looking at this interview of the singer I was in love with at the time. Why did I decided this? First, because […]
At 45 days I wrote a pretty successful report that people seemed to like. It emphasized how NoFap wasn’t really about masturbating. It was about taking back control over your life. You see, masturbating is a bad habit, like smoking, but instead of damaging your lungs, it damages your mind. But when someone decides to […]
How crazy is that! 35 years old, had lots of sex over the years but never any intimacy and never a steady girlfriend due to: no confidence to speak to the girls I wanted unrealistic expectations low self esteem feelings of unworthiness Also suffered from escalating sexual fantasies due to years of daily porn viewing. […]
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God damn. A year. It’s crazy how time just slinks away like that, isn’t it? It seems like such a long time but before you know it a full calendar has zipped right by you and you’re back where you started. NoFap has been present in my life ever since I stumbled upon this subreddit […]
The MYLN Method Make your life normal. This method is about having a normal life only without porn and masturbation. Life your life as it was before minus the porn. This is a passive system. With this method, you do not resist or embrace urges, you leave them while they are small. You will use […]
Short answer: MAYBE! But there’s a lot that goes into that conclusion starting with this blog post https://thiswildwakingjourney.wordpress.com/2014/04/23/can-men-be-friends-with-women-theyre-sexually-attracted-to/, which is the inspiration for my blog post. What I find the most interesting about all of this is that there seems to be a groundswell of consciousness concerning all of these related matters, porn, Karezza and a somewhat more […]
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Someone on Reddit recently asked me, “Does this addiction ever officially go away? My future dreams and goals can’t rely on me consistently maintaining sobriety from this addiction. I want it gone forever and always.” That’s a damn great question, and one that leads many of us to relapse when we envision a lifetime of […]
This is a message to all, from a former member. who in a moment of curiosity destroyed what took over 9 months to create. When you recover, in between then and having a normal balanced healthy life style, your brain will go through many changes. And remember through all of this. it is NOT I […]
My story: I’m a 25 year old guy. I’ve been watching porn regularly for about 10 years. And been masturbating on average once a day since i discovered it 14 years ago. I have had sex with a lot of different girls. My problem though was, that I often times couldn’t get it up (even […]
I made it! A huge THANK YOU for all of the advice and motivation. My experience with nofap day 0: Damn, this is gonna be harder than I thought day 1: This is really, really hard. day 2: I’m pretty sure I haven’t masturbated in a week day 3: sniffle day 7: holy shit guys! […]
Read More… from Age 24 – (ED, DE) Sex is better, more social, greater motivation