Ziziphi Iindwendwe Zithetha Ngalo Mzimba

Iindwendwe kwi-Brain yakho kwi-Porn ngoku zibalwa kwizigidi zazo. Nazi ezinye zeengcinga ezivela kubahambi abayi-150.

Omnye umntu unika imbali yolu bakala, namava akhe:

Iminyaka embalwa eyadlulayo (malunga ne-2008 / 2009), abantu baqala ukuqhubela kwi-intanethi abaye baxhamla ukuba babe ne-drective function erectile, kodwa ngelo xesha bangafumana ukulungiswa okuqinileyo kwiimilinganiselo ezigqithiseleyo zoononophala ngokuncedisa ezinye izinto ezindala ukuxhatshazwa. Into eyinqaba kukuba, ngezinye iimeko, amawaka abantu baphendule kule zithuba zengxowa, besithi baneempawu ezifanayo ezifanayo.

Ngoku, ngokuthatha ezo mpawu, abantu bacinga ukuba bazikhethele ukuba babe ngabasetyhini bokwenyani ngokunyuka ukuya kuhlobo olugqithisileyo lwe-porn kunye ne-masturbating ngendlela yokukhuthaza ukungabikho komfazi obhinqileyo. Babenethemba / becinga ukuba ukuba bayayeka ukubukela iphonografi kunye nokuphulula amalungu esini ixesha elininzi, le desentisation inokubuyiselwa umva.

Aba bantu, ngelo xesha ababengenayo i-YBOP kunye nezinye iiforamu ngesihloko babecinga ukuba bebodwa: ekuphela kwento ebambekayo esilele kwiplanethi abangakwazanga ukuyifumana ibe yeyabafazi bokwenyani, kodwa bafumana uhlobo olucekisekayo Iphonografi ivuliwe. Uninzi lwabo lwaluyintombi. Abanye babo behluleka iminyaka kunye nabasetyhini bokwenene abachitha ukuzithemba kwabo. Bacinge ukuba abanakuze bakwazi ukuba nolwalamano oluqhelekileyo kunye nabasetyhini. Bekholelwa ukuba bangama-freaks endalo, bazifihla kuluntu kwaye baba zi-hermits. Inomdla kum, zingaphi iziyobisi ezinzima ze-PMO ezisebenza ekhaya kwaye ziingcali zekhompyuter… Ngamanye amaxesha ndiyazibuza ukuba yintoni eyokuqala - inkukhu okanye iqanda (umlutha we-porn okanye ukuzimela eluntwini)?

Ngapha koko, akukho nto i-PMO incedise ukuguqula i-ED yaba bantu, kwaye ngaphandle kwe-libido yesiqhelo baqala ukunika ingxelo ngolunye utshintsho oluqinisekileyo: Uxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo lwentlalo luyahamba, ukuzithemba okwandileyo, imvakalelo yokufezekiswa kunye nokuba ngaphezulu kwehlabathi …

Ndingomnye waba bafana. Ndisilele kaninzi kunye nabasetyhini, ukuqala phakathi kwinqanaba lokufikisa. Le yaba yeyona nto iphambili kwimpilo yam. Kweli hlabathi lanamhlanje, apho kungabikho ntengiso, imovie, umboniso weTV, okanye incoko ngaphandle kwamagama ezesondo, bendisoloko ndikhunjuzwa ngam. Ngalo lonke ixesha ndibona umbono wesondo kumdlalo bhanyabhanya bendicinga ngaphakathi kwam, “Wow, how it is easy for that guy, is that is it is supposed to be? Andinakukwazi ukuma nkqo ngokulula, nokuba ndingumfazi omhle kangako ”.

Xa ndabona umfanekiso wamabhinqa amahle ahamba ze embindini wemagazini engaqhelekanga ndaye ndacinga, “Abantu bayifumana ishushu kakhulu le nto, kodwa andinakuvuka xa umfazi omhle engenzi zinto zimbi kwimiboniso bhanyabhanya engamanyala. Ndingaqhelekanga ”. Ngokufanayo namahlaya esiqhelo esini mihla le okanye incoko nabahlobo okanye abantu ongabaziyo. Inqaku kukuba bendikhunjuzwa rhoqo ukuba ndoyisakele njengendoda kwinqanaba elisisiseko, kwaye kubonakala ngathi ndim ndedwa.

Kunyaka ngaphambi kokuba ndiqale ukuyeka i-porn, ndaza ndaza kubona abagula ngengqondo kunye neengqondo zezinto zengqondo ezazifumene ingxaki yokuxhalabisa abantu kunye nokudandatheka, kwaye befuna ukungifaka kwi-antidepresents, engazange ndivume.

Xa ndisebenzisa i-YBOP, ndafumanisa ukuba eyona ngxaki iphambili ebomini bam ebisengqondweni yam i-24/7 inokubuyiselwa umva, elona litye lalinzima lasuswa entliziyweni yam. Xa ndandihamba ngeNoFap streak yam yokuqala (~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ iintsuku 80 iintsuku) ndaqala ukuqaphela amandla amakhulu afanayo njengoko kuchaziwe ngabanye. Ngaba ngokwenene kuyothusa? Into ephambili etshabalalisa ukuzithemba kwam kwaye indenze ndaziva ndindedwa kwiplanethi ye-7 yezigidigidi, yayiguqulwa kwaye yaqheleka ukuba yinto eqhelekileyo. Namhlanje, ngomhla wam we-109th we-streak, ndiziva ndonwabile, ndinentembelo, intlalontle, ndikrelekrele, ndinako ukuhlangabezana nawo nawuphi na umceli mngeni, njl., Njl., ...

I-TL; i-DR-Umgca ongezantsi kukuba, andothuki kwaphela lutshintsho oluxelwa ngabantu. Imifanekiso engamanyala e-porn eyenzelwe i-ED inokuba yinto etshabalalisayo kwi-psyche yakho kwihlabathi langoku. Andothusi nokuba abanye, ababomi babo bungaphawulwanga kangako yi-PMO, kunye / okanye abo bayayeka kwi-PMO njengomceli mngeni, abaziboni ezi zibonelelo. Kuya kufuneka uqonde ukuba loluphi uhlobo lwabantu oluchaze ezo ziphumo kwindawo yokuqala. Ngokuqinisekileyo, abanye banokuba neziphumo ezifanayo njengempembelelo ye-placebo, kodwa kwimeko efana neyam, ngekhe ubize ukususwa kwesiphumo se-placebo. Kulula nje unyango. BG

Kuyamangalisa ukufunda onke la mabali abantu abadlule kwizinto ezifanayo nam. Ndikwiveki 5-6 yokufumana kwakhona kwaye ndiziva ndiphinda ndiqala kwakhona emva kokusebenzisa iphonografi nokucima iminyaka eyi-6. Ngombulelo i-libido yam ibuya kwakhona kwaye ndiziva izibonelelo. Ngaphandle kokubuya kwe-libido ndiye ndaphawula ezinye izinto ezininzi ezilungileyo:

• Okokuqala, kukho enye ecacileyo endiziva ndisiba sexier ngaphakathi kwam kwaye oku kukhokelela kuyo
• Ndifumana ingqalelo emininzi yamantombazana ngoku; Ukuzithemba okunene kubonakala kukhanya
• Ndiyabonakala ngathi ndihamba kakuhle kunye nabantu ngokubanzi. Kwakhona, ngenxa yokuzithemba ukuba inkululeko indilethe, mna nabahlobo bam sele sondele
• Ndivakalelwa ngakumbi. Xa ndiya kwindawo yokuzivocavoca, ndihlala ndiqhubela phambili.

Ndingumfundi kwiFarmacology (ngokusisiseko isifundo se-receptor dynamics kunye nonxibelelwano) kunye neNeuroscience (ngakumbi kum encinci), ngelixa bendifunda ezi zithuba apha kwaye ndifunda nezifundo zam, ndiye ndaqala ukuqaphela amakhonkco amaninzi phakathi kweendawo zenzululwazi / Ithiyori yokwamkela nento abantu abalapha kuyo ... [imathiriyeli malunga nengqondo yeplastiki eshiyiweyo] GJ

Ndiyabulela ngayo yonke ingcaciso kunye nakho konke onakho kwisayithi. Wenza ubomi obuninzi kakhulu kangcono. Kwaye yam yeyona ndlela kunye 🙂 Isizathu sokuba ndikubhale ukuba mna nomhlobo baqhuba indawo yesiJerman kwi-addiction yezobisi. (Iwww.porno-sucht.com oko kukuthi porn-addiction.com) EJamani Akukho namnye owaziyo ngokunyakaza kwe-nofap kunye nazo zonke iingeniso onokuzifumana ekungabikho kwi-pornography. UStephan

Ndiya kwiividiyo ze-yourbrainonporn kwaye le nto i-GREAT stuff! KUNYE nje ichaza kakhulu! Nangona ngaphaya kweefostile kunye nento. Isifundo esihle kwi-neuroscience kubantu abaqhelekileyo. BP

ndibukele yonke ividiyo kwaye yenziwe kakuhle. Andikaze ndibone ukujonga ngokubanzi kubukhoboka be-intanethi. Ndandisele ndihamba "noononophala" ngenxa yemiphumo emibi endiyenayo kwi-pornography, kodwa le vidiyo indixhobile ngezixhobo ezixabisekileyo kwaye yomeleza isigqibo sam. Enkosi kakhulu ngokusebenza kwakho nzima kulo mbandela. [KwiYouTube]

Ubudala 31 - andinakukwazi ukuyifumana ngaphambi kokuba ndiyeke i-PMO-isondo sasibonakala njengomsebenzi wesibini

Ndabona iNoFap emva kokuba uTata endixelele malunga ne-ybrainonporn.com. Ndonwabile ngokwenene ukuyibona le nto kuba kulula kakhulu kum ukuba ndithathe into njengengxaki ebonakalayo nenokuxazululeka ukuba ndingabona uhlobo oluthile lwesayensi ekhonkrithi ngasemva kwayo. Ngoku ndiyabona ukuba ngalo lonke ixesha ndiyifakayo iyenza mandundu imeko yam ngemichiza. Oko "bendisebenzisa" ukusukela kwiminyaka yam yokufikisa kwaye ndingu 27 ngoku. SS

Esinjani sona isixhobo esincomekayo enisibeke kunye. Ifomathi imnandi kakhulu, iyasebenza, kwaye kulula ukuyisebenzisa. Zizandla phantsi ezona zixhobo zibalaseleyo zolwazi olujikeleze oku.

Ndabona inqaku le-CNN kutshanje malunga nokulutha kwezesondo kunye nobuKristu, kwaye ingcinga yam yokuqala yayikukhathazeka. Ukufumana igama lilungile, kodwa andithandi ukuba umbutho wokulwa umlutha we-porn ngumsebenzi wenkolo. Kufuneka babeke lo indawo njengebali. Inzululwazi yi-WAAAAY inomdla ngakumbi kunokwenziwa ngamaKristu. Uninzi lwabantu luhlelekile ukudibanisa iinkolo kunye neengcamango zomhlaba. RH

Oku kuntle. Ndijamelene noonobumba iminyaka emine kwaye ndifuna ukuphula umkhwa. Ukwazi i-biology kunye nesayensi emva kwayo kufana nesitshixo sokuvula umnyango wenkululeko. SG

UGary Wilson uyindoda yokubeka ubuninzi kunye kunye nokunceda izizukulwana ezincinci zamadoda ziphinde ziphinde zilwa nelo bhubhane, esi sifo, esi siqhumane se21st leminyaka esivela esihogweni. AM

Enkosi kakhulu kuGary Wilson ngayo yonke inzululwazi kunye nolwazi oluqokelelweyo kwi-YBOP. Le nkqubo ibaluleke kakhulu. Ubomi bam buye buphuculwa ngeendlela ezininzi kunokuba ndiyazi. Uza kubona utshintsho lokwenene ukuba unamathela kulo. Ayizukubonakala ngathi ide yenzeke, emva koko uya kujonga ngasemva ngeenkumbulo ezimnyama zomzabalazo omnyama.

Ndiqale le nzame ndonqena, ndingakhuthazi, ndizijongela phantsi, ndizicekisa, ndilahlekile, ndinentloko yenkungu, ndizenza olilungisa, ndirhoxile, ndizicingela ndedwa, iqokobhe elingenanto lomntu. Ndinebhongo ngokuthetha ukuba ndiyaqhubeka nokufuna njengendoda eyonwabileyo, ephumayo, edibeneyo, evuyayo, eqhutywa, egxile, egxile kwaye enethemba. OM

Enkosi ngalo lonke ixesha kunye namandla owanikele kulo mbandela. Ukubona indlela abantu abalangazelela ngayo ukuba babelane ngamabali abo kwaye bafune iimpendulo, ndicinga ukuba bangaphi abantu oye wabanceda-kwaye bangaphi ekugqibeleni oya kuthi. IA

Ukuba ndiyakwazi, ndiza kuza ndikukhuphe. Nceda uyazi ukuba umsebenzi wakho ube negalelo elinjalo kwiimpilo zam kunye nabanye abaninzi kwaye kufuneka uziva uzikhukhumeza kwaye uzivuyisa. Uyenzile into ebambalwa abantu abanenkalipho yokwenza. Ukuba ndize ndifike kwiqonga likawonkewonke (okanye i-ofisi yoluntu) ebomini bam (endiceba ukuyenza) ndiya kuqiniseka ukuba ndikukhumbula kwaye uzame ukwenza abanye bavume umsebenzi owenzileyo. Ndiyabonga kakhulu. 🙂 LP

Molo ovela eChile. Ndiyaqhubeka nokulandela umsebenzi owenzileyo. Ndicocekile kwaye ndicacile, kwaye masithi amehlo am alungelelanisa ukukhanya. Ngethamsanqa, kwaye wenza umahluko. Enkosi. FD

Amanqaku afanelekileyo. Enkosi. Undinike inkuthazo eyongezelelweyo endiyifunayo ukuze ndenze utshintsho olungaphaya kobomi bam. Ndizabalaze ukukholelwa ukuba iphonografi inokuba likhoboka kodwa amanqaku akho aqhekeza izinto ezenzululwazi endinokuziqonda.

Ndingumlawuli kwaye ngandlela-thile ndiphila ubomi obuqhelekileyo. Ndiyaphinda ndiyisele, andizange ndathabathe iziyobisi, kwaye ndisebenze iintsuku ezintathu ngeveki. Nangona kunjalo ndibe ndixhomekeke kwi-intanethi ye-intanethi ndaza ndaya kwindlela efanayo nabantu abaninzi obhale ngako okanye beva izimvo.

Ukungafihlisi kwakho kunye nokukhula ekujonganeni nomcimbi kubalasele. Kwakhona-enkosi ngomsebenzi wakho kwaye ugcine ukubhala. Unceda abantu. AS

Ndiyabulela kakhulu ngenxa yomsebenzi wakho onzima. Wena noGary nisindise ubomi bam! RR

Wena noGary babonakala benesimo sengqondo esisengqiqweni kwizifundo ze-porn kunye nokulutha kuzo naziphi na kwezi webhusayithi zichasene ne-porn kunye nabaphembeleli boluntu endikubonileyo. Kukho i-dialectic engathandekiyo phakathi 'kwama-anti-porn amaKrestu' kunye 'nabasetyhini abachasene ne-porn', ekubonakala ngathi kubandakanya ingqokelela 'yengxoxo' kwimifanekiso engamanyala kuluntu. Into eniyenzayo ngaba bantu kukuphefumla komoya omtsha. Abanye abantu banokuhendeka ukuba bathi 'ah, kodwa loo macala aphikisayo, amakhosikazi kunye namaKristu, anokuhlanganiswa! Sinokuyifumana inyaniso ngokudibanisa bobabini! ' okanye banokukhetha elinye icala kwelinye… kodwa konke oku bububhanxa.

Bendihleli ndibuyela emva naphambili phakathi kwala macala mabini malunga neminyaka emi-5, njengesiqhushumbisi, igroggy ekuthatheni i-lefts kunye namalungelo kwingqondo. Emva kwayo yonke into endiyibonileyo, uninzi lwaba bantu bachitha ixesha labo besilwa nephonografi bandibetha njengabakhohlisi kunye nabahanahanisi, okanye mhlawumbi ngabantu abangenangqondo abafuna ukuba 'iinyani' zabo ziyinyani (imeko malunga namacala omabini indikhumbuza kakhulu yesimo sika-Angelo 'kumlinganiso womlinganiso' kaShakespeare). Into eniyithethayo ngabafana ayifani kwaphela nokuba ivela ntoni kwiipali ezimbini. MB

Wowu. Ndigqibile ukufunda yonke indawo kwiwebhusayithi yakho. Ndijonge kwaye ndimamele yonke ividiyo kunye nevidiyo yeaudio. Ndichukumisekile. Enkosi ngokuvula amehlo am kwingxaki yempilo yoluntu endingazange ndayicinga nokuyicinga. TS, MD

Ndifuna ukubonga uGary Wilson (kunye nabanye abafana naye, kubandakanye namalungu asebenzayo kweli qonga [www.yourbrainrebalanced.com]) ukusuka kwinqanaba lentliziyo yam, ukuba ndimelele le ngxaki (PIED) kwaye ndincede ukufundisa amadoda angalunganga kweli hlabathi. Imfundo iya kuphilisa ukubola komntu. Abazali abaqaphelayo esi sizukulwana baya kufundisa oonyana babo ukuba i-pornography kunye nokuhlaziya i-masturbation kunokukhokelela kwintlungu engapheliyo kunye nobunzima kubomi bakho kubandakanya ubuhlobo, ubudlelwane, ukuzithiba, ukuzithemba kunye nombono wakho ngokubanzi ngobomi. JA

Ndifuna nje ukwazisa nina bantu ukuba le nto niyenzayo iyamangalisa, kwaye ibaluleke kakhulu. Andinalwazi lokuba buya kuba phi ubomi bam ngoku ukuba andikaze ndiyifumane iYBOP, kwaye ndiqinisekile ukuba abanye abaninzi baziva ngokufanayo. SG

Ubunjani bakho kwiSigonyo yiwebhusayithi 'yehlabathi' eyenza ikhathalogu yobunono be-porn ngenxa yento eyenzayo, ngokwasemzimbeni, kwingqondo. Ndikhombe amadoda aliqela kwezi zinto zindibuleleyo, ndizifumana ziluncedo olungenakuthelekiswa nanto kunewebhusayithi icaphula iivesi zeBhayibhile malunga nokucoceka ngokwesondo. Ingxaki kwezi vesi zeBhayibhile, rhoqo, kukuba abantu banamathele kwi-porn sele beyazi, kodwa babambekile kumlutha we-dopamine ogqithisa isizathu kunye nokuzibophelela kwabo ebungcweleni. Okumangalisayo kukuba, uninzi lwabantu lufumanisa ukuba xa umxholo ususwe ngokomoya ukuba kulula ukujongana nawo kwaye ukhululeke. Iwebsite ibandakanya Ubungqina ukusuka kubantu abaphila ubomi babo baguqulwa ngokuphula.  Wonke umfundisi kufuneka abe nale website kwi-toolkit yabo, kodwa ke kufuneka wonke umhlobo, kunye nomntu wonke.

Ndiyakubulela wena nomyeni wakho ngenxa yomsebenzi wakho omangalisayo kwaye wesabekayo !! AG

(Iinyanga ze-9) Bekulungile, kwaye ndifunde okuninzi apha. Ndiphuhlise apha, kwaye ndafumana iimbono ezininzi. Ngoku, andinanto iseleyo ukongeza ngokwenyani (Konke bekutshiwo ngaphambili). Andiyi kuze ndilibale ukuba ingqondo yam iya kuhlala ifuna olo lonwabo, kodwa kwangaxeshanye ndiziva ndingayibeka emva kwam ngoku. Ayisiyiyo le nto ukuba andisayi kuphinda ndityibilika, kodwa endaweni yoko ndamkela ukuba ndingumntu kwaye maxa wambi kuyakwenzeka. Enkosi Gary. I-CF

(Ubudala 18) Namhlanje ngumhla we-98, ukubuyela umva kwakhona, kodwa khange ndizilambise ukusukela ngoko. Ngapha koko, ndiziva ngathi ndisaqhubeka notshintsho kwezi veki zimbalwa zidlulileyo, kodwa utshintsho aluyonto imbi. Ndatsho ukuba ndiziva ndilungile kwisithuba sam sangaphambili, kodwa kufuneka ndikuxelele bafo ukuba ndiziva ndibhetele njengoko ndibhala le. Akukholakali ukuba nditshintshe kangakanani ukusukela kunyaka ophelileyo. Ndithatha njengommangaliso ukuba ndide ndafumanisa nge-YBOP… .Ndiyabulela kuni bafo akunakubonakaliswa ngamagama. AG

Ndiyithandile ingcaciso endiyifumene kwiBrain Yakho kwividiyo ze-Porn. Kunceda ngokwenene ukuqonda indlela ubuchopho bakho busebenza ngayo xa kuziwa kwi-pornography. CJ

 Ndifuna ukukubulela ngewebhusayithi yakho enkulu kunye nomoya ohlaziyiweyo womoya omtsha endithe ndaziswa ziingxoxo zakho ezintle. Ndiziva ngathi ndizigweba kancinci ngoku ndiqondayo ikhemistri yam yomntu. Indlela othe wajongana ngayo nesihloko sonke se-orgasm kunye nesondo uziva unamandla noxolo kwaye ndinombulelo. EP

Ikaka engcwele. Andikakholelwa nangoku. Andikakholelwa ukuba ndifumene i-YBOP kwaye andikholelwa ukuba kundithathe ixesha elide! Emva kweminyaka engama-13 yokubandezeleka ngokuthula, ukucinga ukuba yimpazamo yam, ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo, ((andinakukholelwa ukuba andizange ndibeke ndawonye) ndingazi ukuba i-porno ibangela ukuba ndingakwazi ukuphendula ubuhle, ze, amabhinqa aqhelekileyo alala ecaleni kwam ebhedini, andinakukuxelela ukuba sisiqabu kangakanani ukufumana le webhusayithi, kunye neli qela lamadoda. Ukufunda onke amabali kunye neebhloko kwiintsuku ezintlanu ezidlulileyo kuye kwaba kukukhuthaza, kwaye ke kuyandiqinisa, andinakuqala ukufumana amagama. IMK

Ndibhala nje oku ndibulela imisebenzi yabasunguli bale webhusayithi iyonke kwaye inxulumene nayo. Ndihlala ndisazi ukuba ndinomkhwa ombi, kodwa ngaphandle kokubona ubungqina obuninzi obuvela kubantu abaninzi, ngekhe ndibenakho ukuziqengqa. I-LD

Ndinomhlobo oyingcali yengqondo efanelekileyo, kwaye ndixoxisana naye iminyaka malunga nesizathu salo ED. Bendingazi ukuba yintoni, kodwa bendisazi nokuba ukuphosa iViagra, njl. Ewe, bendisandula ukuthetha naye emva kwexesha elide ndimthumele kwi-YBOP, kwaye kungekudala emva koko wavuma ukoyiswa kwingxoxo yethu encinci. Kwaye ujonge phambili apho imeko yalo mzimba mtsha onguvulindlela kunye nawe noGary izakuba kuyo kwiminyaka ezayo. Umsebenzi omangalisayo, owophula umhlaba, kunye nesibindi owenzayo nobabini-enkosi kakhulu! GT

Inqaku elikhawulezayo kuwe-ndifuna ukubonisa intlonipho yam kuwe ngophando lwakho kunye nokwabelana nabo ngendlela ecacileyo nefikelelekayo, kunye nokunyathela kwinqanaba le-TED ukubabonisa. Lilonke, ndiyavuyisana nani kwaye ndiyabulela. MA

(Ubudala be-38-ED ukubuyiswa) Kuhleli kum kuphela ukubulela NGOKUQINISEKILEYO ngawo wonke lo msebenzi uwenzileyo nokusasaza igama endaweni yokuzama ukwenza uhlobo oluthile lwenzuzo ngalo. Intombi yam entsha yandicela ukuba ndiyabulela nawe! Andikwazi ukunyamezela ukucinga ukuba bonke ubomi bam buya kwenzeka njani ukuba ndiqhubeka nale ngxaki. Ndandisondela kwinqanaba apho ndacinga ukuba kungangabi noxinzelelo kwaye kuphazamise ukuba bendinokulibala nje ngamathemba okwakha ubudlelwane obuzalisekileyo, kwaye ndibeke umgca ngokwesini sam ukuze (uxolo) yiyo.

Kule minyaka ilishumi idlulileyo okanye ndiye ndafumana izikali ezahlukeneyo (ezinje ngeMRI), uhlalutyo lwe-cerebro-spinal fluid, uhlalutyo lwe-endocrine, izifundo zokuqhutywa kwemithambo-luvo (i-electromyograms), ndadibana nodokotela wezifo zomchamo, ugqirha wezesondo kunye nengcali yezengqondo. Akukho namnye owakhe wandibuza malunga nokusetyenziswa kwe-porn. Ndicinga ukuba ikhona ingxaki yokwenyani apha. Koko kufanelekileyo, ndenza konke okusemandleni am ngeendlela zam ukusasaza igama.

Ulwazi oluninzi kakhulu. Ndizifundile iitoni zayo. Ndiyifundile .fdf ifayile equle zonke ezo ngxelo zenkqubela phambili ukusuka phezulu ukuya phezulu, igama ngegama. AG

Ndabonisa umhlobo wam osondeleyo TED Ingxoxo yevidiyo.Ekupheleni kwevidiyo besinencoko evulekileyo esakha sanayo. Ekupheleni sobabini saziva sizimisele ukutshintsha. Ngoku ndinempiko kweli phulo kwaye iyenza lula. Ndicinga ukuba lolunye lolona hlobo lukhulu lokususa kwi-TEDTALK kukuba andisaziva ndiziva ndineentloni okanye ndineentloni ngengxaki yam. Indinike amandla okuqonda okwenzekayo kunye notshintsho. Indenze ndakhululeka ukuthetha ngale nto kunye nomhlobo wam. Besinosuku olunemveliso izolo! Asisatshayi nje ngokudibanisa amalungu, sidlala ii-VGs kunye neeyure zeTV esiphelweni.

Emva kweeveki ze-13 apha, kwaye akukho kuphinda kusetyenziswe iifostile, ndinokuqonda okubhekiselele ngakumbi kwizinto ezisiseko zobomi beengqondo. Ngoko ke ubuncinci ulwazi olusisiseko lwamaqondo am, oko kukubangela ukuvutha komsindo / ukudakumba kunye nokuba yiziphi iinguqu zengqondo ezizilindele kwiikhemikhali ezikhutshwe kwimisebenzi eyahlukeneyo kubandakanya isondo. Ulwazi lunamandla. FC

Ndifumene "Ukubuyisela kwakhona" ulwazi kwi-YBOP ngophando olungacwangciswanga ngenye imini kwaye itshintshe ubomi bam ngeendlela endingazange ndicinge ukuba zinokwenzeka. Ndibukele uthotho lwee-vids kunye nengcaciso ye-chemistry ye-YBOP kwaye le yayiyindawo yokutshintsha kwaye yandinika izixhobo zokuqonda ukunceda ukulwa nesiyobisi esibi. Namhlanje, ndiyimini ye-70 yamahhala yeP / M / O.

Ndiyabulela kwi-YBOP kwiingqungquthela kwi-addiction ndafunda ukuba yindlela nje ubuchopho bethu bubuncwane obuya kusenza sibe lula ukutshatyalaliswa kwezocwangco / zesondo. (Utsho ukuba andiyonto engaphelelekanga?) Ukuqonda oku kwangoku kwangoko kwathatha ingcamango yokuthwala ihlazo okanye ukuzisola ngokubambezeleka kwithuba lonke (iminyaka). Ukuqaphela ukuba uninzi lwendlela yokuziphatha yep / m / o ehla kwi-chemistry yengqondo mhlawumbi yeso sizathu esibalulekileyo esandinceda ukuba ndicinge ngokuphelisa umlutha kanye kunye.

Ndandifunda ngabanye ababenzela utshintsho olona lungcono. Oku kwayenza nantlukwano endleleni endandiyibona ngayo umngeni.

Ndiziva ndiziva ndizolile endaweni yexhala lam langaphambili malunga nam. Bendiye ndavumela umhlaba oqhutywa ngokwasemzimbeni, oqhutywa kukuzimela ukuba uguquke ube lilizwe elingokomoya nelinenkathalo ngakumbi. Namhlanje andiziva ukuba ndifuna ukuba ngumdlali wezesondo, ndifuna nje ukuba yindoda engcono kunabo bonke. Ngenxa yokuba ndiziva ndilungile malunga nokwenza olu tshintsho, andiziva ndingento yanto ngaphakathi. Ndiyakholelwa ukuba izinto ezintle ziya kwenzeka ngexesha elililo ukuze ndiphumle kancinci kwaye ndisebenze nokuba ngcono, ukunika ngakumbi, umntu onoxanduva lokuphendula yonke imihla. AJ

 Njengephazili enesiqwenga sokugqibela ekufuneka sifakwe kuyo, indawo yakho indinike amandla okuthatha inyathelo ndibuyele umva kwaye ndijonge 'umfanekiso omkhulu'. Kwabo bathumele ngaphambili, nakuGary- kuyo yonke inyani, enkosi ngokusindisa ubomi bam. Isenokungabi yinto egqithileyo, kodwa ngaphandle kwale sayithi kunye namagama akho, andazi ukuba ndingaphinda ndibuyele njani ukuze ndifumane eyona ntsingiselo yothando, umnqweno kunye nomtsalane. IKG

Ndandihlala ndicinga ukuba ukuthanda kwam ubuthathaka sesona sizathu siphambili sokulutha kwam, kodwa zange ndicinge ukuba inokuba yenye indlela! Ndifunde nje kancinci malunga neziphumo zokulutha kwi-cortex yangaphambili kwaye ndiyamangaliswa! Ngoku andinakulinda ukufunda okungakumbi, kodwa ndixakeke kakhulu kwezi ntsuku. Ukuba andifumananga le ndawo, ngekhe ndive malunga ne-neuroplasticity, imijikelezo ye-dopamine nayo yonke le nto. Kulungile kwaye kuyakhuthaza kakhulu ukwazi ukuba izinto zisebenza njani kwaye sinokuzitshintsha. I-IB

Ndiyifumene loo nto ngokwazi ngoba le yenzekayo kum ithathe ihlazo elingaka emqolo wam. Kufana nakho konke oku kudideka kunye nokuzicaphukela endaweni yokuqonda. SS

Ndigqibile ukuqala kwakhona kwinyanga ephelileyo. Yinyani… ubomi buziva BUPHILA ngoku! Ungumnumzana kwaye ungumfundi, uGary. Chwayita ngokusebenzisa indlela yokufunda ukuveza le nkathazo kwaye usifundise ukuyiphelisa! CJ

Ndifuna nje ukudlula ndikubulele ngezixhobo ezimangalisayo ezikhoyo apha; ngokubonelela simahla- nangokusebenza ngobubele ukunceda abo bakumlutha. Ndingumlutha woononophala kunye nokuhlambalaza malunga ne-15 yrs, kwaye kuphela ngezixhobo kunye nezinto zokufundisa ezikhoyo apha ndikwazi ukwenza nayiphi na inkqubela phambili. Ndisasokola ngokwenyani mihla le. Kodwa ixesha ngalinye, ndifumanisa ukuba ndenza inkqubela phambili ngakumbi nangakumbi okungaphezulu kunoko kwenzekileyo kwiminyaka. Enkosi kwakhona ngomsebenzi wakho omangalisayo. Iyaxatyiswa nyhani- kwaye uyandinceda ukutshintsha ubomi bam kunye nomtshato wam. I-NM

 Ubungqina Bakho Kwi-Porn-NAKUBA UKUBA ABANYE ABANTU BENZA LOKU, KUSENOKUQINISEKILE KUYO.

 Xa ndandwendwela i-Therap ye-ED yam enxulumene ne-porn, ndamthumela amakhonkco kwimisonto embalwa kwiMedHelp ukuze aqonde ukuba kwakungekho nje engqondweni yam kodwa yayiyingxaki yokwenyani. Wayemangalisiwe linani labafana abahamba noku. Uninzi lwabanyangi bebesenza imisebenzi yabo iminyaka, kwaye basekele iingcebiso zabo kuqeqesho / kumava amabali empumelelo ngaphambi kwexesha lokusasaza iphonografi kwakufumaneka ngokulula. Ngapha koko i-'skool 'yakudala i-Therapists e-UK yayihlala ichaza i-porn kunokuba icebise ukuyeka. Ndizifumene ndifundisa i-Therapist yam ngaphezu kokuba endifundisile… kwaye nguye ohlawulelweyo. Icela inkolelo! Okwangoku wayelinenekazi elihle kwaye ke andinangxaki kakhulu. Kwaye yinto entsha. Enkosi ngemizamo yakho. RB

Ndonwabile ukufumana i-YBOP, i-YBRed kunye nale ndawo, kungenjalo ngekhe ndiyenze nokuba ibe sisiqingatha ukuza kuthi ga ngoku. I-RF

I-crux eyiyo yempumelelo yam yayikukufaka ngaphakathi ngokupheleleyo iikhonsepthi kwiYBOP. Ukuba uyakholelwa kule nto bayithethayo, i-PMO iyothusa inyani, kwaye uyakwenziwa. Izibonelelo ziya kuza, ezisesekondari. Kwaye andithethi ukuba kuya kuba lula, kodwa ukuqonda kakhulu imiphumo yoononophala yinto eyona nto yandibamba ngayo. Iintsuku ze-90 - Buya kwelabafileyo.

Siyabulela iwebhusayithi. Andize ndiyazi isizathu sokuba isihogo siphelile kwiwebhusayithi enje. Andikhumbuli nokuba ndikhangele nantoni na. Nangona kunjalo uye wandinceda ukuba ndibone ukuba ndiyilwaphulo, kwaye uye wandinceda ukuba ndifumane inzuzo into eninzi abantu ababonakala bengayiqondi. Ziziphi izinto ezilungileyo ezinokufumana ngokulinganisela. Iiveki ze-10 ukulinganisa, ngomso yimini 14. Ndivakalelwa ngokwenene kuwo wonke umzimba wam. Njenge-orgasm elula kodwa ebonakalayo igeleza ngegazi lam. Uziva nje unamandla kwaye ulungile. MB

Kudala ndifunda apha kwaye kuyandinika ithemba. Ndandisoyika njengesihogo ngaphambi kokuba ndiqalise ukufunda malunga ne-neuroplasticity kunye ne-dopamine (ezitsha ngokupheleleyo kum). Ngoku ndinombulelo ngoncedo osinika lona. I-CB

Ndimele nditsho, ngekhe ndiphinde ndibuye ngaphandle koncedo lwewebhusayithi yakho. Awuyazi indlela endinombulelo ngayo ngokukhubeka kwiwebhusayithi yakho. FD

Andazi ukuba ngendiphi ukuba bekungekho kuphando lwakho kunye nabo bonke abantu abaxhasayo, abanobubele apha. Ngokuqinisekileyo le ndawo iya kuba ngumhlaba ongcwele wabantu abakhobisa i-porn kwiminyaka ezayo! JS

Ndijonge nje iwebhusayithi yakho entsha. Esinjani sona isibonelelo. Ndiza kuyithetha kum. Ndathumela amadoda aliqela kuyo: umntu owayenexhala lokuphendula kunye nengxaki yokulala eyeka iphonografi, kunye nomnye ongakwaziyo ukujola kwisini ngaphandle kokucinga nge-porn. Ndibonile amacandelo aliqela womboniso wesilayidi sikaGary kwi-erectile dysfunction kunye ne-porn, kwaye ndiyayithanda. Abaxhasi nabo baxhamla kuyo! I-WM LCSW DST (owabelana ngesondo kunye nombhali)

Kudala ndijonga kule ndawo okwethutyana kwaye ndothuswa kukufumana okuninzi kum kumabali amanye amadoda alwa ne-porn kunye neminye imikhwa emibi. Kudala ndizama iminyaka ukoyisa ukunyanzelwa kwayo yonke into kodwa bendisoyika ngokulahleka kwe-libido, ukurhoxa, njl njl.Kulungile ukuba ekugqibeleni uqaphele ukuba iziphumo ebezingalindelekanga ziqhelekile kwaye akukho mfuneko yokuba ndibuyele kwi-porn ukukhumbuza mna ukuba ndiqhelekile. Enkosi kwakhona ngewebhusayithi. Ndicinga ukuba iya kundenzela okuhle kakhulu. KC

Ndiza kuthi ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba iphonografi ibuchaphazele ubomi bam ngendlela engeyiyo kwaphela, kodwa akukho ndlela endichasene ngayo nokwabelana ngesondo okanye ndizimisele ukugweba umsebenzi wobugcisa okwenyani (obonakala ngathi ngumbono ophambili ziinkokheli zeli lizwe intshukumo yokulwa iphonografi). Ngokuchaseneyo, wena kunye nomsebenzi womyeni wakho nomoya wokuphefumla omtsha. I-NC

Le nto itshintshile ubomi bam! Ndiye ndaxhatshazwa yiNtlalo-xhalaba kuba ndingu 13 kwaye ngokuthe ngcembe ndanda kakhulu (ngoku eyi-26 yeminyaka ubudala). Emva kokukhubeka ngaphesheya lakho nqaku Ndagqiba kwelokuba ndiyidubule. Ubethe isikhonkwane entloko kwaye ndifuna ukubulela ngokwenza umahluko omkhulu ebomini bam! Ndixelele iqela lam lenkxaso ku-http: //www.socialanxietysupport.com/forum malunga nezinto zakho ngokunjalo. Emuva kwengqondo yam bendihlala ndiziva ngathi ukuphulula amalungu esini kakhulu kwaye iphonografi ibangela ezi ngxaki (uxinzelelo lwasentlalweni kunye nemicimbi yokwakha), ndade ndabuza oogqirha kwi medhelp.com. Bonke bahlekisa ngam kwaye bafuna i-masturbation iphilile kwaye awukwazi ukuphulula amalungu esini kakhulu. Ndiva uvakalelo lokuba uza kuba nefuthe kubomi obuninzi. Enkosi! AT

Ndicinga ukuba ulwazi ngoyena ndoqo wokubetha lo mngeni woononophala. Ndizamile ukuyenza le nto ngaphambili ngaphandle kwempumelelo encinci kuba andazi oyena nobangela wengxaki. Kwaye andizazi iinguqu ezincinci ezifihlakeleyo ezenzekayo ukulinganisa inkqubela yam kwimpumelelo. Le ndawo ibe sisixhobo sam sokubetha oku kunye nokufumana ibhalansi. WF

 Ndabona nje intetho yakho yeTED, kwaye yayintle. Unelizwi elahlukileyo kunye nokutsha, ukuthembeka okuthembekileyo kwizakhono zakho zokubonisa. Iimpazamo zemveli azikukhathazi kuba uthimbe abantu abanomxholo oqinileyo, ofanelekileyo, kunye nesantya esihle. Uza uthobekile, kwaye uthanda "umhlobo" kubaphulaphuli. Ndiyathemba ukuba unokwenza ezinye iintetho. Wenza umahluko ngobuqu. Ufunda enye yeekona ezisebenzayo kumlutha, kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu. Wuphi umsebenzi owenziweyo kwisekethe yomvuzo ngendlela owenza ngayo? Njengokuba ubani ebuyela kwindlela yokuphila ecocekileyo omnye uva umyalezo “umtsha” ngalo lonke ixesha, kuba amaziko okugweba awaphazamiseki. JB

Ndiyabulela uMarnia noGary kunye nabanye abasebenzisi besayithi yonke into endiyifunayo apha. Ngokuqinisekileyo ibe yinto evula amehlo kum. TH

Esi sisiza esimangalisayo. Kudala ndizama ukoyisa umlutha wam kwi-PMO iminyaka (ndikwii-40 zam zokuqala). Kwixesha elidlulileyo ndathatha inyathelo le-12 kodwa ndizibiza ngokuba "likhoboka lesini" kubonakala ngathi kunegalelo kukuzithemba kwam. Kwaye kwabonakala ngathi kunegalelo kwityala kunye neentloni, endicinga ukuba zandenza iziyobisi. Kutshanje ndibukele Iividiyo zakho zobuchopho-kwi-porn kwaye nokuqonda isiseko se-neurological sokuba likhoboka kuphelise ihlazo elininzi. Ngoku ndiyazi ukuba umlutha wam we-PMO unento yokwenza ne-neurology kunesimilo sam. Ndifuna ukuyeka iminyaka. I-WD

Ndiyabulela uGary ngokuphendula imibuzo yoluntu kodwa nangakumbi kuphando lwakho kunye nokukhuthazwa okuqhubekayo komyalezo wokuba i-PMO inobungozi bokwenyani. Ubonelele ngamadoda ayo yonke iminyaka, kunye namaqabane awo malunga naloo nto, ngesibonelelo esingabalulekanga.

UKUHLELA: Ndiyichazile le ngxaki kugqirha wam. Wayengazange ave ngayo. Ukufundisa uluntu kwezonyango ngale ngxaki kubalulekile. Mangaphi amawaka aza kuphelela kwiziyobisi ze-ED okanye unyango lwe-Testosterone xa iyeza lendalo elilula ngakumbi lifumaneka? Ilungile kwi-pharma enkulu ($$$) kodwa yoyikeka kubagulayo.

Xa ndiqonda ngakumbi nge-biology yam, ubuchopho bam, kunye neminqweno yam yemvelo ngakumbi ngakumbi ukuba ndiyazi ukuba nangona kwandichukumisa iminyaka engama-10 ukuba ndiqiniseke ngokucacileyo kule ndawo ye-porn craze, ndivakalelwa kukuba ndiyakukhaba esi sibetho umkhwa nje nge-snap yomunwe wam. Kukho ukungafani okubonakalayo ngaphakathi kweli veki: ukuxininisa kwam nokugxininisa kunye nokucinga kwam kubuya. GB

Ukuqala kwam ukuqonda ukuba likhoboka lam, ndafunda izithuba ezivela kubafazi nakwizintombi zabo ababebethela amaqabane abo okanye babashiya. Ndiyayiqonda intlungu enokwenzeka, kodwa aba bafazi abafundiswa * kutheni * amakhwenkwe / amadoda abo enamakhoboka oononophala. Abayiqondi inzululwazi esemva kwayo. Ndicinga ukuba olu lwazi belufumaneka ngakumbi, ubudlelwane abuzukutshatyalaliswa zi-porn. Ngethamsanqa amanqaku apha abekhona ukuze intombi yam ifunde, kwaye wawaqonda onke amagama abo. Uluqaphele utshintsho kum kwaye ube luncedo olukhulu. Unditsalela umnxeba ntsasa nganye asikho kunye nje ukundixelela ukuba uyandithanda. Xa ndimva esithi "ube nosuku oluhle" kundibeka kwimeko entle kwangoko. KT

Kuye malunga neenyanga ezili-5 ngoku kungabonwanga noonografi. Andikuzi, kodwa nina bantu zizathu zeBIG ndabona ukuba ndiyilwaphulo kwaye indlela yokubuyiselwa kwakhona inokubuyisela amandla kunye nobomi. Ngoko bulela. Ndinqwenela ukuba ndikuthumele ezinye iintyatyambo okanye into ethile ekhaya lakho ukuze ndibonise indlela endinombulelo ngayo kule website. BF

Xa ndabona kuqala intetho yakho kuwe ityhubhu yam intliziyo. Ndabona ukuba ndandidla ubomi kumdala osemdala kwaye ekugqibeleni ndifumene isizathu sokuba ndihluke kwamanye amadoda am ubudala. Ndiyaxhalaba kuya kuba nzima nakwabantwana ngoku bafika kwi-pornography ngaphambi kokuba batshabalalise okanye bathathe isondo. Ndifuna nje ukubonga kwaye ndiyakuxabisa wena nabo bonke abantu ababandakanyekayo ukufumana le nkcazelo ngaphandle. NG

www.yourbrainonporn.com Ndiyindoda yangempela yegolide kum, ndifuna ukubonga abalobi. Ndiyathetha ngokwenene *; oku kubaluleke kakhulu. FG

Kutshanje ndithethile nomfazi endimaziyo ukuba ngubani otshatileyo ophulukene nomdla kuye ngokupheleleyo ngenxa yokuba likhoboka lakhe. Ndamxelela malunga neYBOP kunye nokungafuneki, i-dopamine, inoveli kunye nezinye iikhonsepthi ngokubanzi. Bekumnandi ukusasaza igama. Ndikwazile ukwabelana ngamava am naye kwaye ndamqinisekisa ukuba akufuneki ayithathe ngokwakhe kwaye kufuneka ijongwe njengeyinyani, isiyobisi somzimba; ukuba wayengenakukwazi ukuzenza azive ekhululekile kwisini sakhe. Kwakunomdla ukubukela iimpendulo zakhe njengoko ndandichaza umzabalazo wam noononophala kunye nento eyenzile kubudlelwane bam bangaphambili / kwimizamo yobudlelwane. Wahlala ethetha izinto ezinje nge "OMG yile nto ayenzayo / ayithethayo" okanye "Yindlela enza ngayo". PH

Ndiyabonga ngokunika abantu ulwazi oluchanekileyo, kwaye niyabakhuthaza ukuba baphumelele. Emva kokuba ndifumanise ukuba kufuneka ndihambe, ndamkela kwaye ndayeka ukulwa. Ndiyazi ukuba ukufumana kwam ukubuyisela kungekudala. Kuya kuba yinto ebalulekileyo yokuphila endenzayo ukuba ndingabuyeli kwisilwanyana sezononophelo. Kodwa ndithemba ngakumbi ngoku kuba ndibona kubonakala ngcono, kwaye izifiso kunye nezibongozo ziqala ukulahlekelwa amandla. TD

Indawo yewebhu sisithixo ngokupheleleyo! Umsebenzi onzima kunye nokuzinikezela enikubeka kwiwebhusayithi kubaluleke kakhulu kubantu abanjengathi kwaye amagama akanakuchaza ukuba ndiyayixabisa kangakanani. Ngaphandle kwale webhusayithi, ndiyathandabuza ukuba bendiya kuba nolwazi, inkxaso, ukomelela kunye nenkuthazo yokunyusa ukubuyela kwimeko yesiqhelo kwimiphumo ye-Porn kunye ne-Masturbation. Uncedo lwakho alunakuthelekiswa nanto. Enkosi kakhulu! BJ

Ndiyabonga kakhulu ngokubeka lewebhu kwi-intanethi. Ekuqaleni ndacinga ukuba yiyiphi indawo yezenkolo, kodwa ndivuyiswa kakhulu ukungafumani nxamnye neenkolo zonqulo, kwaye akukho nto ngaphandle kweendaba ezifudumalayo zokubuyiselwa kunye nethemba elizayo kunokuba ndibeneminyaka emininzi. Ndiyabulela ukusuka kwintliziyo yam. TG

Ndifumene i-yourbrainonporn.com kwenye iforum kwaye ndafumanisa ukuba ngumguquleli wangempela kumdlalo kum umzabalazo wam. SM

Indawo yakho ibutshintshe nyani ubomi bam. Into eyoyikisayo ngokwenene yenzeke kum. Ndinamava ngo-Ed. Kwiminyaka emncinci kangaka (25 yrs ubudala) kwaye ndandisoyika. Ndingaba njani ndinengxaki ye-ED? Ubomi bam bebungasasebenzi kwaye ndibone oku. Bendikhupha inyani. Ikamva lam lalisehlela kum. Kodwa ngombulelo ndiyifumene iwebhusayithi yakho. Ndifumene impendulo yam. Kodwa andifumananga le mpendulo kuphela kodwa neminye imiba ebendinayo iphendulwe kwiwebhusayithi yakho.

Uyabona, bendicinga ukuba ikhona into engalunganga kum kule minyaka ili-12 idlulileyo. Ndisoloko ndixinezelekile. Andizange ndiqonde ukuba kutheni ndinexhala loluntu kwaye andinakuqonda ukuba kutheni ndingakwazanga ukudibana kwaye ndikhululeke phakathi kwabasetyhini okanye abantu. Ndizamile izinto ezininzi kukucamngca, iziyobisi, ukuhlangana nogqirha wezengqondo, ukuyeka imidlalo yevidiyo, ukuphuma ngakumbi, ukujoyina iiklabhu kunye nokufunda iitoni zeencwadi zokuzinceda kodwa andikwazi kuhlala ndikhululekile phakathi kwabantu.

Ngaphambili bendikhe ndangumntu onentlalontle kwaye nophumayo. Ndingahlala ndikhululekile phakathi kwabantu emva kwethutyana. Ndandihlala ndikuthanda ukuhlekisa abantu nokuncuma. Kwaye xa abantu bencuma bekuya kuhlala kundonwabisa. Bendisazi ukuba ndinayo le "feeling". Kodwa ngandlela thile ndiyilahlile kwaye andiqondi ukuba kutheni. Khange ndibenangxaki xa ndandisemncinci kwaye ndingakhange ndilikhoboka lazo naziphi na iziyobisi.

Emva kokufunda amanqaku amaninzi kwiwebhusayithi yakho kunye nokuqonda into eyenziwe yi-PORN kum. Ngoku ndiyakwazi ukulandelela emva kokuba i-PORN ingene ebomini bam kwaye yatshintsha (ngo-2001). Ngokuthe chu ndingakhathali ngoncumo. Ndaya ndizihlalela kancinci ndingakhange ndiyiqonde. Kwaye ndacinga ukuba iphonografi yayiqhelekile kuba bonke abantu babeyisebenzisa.

Uzalise imva yezemfundo engazange ifundiswe naphi na. AG

Ngandlela-thile ndiyazi ukuba ukusebenza kwam ngokwesondo kwakonakaliswa yi-PMO, kodwa andizange ndiqiniseke ukuba kutheni. Ulwazi oluvela kwiividiyo zikaGary lundinike umzuzu 'we-aha'. Kwaye ubungqina obuvela kule ndawo bandinika amandla okulungisa izinto. BH

Ndiyifumene le webhusayithi inolwazi oluncomekayo. Iluncedo kakhulu ngexesha elinzima. Ugqirha

Ndiyabona ukucaca kwengqondo endikhe andabinakho ngaphambili. Ngamanye amaxesha iziva imnandi kangangokuba andizukucinga ngokurhweba ngayo nantoni na. Ndenze inkqubela phambili enkulu. Iya ilula kwaye iminqweno iyadlula. Ndifundile kwindawo yakho ukuba akunakwenzeka ukuba utshintshe. Ndiyayixabisa yonke into endiyifundileyo kuwe. IJW

Ndiwuxabisile umsebenzi wakho iminyaka. Enkosi ngayo yonke imizamo yakho emikhulu yemfundo. Siyakucaphula kwincwadi yethu entsha, Uyakuthanda, Hlonipha i-Porn. MC

Ndonwabile ukuba ndiyifumene le webhusayithi. Kubukhali ngokupheleleyo kwaye kundinika ukuqonda kweziyobisi ezingamanyala endingazange ndicinge ukuba ndingaze ndibenazo. Ngaphandle kwale webhusayithi ndiyathandabuza ukuba ndikwazile ukuya kuhambo olunzulu lokuyeka iphonografi kunye ne-masturbation, enkosi kakhulu. 🙂

Andikwazi ukubulela uMarnia noGary ngokwaneleyo ngolwazi apha. Ngandlela-thile bendisoloko ndisazi ukuba i-PMO ibonakalisa ubuchule bam, kodwa andikhange ndiqonde ukuba ingxaki isengqondweni yam, kwaye ndiyakwazi ukuyibuyisela. Andizange ndicinge ngokuyeka i-porn ngokupheleleyo, kodwa ngoku ndiye ndabona ukuba ayinakuphepheka ukuze ube nobomi obuqhelekileyo. Le yinjongo yam. ME

Ndaziphakamisa kwi-Neuropsychology ngelixa iikholeji. Ngelixa ndingenalo igunya kulo mbandela, ndiye ndaqhubeka ndiphanda nge-neurological survey ukususela ngaloo nto, kwaye ndimele ndithi emva kweminyaka yokufunda amanqaku akho, kwimbono yam, nina bafana. Ndiyakuthanda ukufunda onke amanqaku enzululwazi. Benza oko ukuze ndibe nesisulu sokungahambi kwinkqubo ukususela ekuqaleni ukuya ekupheleni. NG

Ndiza kuqhubeka nokusasaza igama phakathi kwamadoda ndiyakholelwa ukuba unokuzuza kwinto oyenzileyo noMarnia- njengoko ndinjalo ngokuqinisekileyo. RN

Ndinentlonelo eninzi malunga nento eniyenzayo nale website. Sisiphi isixhobo esinokumangalisayo kunye noluntu owakhileyo. Ngaphandle kwewebhusayithi yakho (i) ndiya kulahleka ngokupheleleyo ngoku. Undinike ithemba, isisombululo, kwaye wandenza ukuba ndiyiqonde le ngxaki ichithwe ngokupheleleyo. IG

Enkosi ngayo yonke into. Ndiyayixabisa ngokwenene. Utshintshe ubomi bam kwaye wandenze umntu ongcono. Ndiza kuba ngenaye ngoku kwaye ndingayi kuphinda ndibuye ndidibane naye. SW

Ndiyabulela noGary kakhulu ngokwenza i-yourbrainonporn, ngaphandle kwemizamo yakho ngekhe ndiqhubeke ndisebenzisa imikhwa yam yangaphambili, ndingaziqapheli ngokupheleleyo ukuba ibisenza ntoni kum. Ndonwabile ngakumbi, ndithembele ngakumbi kwiinyanga ezi-2 zokuzama ukuqala kwakhona. Andikwazi kulinda ukukhahlela le nto ngokulungileyo. YENZA

[Ubuye nesifo se-ED] Ndisabethwa ngumoya yiyo yonke le nto. Andikwazi ukuthelekelela ukuba bangaphi ubomi obusegodini ngenxa yaso, kwaye ndiziva ndinethamsanqa lokufumana isisombululo. Ipesenti yethu efumana umsebenzi wakho okanye enye ingcaciso koku kufuneka ibe minuscule kakhulu - ibuhlungu kakhulu. GT

Gary, ndingathanda ukukubulela ngalo lonke ulwazi malunga ne-YBOP, kunye nomzamo owubekayo ekuncedeni amadoda kwihlabathi liphela aphethwe ngumlutha we-porn. Iyaxatyiswa kakhulu. YG

Ndiyayithanda isayensi yayo yonke into - ngenxa yesizathu esithile kubonakala ngathi kunethemba ngakumbi xa ndiqonda ukuba ayindim osileleyo, kodwa ndixhaphaza into ethile esengqondweni yam kwaye yendalo. Ingqondo iyakwazi kwaye iyachacha, kwaye iyamangalisa ukubona ukuba isebenza njani! Ke kwakhona, enkosi! JS

Kulo nyaka uphelileyo bendiqala ukufunda okuninzi malunga nefilosofi kunye nobuBuddha. Ndizifundile iincwadi zikaTolle, Fromm, nabanye bonke abakhanyisa indlela ingqondo eyila ngayo izinto ezininzi ezingasonwabisiyo. Ukufunda kunye nokufunda konke oku kubeka imeko eyahlukileyo ebomini bam nendlela endiphila ngayo, kwaye kwandenza ndafuna ukutshintsha imikhwa kwaye omnye wabo yayingu-PMO. Eyona nto ndingayiyekayo ziintsuku ezingama-3-5 ubuninzi. Ndizamile zonke ii-combos ezahlukeneyo, ngu-P kwaye akukho M, ngu-MO kwaye akukho P, kodwa ke ngekhe ihlale. Ndiza kuhlala ndizifumana ndibuyela emva.

Lonke olu lwazi lusengqondweni aluzange lundincede kule nto ndizama ukuyilawula. Emva koko ndadibana neYBOP kwaye kwakunjengokukhanya okutsha kumxholo. Kungumxholo wengqondo uqobo (ngokwenzululwazi). Kwakufana no-Godzilla kunye noMothra abaguqulwa baba yinto enye enkulu ukuze bandincede ndoyise i-MPO. AN

Ndiyifumene le ndawo kutsha nje. Kuyamangalisa… njengoko ubungcali bam bukwezenzululwazi zomzimba ndiyixabisile indlela yamachiza kulo mba (kwaye uchazwe kakuhle kuloo nto). Ulwazi ngamandla. LG

Ezi nyanga zine zidlulileyo bezinzima kakhulu kodwa zilungile. Ndiye ndaqala kancinci ukuqonda ukuba andinguye "umntu ombi" wokukhetha i-PMO. Ingqondo yam yathathwa nje ziimvakalelo ezintle abazinikelayo. Andizange ndiyazi ngcono ngelo xesha. Ndiye ndanikezela nje kubuchwephesha bobuchwephesha obabungelungiselelwe le mini kunye neli xesha. Kwaye ukungaziva unetyala ngayo kwenza ukuba umlo ubonakale ngathi kunokwenzeka kakhulu.

Into endifuna ukuyithetha kuni apha phandle enisokola ngathi, "Yima kancinci, izakulunga." Andazi ukuba zivela phi izinto apha, kodwa ndiyazi ukuba ulwazi endilufumene kule webhusayithi kunye namava enu andinike ukuzithemba kunye nokuqonda ukufumana ibhalansi ebomini bam. Hayi kuba kufuneka, kodwa kuba ndifuna kwaye kufanelekile. MB

IYBOP iyamangalisa, kwaye iguqule ihlabathi. 🙂 DC

Enkosi ngale ndawo. Ndiyalixabisa kakhulu ixesha kunye nomzamo owubeke apha. Ndandifuna nje ukuqonda oko kwenzekayo kwingqondo yam, kwaye kutheni ndandingaphandle kolawulo. Ndicocekile ngoku ngeentsuku ezingama-20, kwaye zilungile ngeli xesha. Enkosi.

Indawo enomdla esiyifumeneyo ebonakala ngathi ixhomekeke kakhulu kwisayensi ngaphandle kwesigqibo sokuziphatha yiYourBrainOnPorn.com - icacisa kwaye ichaze ngokucacileyo ukuba ukusetyenziswa gwenxa kwe-porn kunokuba neziphumo ezingafunekiyo kwingqondo kwaye inike iingcebiso zokuguqula ezo ziphumo. Em & Lo (iibhlog)

Ndiziva ndinombulelo ngokufumana le ndawo kunye neqela elikhulu labantu abaxhonywe apha. Ubomi bam butshintshiwe lulwazi oluhanjiswe apha. [U-ED wakhe wachacha] LD

Enkosi ngokubeka le webhusayithi imangalisayo kunye nokwabelana ngalo lonke ulwazi oluxabisekileyo ngaphandle kwentlawulo. Ndiyayinyanisa. Umzuzu nabani na ofumana i-EDand enxulumene ne-porn iya kwi-Intanethi, bafumana indawo ezizigidi ezibiza ingalo nomlenze ngalo naluphi na uncedo konke konke, kwaye akukho namnye onikezela ngolwazi kunye nesisombululo esilula osinikezela simahla. Wenza inkonzo enkulu kwihlabathi. PT

Nika uGary i-high-five kum kwaye umxelele ukuba uyaduma. Ndiyathetha, kwaye ngenhlonipho 🙂 JG

Ndisuka e-Indiya. Ndibe ngumlutha wobugqwetha ukususela kwiminyaka eyi-15 okanye eyi-16 Ngeli xesha ndingu 23, ndaqonda ukuba ubomi buyahla. Indawo yakho indincede ndoyisa iphonografi. Nangona ndisawela kwimigibe yakudala ngoku, ubuncinci ngoku ndizama ukulwa ndibulela kuni nonke nina bantu kwaye 'UNCLE BOB' 🙂 IV

Indawo eyoyikekayo! Indincede kakhulu! Enkosi kwakhona ngayo yonke into! MM

Iividiyo ze-YBOP kunye nokuqonda okunyukayo koononophelo njengoluhlobo olumngcipheko olunzulu luye lwaba nesimangalo esimangalisayo nam; ngakumbi iingcamango zobuchopho bamaMalimali, ukudibanisa neenqwelo zethu zemvelo kunye nefuthe le-dopamine yeemifanekiso eziliqela ezihlukeneyo (kunye nabalingani), enye kuphela ekhethiweyo ukuba i-O kunye nabanye be-999 balahlwe ngokukhawuleza kwaye bangaze bajonge kwakhona.

Emva kweminyaka ye-PMO rhoqo, iiyure zonyango lobudlelwane, kunye nolwalamano ngokubanzi 'esihogweni', ezi ngcinga zithetha nam njengendlu yokukhanya elwandle yolwazi olungelulo kunye nolwazi olungenamsebenzi. Andizange ndigxile kwi-porno malunga nonyaka, kodwa emva kokuzonwabisa okungathandekiyo ingqondo yam eyingqondo yandixelela ukuba lixesha lokuba ndinikezele ngoku kulungileyo (kungenjalo ndivakalelwa kukuba andinakuphinda ndibenobudlelwane obunentsingiselo kwakhona). Uluntu lwethu, imho, kufuneka luvuke ngokukhawuleza kule micimbi, ngakumbi xa sinikwa inkcubeko yesini kunye nolawulo lwe-intanethi. TF

 Isiza sakho sikhulu. Ndandiphakamise phezulu naphantsi malunga nesi sihloko, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo yinto endiyifunayo. MJ

Ndifumene le webhsayithi ndinokufumana okuninzi okunokunyusa amandla kunye namandla kulo lonke ulwazi olukhona. Ngokukodwa ukusuka kuthotho lweenxalenye ezintandathu malunga nesiyobisi se-porn esandichaza kakhulu kum. Enkosi, Gary. Ndicinga ukuba olona lwazi luxabisekileyo kum yayiyinxalenye yokulahleka kwe-dopamine receptors, okubangelwa ngumlutha, kwaye kuthetha ukuthini oku kwinkqubo. Olu ngcelele lundenze ukuba ndifumane owona mfanekiso mkhulu. Ndavakalelwa ngokungathi ndiyayibona yonke le meko ukusuka phezulu, ndizibona ngokwam kunye nobungakanani bento eqhelekileyo. I-DI

UGary ujoyine onke amachaphaza, kwaye akukho mntu ucela umngeni ngokufanelekileyo kuwo onke amachaphaza awajoyinileyo, kodwa abayithandi nje into enkulu. AS

Ndihlala ndikrokrela ukuba i-ED yam ibangelwa kukusebenzisa iphonografi. Into engqondweni yam indixelele lonto, ngathi yintaka encinci kwikona emnyama ikhala ndicela uncedo. Ngoku ndiyifumene le webhusayithi ndiyazi ukuba eli lizwi lalilungile. Ndiza kuphila. Akukhathaleki nokuba kuya kuthatha ixesha elingakanani, ndiza kuzikhusela kulobu busuku. Ndiyabulela uthixo ukhona umntu oqonde le meko kwaye onika ulwazi olubalulekileyo ngayo.

Basinika ukuxhumeka kwe-intanethi ngokukhawuleza, i-porno, kwaye kunokuba xa sihlaselwa, bazama ukusithengisa. Enye enye inzulu enzonzobileni ingakwazi ukulahleka ngaphandle kokwazi oko kwenzekayo kubo. Simele sixelele abantu. Ndiyabulela .. ukusuka ngasezantsi entliziyweni yam. JO

Ndifuna ukukubulela ngale ndawo. Kuba ndifunde iiposti zakho (ezininzi bendinexesha namandla kuzo) kwiintsuku ezili-148 ezidlulileyo, andikhe ndaziva ndinomnqweno okanye ndifuna ukujonga iphonografi. Emva kokuba ndifunde amanqaku kwingqondo, ndiyekile nje kwangolo suku, kwaye khange ndikhangele emva oko. Kwakhona, enkosi. Ndingumfazi, ndineminyaka eyi-32, eSweden. SG

Ndiyakwazi ukuncika kwiminwe yesandla esinye inani leenayithi ezi-intanethi ezifanelekileyo, kunye neyakho enye yazo. TK

Emva kokuba neengxaki kwigumbi lokulala ne-ex yam, ndaye ndaya kwiimpendulo ze-Yahoo ndikhangela abantu abafumana iingxaki ezifanayo nezam, kwaye ndakhubeka kwiwebhusayithi yakho 'Yengqondo yakho kwi-Porn'. Emva kokubukela nje ikhonkco levidiyo ye-Youtube yaziva kum njenge-epiphany! Ndicinga ukuba 'Ubunzima bakho kwi-Porn' mhlawumbi YI-website ehamba phambili yezononophelo endiyifumene nayo !! I-DS

Ndifuna nje ukuthi… Enkosi kwaye uThixo akusikelele. Iwebhusayithi yakho indinike ulwalathiso olutsha kakhulu. Ndilahlekile ngokupheleleyo. AG

Enkosi kuni nobabini noGary ngolwazi. Ukuba andizange ndikhubeke kwi-YBOP ngendisesekulo lusizi bendikulo iminyaka emininzi.

Ndiyicinga ngolwazi kwiwebhusayithi yakho kwaye luza kuthumela ulwazi lwakho kuninzi njengoko ndinako. VR

Ndiyabulela uMarnia lonke ixesha lakhe kunye noGary malunga nakho konke uphando lwakhe nokuzinikezela. Ndiyakwazi ukuthetha ngokunyanisekileyo umhla ndifumene i-yourbrainonporn.com ingenye yeentsuku ezibalulekileyo ebomini bam. CR

I-YBOP iye yanceda kakhulu kwaye ngaphandle kwayo ndicinga ukuba ngekhe ndikhathazeke ngento engalunganga ngam! Enkosi kuwe nakumyeni wakho ndikhe ndayeka ukubukela iphonografi ngaphezulu nje kwenyanga ngoku kwaye andicingi ukuba ndakuze ndijonge emva. UJK

Ndiyakholelwa ukuba ungokoqobo, uGary. Unceda izigidi zamadoda ukuxazulula iingxaki ze-ED ngaphandle kokuba abantu bathathe naziphi na iziyobisi.

Yiyo eyenzekayo kum: Ukulandela inkqubo yakho yokuqalisa kwakhona ngaphantsi kwenyanga ndiyenze inkqubela phambili kunokuba neebhokisi ze-Cialis ne-Viagra.

Ufanelwe ukwamkelwa kwinqanaba lehlabathi ngegalelo lakho kwintlalontle yoluntu. Ndingathanda ukuba yinxalenye yoku kwaye ndikuncede usasaze iingcinga zakho kwihlabathi liphela, kubantu abangathethi isiNgesi. Wonke umntu kufuneka azi ngeziphumo ezibi zesantya esiphezulu se-intanethi kumphefumlo wamadoda kunye nepenisi. Enkosi ngokuphucula ubomi bam. MH

Ndifuna ukukubulela ngale webhusayithi imangalisayo. Kuye kwasindisa ubomi kwaye kunceda kakhulu njengoko ndizama ukulahla i-pornography. Ndiphakathi kwinjongo yam kwaye ndiyifumanisa ingekho nzima njengoko bendicinga ukuba inokuba njalo. CW

Kuziva kulungile ukwazi ukuba andisodwa kwaye kukho abanye abantu ngaphandle apho baye bafumana le ngxaki efanayo. Ndiyabulela kakhulu ukusebenzela ukufumana ulwazi ngaphandle. Ingcaciso endiyifunayo inokusindisa ubomi bam

Ndifuna ukukubulela noGary ngawo wonke umsebenzi kunye namandla owafaka kule ndawo. Kuyamangalisa ngokwenene. NKSK

Ndibukele ingqondo yakho kwiividiyo ezingamanyala kwiminyaka embalwa eyadlulayo kwaye ndifuna ukukubulela ngokusuka emazantsi entliziyo yam. Andizange ndigqibe ukulungiswa ngaphandle kwabasetyhini, ndahamba ekubeni ndiyintombi eneminyaka eyi-23 ubudala ukuze ndikwazi ukulala ngesithandwa sam ngoku. Emva koko ndaphinda ndaqala kwakhona kwaye ndaphinda ndaphinda ndaphinda ndaphinda ndaphinda ndaphinda ndaphinda ndaphinda ndaphinda ndaphinda ndaphinda ndaphinda ndaphinda ndaphinda ndaphinda ndaphinda ndaphinda ndabuya kwakhona iminyaka eyi-2 kwaye yayiyimeko enzima into yokuba abantu abaninzi abayiqondiyo kukuba kuya kuthatha ixesha ukuphilisa. Khange ndiphinde ndibuyele kwimifanekiso engamanyala kwiminyaka emibini kodwa bendine-orgasm neqabane kwaye kwathatha iminyaka eyi-2 ukuphilisa. Ndiza kuthumela ibali eliyimpumelelo kungekudala, enkosi kwakhona ukuba ibingenguwe / mfazi kunye nendawo yakho ngendingazi ukuba ndiza kuba phi ebomini bam. PR

Singoovulindlela. Kukho ingxaki enkulu ye-porn kunye namadoda kwisizukulwana y nakwizilandelayo kunye nokufikelela kwayo akukaze kuqale ukuqondwa okanye ukubalwa. Ndixela kwangaphambili ukuba kwisithuba seminyaka emihlanu kuya kubakho amanani amakhulu amaqela anceda abantu ukuba baphinde baphile kwi-porn, kwaye esi iya kuba sisihloko esithandwa kakhulu. Kodwa okwangoku singoovulindlela abahamba apha kuthi kwaye sizama ukulwa nesiyobisi. Sichitha amatyathanga ethu ukuze sibuyele ebomini. JA

Thx kakhulu kwiYBOP. Ningabasebenzi bokukhanya bokwenyani. Enkosi kuwe kube kunokwenzeka ukuba ndizazi ngcono kakhulu. Undifunqule xa ndiphantsi wandibuyisela kwindlela eyiyo. Awunawo amagama ayinyani, kodwa enkosi amawaka ezihlandlo. TM

Ndifumene ngengozi le webhusayithi kwaye ndinombulelo ongazenzekiyo. Kwakuyixesha lokuqala ndiqonda ukuba ndiyilikhoboka loononophala kunye nendlela ebuchaphazele ngayo ubomi bam beemvakalelo ngakumbi ubomi bam bezesondo. Ndisebenzisa izixhobo zakho kunye neengcebiso zokuhlala kude ne-porn, kwaye ndiziva ndiqinisekile kwaye ndiqinisekile ukuba ndingayenza. Ukusebenzisa icebo lokucoca ulwelo kundincedile kakhulu, kwaye sele ndiphumelele iintsuku ezili-15 ngaphandle koononophala ngaphambi kokuwa. Kodwa ndiphinde ndaqala kwakhona kwaye ndiyazimisela ukubuyisela ubomi bam ngokwesondo kunye nobomi bam. Enkosi ngale ndawo, kunye nenkxaso yesayensi. I-LD

Inkqubela phambili entle yenziwe kwintsuku ezili-100 ezidlulileyo. Ngokwenene ndingumntu omtsha ngokwezakhono zentlalo kunye nokuxubusha. Andinakutsho ukuba bendinalo naluphi na uxinzelelo kutshanje. Ndiyaqala ukubona umahluko phakathi kovalo kunye noxinzelelo. Ixhala liyakukhubekisa, ngelixa uvalo lukulungiselela nje. Emva kokubandezeleka, andikhe ndizive xa ndinoloyiko. Kufana nokufana kwedonut kwi-baseball, xa uziqhelanisa nabo bonke ubunzima kwilulwane lakho kwaye ngequbuliso ulahlekelwe, uziva ngathi ilulwane alinasisindo. NgoMgqibelo kufuneka ndinike intetho phambi kwabantu abaninzi endingabaziyo. ngelixa ndingafuni ukuyenza, andinaxhala ngayo.

Kwiintsuku ze-100 ezidlulileyo umbono wale nto ngewundikhathaze kangangeeveki. Kananjalo khange ube nexhala xa uthetha namantombazana. Mhlawumbi kwakhona olo loyiko kodwa luyaphela emva kokuba ndiqalisile ukuthetha. Ndivile ngokwendalo nangakumbi ngokwenyani. Ngokujonga emva, ngaphandle kolu luntu ngendandinyanyekile. Mhlawumbi ngekhe ndiyeke i-PMOing, kwaye ngekhe ndibenako ukuba nobudlelwane obuqhelekileyo okanye obuthandanayo nabasetyhini. Yiloo ndlela ukuphakama kwam ukuxhalaba kwabasetyhini kuye kwaba. Ngaphandle kwale ndawo, ngendandiyamkele inyani yokuba ndincanca abasetyhini, kwaye ukuba uneminyaka eyi-11 ubudala ungcono kumantombazana kuneminyaka eyi-22. I kZ Mpondo

Oko kwaqala njengokufuna ulwazi malunga nengxaki eyaziwayo (i-ED enxulumene ne-porn) indikhokelele kule ndawo kwaye ndiye ndaqonda ukuba kunokubakho okungakumbi emfanekisweni emva koko kuqala kudibana neliso. Ndiyabulela kakhulu kule ndawo kunye noluntu lwayo. Ngokufunda amanqaku, kunye neforum, ndiziva ngathi iyandinyanga kwaye ndibuyisele apho bendifanele ukuba ndikhoyo. NZ

Nanini na xa ndifumana imvakalelo yokuba ndibone i-pornography, ndiyotyelela i-yourbrainonporn.com kwaye indigcina rhoqo 🙂 Ndiyabonga kuGary kunye nomnye. kwakhona. DM

NgoDisemba ophelileyo ndiye ndadibana neYBOP, kwaye kufuneka nditsho ukuba kwakunjengamaza okuqonda andibetha ndiphindaphinda. Andikwazi ukuthethelela, okanye ifilosofi ibekwe phambi kwam. SS

Ndifuna ukuvakalisa umbulelo wam onzulu kuwe ngokudala Ubunzima Bakho Kwi-Porn. Ngokwenza njalo uye waba nguvulindlela kwindawo engaziwayo. Ngapha koko, bobabini kunye noMarnia, ngokusebenzisa iiwebhusayithi zakho kunye nomcibisholo onetyhefu weCupid, uye waba sisibane kwabo banengxaki yokufumana iphonografi - isibindi sakho, ukugwetywa kunye nokunyaniseka akukho nto incomekayo. Ndinomdla omkhulu kwesi sifundo kule minyaka imbalwa idlulileyo kwaye indawo ibingumthombo omkhulu kwaye wahlukile. Andikwazi ukugxininisa indlela obaluleke ngayo umsebenzi wakho kwaye uzakuqhubeka ubalulekile. Ukudityaniswa kweBongo yakho kwi-Porn kunye nokuDibana kwakhona yinto elwa ngexesha elifanelekileyo kooyeha bethu abaninzi! MD

Ndiyabulela kakhulu ngolwazi kunye noluntu; ngokwenene yenza ubomi bube bhetele! JN

Enkosi ngawo wonke umsebenzi wakho kule ngxaki kunye ne-karezza ngokunjalo. Ndiyazi ukuba uncede ubomi obuninzi kwaye le nto yokulutha iyeza ingalindelekanga. Ukuqala kwam ukujonga ekubuyiseleni uninzi lwento ebikho ngaphandle yinkolo kwaye ndikhetha indlela esekwe kulwazi, oyinike yona noGary. Ndiyabulela kakhulu ngale nto kwaye ndonwabile ukuba bekukho abo badlulisa itotshi, ngokutsho oko. Eyona minqweno mihle kuwe nakweyiphi na indawo yomsebenzi oyilandelayo.

Ndifuna nje ukubulela wena ngokwenza iYBOP.com. Ukusukela oko ndafumanisa le ndawo ndiye ndadandatheka kakhulu apho ukuzibulala kuye kwanda ukubanembono elungileyo. Ndizabalazile kakhulu (kwaye ndisenza njalo) ngokubuyela kwakhona kwi-porn kodwa ikwindlela elungileyo. Kule mpelaveki ndibenayo neyokuqala ebomini bam. Ndiqinisekile nge-100% ukuba ngaphandle kwewebhusayithi yakho kunye nolwazi olufunyenwe apho ngekhe lwenzeke. Ndingatsho ngokukhuselekileyo ukuba undisindisile kumzamo wokuzibulala uqhubeke ngakumbi emgceni kunye nobomi bokubandezeleka kwengqondo. Andisoze ndadibana nawe, kodwa unombulelo wam ngalo lonke ixesha ndiphila! YG

Ndinayo inzululwazi kunye nemfundo yezonyango, kwaye ndikholelwa kakhulu ukuba le mbono ifuna ukuphuma phaya. Yonke inkolo / indlela yehlazo iyonke i-BS imo. Siphulukana nethuba lokufundisa abafana abancinci abanengxaki yomzimba eyiyo kanye ngaphakathi kwengqondo yabo. Ngokusisiseko, ndinqwenela ukuba bendifundile ngale minyaka ili-10-15 eyadlulayo. Ndisena-27 ngethemba lokuba ayikabi late. I-LD

UMarnia noGary: into oyenzayo ibaluleke kakhulu kwaye ndonwabile ukuba ndikufumene kwaye ndifunde lukhulu kuwe. Ndinqwenela ukuba abantu abaninzi ngakumbi baqonde intsingiselo yomsebenzi wakho. Usinceda ngokuthe ngqo ukuba siphume emhadini siye kumkhondo oya kulonwabo. Abakho baninzi kakhulu abantu abayenzayo le nto. Enkosi! MP

Umyeni wam usandul 'ujoyine isayithi, kwaye ndivuyiswa kukuba ufumana inkxaso, isikhokelo, ugqozi ngokubanzi kuluntu apha. LW

Jonga nje intetho yakho yeTEDx. Enkosi!!!! Umfazi wam kunye nam siyoyika ukuba asikaze siqale ukubona iziphumo ezizeleyo zeziyobisi ezingamanyala kuluntu lwethu okwangoku. Sinenkwenkwana eneenyanga ezili-17 ubudala kwaye siyoyika kakhulu ngekamva kwaye sihlala sikhangela iindlela zokumgcina endleleni elungileyo. Xa ixesha lifika, uphando lwakho ngokuqinisekileyo luya kwazisa iingxoxo zethu naye ngesihloko. FP

Ndiyazibuza ukuba ubusithi… "udimazekile" ngabantu abasebenza kumzi mveliso we-porn? Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, lishishini elikhulu kwaye ukuba abantu bavuke bakuqonda ukuba kuyonakalisa impilo, bangaphulukana nemali eninzi. Indawo yakho kuphela kohlobo lwayo ngokokwazi kwam, kwaye yeyona inengqiqo. Uninzi lweendawo ezithetha ngokuchasene ne-porn zibonakala ngathi ziyabathanda abantu. Ndiyaqhubeka ndihambelana neenkolelo ze-taoist malunga nayo, kodwa ndiyathanda indlela eniyifaka ngayo inzululwazi kuyo ngaphandle kokukhetha inkolo, kwaye ngaphandle kokuhlasela i-porn okanye ukuyibiza ngokuba yinto embi kwaye kungenjalo. I-DM

Nina bantu niyiminyaka engaphambi kwazo naziphi na 'iingcali' ezingamanyala okanye iziyobisi. Ndimele ndibulele kakhulu ngokubeka ndawonye iiwebhusayithi ezintle kwaye ndithatha ixesha kunye nomzamo wokujonga esi sihloko. Ndiyazi ukuba ekugqibeleni le meko iya kwamkelwa ngabantu abaqhelekileyo kodwa ngokwenene ningoovulindlela. CH

(Ubudala 37) Nanini na xa ndiphumelele kunye nentombazana okanye ndingakwazi ukuyifumana iphonografi yayihlala ikho ukuze indiqinisekise ukuba yonke into isebenza ngendlela ebekufanele ukuba yiyo ibiyotywala. Ubudlelwane obuninzi obuye basilela kunye namathuba amangalisayo aphosiweyo ongezelelweyo kumjikelo wokusetyenziswa kwe-porn. Ukufumanisa ubuchopho bakho kwi-Porn kuqala ndandicinga ukuba yi-New Age Hippy Pseudo Science, kwaye 'ingaba yinyani njani le?' Ngaphandle kokuzama ukuyeka ukubukela iphonografi izihlandlo ezininzi kwixa elidlulileyo, bendingenguye umlutha; Ndiyakuthanda ukuyenza. Ngubani endimonzakalisayo? Abahlohli, oogqirha kunye nemithombo yeendaba zigcwele "ukuphulula amalungu esini kulungile", ukukhanya okuluhlaza ukuyibetha de uyeke.

Ukukhanyela kuyimvakalelo enamandla kwaye nangoku nangona uthi, "Ndingumlutha woononophala" Andizikholelwa nangona ndiyazi. Ukusinda kwisiselo kunye neziyobisi, kwaye ndatyholwa siscreen kwikona yegumbi! Emva kokubuyela kwisiza ndaqonda ukuba bonke aba bantu bafumana izinto ezifanayo kanye endandinazo kule minyaka idlulileyo. I-ED ngamantombazana ashushu, ukurhoxa kubahlobo, kunye nokuziva nje inkunkuma. Ukwazi ukuba abanye banexesha le-shit yintuthuzelo enkulu ngesizathu esithile.

Ndifuna ukukubulela ngale ndawo, njengoko incedise ukuba ndihlaziye ngokucacileyo imeko yam ngaphandle kwayo yonke imibo-jumbo yengqondo. EG

 Ndikubukele kwiividiyo kwaye ndeva izwi lakho kumathotholo e-radio, Gary, kodwa andikaze nditsho ukuba enkosi. Ngoku ndineminyaka engama-51 kwaye ndonwabile ubomi obude ngumsebenzisi we-P kunye no-M, umsebenzi wakho uvule amehlo am kwiminyaka emibini eyadlulayo malunga nokuba inokujongwa njani xa sikhetha inkululeko. Ndifuna ukuyeka ngaphambili kodwa ndingaqinisekanga ukuba kunokwenzeka. Enkosi kwakhona. FJ

Gary, ndinqwenela ukuba ndingashukumisa isandla sam buqu kwaye ndiyabulela ngento ulwazi lwendawo yakho olundenzele lona. Kwisithuba esingaphantsi kweeveki ezi-6, iinguqu sele zifakelwe umbane. Uyiyo kwaye uyaqhubeka ukuba yintsikelelo ebomini bam…. Khange ndiwaqonde kakuhle amandla endalo okuphilisa ngaphandle koogqirha kunye nonyango lokuyalela de ndafumana indawo yakho. Ndiyaqhubeka nokufunda amanqaku amaninzi kunye nolwazi osinike lona kwaye ngokuthe chu (kwaye iyaqhubeka nokwenza njalo) ibutshintshile ubomi bam. JB

Ngokuqinisekileyo, kufuneka ndiyithathe eli thuba ukuthetha enkosi kuni nobabini ngako konke enikwenzileyo, nobabini I-Arrow Poisoned Arrow kunye nezinto zeYBOP. Wena noGary niqale into really Kwaye, yonke le nto yenze umahluko omkhulu ebomini bam. Ndonwabile ukusasaza eli lizwi kuzo zombini ezi ndawo, kwaye ndinceda abantu abaninzi ukuba baphucule ubudlelwane babo neziqu zabo, kunye nabanye

(Ubudala be-30, iinyanga ze-4) Iyaqhubeka ukuba ngcono kwaye ingcono. Ndiyathemba kakhulu kubafazi ngoku kuhlekisayo. Kwaye ayilulo uhlobo oluthile lwe-sleezy, ukuzithemba, kodwa ngakumbi ukuzola, ukuziva kulula kokuzithemba. Iimpawu ezindala, ezindala, zesini zendalo ezijika nam ngoku (njengaxa umfazi ephosa iinwele zakhe emva, ehamba ngobumnandi, ukujija okufihlakeleyo kwesinqe, okanye endincumela). Iintsuku zoononophala ziphelile kwaye impembelelo yam engqondweni yam iphantse yaphela. Nina bantu nibethelela isikhonkwane entloko kwaye ndiqinisekile ukuba enikubhalileyo malunga ne-porn, indawo yokufumana umvuzo, ukonyusa kunye nokusebenza ngokwesondo ukuba kuyinyani yesayensi. PH

Umsebenzi wakho yinto yonke kum. Ndiya kuba ngumbonge ngonaphakade. Ndiyazibuza ngamanye amaxesha, bekuya kwenzeka ntoni ukuba andizange ndikhuphe kwiYBOP. DG

Umcebisi wam uyingcaphephe ekucebiseni umlutha kwaye ndamguqula kwi-YBOP kwaye wabonakala enomdla kuyo njengoncedo olungenalo unqulo lokubuyisela umlutha wesondo. Le nto iyakhutshwa ngoku. Amadoda amancinci afumana ubomi bawo emva kwakho kwaye wena noGary nifake kwi-AOTOT of work. Ndiziqhenycele ukubonisa le ndawo kwindawo yokuphucula / umlutha / isayensi yoluntu. RH

I-YBOP ibe yenye yezinto ezifunwa kakhulu ebomini bam. DE

Ndifuna nje ukuthi enkosi uthi ndiyifumene iwebhusayithi yakho. Yonke into icinyiwe xa ndibukele iividiyo zakho kwaye ndifunde ezinye iiakhawunti zokuqalisa kwakhona. Ndijike nje ngenye imini engama-30 kwaye ndikwimini ye-9 ye-PMO, emva kweminyaka eli-15 ndilikhoboka. Ndinethemba elikhulu ngekamva kwaye ndizimisele ukuyibetha le. Sele ndibona utshintsho olululo, ngaphandle kweesymtoms zokurhoxisa, njengokunyuswa kokulumkisa nokuphinda into yabasetyhini kubomi bokwenyani! ITH

Ndifuna nje ukubonga ngokuba lonke ulwazi olukhulu kwisayithi. Ndibe ngumsebenzisi owonwabileyo kwiminyaka emininzi, kwaye ndineempawu ezimbalwa zezilumkiso kodwa andizange ndiyiqonde into eyenzekayo. Ngamanye amaxesha ndiza kuba neenqweno zokugcoba embhedeni, kodwa kwakungekho nto ndide ndiye ndavula ikhompyutha. JS

Enkosi Gary ngawo wonke umsebenzi owenzayo kule ndawo. Ngokucacileyo kusekho ukungavisisani okuninzi malunga nale micimbi, kodwa ube nefuthe elikhulu kwingxoxo kwaye uncede abantu abangenakubalwa ukuba baphonononge umba ngokwabo. Nokuba yeyiphi na indlela iphonografi etshintsha ngayo ubuchwephesha bobuchwephesha (kumava, ndiyakholelwa ukuba ibalulekile), inyani yokuba ubonelela ngophando oluchanekileyo, injongo, kunye nogwebo kubafana ukuba baqwalasele, ngenxa yenzuzo encinci kakhulu, iyancomeka. Qhubeka nomsebenzi omkhulu! AG

Unokwenza inkonzo enqabileyo karhulumente, efunekayo ukukhokela esi sizukulwana kuzo zonke iinkcukacha ezingamanga ezijikelezayo. ST

Kakhulu, izinto eziqhelekileyo-kwaye zichazwe kakuhle. Ndinomhlobo olungileyo osandula ukuthobela ingcebiso yale khasi lewebhu. Nangona wayenomdla kakhulu kwintombi yakhe, wayengenakukwazi ukukhupha i-ejaculate ngenxa yeminyaka yokuchithwa kwe-masturbating kwi-intanethi. Uye wazishenxisa ezo ndlela ngokungaphulula amaphambili kwinyanga. Ngoku uhlala egqibezela- kwaye isondo singcono kunangaphambili - undixelela. Ndineengxaki ezifanayo, kwaye ndiye ndathetha nabahlobo bam abaninzi abafanayo- kwaye bonke bakhomba kwinto enye. Kumnandi ukubona uphando kunye neenkcazo ezilungileyo ezingagcini nje 'ngokuqinisekisa' ukukhetha, kodwa eneneni 'zibonisa' ukuba zivela njani kwimbono yendaleko. NS

Andicingi ngayo nayiphi na enye impembelelo emhlabeni egqwetha ubuntu. Amanye amachiza kunye nokuziphatha kunokuwenzakalisa umzimba kodwa xa into enje iqala ukuphazamisa into esiqhubayo kwaye isishukumisela ebomini (uthando), kuyinto ebuhlungu kakhulu ukubona iimpembelelo zoononophala- ungazithatheli phantsi iinzame kunye nempumelelo uninzi olwenzileyo ngokuphumelela. Iziyobisi.

Ngelixa ndiphoxekile ngesiqu sam, ndiyayiphepha kwaye ndinethemba kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo iphakamisile inkcaso yam. Kuya kufuneka yenziwe ngokungekho mthethweni. Andikwazi ukulinganisa ukuba kutheni kufanele kubekho ithuba lokuba abantu babe nokufikelela kwinto eyonakalisayo. Ayivakali ngathi kufanele ukuba ibe lukhetho okanye ukhetho. Ukunyanzeliswa kuvakala njengekhosi enengqondo-nokuba kukwimo enobulali. Kutheni usazisa umzimba ngokutya esidlangalaleni kunye nokondla umnqweno wendalo onokuthi ngokulula uphume kulawulo njengokwabelana ngesondo? Ukwahlula ukuzinikela komntu kwiqabane lakhe - nokuba kukucinga okanye kukwenza.

Ukunika abantu ukhetho akunyanzelekanga ukuba kusinike inkululeko- hayi ukuba ubophelela ikhoboka kwinto ethile ngokwasemoyeni, ngokwasemphefumlweni, ngokwasentlalweni, ngokomoya nangokwasemzimbeni. BW

Le nto uyenzayo yinkqubela phambili… kwaye imalunga nomvuzo wesekethe phantse kuyo nayiphi na indlela yokuziphatha okanye into. GJ

I-YBOP ibutshintshile ubomi bam. Andisekho umlutha wezobisi. Andizukuphinda ndisebenzise iphonografi ebomini bam. Kungenxa yokuba ubomi endibuzuzileyo ngokuyeka kwam bungcono kakhulu! Andikwazi ukubulela abantu apha ngokwaneleyo- enkosi kakhulu! AG

Ukufumana oku yayisisisiqabu esikhulu, ekugqibeleni ukufumana iimpendulo kwimibuzo endingazanga ndiyibuze. Ndiyabulela kakhulu. Bendihlala ndicinga ukuba ndiya kuhlala ndinjalo, kungafuneka ndamkele izinto kwaye ndijongane nazo ngendlela yam yabucala. Ngoku ndiyazi, ndinengxaki, kwaye iindaba ezimnandi zezi… xa ucinga ngayo… ayisiyiyo yonke loo nto kunzima ukuyilungisa. Usuku lwe-28 kwaye sele ndibone ukuphuculwa. FD

Ndaphendule ubomi bam ngokubulela kule ndawo. NOKUBA

(Iintsuku ezingama-400) Le yayikukuphela kwendawo endinokuyifumana ngokulula eyayinokuqonda kwemicimbi yam. Ugqirha womchamo wayengenalo nofifi kwaye i-SLAA kwakunzima ukuyifumana isiyobisi esineentloni. I-YBOP <YBR, SLAA, iincwadi zabahlobo, ukwenza i-ammend kwi-GF yam xa bebonke benze iqhinga. Inkqubo iyaqhubeka. Enkosi kwakhona undenzele inkonzo engenakulinganiswa. RG

Ndimtsha kwiforum. Ndiyakholelwa ukuba ndiye ndaqala ukubukela i-intanethi kwi-12-13 ubudala, andazi manani ngqo. Okwangoku ndineminyaka engama-22 ubudala. Umatshi wama-20 ka-2011 (ndandineminyaka engama-21 ngelo xesha) ndadibana nekhonkco kwiforum eyayinxibelelana ne-www.yourbrainonporn.com emva koko zonke iziqwenga zepuzzle zaqala ukudibana.

Kutheni ndingakwazi ukuphuma ebhedini yam kusasa, kutheni ndikuthiyile ukufunda kwam, kutheni ngamanye amaxesha bendinexhala kwezentlalo, kutheni ndinengxaki yokungakhuthazi kunye nesimo sengqondo esibi kuyo yonke into. Lo ngumhla endifumene ngawo malunga neziyobisi zam.

Le mini iinyanga ze-7 kunye neentsuku ze-8 emva komhla ndafumanisa malunga nomlutha wam. Ndisachacha kwaye ndiziva ngathi kuya kulunga kwaye kungcono. Ingqondo yam ndiyakholelwa nangona ingekafunyanwa ngokupheleleyo kodwa ndiziva ngathi ngengqondo ndiyachacha ngakumbi nangakumbi. Ndiqala ukuba nesimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo kwaye ukubuyela umva kwakhona akundenzi njengakuqala.

Ukusukela ngala mhla ndafumanisa ukuba izinto ezininzi zitshintshile kum. Kuyaphambana, kufana nokuba ekugqibeleni ndiphinda ndibe ndim kwakhona. Ndiyekile ukufunda kwam (kodwa ngendlela elungileyo), ndifudukele kwindawo yam, ndaqala ukuzilolonga, ndatshintsha imikhwa yam, ukuxhoma kunye nabahlobo ngakumbi. Ngokusisiseko into endiyiqondileyo kukuba andihambi kwicala elifanelekileyo. Kodwa ngexesha lokulutha kwam bendisemhlabeni okanye into ethile, ndiye ndayiqonda ukuba andonwabanga ngale nto ndiyenzayo kodwa khange ndenze manyathelo okutshintsha nantoni na.

Ngoku kukho umbuzo endifuna ukukubuza wona kuba ngamanye amaxesha uza engqondweni nam. Kwaye, ndandingazi ukuba ndilikhoboka, ndingazi ukuba iphonografi ibilikhoboka. Khange ndicinge ngayo, nokuba kukanye. Akunakuze. Ndenza i-masturbated, ekugqibeleni kumgangatho bhanyabhanya osasazayo, ukuqala ngemifanekiso ekuqaleni. Andizange ndicinge ngale nto ukuba ndilikhoboka lolunye uhlobo olunokuthi lundiphembelele ngandlela thile. Ewe, bendingayazi le ndlela yokuziphatha, ndiyenzile nje. Ukujonga ngasemva kuyavakala kuba kunjalo yingqondo yakho ye-limbic elawula ukuba uphulula amaphambili.

Nam ndiyakholelwa ukuba ukuba andizukufumana ikhonkco ngomhla we-20 wokuhamba, bendiya kuba yi-zombie (ndingazi) umlutha we-porn. Kwaye iyandoyikisa. Umbuzo wesifundo emva koko uyalandela .. bekuya kwenzeka ntoni ukuba andifumananga. Ngokukrakra, le nto ingumbulali ocothayo, indlela endandihlala ngayo, kwakungathi andiphili nyani okanye into. Yiyo loo nto indoyikisayo uyazi, kuba ungathini ukuba awusoze ufumanise? Ndiqinisekile ukuba isihogo sasingazi ngale nto, ngayo yonke into yokuhambisa amalungu esini, uluntu ngokubanzi alwazi ukuba kwenzeka ntoni. Bacinga ukuba ukuphulula amalungu esini kuphilile, nam ngokunjalo. Kwaye ngenxa yokuba isenzeka kwinqanaba lokungazi, khange ndiqaphele, kwaye bendikhupha ingqondo yam ngaphandle kwam yonke into endiyaziyo, eyona nto uyiyo / ungubani njengomntu ukuba.

 Akukho mntu ukhankanya oko www.yourbrainonporn.com ayisi malunga "nokuyeka ukuphulula amalungu esini". Imalunga nokubuyisela i-dopamine receptors yakho kunye nokwenza ukuba isondo lakho liqhubeke lisempilweni. Eyona nto iphambili malunga nokuba yindoda enesondo esempilweni. Ukucela umngeni kwinkolelo yokuba "ayinamsebenzi into oyenzayo". Ukuyekisa umntu onenkqubo yesondo esempilweni sisihogo esahluke kakhulu kunomntu onengqondo engenantambo kwaye elambile yidopamine ukuba "azive eqhelekileyo". Oko kubizwa ngokuba likhoboka.

Izilingo zokuziphatha zisebenza nge-dopamine fuck-up njengawo nawuphi na umlutha.

Ndicinga ukuba ukusebenzisa le ngqondo ephosakeleyo ngamehlo ekunqongopheni kwe-dopamine receptors kuyisiqalo. Abantu baya kuqonda ukuba isimo sengqondo sentlalo nayiphi na indlela yokuziphatha ngokwesondo, nokuba ilawulwe ngaphaya okanye ayilawulwa phantsi.

Njengoko bekutshiwo kwi-RSD, "iiFom zeNdalo" yindlela yokuhamba. Kufanelekile ukuba ufumane inyani malunga nendlela esisebenza ngayo njengamadoda. Andisalithembi uluntu lwasentshona kuyo nayiphi na le nto. Oko kuya kukutya, isondo, umsebenzi, ubudlelwane nantoni na. Ikhemesti yomvuzo wobuchopho ikhona ngenxa yesizathu kunye nokunyuselwa kwehyper kunye nokunyanzelwa akunako “ukungabinakho ukwenzakala” ngenxa yokuba ndiyidinga ukuze ilizwe lam leenkolelo lingaphikiswa.

Le ndawo yeyona yenye yezona zibalulekileyo endakhe ndazindwendwela, okanye ndiza kuzindwendwela. Enkosi ngalo lonke ulwabelwano kunye nayo yonke inkxaso yakho. I-PS

Abafana bancedisa kakhulu, kwaye ndiya kuhlala ndibe netyala kuwe nakuMarnia. Ndiyabonga abantu bonke. U undibonise ngokwenene ukuba kukho enye indlela yokuphila. Enkosi. kunye nenhlanhla ngokukhanyisa abantu !!! EO

Le yinzululwazi entsha… kwaye kwinto endinokuyixela, lo mfo ngumntu wokuqala ukudibanisa konke kwaye achaze isizathu kunye nohlobo lwe "reboot" ngokwemigaqo yabantu. Okona kubheja kwakho kukujonga umboniso owenziwe ekhaya owenziwe ngumfo (eneneni ulungile) kwaye emva koko ujonge ingxelo yokuqalisa kwakhona. Akukho ndlela ichanekileyo yoku iyafana kuwo wonke umntu, kodwa eneneni zizonke malunga neendawo ze-receptor. Luhlobo lwesandla esisezantsi. Umfo ubethelele oko kuqhubekayo.

Jonga phezulu UBUCHOPHO BAKHO KWI-PORN, AMANQAKU AMATHANDATHU KWI-SERIES… .YouTube.

Emva koko udibanisa oku kunye nezinye izinto ezininzi ... ngakumbi ubunyani bobathathu (iinxalenye ezintathu) kwengqondo, kunye nefuthe lomothuko, iswekile, ukhuthazo… lubalasele. Njengoko ubona, ukuphulula amaphambili "ngokulungileyo okanye okubi" kwaphela kwaye akunamsebenzi. Njengenqaku elingadibaniyo nelingasentla kwesihloko, ukuphulula amaphambili kwakusetyenziswa njengendlela yokuhlazisa abantu iminyaka, kunye nokufumana ulawulo kubo. Kwakhona, ayinamsebenzi. Ndingathi kubalulekile ukuyisusa le nto kwisihloko ukuze sihlale sicacile ukuba siyintoni na.

Lo mfo uthathe isigqibo sokuba angabinakujikeleza kwaye alwenzile uphando. Ayisiyiyo loo nto kuphela, indawo igcwele ngabantu abenza oku, kwaye inika ingxelo eyiyo. Xa sele uyithethile loo nto, ukuba uyala ngokwaneleyo, kunokwenzeka ukuba uyigxothe. Ngokukhanyela, nantoni na enokwenzeka. Ukuphika kuqala ngesiphelo kwaye kusebenze ngasemva. Lo mfo upake nje naluphi na ucalucalulo kwaye wenza umsebenzi. Konke kusendaweni. Abafana abavela kuzo zonke iinkalo zobomi, bonke ubudala kunye neentlobo ezahlukeneyo zamava.

Into engekaphumi okwangoku iya kuba kukunyanzelwa ukuba usebenze ngokwesondo nangaluphi na uhlobo. Nakuphi na ukunyanzelwa ngokwenyani. Yonke inokuba yinto efanayo ukuba uthetha ngeendawo ze-D2 dopamine receptor. Iziselo ezinxilisayo zinokuthatha i-atypical anti-psychotic ezisebenza kwii-D2 receptors ukunciphisa iminqweno… .same circuits yomvuzo wobuchopho (jonga: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Quetiapine ). Kwakhona, ngokubhekiselele kwesi sihloko, ihlabathi lihlala lihleli.

Njengamaxesha onke inqaku ELIQHELEKILEYO likaGary Wilson… inani lesalathiso sephepha lesayensi linomdla ... oku kukufumana okunzulu kunye nophando… indawo enkulu, ulwazi oluqinileyo !!! kulungile ukuba neGary kunye neqela 🙂 BB

Marnia & Gary, nobabini nibutshintshile ubomi bam kwaye nibutshintsha babangcono. Eyona nto ibalaseleyo endinokukhumbula ngayo, yayiyiminyaka emibini edlulileyo namhlanje ukuba ndikhubekile kwiYBOP kwaye ndenze isinyathelo sokuqala ekulawuleni ubomi bam. Le yimfazwe endilwe nayo iminyaka engaphezu kwamashumi amane kwaye i-YBOP inikezele into ebhaliweyo, inkcazelo ebalulekileyo yokuphula umjikelezo ondibambelele ukususela kwi-1969.

Akunakwenzeka ukugqithisa ukubonga endikuvelayo ngababini benu ngokuthatha ixesha lokupapasha olu lwazi kunye nokubeka umgangatho oye wanceda amaninzi angabonakaliyo abantu ngokubhekiselele ekuphuculeni ukuzinza nokuhlala ngokwenene. Emva kweminyaka emibili ingqondo yam isebenza ngokucacileyo kunanini ngaphambili. Ndifunda izakhono ezintsha malunga nomsebenzi wam kwaye ndonwabatha into engakaze ibe khona. Njengoko ndibhalela, ndiyabona ukujonga kweso sesibini kwikhompyutheni yam kwaye ndibona umntu ekhangele emva, kungekhona umntwana osemtsha ongakwazi ukuzilawula. Ukuzihlonela kwam kwanda ukusukela ekutholeni ukulawula kunye nentlonipho eyayizuziweyo, ingenakunikwa imfama.

Yazi nje ukuba ube yingxenye ebalulekileyo yokwenza oku kunokwenzeka kum kunye nemiphefumlo engenakuphindaphindiweyo, abaninzi babo, benjengam, banika ithemba ngokupheleleyo baze bavuma ukuba babeya kuba nenceba yale ngxaki kubo bonke babo ubomi.

 Ukufumana impendulo engaphezulu yokubuyisela abasebenzisi, khangela Uncle Bob kwaye Ukubuyisela kwakhona iiAkhawunti.