Amakhwenkwe afumanisa i-porn eneminyaka eyi-10 kuphela, ngokomndilili, kodwa uninzi luqala ukufikisa kwiminyaka eyi-12.
Oku kuthetha ukuba izigidi zabafana kwihlabathi liphela ziqala uhambo lwazo lwezesondo kwihlabathi elikwi-Intanethi, ukuza kuthi ga ngoku kubudlelwane bokwenyani bobomi, kangangokuba ngelixa besabelana ngesondo iingqondo zabo sele zigqwethiwe. Kwaye baya kwazi njani ngcono?
Ukususela ekufikeni kwesantya esiphezulu, ukusasazwa kwe-porn simahla kwi-2006, amadoda kunye nabafana baye bathatha iiforum ze-intanethi kunye ne-erectile dysfunction engachazwanga kunye ne-libido ephantsi.
UJoseph Gordon Levitt's Don Jon yonke into imalunga nokuba likhoboka lephonografi...
Ezinye iziphumo eziphambili zokusetyenziswa kakhulu kwe-porn zibandakanya ukulibaziseka kwe-ejaculation, ukuthanda i-morphed ngokwesondo, inkumbulo engasebenzi kakuhle, ixhala loluntu, ukuncipha kwenkuthazo, kunye nobunzima bokulala.
Unokukhawuleza ukulahla ingcamango yokuba ukusebenzisa kwakho iphonografi kunempembelelo kwingqondo okanye emzimbeni wakho, kodwa uGary Wilson, umbhali we Ubunzima bakho kwiSono, inesafobe esikhulu sokuchaza ukuba kunzima kangakanani ukurhoxa kwimeko yakho.
Ngexesha lokuvula kwakhe amehlo TED intetho, uGary uchaza ukuba ukubuza indlela abafana abacinga ngayo i-porn abachaphazela ngayo kwakufana nokubuza intlanzi ukuba icinga ntoni ngamanzi.
Ukuba ujikelezwe yinto ixesha elide, akunakwenzeka ukuba uyiqaphele, kwaye ungakhumbuli ukuba wawunjani ngaphambili.
Ukuthetha UNILAD, uGary Wilson wathi:
Ukutya ukutya okungenamsoco kuqhelekile, kanye njengokuba kwakunjalo ngaphambili. Kuthatha amashumi eminyaka ukuqonda ngokupheleleyo imingcipheko yezi zinto ziqhelekileyo. Sibona nje umphetho ongaphambili weziphumo zokukhula ukusasaza ubutsha bezesondo obungenamkhawulo, kunye nokubanakho ukunyukela kwizinto ezigqithisileyo.
Akukho mntu uyazi ngokupheleleyo imiphumo okwangoku. Okubangel 'umdla kukuba, kukho intshukumo enkulu kunye nekhulayo yamazwe ngamazwe (ubukhulu becala) abafana abangengabo abenkolo besusa iphonografi ngenxa yeenzuzo abazibika ngoontanga babo.
Ndithethe nowayesakuba likhoboka lephonografi kunye no-YouTuber uGabriel Deem owenza iividiyo ezixhasa abanye abazama 'ukuqalisa' iingqondo zabo ekusebenziseni kakhulu iphonografi.
UGabriel wachaza ukubanakho kwephonografi ukubuyisela ukujikeleza kwengqondo ngokweminqweno, ebangela ukuba ivuswe ngeepixels kwiscreen ngokuchasene nabantu bokwenyani.
Oku kunokufaniswa novavanyo oludumileyo luka-Ivan Pavlov apho wamisela inja yakhe ukuba izinkcenkceshe xa ikhala intsimbi. Kulapha kuphela amadoda aba kwimeko yezesondo ukuba acinge ukuba iifowuni zabo kunye neekhompyuter zithetha isondo, kwaye ekugqibeleni abanako ukuba nemincili okanye bavuswe yinto yokwenyani.
Ngokuphathelele inja kaPavlov, ngamazwi kaGabriel, 'umfana uvele ejaculate kwi-napkin kunye neebhulukhwe zakhe emaqatheni'.
Watsho uGabriyeli UNILAD:
Iimpawu zomzimba ezinokuvela ekusebenziseni i-porn zi: ukungasebenzi kakuhle kwe-erectile, apho i-penis yakho isebenza nge-porn, kodwa kungekhona nomntu wangempela; ukulibaziseka kwe-ejaculation, apho kuthatha indoda ngonaphakade ukuba i-cum, okanye akunakwenzeka, kwaye kufuneka azigqibe ngesandla sakhe, okanye kufuneka acinge malunga ne-porn ukuya kwi-climax. Ukuba awusayi kumisa intente kusasa oko kunokuba yiflegi ebomvu ukuba uphuhlisa ingxaki.
Iziphumo zengqondo ziquka: ukuguqula ukuthanda ngokwesondo (ukunyuka kwiindidi ezintsha, ezigqithise ngakumbi ukuphumeza i-neurochemical ephezulu), inkungu yengqondo (imemori engasebenzi kakuhle), ubunzima bokugxila, ukukhathala / ukukhuthaza okuphantsi, ukunyuka kwexhala loluntu, ubunzima bokulala.
Jonga uGabriyeli ethetha Chelsea Handler's Netflix intetho show.
Into yesayensi yesiphumo se-Coolidge iyadlala xa kuziwa ekusetyenzisweni ngokugqithiseleyo kwe-porn yamadoda: izilwanyana ezingamadoda zibonisa umdla wesondo ohlaziyiweyo xa zinikezelwa neqabane elitsha lezesondo ngokuchasene nokuncipha kwemincili yakhe yezesondo ngokuphindaphindiweyo ngesondo kunye neqabane elinye.
Xa ubukele i-porn, kunokubakho iividiyo ezingenakubalwa phantsi kweethebhu ezingenakubalwa. Umngxuma obonakala ungenasiphelo weemvakalelo ezivuselela inkanuko ezingaphaya kwesiphelo sabo.
Umntu wokwenyani angasondela njani kweli nqanaba lokukhutshwa kwe-dopamine?
Kwakhe TED Thetha, uGary uchaza utshintsho lweekhemikhali olwenzeka kwingqondo xa umntu enomlutha kuyo nantoni na, kuquka i-porn.
Okokuqala kukho i-dopamine surges evela ekusetyenzisweni ngokugqithiseleyo, elandelwa kukuqokelelana kwemichiza yobuchopho iDelta-FosB (ibalulekile ekwenziweni kweziyobisi) ekhuthaza umjikelo wokuzinkcinkca kunye nokunqwenela.
Ukuba i-binging iyaqhubeka, ke i-Delta FosB iyakha kwaye inokukhokelela kutshintsho lwengqondo olubonwa kubo bonke abaluthayo kuquka impendulo yolonwabo, i-hyper-reactivity kwi-porn (apho yonke enye into ebomini ibonakala ikruqula, kodwa i-porn iyonwabisa kakhulu), kwaye iya kuba. -ukukhukuliseka kwamandla.
Eminye imithombo icebisa ukuba i-Delta FosB yakha iyancipha malunga neveki yesithandathu ukuya kweyesibhozo yokuyeka i-pornography eyenza ingqiqo ukuba kutheni amadoda amaninzi ebona ukuphuculwa okukhulu xa efika kumanqaku eeveki ezisibhozo.
Ukusetyenziswa kakubi kwe-porn kudala utshintsho olufana nolwengqondo engqondweni njengokutya, i-heroin, okanye nabuphi na ubukhoboka.
Kunzima ukwazi ukuba ingakanani kakhulu kuba ukusetyenziswa okugqithisileyo kwe-porn yinto exhomekeke kukunyamezela komntu kunye nekhemistri yengqondo.
Eyona ndlela ingcono yokufumanisa ukuba (kwaye njani) iyakuchaphazela kukuzama ukuyisika kangangeenyanga ezimbalwa kwaye ujonge naluphi na utshintsho.
Ukubuyiselwa kwiimpawu zokusetyenziswa kakubi kwe-porn kuthatha malunga neenyanga ezintlanu ukuya kwezisixhenxe kubafana abancinci, okanye nje iinyanga ezimbini kumadoda amadala. Amadoda akwiminyaka yawo yamashumi amabini akabuyiseli impilo yawo erectile ngokukhawuleza njengamadoda amadala kuba aqala ukubukela iphonografi enesantya esiphezulu xa ubuchopho babo bukwincopho yemveliso ye-dopamine kunye ne-neuroplasticity, ngelixa amadoda amadala evezwa kuyo kwinqanaba elizayo lobomi.
UGary uxelele UNILAD:
Ngokunyaniseka, akukho msebenzisi we-porn ongapheliyo uyaziyo ukuba imchaphazela njani ade ayinike ixesha elininzi. Umntu oneminyaka engama-25 ubudala oye waphulula i-masturbating yonke imihla kwi-porn ukususela kwiminyaka eyi-12 akanakuze azi ukuba wayeya kuba njani ngaphandle kwayo. Abanye basenokungachatshazelwa kangako konke konke.
Sukulinda iingcali ukuba zikuxelele iziphumo zokusetyenziswa koonografi kwi-Intanethi. Njengokutshaya, kusenokuba njalo
kumashumi eminyaka ngaphambi kokuba ezo ziphumo zaziwa ngokuchanekileyo. Ukuba ucinga ukuba unokuchaphazeleka, yenza uvavanyo lwakho ngokuphelisa ukusetyenziswa koonografi kwiinyanga ezimbalwa.
Ukuba awuqinisekanga ukuba umsebenzi wakho wesondo uye wachaphazeleka ngenxa yokuba awunalo iqabane lokwabelana ngesondo, zama ukuphulula amaphambili nge-porn, kwaye ngesinye isihlandlo zama ukuphulula amaphambili ngaphandle kwe-porn, i-porn substitutes, okanye ukukhumbula i-porn. Ukuba ukuma kwakho kunye nokuvuka kwakho akukho kwisihlandlo sesibini, unokuba uvelisa ingxaki.
Kubafana abaninzi, isiphumo soonografi kubomi babo siza kuphela umbuzo xa ukuwohloka kobudlelwane bomntu kubanyanzela ukuba babonakalise.
Ngelixa udliwano-ndlebe neengcali, kwacaca ukuba abantu baxhomekeke kakhulu kwi-porn ukuze bakwazi ukusebenza ngesondo, basuse ubuhlobo bokwenene bobomi, kunye nokubeka uxinzelelo olukhulu kubudlelwane.
Ukongeza kwimiphumo yomzimba kumadoda, kukho imiphumo ebalulekileyo yentlalo kunye nengqondo evela kwi-porn yanamhlanje.
Kukangaphi ubona iphonografi echasene nesini esijolise kulonwabo lwabasetyhini?
Ingcali ye-Intanethi kunye nogqirha wengqondo u-Todd L. Love uyacacisa:
Ngaphandle kwengxabano yokulutha, kubonakala kungenakuphikiswa ukuba ukubukela rhoqo iphonografi kudala ulindelo olungekho ngqiqweni kubuchule babo bokusebenza, indima yomnye umntu (ecinga ukuba i-hetero, umzimba wabasetyhini), kwaye yeyiphi imisebenzi 'eqhelekileyo', kunye nemizimba yabo. bonke abafana banamapipi amakhulu).
Abafana abancinci banokungena kwiingcebiso beziva bedidekile kwaye benetyala malunga nokubandakanyeka 'kweendlela' ezindlongondlongo zomzimba abasoloko bezijonga kuphonografi (ukukrwitsha, ukuvala umlomo, okanye ukuba ndlongondlongo ngokwesondo kunye namantombazana abo). Kodwa bakwenza oko kuba bekhule bejongile, kungekhona ngenxa yokuba ngokwemvelo becatshukiswa ngamabhinqa.
Ngokufanayo, abasetyhini abancinci baya kwingcebiso beziva bebhidekile malunga nento abayenzileyo, okanye baziva benyanzelekile ukuba bayenze, ukuze banelise amasoka abo. Abaninzi bayaqonda ukuba ezinye izenzo azizokuziphatha 'zesiqhelo' zokwabelana ngesondo, kodwa akukho mntu ubaxelele njalo, ngoko baye bazibandakanya ngokuphatheka kakubi ngokwasemzimbeni nangokweemvakalelo.
Isifundo ukusuka kwiYunivesithi yaseNebraska ifundeka ngolu hlobo: 'Bafumene abo babona i-porns abancinci banokuthi bavumelane neengxelo eziqinisekisa ukulawulwa kwamadoda, njengokuba izinto zivame ukuba ngcono xa amadoda ephethe'.
Kukho uluntu lwe 'IiFapstronauts' kunye namaphepha kunye Maphepha yamabali okuqalisa kwakhona. Nye Umntu oneminyaka engama-24 ubudala ongakhange abe ne-porn-free iinyanga ezintandathu uchaza ukuba nangona ehlangabezana nokuphakama nokuhla, uye waphucula ukucaca kwengqondo, ukukhululeka kukuziva unetyala kunye neentloni, ukuzithemba okukhulayo, inkuthazo, ukuzithemba, ubutyebi beemvakalelo, ubuchule kunye nenkanuko.
Ingcebiso kwabo bafuna ukuyeka i-porn kukuzilolonga, ukuhlalisana, ukucamngca, kunye nokufuna inkxaso kwabanye abazama okufanayo.
Izibonelelo ezingakumbi zokuyeka i-porn, ezichazwe ngabo baye baphumelela ziquka: ukuxolelwa kweengxaki zesondo, ukwanda kwamandla, ukunciphisa ukuxhalaba kwentlalo, ukuphuculwa kwemeko, ukunciphisa ukudakumba, ukujonga abafazi ngokufanelekileyo, kunye nomnqweno omkhulu wokuba nobudlelwane obunothando.
Iphonografi ithatha iminqweno yomntu yendalo kwaye iqhubele ukonwatyiswa ngokwesondo kunye nokusondelelana kude nabantu, kwaye isalathisa kwiscreen.
Kwabanye, ukusetyenziswa kwe-porn akuyi kuchaphazela kakhulu ubomi bakho, kodwa ukuba uza kuchitha iiyure zobomi bakho usenza into ethile, kuyafaneleka ukuba uzifundise ngayo.
Ukuqwashisa ngeziyobisi ze-porn kuyanda, nokuba awukho. Ndwendwela Uncedo lwamanyala, Ukuqalisa kwakhona isizwe, okanye Akukho Fap ngolwazi olungakumbi kunye nenkxaso.
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