I-porn iguqula indlela yokuziphatha ngokwesondo; ngokunjalo nezinye izinto
Uphononongo olutsha lwesiDatshi (“Ngaba Ukujonga Ukucacisa Ukwenza? Ukuvavanya uMbutho Phakathi koBuchule boBuchule obuSebenzisiweyo kunye nokuThuthukiswa koBucala kwiSampula enkulu yama-Adolescents ase-Dutch kunye nabaselula.") Ufumanisa ukusetyenziswa kwe-porn ehambelana nokuziphatha okuyingozi ngokwesondo kwi-15 ukuya kwi-25 yeminyaka ubudala ... kwaye nezinye izinto zenza ngokunjalo. Ngokuqinisekileyo esi siphumo asothusi, asikhetheki kwaye akufanelekanga ukuba sibhengezwe ngokubanzi.
Nangona kunjalo, umfundi oqhelekileyo ojonga kwizihloko ezinomsindo kunye neengcaphuno ezihambelanayo ufumana ingcamango yokuba wonke umntu kufuneka akhuphe imiphumo yokusetyenziswa koonografi kwi-Intanethi njengento engathandekiyo ngokupheleleyo, kwaye uhambe nje. Ngokuqinisekileyo eso yaba sisiphelo sabahleli be-AVN® Media Network, Inc ("umthombo oqinisekileyo wayo yonke into eyonwabisa abantu abadala."): Iziphumo zoFundo ziDowns impembelelo yePorn kwi-Teen Behaviour, ixesha: Isifundo: I-porn isenokungabi yimpembelelo embi kangako kwindlela yokuziphatha ngokwesondo, yaye Huffpo: Ukusetyenziswa kwe-porn kuchaphazela indlela yokuziphatha ngokwesondo engaphantsi kunokuba unokucinga, utshilo uFundo.
Umbhali okhokelayo kuphononongo uGert Martin Hald, isazi ngengqondo yeklinikhi kwiYunivesithi yaseCopenhagen, uchaze:
“Iphonografi ayinkulu kwaye ayimbi njengengcuka njengoko besicinga, kwaye mhlawumbi kufuneka sigxile kwezinye izinto. Ichaza inxalenye ethile yokuziphatha ngokwesondo, kodwa ithozamile,”
Enyanisweni, i-porn is “ingcuka enkulu nembi” ukuba seso sizathu ukumiswa kwakho kungenzeki (ngakumbi ngomzuzwana). Kuyo nayiphi na imeko, izigqibo ezizizo zophononongo zikude nesihloko esifanelekileyo;
“Olu phononongo lucebisa ukuba, xa kulawulwa ezinye izinto ezibalulekileyo, ukusetyenziswa kweSexually Explicit Material (SEM) kuchaphazela indlela yokuziphatha ngokwesondo. Imibutho emincinci ukuya kwephakathi eyavela phakathi kokusetyenziswa kwe-SEM kunye nokuziphatha ngokwesondo emva kokulawula ezinye izinto eziguquguqukayo zibonisa ukuba i-SEM yinto enye phakathi kwezinto ezininzi ezinokuchaphazela indlela yokuziphatha ngokwesondo kolutsha.
Indlela yokuthatha: Ukusebenzisa iphonografi kunokukhuthaza indlela ethile yokuziphatha eyingozi ngokwesondo, ukanti ezinye izinto zinokukhuthaza. Oku kufunyanisiweyo akusixeleli kwanto malunga nokwabelana ngesondo kwabasebenzisi abancinci, njengokwaneliseka kubudlelwane, umsebenzi wesondo okanye ulonwabo lwezesondo. Okubaluleke ngakumbi, ezi ziphumo azinanto yakuthetha malunga ne iimpawu ezininzi ezimbi abasebenzisi be-porn abancinci bachaza, okanye i Ezininzi iinzuzo baxela xa bephelisa iphonografi.
Ukujonga nzulu
Sinomdla malunga nokuba i-ho-hum enjalo inokuzifumana njani iintloko zeendaba eziyalelayo, siye sajonga ngakumbi. Uphononongo lunokuncinci ukulucebisa kunokuba besicinga ekuqaleni. Okokuqala, uphando alumele, njengoko abaphandi bevuma. Yayixhomekeke kumavolontiya e-intanethi, i-70% kubo yayingabasetyhini (kuphela i-5% yabo basebenzisa i-porn kanye ngeveki okanye ngaphezulu).
Abaphandi bahlalutya kuphela izifundo eziye zabandakanyeka kwizenzo zesondo. Oku kunokubonakala ngathi sisithintelo esicacileyo kuba uphononongo beluvavanya "ukuziphatha ngokwesondo." Nangona kunjalo, "ukuziphatha ngokwesondo" abaninzi banamhlanje abancinci (amadoda) abasebenzisi be-porn abakhalazayo ukungakwazi ukuzibandakanya ekuziphatheni okuqhelekileyo ngokwesondo. Yiyo loo nto bezama ukuyeka iphonografi ye-Intanethi.
Bachaza ukulahlekelwa ngumtsalane kumaqabane okwenene, iingxaki zentsebenzo yesondo (ED, DE, ukungakwazi ukwenza i-orgasm kunye neqabane), unxunguphalo ekuhlaleninjl Abanye baseziintombi ezinyulu—yaye abayithandanga kwaphela loo nto. Bebeya kukhutshelwa ngaphandle kolu phononongo ngokupheleleyo.
Ngamanye amazwi, izihloko eziphezulu ezibanga ukuba ukusetyenziswa koonografi kwi-Intanethi kunempembelelo encinci kwindlela yokuziphatha ngokwesondo kudala umbono ongeyonyani wokuba impilo yezesondo ayichaphazeleki kakhulu kusetyenziso lwe-Intanethi. Nangona kunjalo iindlela zokuziphatha ngokwesondo kuphela abaphandi baye bachaza ukuba:
- Sexual Adventurous: (i) namava ngamatye; (ii) ngesondo kunye nomlingani omnye wesini; kunye (iii) nesini sokulala kunye nomlingane odibeneyo kwi-intanethi;
- Ithuba loLuntu: (i) ubudala kwiminyaka yokuqala yokulala (kwiminyaka); (ii) amava ngobusuku obunye busuku; kunye (iii) nenani lobomi beentlobo ezahlukeneyo zesini (1 = iqabane le-1; 7 = i-20 + iqabane).
- Ulwabelana ngesondo: (i) ekhokhelwa / ehlawulwa ngesondo (kwimali okanye ngohlobo).
Uninzi lwabasebenzisi be-porn be-Intanethi abaninzi amabali kabani siwafundayo I-intanethi ingathanda ukuthi "ewe" kwenye okanye ngaphezulu kwezi ndlela zokuziphatha ezidweliswe ngasentla, kodwa ziphumile kumdlalo ngenxa iimpawu ezinzima ngenxa yokusebenzisa kakhulu iphonografi. Ezi mpawu ziquka ukufumana Ukusebenzisa i-porn kulula kunokusukelana namaqabane okwenene kunye nokukhotyokiswa ngokupheleleyo, okwenzakalisayo.
Abanye abasebenzisi bayadlala, bekhuthazwa ngamanyala. Babonakala ngaphakathi iiforam esizilandelayo kuba banenkxalabo yokuba, njengoko izivuseleli zemihla ngemihla ziphulukana namandla okuvusa impendulo yazo ngokwesondo, zinjalo ukunyuka kwinkanuko yesini kunye nokuziphatha "ayindim ngenene,” okanye abafuni kuba nenxaxheba ukuze nje bahle. Ngokuhambelana nale nto, abaphandi kuphononongo lwangoku baqaphele ukuba ukukhangela imvakalelo yesondo ngokwenene kubonakala ngathi kuqhuba iindlela zokuziphatha ezinobungozi:
Ngokucacileyo, kuzo zombini izini, zontathu ezo ndidi zokuziphatha ngokwesondo zazinxulunyaniswa kakhulu nokufuna iimvakalelo zesini.
Abo benzayo babonakala beyipesenti encinci yabasebenzisi abakhalaza ngeengxaki ezibangelwa ngamanyala. Abasebenzisi abaninzi baxela ukuba ukusetyenziswa kwe-porn kuthintela ukuthatha inxaxheba kwisondo sokwenyani.
Umfanekiso ogqwethekileyo?
Ke ukuba kukho abasebenzisi abaninzi abadlalayo kwelinye icala lespectrum kunye nabasebenzisi abanokuthintela okungekho kwendalo kwelinye, kuqhubeka ntoni? Ngaba amanyala anamhlanje Ukuqhubela abanye abantu kwindlela yokuziphatha eyingozi, ngelixa abanye bevalelwa ngaphandle ngenxa yokusetyenziswa koonografi? Ngaba la maqela mabini ayarhoxisa ngokuyinxenye ngenxa yokuba akwelinye icala legophe kwiziphumo zophononongo? Ukuba kunjalo, uphononongo lunokubonelela ngomfanekiso ogqwethekileyo weziphumo zoonografi kwi-Intanethi ekuziphatheni ngokwesondo.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, idatha yokufunda yahlanganiswa kwi-2008 kunye ne-2009. Oko kudala kwihlabathi le-pornography kunye nomsebenzi wesondo ophefumlelweyo wesondo. Umzekelo, Grindr, umququzeleli onguvulindlela we-intanethi-assisted casual hook-ups, uye wahlala kuphela kwi-2009.
Emva koko, ii-smartphones (kunye nokufikelela kwi-porn) zazingekho kuyo yonke indawo. Kwaye kwakungekho ukusetyenziswa kweendawo ze-porn tube sites, apho abasebenzisi bahlala bethetha baye bakhuthaza ukusebenzisa kwabo i-porn. Kuya kuhlala kubonakala ukuba olu phuhliso lwamva nje luya kuba nalo unxibelelwano phakathi kokusetyenziswa koonografi kunye (nokukhubazeka) kokuziphatha ngokwesondo.
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