I-Kinsey / isifundo seTrojan kwi-vibrators sishiye umbuzo ophezulu wabathandi
Ukuphononongwa ngokwesondo ngumbono olungileyo, kodwa kufuneka sinyaniseke ngokupheleleyo kuthi malunga nophando malunga neziphumo zalo, hleze sizijongele phantsi iimpawu ezigqithileyo.
Kwiminyaka embalwa edlulileyo, ndibhale Vibrator kunye nolunye uXolo: Xa 'ukumodareyitha' kusilele. Kubandakanya iingxelo ezizezakho ngabafazi ababesebenzisa isidlidlizi ukwenza ukuba kube nzima ngakumbi (okanye kungenzeki) ukufikelela kuvuthondaba ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo kunye nokwabelana ngesondo ngaphandle kweethoyi. Kutshanje, ndijongile kumakhulu e izithuba ngabafazi kwi iqonga apho amawaka abantu bezama ngokunciphisa ukunciphisa (ngokwembono yabo) ukuphulula amalungu esini ngokufuthi- kwi-Intanethi nge-Intanethi kodwa ngamanye amaxesha besebenzisa ezinye izixhobo zokwenza izinto zesini.
Into efanayo ibonisa phakathi kwaba bafazi. Ukwabelana ngesondo okwenyani, kunye nokuthandana, kuyaphulukana nemeko yokujonga iphonografi kunye nezinto zokudlala ngesondo- kwaye abanye abantu basetyhini abonwabanga yindlela ekhokelela kubomi babo bezesondo.
Umfazi wokuqala: Ingxaki yam enkulu yayikukusebenzisa ukungcangcazela ukuze ndehle kwaye konakalisa ubuntununtunu bam. Ndiphose i-vibrator yam ngaphandle ngokupheleleyo. Ngelishwa kuye kwafuneka ndilahle yonke into eshukuma endlini kuba bendihlala ndizama ukufumana umntu oza kubambela. I-Goodbye Sonic-Care isixhobo sokucoca ubuso. Ukwabelana ngesondo kungcono kakhulu. Akukho mbuzo. I-clitoris yam ibifile kuyo yonke into engasebenziyo. ”
Umfazi wesibini: “Ndiyathemba ukuba isipeliti esomileyo esivela kum siza kundenza ndinomdla wokuthandana. Abafazi abaneminyaka eyi-18 ubudala akufuneki bagcinwe kumagumbi abo ane-porn kunye nezinto zokudlala. Ndingathanda ukugqiba kwisikolo samabanga aphakamileyo ngesandla esomileyo. ”
Umfazi wesithathu: "Ndiyafunda hentai Kancinci kwaye uphulula amalungu esini phantse yonke imihla. Ndidinga ukuyeka. Ndilahlekelwe bubuntununtunu kwi-clitoris yam kwi-vibrator yam. ”
Ingxabano yomdla kunye nokuyeka umbuzo ophambili
Ndinomdla kuphando kule ndawo, ndaye ndalathiselwa kolu phando liKinsey Institute: Ubungakanani kunye neempawu zokuSetyenziswa kweVibrator ngabafazi baseMelika: Iziphumo zoPhononongo lwaBameli beLizwe. Emva kokuvota ngaphezulu kwabafazi abayi-1000, abaphandi bagqibe kwelokuba uninzi lwabasebenzisi be-vibrator "khange bafumane naziphi na iziphumo ebezisetyenziswa kukusetyenziswa kwe-vibrator," kwaye "ukusetyenziswa kwe-vibrator ngumsebenzi okhuselekileyo." [Ngokumangalisayo eli khonkco kunye nabanye kweli phepha baphinde bahanjiswa okanye basuswa emva kokuba inqaku lithunyelwe. Hmmm…]
Ndichukumisekile zizinto ezimbini malunga nesi sifundo se-vibrator… um… igalelo kwinzululwazi. Ekuqaleni, yayixhaswe kuphela yiTrojan, inkampani eyayineqela lonke elinikezelwe kwintengiso ye-vibrator. Nantsi Iphepha lewebhu leTrojan echaza olu “Vibrator Study.” Impikiswano enkulu yomdla apho, bantu!
Okwesibini, yayiyintoni na kodwa ibanzi. Ayiphumelelanga ukubuza owona mbuzo unomdla kubathandi: Ngaba ukusebenzisa vibrator kukwenza ukungabi nazinto zokulala ngesondo neqabane lakho kwakumnandi? Abaphandi ngokwabo bavuma, kwaye babeka phantsi, oku kushiywa phantsi ngamehlo:
Ngenxa yenkolelo eyimbali yokuba ukusetyenziswa kwe-vibrator kunokuhlala abantu basetyhini ngeendlela ezithile zempendulo ngokwesondo (okt, ukufumana ngokulula ngokwesiqhulo ngokudlwengula kwaye kungaphantsi kangako neqabane), uphando lwamva kufuneka luthathele ingqalelo ukuvavanywa ukuba abantu basabela njani ngokwesini-okanye, kungenjalo, yaphuculwa-ngokunxulumene nokusetyenziswa kwembaza.
Qaphela ukuba kwa le ngcinga yeengxaki zokudlala ngesondo ngexesha lokulalana ngaphandle kwento yokudlala incitshisiwe yaba "yimbali nje". Ngapha koko, abafundi abanakulindeleka ukuba baqonde ukuba abaphandi zange babuze lo mbuzo ubalulekileyo malunga nale "nkolelo yembali" ngaphandle kokuba bafunde kude kube sekupheleni kophononongo, kuba isifundo wenza buza malunga nokuzala (kunye nokucaphukisa, iintlungu, iinyembezi kunye nokusikeka, kunye nosulelo).
Ke, umfundi oqhelekileyo unokucinga ukuba ukunciphisa ukuphendula ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo bekujongiwe kudidi "lwe-numbness". Ayikho njalo.
Ngaphandle kokuba abaphandi besilele ukungena kumbuzo ophambili kuphando lwabo lobugcisa, "ukuba ndindisholo" yayisesona sisiphumo siphambili sixeliweyo sokusetyenziswa kwe vibrator. Ngapha koko, i-16.5% yabasebenzisi eyoyikisayo ichaze ukuba ndindisholo njengesiphumo sokusetyenziswa kwe vibrator.
Ngoko ke, ntoni Sebenzisa isidlidliza ukuphazamisa ukusabela ngokwesondo?
Akukho namnye owaziyo. Ngaphantsi kweemeko, mhlawumbi kufuneka sinike ingqalelo ngakumbi kwii-akhawunti ze-anecdotal zabasetyhini abaye bajetisa ii-vibrators zabo ukubuyela ekuphenduleni ngokwesini okuqhelekileyo.
Kukho eminye imiqondiso eyoyikisayo, nayo. Nini abaphandi babuye kwi-19 abasebenzisi abatsha be-vibrator, “Abafazi bathethe lukhulu ngotshintsho kwimpendulo yabo evuselelayo kunye ne-orgasmic xa beqala ukusebenzisa isidlidlizi. … Ngokubalulekileyo, abasetyhini abasibhozo bachaza ngokuthe ngqo ukuba babekhathazekile ngokuxhomekeka kwishukumisi. … Bathathu kuphela abantu ababhinqileyo abathethe ngokuthe ngqo malunga nobomi babo besondo obuhlulelanayo obuphuculwa sishukumisi. ”
Ngelishwa, njengoninzi lwanamhlanje abancinci abesilisa abasebenzisa i-porn, abafazi, nabo, baxela ukuba ukuphulula amalungu esini kwi-Intanethi ukunciphisa ukuphendula kwabo ngokwesondo ngexesha lokudibana (ngethemba lethutyana kuphela). Impendulo ebushushwini ebandayo ebuchotsheni inokuthi ibe nzima kwaye ibe buthathaka njengamandla aphelileyo emithambo.
Ngelishwa, okoko uphando lweKinsey vibrator lwaphuma, olunye abaphandi bafumene ukuba, "Ukuncamathisela okuxhalabisayo kunxulunyaniswa nokungaguquguquki okuncinci kwelungu lobufazi, kodwa kunye nokuhamba rhoqo kwe-vibrator kunye ne-orgasms yesini sangasese. Ukuncamathisela okuthintelweyo kunxulunyaniswa nokuhamba rhoqo kweempawu zentshukumo zentshukumo. "
Ngamafutshane, kungabi bubuqili ukunciphisa ubukhulu besini kunye nesondo sokuguquka kwanoma luphi na uhlobo.
Eyona nto: Ukusetyenziswa kwe-vibrator engapheliyo ingaba yindlela enye yezitalato kubasebenzisi abathile. Kufuneka bacele ukuba ngaba bathatha indawo ababeyifunayo. Ngaphezu kwakho konke, abaphandi kufuneka bathengise ubungqina obupheleleyo kwezophando lwabo ukwenzela ukunceda abasebenzisi bokudlala ngesondo bathathe isifundo sabo ngokubhekiselele kwichanekileyo -engathengi-izigqibo.
Jonga izifundo ezinzulu ezilungele ukunyaniseka
Kukangaphi ukhe wajonga kwimigca embalwa yokugqibela ye-abstract kwaye wacinga ukuba abaphandi bafikelele kwisigqibo esisemthethweni? Oku kuyenzeka, ngokuyinxenye, kuba sibeka ukholo olugqithisileyo kwinkqubo yokuphononongwa koontanga. "Ukungafaneleki" ngenxa yokuba Inani elimangalisayo labaphandi ukusika iikona, ukupheka idatha, nokuxoka malunga neziphumo. "Ingqondo yonyango ikakhulu igcwele ukungaziphathi kakuhle."
Inye kwisithathu sososayensi baxela ukusebenzisa iindlela ezithandabuzekayo zophando, ezinje ngokutshintsha uyilo lwesifundo okanye iziphumo ngenxa yoxinzelelo olusuka kumthombo wenkxaso Hmmm….
Ingxoxo malunga neengxaki ezixubileyo phakathi kwabafundi bezesondo
I-Sexologist A: Ngaba lukhona naluphi na uphando olujongana nebango elixeliweyo (intsomi?) Ukusetyenziswa kwesiqhulo rhoqo kwabasetyhini kunciphisa amandla abo e-orgasm ngezinye iindlela? Izifundo ekusetyenzisweni kwe-vibrator endizifumeneyo azithethi ngeziphumo zexesha elide.
Sexologist B: Kuya kuba ngumdla ukubona ukuba ngaba ikhona idatha kule. Ngokufanelekileyo, iyavakala… ucinga ukuba umntu 'uqhele' uhlobo oluthile lokukhuthaza. Akukho mathandabuzo ukuba umntu angakwazi ukuphinda-phinda ukukhuthaza okunyanzelayo. Kuhle kakhulu. Ke, ukuba umntu 'ugqibe kwelokuba' ufuna ukukhuthazwa kakhulu, kunokubakho nesiphumo sokulindela.
Sexologist C: Andazi nayiphi na idatha (nceda wabelane esidlangalaleni ukuba uyayenza), kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo usiva eso sikhalazo kuninzi lwabasetyhini abasebenzisa iziqhulo rhoqo. Kuphela kwiveki ephelileyo apho ndifumene le posi kwi-blogger eyaziwayo yase-UK malunga nenyanga ye-2 yokufuna ukuhlala kude ne-vibrators (kwaye une-orgasms kuphela yokhuthazo lwencwadi okanye yokukhuthaza amaqabane): http://carasutra.co.uk/2013/
I-Sexologist D: Nangona sineenkcukacha ezininzi kwi-vibrator usetyenziso, asinayo into ejongene ngqo nale mbuzo (umz., Ohlola ukuqaliswa kwesigxina kunye namava ezesondo ngexesha elide).
Andicingi ukuba ukusetyenziswa kwe-vibrator kugcina abantu basetyhini ekufumaneni ii-orgasms ezivela kwezinye iintlobo zesini. I-Anecdotally ndiyazi ngamaninzi, uninzi lwabasetyhini abafumana i-orgasm kwimithombo eliqela, kubandakanya nokusetyenziswa kwe-vibrator. Ndikwanedatha evela kwisampulu elula ebonisa ukuba abafazi bafumana i-orgasm evela kwimithombo eyahlukeneyo, kubandakanya nokusetyenziswa kwe-vibrator.
Ndiyacinga * kodwa ndicinga-kodwa andinakho ukungqina-ukuba nangaliphi na ixesha abantu bathembele kumthombo omnye wokukhutshwa kwe-orgasmic ekuhambeni kwexesha ukuze baqhelane naloo ndlela yokukhuthaza. Oku kunokuthetha ukuba, xa beziswa ngenkuthazo entsha (okanye endala abangakhange bathembele kuyo ngamanye amaxesha) kufuneka babuyele kwisingqisho ukuze bafumane i-orgasm kuyo. Impendulo inokuthi icothe ngenkuthazo entsha (okanye endala, engasetyenziswanga) kodwa oko akuthethi ukuba ihambile. Andiqondi ukuba oku kuphelele ekusebenziseni isidlidlizi. Kwakhona, ngokungathandabuzekiyo, ndikubonile oku amaxesha amaninzi nabasetyhini okanye amadoda athi, umzekelo, abe ne-orgasms evela kwisini sangasese rhoqo kodwa angafumani isondo lomlomo ngalo lonke ixesha, okanye kwiminyaka, kwaye emva koko imizimba okanye iingqondo zabo zifunda okanye “bafunde kwakhona ”Indlela yokufumana i-orgasm evela emlonyeni ukuba baqala ukuzibandakanya kuyo. Andicingi ukuba isondo sangasese siye sabakhubaza kwezinye i-orgasms. Ndicinga ukuba ngamanye amaxesha abantu baqhele nje iindlela ezithile zokuziphatha kunye neempendulo zabo ezinxulumene noko.
Sexologist E: Ndinike iindibano zocweyo kwaye ndadibana namaqela ambalwa abasetyhini abanjengam abasebenzisa i-120v (iplagi eludongeni) isidlidlizi kangangeminyaka. Sisaza ngokukhawuleza kwaye ngokulula kunye namaqabane ethu. Kodwa ngekhe unikezele ngeentshukumo zethu zokungcangcazela nantoni na! Ngokukodwa abafazi abaninzi bexesha elide ukusebenzisa i-vibrator akubonakali ngathi kubangela iingxaki. Kodwa emva koko siyayonwabela iphonografi ngoko ke kufuneka ukuba kukho into engalunganga kuthi.
Sexologist F: I-Hypothesis: Ngokuchanekileyo ingcinga efanayo iyasetyenziswa ekusebenziseni iphonografi enzima phakathi kwamadoda. Amadoda ahlala esebenzisa uhlobo olunye kuphela lokukhuthaza ukufikelela kwi-orgasm ixesha elide, okt isandla esinye, kwindawo enye, ngesantya esingaguquguqukiyo kunye nesingqisho, ngesixa esifanelekileyo sokuthambisa, baya kuba nakho ukufumana inqanaba elithile ukungasebenzi kakuhle ngokwesondo xa uzama ukufikelela kwi-orgasm ngezinye iindlela.
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