Abantwana namhlanje banokufikelela kwi-porn-stimulating porno engakhokelela ekusebenziseni i-erectile, ukukhathazeka kweentlalo kunye nezinye iingxaki.
Ngo-2006 izixa ezikhululekileyo, ezothusayo, neevidiyo ezicacileyo zafumaneka ngokubanzi kubasebenzisi be-Intanethi abanonxibelelwano olukhawulezayo. Awu, ezinye zezona wizard zekhompyuter zinetalente kulutsha. Ukudlula ujikeleze iklip yevidiyo engamanyala ngoku iyinto eyaziwayo ekuhlaleni.
Ezi ividiyo zidla ngokugqithiseleyo kangangokuthi zidibanisa nokuba ngabazali abakhulula kakhulu. Ngokutsho kwesifo sengqondo uNorman Doidge Ubungqina Obuguqula, Iphonografi iyothusa ngakumbi kuba abasebenzisi be-porn banamhlanje bathambekele ekuhlaleni izinto ezijongwa. Oko kukuthi, ukujonga iphonografi yanamhlanje, endaweni yokwanelisa ngakumbi, kuphazamisa impendulo yengqondo. Emva koko umsebenzisi ufuna enye into eyothusayo ngakumbi ukuba avuswe-ethi yona imboni ye-porn iqhubeke ihambisa. Ngubani oza konwaba "nguPacMan" xa edlala "Grand Theft Auto" okanye "Halo 3"?
Inoveli engakumbi, eyothusayo, "enesono," engavumelekanga, okanye ecekisekayo, ividiyo, iyabanda kukudlula. Kwakhona, kokukhona kuchulumancisa ubuchopho bombukeli (ngakumbi isekethe yomvuzo). Uvuthondaba ngoko yomeleza "ixabiso" zezinto ezivelisa uvuthondaba. Ke, ubuchopho babantwana ngoku baphinde bajikajika ukuze baxabise imathiriyeli yengqondo engazukukwazi ukubalungiselela amava abo (okanye uninzi lwabantu). INorepinephine ekhutshwe ngokuphendula kwimifanekiso eyothusayo nayo iyavela ukuqinisa lo kufunda.
Ngelixa imidlalo yevidiyo ikhukula nengqondo nge-dopamine, kuyacaca ukuba umxholo wesondo usebenze ngezinto ezongezelelweyo zomjikelo wokujikeleza kwengqondo. Njengokuba abantwana bekhula, imiqondiso yokuvelisa ngokwesondo ixilongo lomdlalo wevidiyo.
Ingqondo eguqukayo elandela ukuvuselelwa okuphindaphindiweyo inokuba neziphumo ezimangalisayo. Abafana abancinci baxela ukuba ukuthanda kwabo ngokwesondo ngamanye amaxesha kukuziphatha ngendlela engalindelekanga, kwaye baye bangaphenduli kangako kwinto eqhelekileyo yokudlala ngothando. Ngokuqinisekileyo, inxenye yengqondo yabo isafuna isithandwa sokwenza izinto eziqhelekileyo, ezinomvuzo kulutsha. Ukanti elinye icandelo lifuna ukugcuma kwenkwenkwezi ye-porn yomnqweno wokufakelwa, apho iingqondo zabo zinxulumana kunye noncedo olukhawulezileyo.
Ekubeni ndaqala ukubalana namadoda abambisanayo phakathi kokusebenzisa i-intanethi enzulu kunye nokubonakalisa iimpawu ezinje I-erectile dysfunction kwaye uxhala loluntu, Bendisiva kubafana abancinci nabancinci abalwa nezi mpawu. (Njengecala, abasebenzisi abakwaziyo ukunqanda ukukhuthazeka okugqithileyo ababonakali ngathi baxela iingxaki ezingaqhelekanga ze-erectile dysfunction.) Nantsi isampulu:
Ndiyathemba ukuba ndiza kuphila kwaye ndivuswe ngakumbi kumantombazana. Ndiye ndihamba ngengqondo ndicinga ukuba ubomi bam bobulili buphelile. Ndiyiminyaka eyi-15 ubudala kwaye ndihlaziya i-masturbating ekubeni ndingu 12. Kwaqala nje ngevidiyo ezilula kodwa ngoku ndiye ndangena kwizinto ezigqithiseleyo. … Ungandichazela amanyathelo asisiseko endifuna ukuwathatha ukubuyisa kwakhona nceda? … Kufuneka ndibuze lento ukuze ingqondo yam iphumle kwaye ndizive ndizithembile. Ngaba ukhona umonakalo osisigxina owenziweyo kum? Ukuba ndiphumelele ngempumelelo kwi-porn ngaba isitho sam siya kuhlala xa ndisiba neentlobano zesini kwixa elizayo? Okanye ngaba ndiza kuba nemicimbi ye-ED?
ISayensi ayizange iphande okanye iqinisekise iimpendulo kwimibuzo yakhe. Okokuqala, ngubani onokufumana iincwadana zeentlobano zesifo esifanelekileyo sokuvavanya? Okwesibini, ngubani ofuna ngamabomu ukutyhila abantwana ukuba baphakamise amavidiyo, angabonakaliyo ukuba babone okwenzekayo kwiibilini zabo, okanye njani ukuba batshintshe ukuphendula kwabo ngokwesini?
Kudala kusaziwa ukuba ukoyisa umvuzo wesekethe yomvuzo ngamachiza kunokubangela iminqweno ngakumbi nangakumbi. Ngoku, uphando lubonisa ukuba izinto ezingezizo iziyobisi, "izinto zendalo", njengokutya okungenampilo, zinokuguqula ukulingana kwe-neurochemical kweli candelo lobuchopho njengezidakamizwa-mpendulo kwizinto eziqhelekileyo. Iimpawu ezinzima zabasebenzisi be-porn zibonisa ukuba iingqondo zabo zifumana olu tshintsho. (Kancinci, zombini i-porn ingozi kwaye i iinzuzo ukushiya emva kwayo kuyacaca.)
Ukuba umntu ukhangele iividiyo zoononophelo ukususela ebusheni, okanye ngaphambili, uyazi njani ukuba (ukungabi nalutho) impendulo kumanandi amnandi, ukuthanda kwakhe kinky, okanye iinqweno zakhe zokuzibhenqa ziqhelekile kuye? Akanayo into ekuthelekisayo. U-sexologist uJabb Pastötter unikeza umzekelo wendlela yokujonga imilo yeentlobo zobuninzi:
Xa uKinsey esenza izifundo zakhe kwi-40s, nditsho namadoda athandana namanye ayesenza ngokwesondo ezimpundu rhoqo. Utshintsho lokuqala lwenzeka ngee-70s kwindawo yezitabane kwaye emva koko, ngakumbi phantsi kwempembelelo yento ebizwa ngokuba gonzo iphonografi, nakwizangqa zesini esahlukileyo. Ngesiquphe, ukwabelana ngesondo ezimpundu kubonakala ngathi yinto eqhelekileyo. Kwaye ngokufanelekileyo, abacebisi ngesondo baxela ukuba kwakungekude kakhulu amakhwenkwe okuqala abuza, "Ndingayicenga njani intombi yam ukuba yenze isondo ezimpundwini?" Emva koko, kwiminyaka embalwa kamva, kwafika amantombazana okuqala, “Ndingayinqanda njani inkwenkwe endithandana nayo isabelana ngesondo ezimpundu?” Ngoku, amantombazana eza abuze abacebisi ngezesondo, "Zeziphi iipilisi endinokuzitya ukuthintela ukuba kungonzakali njengesihogo?" Konke oku kwisithuba seminyaka elishumi elinesihlanu kuphela, eyaqala xa ukwaziswa ngesondo ezimpundwini kwenziwa kwimifanekiso engamanyala njengokwahluka kwesini okuqhelekileyo, phakathi kwiminyaka yee-90s phantse.
Namhlanje, akusizwanga ukuba abantwana abachanekileyo baxakeke zobunqunu, i-autoerotic, ubukhoboka okanye ubundlobongela bokudlwengula. Kungaba nzima kakhulu ukuba babe ne-erections / orgasms kwizinto eziphambene nomfanekiso wazo.
Wenze ntoni umzali?
Ngaba umntwana wakho angxoxa ngokunyuka kwakhe kwe-porn okanye iimpawu eziphazamisayo kunye nawe? Kwaye ukuba uyayenza, uya kuba nakho ukucacisa ukuba kutheni iphonografi yanamhlanje iyingozi kune-erotica yexesha elidlulileyo? Ngaba unganika ingcebiso esebenzayo malunga nokulawula inkanuko yesini kunye nokuphulula amaphambili? Uninzi lwabazali bawela iminwe, bazikhumbuze ukuba basindile kwiintlanganiso playboy, kwaye nethemba lokuba abantwana babo baya kuzijonga izinto.
Nangona kunjalo i-porn yanamhlanje ayifani playboy. Yividiyo, ke ngoko umsebenzisi unokuziqikelela kwindima yakhe. Ihlala inoveli, kwaye akukho mda kubungakanani obunokujongwa. Kwanasemva kovuthondaba umsebenzisi angaqhubeka ngokuchofoza kwinto eyothusayo. Umcimbi asikokuphulula amaphambili nokuba umxholo "ulungile" okanye "umbi." Umcimbi yimiphumo ye-intanethi yokuvuselela ngokugqithiseleyo kwingqondo.
Ngenxa yo i-injini yokukhangela, mna nomyeni wam sele siphulaphule iintlekele zokubuyisela abasebenzisi bezentlanzi iminyaka engamahlanu. Abaninzi babo baneminyaka engama-20 okanye bancinci, kwaye banentshitshwenyelo ngokunyaniseka kweempawu zabo ezingafunekiyo. Bayibulela ngemifanekiso ecacileyo yendlela ubuchopho babo benziwe ngayo kunye nendlela yokubuyisela ukuphendula ngokuqhelekileyo. (Ngaphezulu, tyelela Ubunzima bakho kwiSono.)
Kunzima ukwazi ukuba ungabaxelela ntoni abantwana ukuba ubancede balungelelanise imeko-bume yanamhlanje. Nangona kunjalo, ngokusekwe kumabali esiwevileyo, Nazi ezinye iziphakamiso. Nokuba uzibona uluncedo okanye hayi, fumana indlela yokuxoxa nge-porn yanamhlanje nomntwana wakho.
1. Gwema ukusongela nokuhlazisa. Imisebenzi enobungozi ikhupha i-adrenaline eyongezelelweyo kunye ne-dopamine kwingqondo, kwaye ngenxa yoko ziyabonakala njengezixabisekileyo. (Ukujikeleza kwengqondo yomvuzo ojikelezayo kuvavanya ixabiso elisekwe kwimichiza ye-neurochemicals ekhutshwe ngokunxulumene nomsebenzi.) Izoyikiso zokohlwaywa kwixesha elizayo kunye nezilumkiso ngokuchasene "nesono" ke ngoko zonyusa amandla e-porn yokugqogqisa ubuchopho, okwenza ukubethana okulandelayo kube semngciphekweni. Gcina ukhumbula ukuba umntu otsaleleke kwimifanekiso engamanyala wenza nje into eguquke yenziwa yingqondo yakhe: ujonge ukuvelisa kwakhona. Okubi kakhulu xa umsebenzisi eziva malunga nokuziphatha kwakhe, kokukhona kunokwenzeka ukuba afune ukulibala okwethutyana, kwengqondo-yemichiza ukukhusela uxinzelelo.
2. Ukugunda i-masturbation akuyona yonyango efanelekileyo. Ngenxa yokuba isigxininiso sinikeza uxolo lwesikhashana kwixhala, ukungabikho kokugxininisa nokulala, kubonakala ngathi kuyonyango. Abantwana banokungena kalula kumkhwa wokuhlambalaza ukulawula imvakalelo. Ngelishwa, i-climatic edla rhoqo kwenza ingxaki ibe nzima kule mihla elandelayo. Abantwana badinga ezinye iindlela zokulawula imizwelo. Ukuzilolonga okukhulu, ukusebenzisana nobudlelwane nabanye, ubuhlobo obuthembekileyo, ixesha lokusingqongileyo, ukuthintana / ukuthatha izinto, ukuthatha into yokudala, ukucula, ixesha kunye nezilwanyana, ukucamngca kunye nenkonzo kwabanye baye baboniswa ukunceda ukunciphisa uxinzelelo kunye / mhlawumbi ngenxa yokuba ziphucula ukulingana kwengqondo. (Omnye utata uncedise umntwana wakhe onomdlavuza ngokumfundisa indlela yamandulo ukwabiwa kwamandla ngokwesini xa kuphakanyiswe izibongozo.)
3. Ukuqonda ingxaki yokukhula. Chaza ukuba ubuchopho bethu ngokubanzi bulinganiswa ngamalungu esini afezekisa amanqanaba aqhelekileyo okuvuselela kunye nokuvuselela. Nje ukuba sihambele kwimingcele emitsha yokuvuselela (i-super-porn okanye iithoyi zesini), sizibeka emngciphekweni wokwenza ubuchopho bethu bube buthathaka okwethutyana kubuchule obuqhelekileyo. I-intanethi ye-intanethi ingaba yindlela esheshayo yokuphuma, kodwa i-porno eshushu ayinelisekisi iimfuno zabasebenzisi bezesondo kangcono. Kuhlala kubatshisa. Oku kunokwenza ukuzaliseka kwexesha elizayo kube nzima ukufezekisa, kukhokelele kwizinto ezothusayo okanye ukuvuselela ngamandla.
4. Fumana ibhalansi. Chaza ukuba umnqweno wokuphulula amaphambili uqhelekile. Ivela ikakhulu kulangazelelo lwemfuza lonxibelelwano oluthambileyo kunye nolunye. Nje ukuba abantwana baqonde ukuba okona kukhuthaza kakhulu kunokwenza ukuba lo mnqweno ungaphakathi ufune ngakumbi, banokuzama iindlela zokunciphisa ukunyuka. Ngokudabukisayo, banokufumanisa ukuba ukuphulula amalungu esini rhoqo kunene kusebenza kakuhle. Le ngcamango ingabonakala ngathi i-anathema namhlanje, kodwa kunokwenzeka ukuba umzingeli wethu-umqokeleli okhokho bahlaziye kude Ngaphantsi Ngaphezulu kunokuba senzayo, kwaye sasincinci. Khange babenakho ukubangisana ne-overstimulation eyenziweyo yanamhlanje. Ukusebenzela ishedyuli yabo oyikhethileyo, nangona kungafezekanga, kukonyusa ukuzithiba kwabantwana-ubuchule bokuphila.
5. Qinisekisa kwi-stimuli yemvelo. Ngokuhambelana nengcebiso ethi "kuncinci kunokuba ngaphezulu", xelela abantwana ukuba ukuphulula amalungu esini ngokusekwe kwiingcinga zabo abanokuba ngamaqabane okwenyani kwaye okwenyani, ukuhlangana ngesondo okuthandanayo kuya kuba yingxaki encinci. Ukuba ukucinga akubafumani kuvuthondaba, mhlawumbi kungenxa yokuba ubuchopho babo abubuyelanga kubuntununtunu obupheleleyo ukusukela kwincopho yabo yangaphambili. Ekuhambeni kwexesha, kungcono ukulinda kunokujika kwi-pornography yanamhlanje (okanye i-pornography) ukuze wenze umsebenzi.
6. Iifostile ayinangqiqo. Okulusizi kukuba, iphonografi yanamhlanje ihlala yenza ukuba abantwana abangamadoda abanga-alpha bathandabuze ukunqweneleka kwabo kwikamva kuba bengaziboni kwindima ephambili ekhokelayo. Chaza ukuba ukoneliseka kweqabane lakho akuxhomekekanga kulwakhiwo olukhulu, olungagungqiyo okanye ezinye izinto zenkwenkwezi ye-porn. Kananjalo ulonwabo lomntu aluxhomekekanga kwilungu lobufazi elingenaboya, izinto ezingaqhelekanga zesondo, okanye ukufakelwa kwamabele kwiqabane lakhe. Chaza ukuba abalinganiswa be-porn bahlawulwa iimbaleki zesondo ezijolise ekuyileni umbono ovuselelayo-hayi ekuveliseni iimvakalelo ezifudumeleyo zolwaneliseko oluhlala luhleli okanye ulonwabo. Zoba umfanekiso wengqondo yomntwana wakho wokwabelana ngesondo okwanelisayo.
Izingane zibona iinthombe zoonografi zokuqala ze-intanethi zine minyaka elinanye, nokuba zincinci kule mihla. Ukuba awukwazi ukucinga ngendlela enhle yokuvula ingxoxo yezobucayi nomntwana wakho, unokufuna ukujonga ezinye zezi iividiyo ezikhululekile kwimithombo eyahlukeneyo. Unokwenza ukuba kube nzima ukuba iphonografi ibe ngumkhwa ngokukhusela iikhompyuter zakho zasekhaya (kunye nefowuni yomntwana wakho) nayo ba khu.
Uphando lubonisa ukuba ulwalamano olusisiseko oluxhasayo lwabazali unokukhusela abantwana ukuziphatha ngokukhawuleza, kwanabo bahlaselwa ngumzimba. Khuthaza umntwana wakho ukuba abuze imibuzo. Yamkela ukuba ekugqibeleni uza kufuneka enze izigqibo zakhe. Yonke into ongayenzayo inikeza ulwazi olunzulu, inkxaso yakho yothando, kunye nomzekelo omhle. Oku kungakho konke okufuneka umntwana wakho akwazi ukukwenza ukulinganisela ngokwesini.
Oko sabhala esi sithuba kuye kwavela imeko ephazamisayo. Abafana abasebenzisa i-intanethi kwi-intanethi ngexesha lokufikisa kwabo bahlala befuna ixesha elide ukubuyisa impilo yabo ye-erectile, yabona- Abasebenzisi abancinci be-Porn bafuna ixesha elide ukubuyisela kwakhona i-mojo yabo.
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Izifundo ze-22 ezivela kumazwe ahlukeneyo akwa-7 zahlaziywa. Ukusetyenziswa kwakunxulumene nobudlova ngokwesondo kwi-United States nakumazwe ngamazwe, phakathi kwamadoda kunye nabesifazane, kunye nokufundiswa kwexesha kunye nexesha elide. Amanyano ayomelele ngokuthetha ngaphezu kwesondo, nangona bobabini bebalulekileyo. Umzekelo jikelele weziphumo uphakamise ukuba umxholo onobundlobongela unokuthi ube yinto enzima.
- Kuthiwani malunga nokusetyenziswa koonwabo kunye nentsha? Khangela olu uluhlu lwangaphezulu Ucwaningo lwe-200 olutsha, okanye olu xwebhu lwe-2012 yophando - Impembelelo ye-intanethi ye-Internet kwi-Adolescents: Ukuphononongwa koPhando (2012). Ukususela kwisiphelo:
Ukwandisa ukufikelela kwi-Intanethi ngabaselula baye badala amathuba angakaze afikelele kwimfundo yesondo, ukufunda nokukhula. Ngokwahlukileyo, umngcipheko wengozi obonakalayo kwincwadi iye yabangela abaphandi ukuba baphenye ukutshatyalaliswa kwentombazana engamanyala kwi-intanethi ngokuzama ukuluhluza ukulwa. Ngokuhlangeneyo, ezi zifundo zibonisa ukuba ulutsha oludla uonografi luya kuba neengcinga kunye neenkolelo zesini. Phakathi kwezinto ezifunyenweyo, amanqanaba aphezulu eengqondo zengqondo, ukukhathazeka ngokwesondo, kunye nokuhlola kwangaphambili kwezesondo kuhambelana nokusetyenziswa rhoqo kweentlekiso zoonografi .... Nangona kunjalo, ukufunyaniswa okuqhubekayo kuye kwavela ekusebenzisaneni kweentlobo zoononografi ezibonisa ulutsha olubonisa ubundlobongela ngamanqanaba okwanda okuziphatha ngokwesondo. Uncwadi lubonisa ukulungelelaniswa phakathi kokusetyenziswa kwentetho yeentlekele kunye neengcinga zobuqu. Amantombazana abika baziva bengaphantsi kwababhinqa ababujonga kwizinto eziphathekayo zobulili, ngelixa abafana bekwesaba ukuba bangabi njengobomi okanye abakwazi ukwenza njengabo bantu kule mijelo. Iintsholongwane zivakalisa ukuba ukusetyenziswa kwabo kwezonografi kunciphile njengoko ukuzithemba kwabo nentlalo yoluntu kwanda. Ukongezelela, uphando lubonisa ukuba abatsha abasebenzisa imifanekiso engamanyala, ngokukodwa efumaneka kwi-Intanethi, banamazinga aphantsi ekuhlanganisweni koluntu, ukwanda kweengxaki zokuziphatha, amanqanaba aphezulu okuziphatha kakubi, iziganeko eziphezulu zeempawu ezixinzelelekileyo, kunye nokunciphisa ukunyaniseka kwengqondo kunye nabaxhasi.
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