Ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesini: Ukuthelekiswa nokuxhomekeka kwiziyobisi ezisengqondweni (2003)

Utyalo, uMartin, kunye ne-Plant Moira.

Umbhalo wezinto zokusebenza 8, akukho. 4 (2003): 260-266.

https://doi.org/10.1080/14659890310001636125

Abstract

Eli phepha lijonga imeko yeendlela ezithile zokuziphatha ngokwesondo njengohlobo lokuxhomekeka kweziyobisi okanye 'iziyobisi'. Igama elithi 'umlutha wesini' lifumene inqanaba lokwamkelwa kuphela kwiminyaka yakutshanje. Uninzi lwengxoxo epapashiweyo yesi sihloko yamkele imbono 'yemodeli yesifo' kunye nenyathelo le-12 yendlela yokuziphatha ekulutha isimilo esaziwa kakhulu ngokunxulumene nokuxhomekeka kwizinto zengqondo. Zininzi iinkcazo ezichaziweyo, kunye neCarnes's typological typology yamanqanaba amathathu okuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo. Ezinye izigxeko zale ndlela ziyaqwalaselwa. Ayamkelekanga kwilizwe jikelele ukuba ezinye iindlela zokuziphatha ngokwesondo kufuneka zithathelwe ingqalelo njengokuxhomekeka okanye 'likhoboka'. Inani leendlela zonyango ziye zanconywa ekuphenduleni iziyobisi. Oku kubandakanya unyango lwengqondo lomntu ngamnye, ubuchule bokuziphatha kunye nokusetyenziswa kwamayeza ukucinezela umnqweno wesini okanye amandla e-orgasm. Ukufana okuthile nokuxhomekeka kwiziyobisi ezisebenzayo kuyamkelwa. Kugqityiwe ukuba iintlobo ezithile zokuziphatha ngokwesondo (kubandakanya i-Intanethi okanye 'umlutha we-cybersex') zinokuthathwa ngokufanelekileyo njengezenza uhlobo lokuxhomekeka. Ukwabelana ngesondo kusebenze kwaindawo ezifanayo zobuchopho njengezo zenziwe kukusetyenziswa kweziyobisi. Ukongeza, bukhona ubungqina obubonisa ukuba iingxaki kumachiza okusebenza ngengqondo zinokudityaniswa neengxaki ezinxulumene nokuziphatha ngokwesondo. Kuyacetyiswa ukuba iingcali 'zokulutha' kufuneka zijonge abathengi kwiingxaki zokuziphatha ngokwesondo.