Ngaba ukuxhatshazwa kwezesondo ezixhomekeke kwiimeko ezingekho ngokwemvelo zanamhlanje?
Ininzi yezilwanyana i-masturbate, kodwa akukho nobunzima kunye nokuphindaphinda kwamaxesha abantu abesilisa-ngaphandle kokuthunjwa (ngoku ka ULeonard Shlain, MD).
Ithiyori yangoku kukuba thina bantu senza i-masturbate ngakumbi kuba sinokucinga. Ukuqagela okunxulumene noko kukuba ukuphulula amalungu esini ngokwamadoda kuqhubekile okoko nje singumntu-ngaphandle kokuxhatshazwa okwethutyana ngentsholongwane engavamile, njengemithintelo yonqulo okanye yentlalo. Ukusuka kwezi zimbini zilandelayo zilandela enye yesithathu: loo ngcamango iyimvelo, isilungiselelo sempilweni, okanye sine qua non , ubomi obuneliseko besondo.
Ngokuqinisekileyo imfesane iququzelela i-orgasm rhoqo, njengento yokudlala ngesondo kunye noonografi. Nangona kunjalo amandla ethu okucima (anokuthi, okanye inokuthi ingabalulekanga kubantu) ngokukhawuleza i-akhawunti yethu yokukhwabanisa kunye nemarathoni emnandi?
Kutshanje ndiyekile ukutshintsha i-cyber phakathi kwamadoda athile acingayo anamava amaninzi okuphulula amalungu esini kunye nokucinga. Amanqaku abawaphakamisileyo andikhokelele ekubeni ndenze ukubulawa kwembali, endizokwabelana ngako ngezantsi kwezimvo zabo.
Umntu wokuqala
Inyani yile, asinayo indlela yokwazi ukuba bangakanani abantu abaphulula amalungu esini kwixa elidlulileyo, nangona iqinisekile into yokuba ngamanye amaxesha benzile. Iingcali zanamhlanje ziyaziphosisa "iimeko zendalo." Babona abantu abaninzi (ngakumbi amadoda) bephulula amalungu esini kakhulu, kwaye bajonga iinkcazo ngaphandle kwesakhiwo sentlalo esikhulele kuso. Ukuhlalutya olu lwakhiwo ngokuchanekileyo, kuya kufuneka babeke ecaleni ezinye zeenkolelo zabo malunga nokunqweneleka kokuphila kwindalo engamanyala eyi-24/7. Njengeentlanzi kwi-fishbowl engazange ibuze into yokuba bayadada emanzini, abayikubuza imibuzo yabo yokuba i-pornography "iqhubela phambili," njalo njalo. Bahlalutya ngokusekwe kwiinkolelo zembono kwizibonelelo zokuphulula amalungu esini ngokungenamlinganiso (ngokuchaseneyo nezo zidala ezazibambe umbono wokuba zihlala zibi).
Abanye abaphandi baye bamangaliswa xa befumanisa i-masturbation encinane phakathi kwezinye iilwane. Omnye umphandi wesilwanyana esinjalo, uGilbert Van Tassel Hamilton,
Kuzo zonke iindundane zam zindoda kuphela u-Jocko uye waqaphela ukuba uhlambalaza. Emva kweentsuku ezimbalwa wayevalelwa kwaye wayidla inxalenye yesilwane sakhe. Ndinezizathu zokukholelwa ukuba wayehlala phantsi kweemeko ezingaqhelekanga iminyaka emininzi ngaphambi kokuba ndizuze.
Phawula indlela valelwa yimeko yokuziphatha kukaJocko. Ndiyavuma ukuba namhlanje siphila phantsi kweemeko ezithile "ezingaqhelekanga"! Ngaba banokuba negalelo kuyo yonke le "fantasy yendalo" kunye nokwamkelwa ngamashumi asithoba eepesenti kubemi abenza i-masturbate? Xa wonke umntu enqwala ngokuvuma ukuba "amakhwenkwe aza kuba ngamakhwenkwe" kwaye ukuphulula amaphambili yinto "yendalo," uhlobo olunjengepie yeapile, yenza impembelelo yokuthinjwa kwethu ekuziphatheni kwethu kungabonakali.
Ndibala phakathi kwabahlobo bam ezinye iimazi ezivalelwe phantsi kweemeko ezimbi, ezinjengokungaqeshwa okuphezulu kakhulu, ukunqongophala koncedo olusisiseko lwezonyango, uhlaselo lomgangatho wokuphila ophambili, uxinzelelo oluninzi lwepropaganda echaza ukonakaliswa kwendalo kunye nemfazwe, ishiya abantu beziva bengenakuzinceda, inkqubo yocalucalulo ngokwezoqoqosho, ukuthotywa ngokubanzi kwabantu basetyhini kunye nokuxhatshazwa kwabantwana ngokwesondo… Ndifuna ukuqhubeka? Akumangalisi ke ukuba wonke umntu abe likhoboka lento ethile!
Sonke ngandlela thile sifana nezo "nyamakazi zithinjiweyo," kwaye loo nto ayibandakanyi abantu abazizigidi ezi-2.5 abangabathinjwa kwinkqubo enkulu yaseMelika. Ezi "meko zendalo" zihlala zingathandabuzeki. Nangona kunjalo ezi kunye nezinye izinto kufuneka zithathelwe ingqalelo ngokukodwa kwingxoxo yabantu abavuma ukuba ukusetyenziswa gwenxa kwe-porn yingxaki kubo.
Umntu wesibini
Owona monakalo mkhulu emtshatweni wam wenzeka ngokuchanekileyo xa 'uqeqesho lokuzonwabisa ngokuphulula amalungu esini' lwalugqithisile. Ndiphazamise ubuchule bam bokuzibandakanya kunye nokuvumelana ngokwenyani (kubandakanya owam umfazi ohamba ze phambi kwam). Ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo, ndandinomfanekiso wakhe esenza kanye izinto endizinqwenelayo. Inye kuphela yefantasy eyakuthintelayo ekubeni ingadibani kwaphela nenyani yayingumzimba wakhe. Ngokuchasene ngokupheleleyo nombono wokuba iminqweno yesini yonyusa isondo, kuphela xa ndiphelise iminqweno yesini apho ndinganqwenela umfazi wam njengokuba enjalo. Ngeentsuku ezindala ezimbi zobuyatha bam obumnandi, njengoko bendimsebenzisela uncedo lokuphulula amalungu esini, wayehlala endibuza, "Ucinga ntoni?" Kwaye bendiya kuxoka, "Hayi, akukho nto ngenene."
Kule minyaka mibini idlulileyo, njengoko ndaye ndazisusa ngokungathandabuzekiyo iingcinga zam zesondo, kuye kwakho utshintsho olukhulu. Ndivuswa kakhulu kukuchukumisa. Umfazi wam usandibuza ukuba ndicinga ntoni ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo, kodwa ngoku xa ndiphendula ukuba andicingi, ndithetha inyani kuphela. Njengoko ndiphucula amandla am okugcina amaphupha ngaphandle kwengqondo yam, umtshato wam uyaphumelela ngokuthe ngcembe. Ukuba umsebenzi owenziweyo engqondweni unikiwe ngokusemthethweni, oko kuyenzeka ukuba imeko yomzimba ihambelane nomfanekiso wengqondo. Isiphumo kukungoneliseki okusisiseko ngemeko kabani.
Ukuya kuthi ga kwimikhwa yethu yesondo, imeko yokuba isimilo sabantu sanamhlanje kuphela kwendlela yokuziphatha yabantu enesiphene ngendlela eyoyikisayo. Phantse wonke umntu uhlala ekuthinjweni, rhoqo ngokuzithandela, kodwa ekuthinjweni kunjalo. Siyazivalela ngaphakathi ebusuku. Sisenokungatshixwa ngaphakathi emini, kodwa iingcango azidingi nokutshixwa ngenxa yokuba zikwimeko efanelekileyo yokuba sihlale sivalwe emsebenzini de sikhululwe etroneni.
Emva komsebenzi, sinokwenza okungaphezulu okanye okuncinci njengoko sithanda (ixesha lokulala kwakhona), kodwa uluhlu lwezinto ezamkelekileyo zithintelwe kakhulu kubantu abaninzi: umabonwakude, ukutya, ukuzilungisa, unxibelelwano losapho, ukungabikho kwe-elektroniki (ubugcisa, imivalo, Ukuzilolonga kwevili, ukuzama ukuxhuma), ukubaleka kwe-elektroniki, kunye nokwabelana ngesondo. Ngapha koko, sineeyure ezisi-8 kuphela zokujonga 'inkululeko.' Siyazondla, sithethe omnye nomnye, siyonwaba, kwaye ke lixesha lokuphinda ujikeleze umdlalo wokulala.
Ngamanye amaxesha izihlandlo ezithandathu kule minyaka imbalwa idlulileyo, bendikhe ndanandipha ukuhlala ngaphandle komjikelo kangangeeveki ezi-2 ngexesha. Ngokwazi kwam, olu hlobo lomsebenzi luya kuhambelana neepateni zangaphambili: iishedyuli ezimiselweyo, indawo yokuhlala kufutshane nosapho kunye nabantu oqhelene nabo, imfihlo encinci. Kwakukho umsebenzi onzima obonakalayo owawubandakanyekile nawo, endikrokrelayo ukuba ungalinganisa imisebenzi yokuziphilisa. Ukuziphatha kwam ngokwesondo rhoqo kuphantse kuphele. Esikhundleni se-4 orgasms ngeveki, ndine-0 kwi-2 i-orgasms kwiiveki ezimbini, kwaye andizange ndisebenzise i-porn.
Ngokucacileyo 'ezinye izifundo kufuneka zenziwe' kwaye 'ubungakanani besampulu yam incinci kakhulu ukufikelela kwisigqibo sokwenyani,' kodwa ngokufanayo, ngoku ndikhangela icebo lokunyusa inkululeko yam kunokuba i-orgasms yam.
Umntu wesithathu
Ukucingwa kwekhosi kuyimpahla ebalulekileyo, kodwa njengezo zonke izixhobo, zingasetyenziselwa okulungileyo okanye ezimbi. Ubungcamango obusekelwe kwiimifanekiso engcolileyo kuyingozi kwimpilo yengqondo, ngokomoya nangokwenyama ngenxa yoxinzelelo olusibeka phantsi kwexesha elide. Ukuqwenela into engenakuyifumaneka yinto engapheliyo, ixinzelelekileyo kwaye inganeliseki.
Ngaba ukuhamba kwempucuko kwenguqu yezocansi?
Ndinqwenela ukwazi ngezembali zoluntu, ndaye ndangena kuThomas W. Laqueur Ubundlobongela Bodwa: Imbali yeNkcubeko yeMastastation. Apho ndafunda ukuba ababukeli benkulungwane yeshumi elinesibhozo babhekisa kunyanzeliso, kubandakanya ukuphulula amaphambili, njenge "zifo zempucuko." Kuyabonakala ukuba babengaqhelekanga de abantu baseYurophu bafuduka kwiintsapho ezandisiweyo baya ezidolophini ezinamazinga angaqhelekanga okuvalelwa kunye nokuzihlukanisa.
Okokuqala ezimbalini, izinto ezikhuthazayo (kunye nezikhuthazayo), ezindala nezintsha, nazo zabakho ngokubanzi: icuba, itshokholethi, irum, ukungcakaza, ukuthenga, ukuqikelela imali, iphonografi kunye neenoveli malunga nothando olunomdla. Igama elithi "likhoboka" ngoku lavela kulwimi lwesiNgesi. Kwaye ukuphulula amalungu esini ngokunyanzelwa kwaba nomtsalane.
Ngokucacileyo, ukuphulula amalungu esini kwakungeyombono umtsha, kodwa, ngaphambi kwenkulungwane yeshumi elinesibhozo, akukho namnye owabona ukuzonwabisa okunokwenzeka njengokuqhakaza kumkhwa wokungena ngaphakathi, ngaphandle kwabefundisi abahlukaniswe ngokwesondo. Ngoku, nangona kunjalo, abantu babebanjiswa kuzo zonke iintlobo zokuziphatha ezazingabasebenzeli, ukufuna into enye kuphela kwe-orgasm kubandakanya. Ukunyanzelwa okunjalo kwakungaqhelekanga kwaye kusoyikisa kuba kwakungelula ukoyisa.
Ababukeli benkulungwane ye-XNUMX babonisa umahluko phakathi kwesondo nomntu, kunye nokwabelana ngesondo ngengcinga yakho. Ukuthatha inxaxheba kweqabane ngokwendalo kuseta ukubopha kwindlela yokuziphatha ngokwesondo ngohlobo lokufumaneka kweqabane, iimfuno zosapho, iingxaki zemali, okanye umthwalo wokulungiselela ama-tryst. Ngaba wena ngokwakho uyabelana ngesondo, kwelinye icala, ubungenamda ubambekayo, kwaye kunokuba lula ukuba ube umkhwa wokufuna. Ukwabelana ngesondo ngokusekwe "kwiimfuno zendalo" (kunye nesivumelwano sobabini) bekucingelwa ukuba kuluncedo ngakumbi kune-orgasm eveliswa ngefantasy okanye enye into yokuzivuselela. (Ngesiqhelo, umsebenzi wesazi ngengqondo uStuart Brody ubonakala ekuqinisekisa oko isondo siyancipha kwaye luncedo ngaphezu kwesondo somntu.)
Ukugqithisa ngokugqithisileyo kwakungekho ndlela yokukhwabanisa kuphela okwenza ukuba kubekho amanani omdaka omtsha, kodwa kwakungelula ukuba abantwana bakhubeke. Akumangalisi kukuba, ukwesaba ngokugqithisa ngokugqithisileyo kwaqala ukupapashwa malunga nezingane ezikolweni zokuhamba. Aba bantwana ngokuqinisekileyo sele bexhalabele ngenxa yokungavunyelwanga kunye nokungabikho kokuqhagamshelana neentsapho kunye neontanga zesini esahlukileyo.
Nangona kunjalo ukuba uchaze njani umngcipheko we umkhwa okhulayo ukuya kubantwana? Kwakungabikho ukukhulelwa kwengqondo yesayensi yokulutha. Endaweni yoko, abantwana bayalelwa ukuba baphephe “ukungcoliseka kwendalo.” Ngelishwa, izizukulwana zabantwana zakhuliswa ukuba zijonge ukukhangela isiqabu kwiminqweno yesondo ngokuphulula amalungu esini njenge livuselele ukungaphumeleli, kunokuba nje ukuthambekela okuqhelekileyo (ngokukodwa kunikezelo lweemeko zabo ezixinzelelekileyo), oko ufanele ukuphathwa kwangaphambili.
Ukubandakanyeka kokuphulula amalungu esini ngokuziphatha kwakungalunganga; ihlazo liyatshabalalisa. Nangona kunjalo, zombini le ndlela yezembali kunye nokuphindaphinda kwanamhlanje kuyaphazamisa isimo sengqondo sokukhululeka, sokubuza malunga nokuphulula amalungu esini-esinokusivumela ukuba sifumane uzinzo olusempilweni ngaphandle koloyiko lokuba sizibeka emngciphekweni wokucinezelwa ngokwesondo.
Ngaba sifuna icebo elihlukile?
Njengoko imbali yenkcubeko yokugunda i-masturbation, kubonakala ngathi abantu akazange Ngokubanzi kuxhomekeka kwixesha eliqhelekileyo kunye neengcamango zesondo zokuguqula imiqobo-bade bazifumana bekwimeko ezinxaxhileyo. Ngaba ukusukela namhlanje ukungayeki kwe-orgasm kunokuba ngumzamo wokuzinyanga ngokwakho xa ujongene neemeko zoxinzelelo ubuchopho bethu obungazange buguquke ukuze busebenze kakuhle? Nye Ingcali yezokwelapha eCanada ayicingi ukuba siyakuze siyichukumise ingxaki yokulutha de sihlakulele (buyela kuyo?
Neurohistorian UDaniel Nkosi Smail ibonisa ukuba umntu unokujonga yonke imbali yempucuko njengendlela yokukhawuleza ekusebenziseni ngakumbi izinto eziphathekayo (psychotropic) izinto kunye nemisebenzi, kubandakanywa ukuthengwa kwezinto kunye nokubola kwiikhalori ezingenanto. Ukuphishekela ngokuphindaphindiweyo, i-orgasm-enhanced aid orgasm yinto enye-nangona kubaluleke kakhulu.
Ukutyekela kwethu kunyango kunye noxinzelelo lweemeko zanamhlanje kubonakala ngathi kuyakhawuleza kunokuba kusikhokelele kulwaneliseko. Ukuba kunjalo, ngaba silumkile ukuba sithathe uxolo lwengqondo lilele kwincopho yethu rhoqo ukuya kwisikhuthazo esinamandla ngakumbi? Uphando lwamva nje lubonisa ukuba le khosi inokuba lilize. Isikhuthazo esigqithisileyo sinokwenza ukwaneliseka kuya kusiba nzima ngenxa yamandla abo ndindisholo impendulo yovuyo.
Kungenzeka ukwaneliseka okungakumbi ekufundeni ukunyathela i-neurochemical (kwaye ngoko imvakalelo) balance-nokuba phantsi kweemeko ezinzima zanamhlanje? Isizathu sokuzibamba ngamachiza sibonakala singxamisekileyo xa sifumana iindlela zokuhlangabezana neemfuno ezisisiseko zobuchopho bethu, eziye zaguquka ukuze zisigxininise xa be be nga ekuthinjweni. Ngokomzekelo, uphando lubonisa ukuba umzimba, ukusebenzisana ngobuhlobo, ukuchukumisa, iibhondi zombini, kwaye imihla ngemihla kucamngca bayamangalisa ngokusebenzayo njengabalawuli bemimoya kunye namanyathelo okunyanzelisa uxinzelelo. Kuthiwani malunga nobuchule bokudala lawulo olufanelekileyo yesini isifiso ngokwaso?
THREAD on REDDIT- "Uyazi ukuba ukuphulula amalungu esini kuhambelana njani nokuthinjwa?"
Sonke sivile malunga nendlela izilwanyana ezenza ngayo i-masturbate kwindalo, kodwa akukho ndawo ikufutshane nalapho ikwenza khona xa ivalelwe. Iyavakala iyonke, kwaye ndicinga ukuba isiphumo 'sokuthimba' senza ukuba iNoFap ibonakalise nzima ngakumbi kunokuba injalo kwindalo.
Ndibe namaxesha amabini ahlukeneyo kwiNoFap yam- ngaphambi kokuba isikolo siqale (ndingumfundi ophakamileyo kwisikolo esiphakamileyo), nasemva koko. Ngexesha lasehlotyeni, ndaya kwiintsuku ze-31 kwaye ndaziva ukuba AKUKHO mnqweno wokwenyani. Phantse kunzima ukuyichaza- kufana nokuba bekungekho sidingo sayo.
Nje ukuba isikolo siqale, nangona kunjalo, uxinzelelo kunye nokudakumba okukhulu kwezesondo kwandizisa emadolweni ndide ndafaka amaxesha e-4 kwezi veki zimbini zidlulileyo. Kuyayikhathaza ingqondo ukuba imeko yesikolo samabanga aphakamileyo (imeko yempangelo nayo ayisiyoyendalo) kukho zonke iintlobo zamantombazana athandekayo, kodwa uluntu lundiyalela ukuba andinakwenza nantoni na mna. Kwindalo (njengaphambi kokuzingela indalo), ndingaya ngqo ukubuza amantombazana ahlukeneyo ukuba afuna ukulala ngesondo, kwaye ukuba uthe hayi, ndiza kuqhubeka ngaphandle kwengxaki kwaye ndingaze ndiphinde ndimbone. Akufuneki ukuba, isikolo esiphakamileyo asisebenzi ngoluhlobo. Yongeza kuyo yonke into engaqhelekanga, umda we-surreal xa ucinga ngenene ngezikolo zamabanga aphakamileyo (ukunyanzelwa ukuba ufunde izinto apho ungenamdla khona [STEM mntu, amagama awachazi ukuba andithandi kangakanani iiklasi zesiNgesi], ekufuneka ndiyenzile Iiprojekthi ezingathandekiyo ngaphandle kwesizathu, ukuhlala uzolile kwaye ungachaphazeleki kufutshane namantombazana xa YONKE ithuku likuxelela ukuba wenze ngokuchaseneyo, ukuba kunye nabantu ongabathandiyo ngaphandle kwesizathu, njl.njl.), kwaye kulula ukubona ukuba kutheni into efana nokuphulula amaphambili inokuba yindlela enamandla yokulwa nabantu abakwimeko engaqhelekanga, engeyiyo eyendalo ekuthinjweni ngokoqobo kuzo zonke iinjongo kunye neenjongo.
Thelekisa imeko yesikolo / yempangelo nendlela endihlala ngayo ehlotyeni: Ndisebenza kwishedyuli yam, ndafunda into endinomdla kuyo, ndafunda into endinomdla wokuyifunda, andinyanzeliswa ukuba ndenze iiprojekthi kunye neenkcazo ezingenamsebenzi, njl. Ndaphila into eyayinokuchazwa njenge (uhlobo olumangalisayo lwendlela yokuphila) 'yendalo' - ukungabotshwa edesikeni, ukutshatyalaliswa kukukhathazeka ngokwesondo, okanye ukujongana nokungabikho kwenkqubo yesikolo sikarhulumente. Kwaye ucinga ntoni? Andizange ndifune ukulala ngesondo kunye nam ndide ndibuyele kumboniso wam.
Konke oku kuyinyani, kundenza ndibuze umbuzo odumileyo wokuba ukuphulula amalungu esini 'yinto yendalo'. Yindalo, yendalo kuphela kwi engavamile imeko.
Uluhlu olufanayo
Esi sisithuba esibonisa ngokucacileyo, kwaye mhlawumbi eyona nto ibalulekileyo ndiyibonileyo. Amava am njengomfundi wesikolo samabanga aphakamileyo afana ngokungaqhelekanga. Ndivakalelwa kukuba isikolo esiphakamileyo yindawo engaqhelekanga. Ngandlela thile, sinikwe amaziko enkqubo yesikolo sikarhulumente. Amabanjwa entolongo abekwa kumaziko ngendlela efanayo, nangona kunjalo iziphumo zibi kakhulu (jonga i-Shawshank Redemption.) Izakhono zam zentlalo ziyathinteleka kakhulu ngexesha lonyaka wesikolo (ndiye ndizise ngakumbi kwaye ndiphinde ndicinge kuba yile ndlela ndiqeqeshwe ngayo ukuba ndiziphathe Ndihlala ndikwimeko yoxinzelelo okanye ukothuka. Ndonqena ngakumbi kwaye andikhuthazi. Isikolo singena emzimbeni wam sikwimeko yokudakumba rhoqo kunye noxinzelelo. Abanye abantu basebenza phantse ngesiqhelo ngexesha lonyaka wesikolo; ayindim. Kodwa ngaphezulu kwehlobo, ndiyaziva ukuba umzimba wam uphantse "ukuzilungisa" ngokwawo. Ndiba njenge "yendalo" yam. Ndibona abantu abambalwa endikulungeleyo ukonwabela kunye / ukonwabela inkampani. Ndizithembile, ndinamandla, ndikhululekile ukudlala ipiyano, ndifunde nantoni na endiyifunayo, ndihlale kude kube sebusuku ukuba ndiziva ndinje ... Ndifumanisa ukuthanda kwam, ukungathandi, amabhongo kunye nokusilela. Ubukrelekrele bam buyakhanya ehlotyeni.
Ngenye imini ndafumanisa i-nofap, into elandelayo uyazi ukuba nditya ngcono, ndisebenzisa, ndenza abahlobo abatsha, ndidibana namantombazana, ndidlala umculo, ndibukele iimovie endizithandayo, ndifunda ngokunyanisekileyo (hayi ukufundwa kwe-bullshit okwenzeka ngexesha lesikolo) ubomi. Ngendlela, ndingumntu ophakamileyo kwisikolo samabanga aphakamileyo njengawe, ke ndiyavuya ukubona ukuba thina bafundi bebanga leshumi banokuba nokuqonda njengabahlengi abadala. (nangona uyazi, uninzi lwabahlengi lusithiyile)
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PHAWULA: I-YBOP ayithethi ukuba i-masturbation imbi kuwe. Yenza nje iphuzu lokuba ininzi yezinto ezibizwa ngokuba yimpilo zifunyenwe ukudibaniswa ne-orgasm okanye i-masturbation eqinisweni inxulumene nobudlelwane obusondeleyo nomnye umntu, kungekhona isisu / ukuhlaziya umzimba. Ngokukodwa, ukubambisana phakathi kwezinto ezimbalwa zezempilo kunye ne-orgasm (ukuba yiyinyaniso) mhlawumbi ihambelana nemibutho ephilileyo enokuzibandakanya kwi-sex and more. Ayikho i causal. Iziphumo ezifanelekileyo:
Izibonelelo zezempilo ezihambelanayo neMisebenzi eyahlukeneyo yoSondo (2010) yafumanisa ukuba ukulala ngesondo kwakuxhomekeke kwimiphumo emihle, ngelixa i-masturbation ayikho. Kwezinye iziganeko ukuxhatshazwa kwezidlova kwakunxulumene kakubi neenzuzo zezempilo-oko kuthetha ukuba i-masturbation enye ihambelane neenkcukacha zezempilo ezihluphekileyo. Isiphelo sokuhlaziywa:
"Ngokusekelwe kwiindlela ezahlukeneyo, iisampuli kunye nemilinganiselo, ukufunyaniswa kuphando kuhambelana ngokugqithiseleyo ekuboniseni ukuba omnye umsebenzi wesondo (i-Penile-Vaginal Sex and response response to it) idibene kunye, kwaye kwezinye iimeko, kubangele iinkqubo ezinxulumene kunye nokusebenza okungcono kwengqondo nokusebenza ngokomzimba. "
Ezinye iindlela zokuziphatha ngokwesini (kubandakanywa ne-Penile-Vaginal Sexual intercourse, njengokuba kukho ikhondom okanye ukuphazamiseka kude ne-peneni-zangaphakathi), okanye kwezinye iimeko (ezifana nokuhlambalaza kunye nokulala komzimba) kuhambelana nokusebenza okungcono kwengqondo nokusebenza ngokomzimba . "
Iyeza zonyango, imfundo yesondo, ulwabelana ngesondo, kunye nophando lwezesondo kufuneka kuhanjiswe iinkcukacha zeempilo zePenile-Vaginal Intercourse, kwaye zenzeke ngakumbi kwiindawo zabo zokuvavanya nokungenelela. "
Kwakhona ukujonga okufutshane ukuhlaziya i-masturbation kunye neempendulo zezempilo: Ukuphanga-mbola kuhambelana ne-Psychopathology kunye ne-Prostate Dysfunction: Comment on Quinsey (2012)
Kunzima ukudibanisa uluvo lokuba ukuphulula amalungu esini kuphucula imeko yeemvakalelo kunye nokufunyanwa kwezesini zombini ukuba ukuphindaphindwa kwamalungu okuphulula amalungu esini kunxulunyaniswa neempawu zokudakumba ngakumbi (UCyranowski et al., 2004; Frohlich & Meston, 2002; Husted & Edwards, 1976), ulonwabo oluncinci (Das , 2007), kunye nezinye izikhombisi zempilo ehlwempuzekileyo ngokwasemzimbeni nangokwasengqondweni, ezibandakanya ukunamathela okuxhalabisayo (ICosta kunye neBrody, 2011), iindlela zokuzikhusela ezingakhulanga ngokwasemoyeni, ukuphinda uxinzelelo lwegazi ukuphinda uxinzelelo, kunye nokungoneliseki ngempilo yengqondo kunye nobomi ngokubanzi ( uphononongo, jonga u-Brody, 2010). Kunzima ngokulinganayo ukubona ukuba ukuphulula amalungu esini kukhula njani kwiminqweno yesini, xa ubukhulu becala ukuphulula amaphambili kuhlala kunxulunyaniswa nokungasebenzi kakuhle ngokwesondo emadodeni (Brody & Costa, 2009; Das, Parish, & Laumann, 2009; Gerressu, Mercer, Graham, Wellings, & UJohnson, 2008; Lau, Wang, Cheng, & Yang, 2005; Nutter & Condron, 1985) kunye nabafazi (Brody & Costa, 2009; Das et al., 2009; Gerressu et al., 2008; Lau, Cheng, Wang, & Yang, 2006; Shaeer, Shaeer, & Shaeer, 2012; Weiss kunye noBrody, 2009). Ukuhamba rhoqo kwe-masturbation kukwahambelana nokungoneliseki ngakumbi kubudlelwane kunye nothando oluncinci kumaqabane (Brody, 2010; Brody & Costa, 2009). Ngokwahlukileyo, i-PVI ihambelana kakhulu nempilo engcono (Brody, 2010; Brody & Costa, 2009; Brody & Weiss, 2011; Costa & Brody, 2011, 2012), umsebenzi ongcono wesondo (Brody & Costa, 2009; Brody & Weiss, 2011; Nutter & Condron, 1983, 1985; Weiss & Brody, 2009), kunye nolwalamano olusenyongweni olungcono (Brody, 2010; Brody & Costa, 2009; Brody & Weiss, 2011).
Ngaphezu koko, nangona umngcipheko omncinci we-prostate umdlavuza wahlanganiswa nenani elikhulu le-ejaculations (ngaphandle kokuchazwa kweendlela zesondo) (Giles et al., 2003) [Qaphela ubungqina obuphikisanayo, nangona kunjalo: "Umhlaza wesifo seprotate unokudibaniswa namahomoni wesondo: Amadoda asebenze ngezesondo kwi-20 kunye ne-30 ingaba nomngcipheko ophezulu wesifo somhlaza wesibeletho, uphando lubonisa. "], Yimvama ye-PVI enxulunyaniswa ngokuthe ngqo nomngcipheko omncinci, ngelixa ukuphulula amalungu esini kuhlala kunxulunyaniswa nomngcipheko owandayo (ukuphononongwa kwisifundo, jonga uBrody, 2010). Kule meko, kuyathakazelisa ukuqaphela ukuba ukuphulula amalungu esini kukwanxulunyaniswa nezinye iingxaki zeprostate (amanqanaba aphezulu e-antigen kunye neprostate edumbileyo okanye ithenda) kwaye, xa kuthelekiswa ne-ejaculate efunyenwe kwi-PVI, i-ejaculate efunyenwe kwi-masturbation ineempawu Umsebenzi ocekeceke weprostatic kunye nokupheliswa okuncinci kweemveliso zenkunkuma (Brody, 2010). Ukuziphatha okukuphela kwesondo okuhambelana nokunxibelelana okungcono nempilo yengqondo kunye neyomzimba yiPVI. Ngokwahlukileyo, ukuphulula amalungu esini ngokufuthi kunxulunyaniswa neempawu zezempilo ezihlwempuzekileyo (Brody, 2010; Brody & Costa, 2009; Brody & Weiss, 2011; Costa & Brody, 2011, 2012). Zininzi iindlela ezinokubakho zengqondo nezomzimba, ezinokuthi zibe sisiphumo sokhetho lwendalo oluthanda iinkqubo zempilo njengesizathu kunye / okanye nefuthe lokukhuthaza ukukhangela, kunye namandla okufumana kunye nokonwabela, i-PVI. Ngokuchasene noko, ukhetho lweendlela zengqondo ze-psychobiological ezivuzayo ezikhuthazayo zokuphulula amalungu esini akunakulindeleka ngenxa yeendleko zokuqina komzimba ezinokuthi zenzeke xa kuthintela enye kwi-PVI ngokuyenza ingabalulekanga kwimpilo entle (Brody, 2010). Ngokucacileyo, ukuphulula amalungu esini kubonisa ukungaphumeleli kweendlela zokuqhuba ngokwesondo kunye nokunxibelelana ngokusondeleyo, nangona kuyinto eqhelekileyo, kwaye nokuba ayiqhelekanga ihlala kunye nokufikelela kwi-PVI. Kule meko, kuyaphawuleka ukuba ukuphindaphindeka kwamalungu e-masturbation kunxulunyaniswa nokungoneliseki zizinto ezininzi zobomi ngaphandle kwe-PVI frequency (Brody & Costa, 2009) kwaye kubonakala ngathi kunciphisa ezinye izibonelelo zePVI (Brody, 2010).
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“Ke, bonwabile abo baphendulayo abaphulula amaphambili kutshanje xa kuthelekiswa nabo bangenzanga? Umzobo 5 utyhila ukuba phakathi kwabo baphendulayo abathi "abonwabanga kwaphela" ngobomi babo kule mihla, iipesenti ezingama-68 zabasetyhini kunye neepesenti ezingama-84 zamadoda bathi babephulula amalungu esini kwiveki ephelileyo. Ukudibana okuthobekileyo nokungonwabi kubonakala kumgca phakathi kwamadoda, kodwa hayi kubafazi. Inqaku lethu ayikokucebisa ukuba ukuphulula amalungu esini kwenza abantu bangonwabi. Inokwenzeka, kodwa imeko yecandelo ledatha ayisivumeli ukuba sikuvavanye oku. Nangona kunjalo, ichanekile ngokwasemthethweni into yokuba amadoda athi onwabile awanako kangako ukuxela ukuphulula amaphambili kunamadoda angonwabanga. ”
“Ukuphulula amaphambili kukwanxulunyaniswa nokuxela iimvakalelo zokungafaneleki okanye uloyiko kubudlelwane kunye nobunzima bokuhamba ngempumelelo kubudlelwane phakathi kwabantu. Usuku lwangaphambili kunye neveki ephelileyo i-masturbator ibonisa amanqanaba aphezulu oxinzelelo kubudlelwane kunabaphenduli abangakhange baxele ukuphulula amalungu esini kumhla odlulileyo okanye kwiveki ephelileyo. Iintsuku ezidlulileyo kunye neveki ephelileyo zibonakalisa amanqanaba aphezulu oxinzelelo kubudlelwane kunabaphenduli abangakhange baxele ukuphulula amaphambili kusuku oludlulileyo okanye kwiveki ephelileyo. ”
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