I-Porn, Intsingiselo kunye nokunganeliseki (2011)

Ngaba Unokubangela Ukuba I-Porn Porn Yenze Ingqabane Yakho Ingabi Ncinane

Ukuba utshatile kwaye usebenzisa i-pornography, "Wena da man!" Ubuncinane kwiqondo lakho loqikelelo. Okokuqala, izibhambathiso zakho zomtshato zandisa amathuba okuba inzala yakho edibeneyo iya kuba nabanakekeli ababini, ngaloo ndlela kuphuculwe ubunzima bokusinda kweepakethi ze-gene (abantwana) oqinisekileyo.

Okwesibini, ukhonza omnye umntu kwikhompyutheni yekhompyutheni enqwenelekayo kwimbewu yakho, ngaloo ndlela uzama ukusabalalisa izityalo zakho. Ubuncinane ukuba yintoni inxalenye yokuqala yengqondo yakho ekholelwa ngokuqinile. Uyabona, yaguquka xa "ishushu" ibonakalisa "ithuba lokunyanzelisa."

Ukuba "da man" kukhulu, ngaphandle kokuba i-24 / 7 i-intanethi ye-intanethi ingakhuthaza ingqondo engafani nantoni na okhokho bakho abaye bajamelana nayo ngexesha lokuziphendukela kwemvelo. NjengamaWest West, ininzi yethu ithatha into yokuba into eninzi yinto enhle ... nokuba ngcono. Mhlawumbi hayi. Xa sikhululekile, ukugqithiswa koononophala kwaba ngumfo wezifo zengqondo uNorman Doidge waphawula into ephazamisayo phakathi kwe-pornography-esebenzisa izigulane:

Bachaza ubunzima obukhulayo ekuguquleni ngamalingani abo ngokwesini, abatshatileyo okanye intombi, nakuba bebecinga ukuba zikhangeleke ngokufanelekileyo. Xa ndabuza ukuba le nto yayinobunye ubuhlobo bokubukela iphonografi, baphendula ngokuthi ekuqaleni babancedisa ukuba bajabule ngakumbi ngexesha lesondo kodwa ke emva kwexesha kwaba nempembelelo eyahlukileyo. Ngoku, endaweni yokusebenzisa zabo iingqondo ukuba banandiphe ekulala, ngoku, kunye namaqabane abo, ukuthanda uthando kubenza bafune ukuba baqikelele ukuba babeyingxenye yeskripthi se-porn. Ubungqina Obuguqula, iphe. 104

Wathi umsebenzisi osisilumkiso onobulumko:

Ndabona inkqubo malunga neenkwenkwezi zoononophala. Bathe banokuxelela abasebenzisi be-porn abangapheliyo kuba akukho nto bayenzileyo "inokukhuthaza" le ndoda ukuba ivuke. Cinga ngayo, kwanamantombazana aqeqeshelwe ukufeza ubukrelekrele besini esingamadoda akakwazi ukuhambelana nokukhuthaza iphonografi, kubandakanya amanye amantombazana eneneni in iphonografi. Abafazi abaqhelekileyo abafuna nje ukuthanda kwethu abami thuba.

Unokuyithandabuza njani namhlanje i-porno ekunciphiseni ukuziphatha kwakho ngokwesondo kwiqabane lakho? Ngokuqhelanisa iindlela ezintathu zobuchopho:

  1. Inkqubo yamandulo yezinto eziphilayo ihamba kwiibhokhwe zazo zonke izilwanyana. Ixhomekeke kwizinto eziphathekayo zendalo xa kuninzi abantu abatshatileyo becela ukulala ngesondo. Cinga ixesha lokuxhatshaza. Yaye iyayiqonda nganye intsha entsha (okanye iyatshisa nantoni) kwesikrini sakho njengethuba eliyigugu lofuzo.
  2. Ukuvuselela okuninzi kunokuthi kunqabile impendulo yokuzonwabisa yengqondo ngokukhawuleza ukukhupha iimfuno zengxelo entsha. Iqabane eliqhelekileyo libonakala lincinci.
  3. Uphando lubonisa ukuba ukukhuthazwa kakhulu kwesiganeko socansi / ukutshatyalaliswa kwesekethe kuphazamisa indlela yokubambisana kwamabini.

Isiphumo? Ukungabi nandaba.

Yazi i Impembelelo yeCoolidge

Cinga ngento eyenzekayo xa ulahla i-rat yamadoda kwindlwana kunye ne-fem evumayo. Okokuqala, kukho isondo. Isiqingatha seshumi elinambini sokukhutshelwa komlilo kamva. Nokuba ufuna ngaphezulu, akanamdla. Ingqondo yakhe iyangsebeza ithi, “Qengqeleka urhona.” Nangona kunjalo, ukuba umntu omtsha obhinqileyo uvela, ukudinwa kwakhe kuya kuphelela ngokungummangaliso ixesha elide ngokwaneleyo ukuba azame ngobukroti ukuzama umsebenzi wakhe wokuchumisa. Ungayiphinda le nkqubo kunye nabasetyhini abatsha kude kube iphantse yafa kukudinwa.

Ubungqina bakhe obuhlaziyiweyo abubonakalisi bhulogi obungenakulinganiswa. Kwakungekho nokwandisa impilo yakhe-nangona ikhangeleka (kwaye ivakale ngexeshana kuye) ngaloo ndlela. Uhamba emva komfazi ngamnye omtsha ngenxa ye-dopamine engqondweni yakhe. Bamyala ukuba ungashiyi nantombazana engavumelekanga.

Izazinzulu ziyayazi le nkqubo yezinto eziphilayo njenge "Isiphumo seCoolidge." Kuyabonakala nakwizilwanyana zasetyhini, nazo, eziye zaqwalaselwa ukuba zidlalise ngakumbi ngabafana abatsha. Ayisiyo kuphela imizila yethu yemfuza yokuthanda ukungena kwizikhephe ezininzi kangangoko kunokwenzeka ukuhamba ngomkhumbi kwikamva, zikwathanda ukwahluka kwemfuza phakathi kwenzala yethu.

Izilwanyana azizange zilale. Esikhundleni sezinto ezijabulisayo "batshatile kwaye baphila ngokuvuyisayo emva koko," iimbali zefestile ziphela kunye nenzalo kunye neyona nzala-nayiphi na indlela i-genes ingayifumana ngayo-uBurnham noPhelan, ababhali Iimvelaphi eziPhakathi

IDopamine yile "Uyifumene!" I-neurochemical emva kwayo yonke inkuthazo. Ngaphandle kwayo thina izilwanyana ezanyisayo asinakukhathazeka enkundleni, silandele uvuthondaba, okanye sitye. Xa i-dopamine yehla kunjalo nenkuthazo. Kwasa.

Kwakhona sisisitshixo kwiColidal Effect. Ngaphezulu i-rat ixubusha kunye neyowesifazana esifanayo, i-dopamine encinane ayifumana kwimigudu yakhe-de kube yilapho ihamba khona ukuze ibuyele, idibanise kude. Ukubonelelwa ngeyona ntshakazi ibonisa.

Cinga ngeli grafu. Ngexesha lesihlanu inkunzi yegusha ixubusha kunye neyowesibini, imthatha imizuzu ye-17 ukuba ihambe. Kodwa ukuba uhlala eshintshela kwiimvanokazi zebhinqa ... unokwenza umsebenzi wakhe ngaphantsi kwemizuzu emibili, amahlanu ngokulandelana.

Ubunzima beRam bukhanyisela ukulungelelanisa ukuze bangashiyi nabesifazane abangenanto

Ngokungafani neenkunzi zeenkunzi zeebhokhwe, abantu bayizibophelelane. Sino-wired, ngokuqhelekileyo, ukukhulisa inzala ndawonye. Ngaloo nto, ngaba oku kuthetha ukuba asiphelelanga kwi-Coolidge Impact? Nope. Le nkqubo yesidala iyakhupha nathi, kwakhona. Omnye umntu wathi,

Ndibukele uxwebhu olugxile kubafana olunodoli oxabisa kakhulu. Omnye umfana wayenamaninzi kangangokuba wayebaleka egumbini lakhe. Nangona ezi zidodoli, wayesele eqale ukubabona njengamantombazana awayechithe ixesha elaneleyo nawo. Mhlawumbi kutheni abantu beqokelela iphonografi kakhulu. Ndacinga ukuba ndiqokelela indawo yolwazi yolonwabo. Kodwa andikhumbuli ndibuyela umva. Inxalenye enyanzelekileyo ngumfanekiso OMTSHA, umfanekiso wenoveli… inoveli yothando yenoveli.

Ubuninzi be-intanethi ye-intanethi bunokubamba umsebenzisi ngokungapheliyo, njengoko unayo yonke into egcina i-dopamine ifaka. Injabulo yokuzingela umfanekiso ogqityiweyo ukhulula i-dopamine. Ngaphezu koko, kukho nantoni na into entsha, isoloko sinento ethi kinkier. I-Dopamine ikhutshwa xa kukho into ephakamisa ngakumbi kunokuba ilindeleke, kubangela ukuba iiseliti ze-nerve zitshise njengomlilo.

Ngokwahlukileyo, isondo kunye nomlingane wakho hayi soloko ilungile kunokuba kulindelwe. Akunakuni na ukunikezela ngeentlobo ezingapheliyo. Oku kunokubangela iingxaki kuba inxalenye yokuqala yeengqondo zakho ithatha ubuninzi be-dopamine ngokulingana nenani lomsebenzi-nangona xa kungenjalo.

Enyanisweni, i-dopamine yezibilini zomlilo zivelisa i-drug-like high ephosakeleyo kunokuba isondo kunye neqabane eliqhelekileyo. Kwi playboy Udliwano-ndlebe kunyaka ophelileyo, umculi uJohn Mayer wavuma ukuba wayefuna ukugqithisa kwiifoto kunokuba abe nesondo. Wa cacisa,

Imifanekiso engamanyala kwi-Intanethi itshintshe ngokupheleleyo ukulindela kwam isizukulwana sam. Ungahlala njani unxibelelanisa i-orgasm [nomntu] esekwe kwiminyhombiso? Ufuna enye… kwezikhulu ufunge ukuba izakuba yile uyigqibayo, kwaye awukagqibi. Kwimizuzwana engama-100 eyadlulayo ubucinga ukuba leyofoto yayiyeyona nto ishushu ukhe wayibona, kodwa uyiphosa umva kwaye uqhubeke nokuzingela kwakho kwaye uqhubeke uzenza mva emsebenzini. Ayichaphazeli njani isayikholoji yokuba nolwalamano nomntu othile? Kunyanzelekile.

Umlindi uyinceku yeColidal Effect. Ingqondo yakhe iyamhlupha nge-dopamine rhoqo xa echofoza kwi-roman "iqabane." Gcina ukhumbule ukuba i-dopamine iyinkohlakalo kwizilingo zonke. I-Cocaine, ngokomzekelo, ikhupha ingqondo kunye ne-dopamine engaphezulu (ngokuthintela ukuphindaphinda kwayo).

"Kutheni i-qabane lam lingenzi loo nto kum?"

Ukunqongophala komnqweno yayiyinto yokusilela komtshato wam, kunye nokusilela kobudlelwane obalandelayo. Ndineminyaka engaphaya kwama-30 ubudala, bendisebenzisa kakhulu iphonografi ukusukela kwiminyaka yam yokufikisa, kwaye ndityhola ingxaki zam kumaqabane ("Andikuthandi nje" / "Ndinqwenela ukuba ubuphendula"), ubutsha bamaqabane (" Ndidinga ukunika umzimba wam ixesha lokufikelela kwingqondo yam ”/“ Ndifuna ukudlula kwisidala sam ”), amanqanaba omzimba, ukutya, ubudala, uxinzelelo, uxinzelelo lokusebenza…

Njengamadoda amaninzi, ndaya kudokotela, ndafumana umzimba owawucala ukuba kukho naziphi na izifo zonyango, kwaye i-Viagra. Emva kokuba umtshato wam uphumelelanga, kwaye ndandingatshatanga, ukusetyenziswa koononophelo kwangena kwi-overdrive-ubuncinci kanye ngosuku kwaye kaninzi kubini okanye kathathu. Kodwa xa ndandiqonda ukuba andisayi kuphinda ndihlase i-orgasm ngaphandle koononophala, kukho into enqakrazayo. Isizathu nesiphumo sibonakala ngokucacileyo ngoku, ngokuqinisekileyo.

Ndihlala neqabane elitsha endinomdla kulo kwaye ndikhululekile ukuhlala nalo ngokwesondo- kodwa andikakwazi ukwenza. Ngombulelo uvulelekile kwiingxoxo ezingafihlisiyo malunga nale nto.

Kutheni umthandi wakho eqala ukujonga kuwe njenge-oatmeal ebandayo, nangona abanye bebambona njengepayi yomquba? Enye into enokuba ngumlinganiselo wesimo esingaqhelekanga se-intanethi. Ukuvuselela okuninzi kunokwenkqisa impendulo yolonwabo yengqondo yakho, ukuvelisa iimpawu ezahlukahlukeneyo. Siyazi oku kusuka kuphando lwakutshanje yokungcakaza, abadliwayo, kwaye ke, abasebenzisi beziyobisi. Ingqondo iqala ukuphendula ngaphezulu buthathaka kuyo nayiphi na i-dopamine is ukujikeleza-njengokuba kukhiqizwa ngumlingane wakho, "U-Honey, ngumhla woBusuku."

I-Dopamine igesi yesinjini sakho senqweno. Ukungqiniswanga kwamandla kuthetha ukuba nangona unayo igesi eninzi, i-V-8 yakho isebenza kuphela kwiisilinda ezine. Ingqondo yakho enomdla nje ayiphenduli kuye njengoko yenziwe ngaphambili.

Ngelishwa, nokuba isondo neqabane lakho alikubizeli, ungaziva unqwenela kakhulu into ethile (inoveli, eyingozi). Uqhubeka uhlalutya isantya sokunyusa i-dopamine kuba ingqondo yakho ifuna ukuziva ulungile kwakhona. Njengomhlekisi uBill Maher wathi, "uHugh Grant wayenaye uElizabeth Hurley ekhaya, kwaye wayefuna uMarvin Hagler ewigi."

Ngoko, kutheni siza kuguqulwa ukuba singaneliseki emva kokuvuselela okukhulu? Kungenzeka ukuba le ndlela iqhubise bethu okhokho ukuba baphathe ubuninzi babo bendalo ngexesha lokuxhatshaza, okanye xa ukutya okuphezulu kwekhalori kwakujikeleze. Cinga i-Coolidge Impact kwi-twin turbos.

Umzekelo, xa uhagu etyebe kakhulu waqhekeza emkhombeni weentombi, wakwazi ukuzala iziputi ezingamashumi amane namibini. (Xa ebanjwe, walala ezimbini iintsuku ezifanelekileyo.) Ubunzima buya kufuna ixesha lokubuyisela ekuvuseleleni okunjalo.) Xa sikhukhula ingqondo kunye neembonakaliso ezininzi zamabhinqa zicela iintlondi zethu zesini, ubuchopho bethu bubona i-bonanza efanayo yezofuzo kwaye siyanceda ukuxinwa ngokunyaniseka kwindlela esiyithanda ngayo.

Ngaphandle kokuba uyayiqonda le ndlela yobuchopho ifihliweyo, ikukhuthaza ukuba unyathele irhasi naxa sele unokwanela, kunzima ukudibanisa i-libido engonelisekiyo nengqondo engaphenduli kangako. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ivakalelwa kukuba i-libido yakho iya isomelela. Inyani yile yokuba ukungoneliseki okubangelwa yi-neurochemically deep in the brain is onging you to seek more stimulation.

Iimpawu zokuba i-thermostat yakho ye-libido ilungisiwe yayiya kuba: uzive ukhululekile kwaye unganeliseki ixesha; ufuna ubulili obuphathekayo kunye neqabane lakho; fumana iqabane lakho likhangele / linyanzelekile kune-intanethi; zifuna izinto ezimbi kakhulu, njalo njalo. Iingcali zibiza le mpawu "unyamezelo. "Ingabonisa kwinkqubo yomlutha emsebenzini kwingqondo.

Ndiqalise ukuthetha kwindoda yam ex. Ndacacisa ukuba andisayikude kuba ndamfumana ngento engathandekiyo ngokwesondo, kodwa ngenxa yokuba ndandibukela i-intanethi enkulu ye-intanethi ukuba wayedinga ukugubungela iinyawo zakhe, ukuxhamla ihashe, nokugubungela [isondo]. ukuba ndibandakanye ngokugcwele ngexesha lokuthanda.

I-Porn Porn ingabhekisana njani neBair Bonding?

Ukuba isibambano esibini sisinceda thina kunye nentsapho yethu, ngoko kutheni sisengozini kakhulu ukuba siqhutywe kwi-dopamine yokukhawuleza kwesoveli "ngabafazi"? "Ngokweqile, inxenye yokuba sinesimo seengqondo zobubele. Ukukwazi ukubambisana ngokubambisana kuxhomekeke ngokupheleleyo ukuqhuma kwe-dopamine ukukhetha izicwangciso zethu zothando. Kwi-97% yezilwanyana ezinobungozi, ezi zijikelezo zengqondo ezixhasayo zihlala zingekho.

Xa oososayensi befanisa iindwendwe zentlalo kunye nomzala wakhe okhohlakeleyo, i-montane vole, bafumanisa izinto ezimbini.

  1. Izilwanyana ezenza izibophelelo zombini, okanye ziwele "uthando," zi ngakumbi ukuxhatshazwa. Bafumana ukugqithiswa okukhulu kwe-dopamine kwizidakamizwa. Ingaba kutheni abaninzi bethu bakhonyiswa kalula ngezinto ezivelisa i-dopamine kunye nezinto ezifana ne-intanethi kunye nokugembula?
  2. Ukuxela oku ngakumbi akazange kwenzeka xa izazinzulu zikhukhula ngobunzima bobabini bombini kunye nokuvuselela iikhemikhali. Ezi zilwanyana zendalo ayisayi kubumba ukhetho elinye iqabane. Ukuvuselela okwenziweyo kwakubangele ukuxakisha imishini yokuxhomekeka kwe-dopamine, iwashiye nje njengezilwanyana eziqhelekileyo (eziphathekayo).

Ukuba nengqondo evakalelwa kukuphakama kokuthandana kuxhasa ibhondi yakho. Kukho into ethi "khotyokiswe" kwiqabane lakho, ukuba akukho nzululwazi ikwenza iziyobisi. Ngokufanelekileyo, unamathela ekuzithobeni njengokuba uguqukile ukuba wenze-kuba asikho esinye isilingo. (Ewe kunjalo, ukuba isilingo siwela ethangeni lakho, iijini zakho zinokuqhekeza isabhokhwe sedopamine.)

Kuyacaca, nangona kunjalo, ukuba ubuntununtunu obufanayo obukhuthaza ukuba uthandane buba sesichengeni xa ugcwele zizinto ezibandakanya ezesondo. Ngesiquphe, isekethe apho isibini sakho sixhomekeke kugcwele yidopamine ehambelana nokukhuthaza omnye ngaphezu kweqabane lakho. Unokwenza umlingane ungathandeki, kwaye ukhulule iinkqubo zakho eziqhelekileyo zokusondeza.

Kunokuba nje "ukuxubha," sisifo esihlaselayo sinokuzibandakanya kwisenzo esizibiza ngokuthi "ukuhlela": Ukuzithelela kwisibini se-orgasm ngokuphindaphindiweyo, ngaphandle kwe-ejaculation. [Siyabonga ngokusasazeka kwe-intanethi ye-intanethi,] sinokuxhasa amanqanaba aphezulu kakhulu ngokwesondo ngokuvakalayo. Ndiyindlali-nxaxheba esebenzayo kwiqela le-Intanethi elijoliswe kwi-Internet, kwaye umodareyitha omnye.

Abaninzi bethu bahamba ngoku ukuyeka umlingani-wesondo, nangona iqabane lihlala likhona kwaye likulungele. Siye saqulunqa igama elithi "impopho yokuxilonga" kwinto eqhelekileyo yokukwazi ukuyifumana kwi-intanethi, kodwa kungekhona kumlingane.

Ngaba oku kuthetha ukuba wonke umntu ojonga iimfesane uya kulahla emtshatweni wakhe? Akunjalongo noko. Nangona kunjalo, inkxaso yeengcamango ezibangelwa ukuvuselela okungakumbi-nangakumbi kwiinguqulelo ezincinci kunezixhobo zoononophelo lwe-intanethi-eziphazamisa izibophelelo zomntu zivele ziboniswe uphando.

Ngokutsho Ucwaningo lwe-2007, ukutshatyalaliswa kwintlupheko yemifanekiso yamabhinqa amancinci kunokubangela ukuba umntu abe ngumlingani wakhe woqobo. Uhlawulela umzantsi wakhe kungezantsi nje ekukhangekeni, kodwa nakwimfudumalo nobunzulu. Kwakhona, emva kokusetyenziswa kwamanyala, izifundo zesilisa nabesifazana Ucwaningo lwe-2006 baxelise ukwaneliseka okungenamncinane kunye neqabane labo elithandana nabo-kubandakanye uthando lomlingane, ukubonakala, ukufuna ukwazi ngesondo kunye nokusebenza. Ngaphezu koko, babone ukubaluleka kokwabelana ngesondo ngaphandle kokubandakanyeka kwemvakalelo.

Kucacile ukuba, ukuba ufuna ukuhlala utshatile ngokuwaneliseka ngokufanelekileyo, wenza lula umsebenzi wakho ngokukhetha hayi ukubangela ukutshintsha kwezinto ezenza ukuba iqabane lakho libukeke njengeHander Helper.

Ngoko, yintoni eyo kumxhasi othandekayo? Ngaphandle kokuba kube neendleko zokugcina indlu enye, ufumana inzuzo yezempilo. Ngokomzekelo, uphando lubonisa ukuba ubudlelwane beentlobano zineempembelelo ezingakumbi kumzimba kunokuba ukuphonyula. Ikhupha ama-neurochemicals amachiza ukunciphisa uxinzelelo olungcono, kunye neenzuzo zokuhlala iintsuku. Kwakhona, ukunxibelelana kwansuku zonke kufudumele phakathi kwezibini ezixhamla amadoda ukunciphisa uxinzelelo lwegazi.

Intanethi ayikwazi ukwenza oko. Njengoko indoda enye yabona,

Ekuhambeni kwexesha, imfesane esekelwe kwi-pornography idala uxinzelelo. Ukuqwenela okungenakufumaneka kungekho nje kwaye kunganeliseki.

Ngokwahlukileyo, ubuhlobo obusondeleyo kunye no gxininiswa kumnxeba othandekayo ayidli nje kuphela, kodwa iphinda ngokuqinisekileyo iqinisa izibophelelo.

Ngethuba leminyaka emibini yomtshato wethu, ndayeka ukukhonza umfazi wam. Kunoko kwakukho i-yoni eninzi ukunqula imbeko yoshishino lwezocwangco. Soloko eselula. Ndihlala ndihle. Namaxesha onke Soloko kutsha. Nako ukwazi ukufumana i-orgasm. Aze azalisekise. Ndisandululwanga ngokupheleleyo kwi-pornography, kwaye ndibuyisele umfazi wam. Umtshato wethu uphume ixesha elide kwaye lihlaziywa. Sondele ngakumbi kunokuba siye sahlala iminyaka, silala embhedeni nasemini. Ndivuyela ngokwenene ixesha elide, elincinci elithandwayo lokuthanda uthando elingenakuphela-sithatha ikhefu kwaye siqale kwakhona ngosuku olulandelayo. Ndiziva ndingcono, kwaye i-libido yam ibonakala ikhona ngokuqhubekayo.

Ufuna uMtsalane?

Ungaphinda udibanise isondo sakho kwisondo lakho. Yeka ukugxininisa kwi-stimuli eyenza i-dopamine engaphezulu kunokuba yenzayo. Khumbula, indlela yokuqala engqondweni yakho iyanxusa ukuba ugxininise kwi-option ekhupha i-dopamine. Ayinandaba noko kukunciphisa uxinzelelo lwakho, ukhusela impilo yakho, okanye ukuxhasa ubudlelwane bakho. Xa i-e-baby beckons, ubuchopho bakho bubona ukuba usomashishini asasazekayo-ngokuphambili.

Ngoku ukuba uqonde indlela ukukhuthazwa kwamhlanje ngokugqithiseleyo kunokungcolisa ngokungazenzisiyo ukuxabisa kwakho umlingane wakho ngokugcoba ngeenkqubo ezithile ezingqondweni zakho, kufike kuwe.

Ekubeni ndiyekile ukugcoba i-pornastry kwiiveki ezimbalwa ezedlulileyo izinto zitshintsha. Xa ndibona ibhinqa elihamba ngeenyawo ezide ngeengubo ezintle okanye iingubo, ndifumana ukukhawuleza kwamandla. Ndasetyenziselwa ukuba ndiyidinga imfono ephosakeleyo yoononopopayi kwi-Intanethi ukufumana nayiphi na indlela yokuvusa.

Kwezinye iiveki ezimbalwa, umfazi wakhe uya kumnceda.

Ngolwazi oluthe kratya malunga nokuqonda impilo ye-erectile, bona uGary's I-Erectile Dysfunction kunye noTyhutho slide.

Iingcinga zomntu osisitabane kweli nqaku (kuthunyelwe "kwiProjekthi yamadoda aLungileyo"):

Eli nqaku laliyinto yesityhilelo. Ndicinge ukuba ndikhubekile kwindawo yamadoda ethe tye le AM ​​ngokusebenzisa inqaku likaThomas Matlock le-NYT, "Ndoda Ndifuna i-Cuddle elungileyo" kwaye ke eli nqaku. Andikwazi ukuthetha ngawo onke amadoda athandana namanye amadoda… ndindedwa, kodwa ndiyawajonga amaqabane am endiwabona njengamava endlela yokuqonda nokuphendula kwi-intanethi. KUSITAYELELO sobuninzi babantu abathandana nabesini esinye abaphila ngaphandle kokuqonda okwenyani malunga nendlela oku okunokuchaphazela ngayo amandla okunxibelelana namanye amadoda kubudlelwane obusondeleyo. Andikhathali ukulila ixhoba, kodwa ngokuncinci (nangona kunjalo, kukhula) inkxaso yomtshato wesini, iziphumo ezingathandekiyo zoononophala azibonwa. Ngequbuliso ndiyazi ukuba thina singamadoda athandana namanye, kulwamkelo lwethu olunomdla lokuba "nesondo," sinokubambeka kwindawo encinci yedopamine swirl kubomi bethu obuninzi. Enkosi ngokuvezwa ngokunyaniseka kwezinye iinyani ukongeza kwingxoxo!

UPDATES

  1. Ukuxilongwa ngokusemthethweni? Incwadi yokusetyenziswa kwezifo zonyango ngokubanzi, Ulwahlulo lwaMazwe ngamazwe (ICD-11), iqulethe uvavanyo olutsha ezifanele ukuxhatshazwa koonwabo: "Ukuxhatshazwa kwezesondo ngokunyanisekileyo. "(2018)
  2. Umlingo woTywala / wesondo? Eli phepha liluhlu Izifundo ze-39 ze-neuroscience (I-MRI, i-FMRI, i-EEG, i-neuropsychological, i-hormonal). Banikela ngenkxaso enamandla kwimodeli yoxilongo njengoko iziphumo zabo zibonakalisa iziphumo zeengqondo ezichazwe kwizifundo zokuxhatshaliswa kweziyobisi.
  3. Iingcamango zangempela zeengcali zoononongo / isondo? Olu luhlu luqulethe 16 Ukuphononongwa koncwadi kwangoku kunye neenkcazo ngenye yezinzulu zenzululwazi kwihlabathi. Yonke inkxaso ngenkxaso yomzobo.
  4. Iimpawu zokuxhatshazwa kunye nokunyuka kwamanqaku angaphezulu? Ngaphezulu kwezifundo ze-30 zokunika ingxelo ezifunyenweyo ezihambelana nokwanda kokusetyenziswa kwe-porn (ukunyamezelana), ukuhlala kwi-porn, kunye neempawu zokurhoxa (zonke iimpawu kunye neempawu ezinxulumene nomlutha).
  5. Ukuxubusha ingongoma engathethiweyo yokuthetha "inqweno yesini ephakamileyo" ichaza ukuxhatshazwa koonobumba okanye ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesini: Ubuncinci izifundo ze-25 zikhohlisa ibango lokuba isini kunye neziyobisi ezingamanyala "banomnqweno ophezulu wesondo"
  6. Iiduna kunye neengxaki zesondo? Olu luhlu luqukethe izifundo ze-26 ezidibanisa ukusetyenziswa koonwabo / ukuxhatshazwa koononophelo kwiingxaki zesini kunye nokwenyuka kokunciphisa isisombululo sezesondo. I fIzifundo ze-5 ziluhlu lubonisa bangela, njengabathathi-nxaxheba baqhelise ukusetyenziswa koononophelo kunye nokuphulukisa izifo ezingasinikiyo zesondo.
  7. Imiphumo yeSigxina kwimibutho? Izifundo eziphantse ze-60 zidibanisa ukusetyenziswa koononophelo ukuya kwisini esincinci kunye nolwaneliseko lobuhlobo. (Ngokuba sifuna zonke Izifundo ezibandakanya abesilisa ziye zaxela ukusetyenziswa koononophelo olunxulumene nalo zihlwempu zesini okanye ukwaneliseka kobudlelwane.)
  8. Ukusetyenziswa koonobumba kunokuchaphazela impilo yengqondo nengqondo? Ngaphezulu kwezifundo ze-55 ezinxibelelanisa ukusetyenziswa kwe-porn nakwimpilo yengqondo-yeemvakalelo kunye neziphumo ezibi zokuqonda.
  9. Ukusetyenziswa koonobumba kunokuchaphazela iinkolelo, iingcinga kunye nokuziphatha? Hlola uphando lomntu ngamnye Izifundo ze-25 zidibanisa ukusetyenziswa koononophelo "kwiingcamango ezingafaniyo" malunga nabasetyhini kunye neengcamango zesondo - okanye isishwankathelo kule mvavanyo-meta ye-2016: Imidiya kunye nokuSondo: I-State of Research Empirical, 1995-2015.