Ngamanye amaxesha, amadoda abika ukuba ukuchama rhoqo kugxuma okwethutyana emva kokuyeka ukusebenzisa i-porn.
Ndandinomcimbi wokuchama rhoqo kwaye ndivakalelwa kukuba yayiyeyona nto iyingozi kwi-Nofapping yam. Emva koko ndacinga ukuba ingaba yimpembelelo yecala yokungafaki. Ndacinga ukuba kuza kufuneka nditsalele umnxeba ugqirha kodwa kwathi xa ndifumana ikhadi lam leinshorensi yezempilo umba wazisombulula ngokwawo. Xa ndabona ibhinqa eliselula esitalatweni ligcwele amabele libonakala ngehempe yentlanzi kwaye andizange ndibaleke ndiye kwigumbi langasese elikufutshane. Ingxelo yeNyanga enye…kwaye undibhalise ngoNovemba
Nantsi impendulo ekuphenduleni umfana owabuza ukuba kutheni echama rhoqo ukususela (kutsha nje) wayeka i-porn:
Ekuqaleni, uye wanda uvakalelo. Kodwa njengoko uchacha, uya kuqaphela ukuba kufuneka uchame kancinci. Ndingathetha kuphela kumava obuqu. Lo mzekelo uyasebenza nakwiingcinga zesini. Ekuqaleni, uyazinqwenela kwaye izinto ezibonakala engqondweni yakho "zikuleqa." Kodwa ukuba udlula kwinyanga okanye uqaphela ukuba abanangqondo yakho ngendlela ebeqhele ukwenza ngayo (ubuncinci bexesha elininzi). Into efana nokutya ngokumodareyitha. Ekuqaleni, unqwenela ukutya ngakumbi nangakumbi. Kodwa emva kwexesha elithile, yithi kwiiveki ezimbalwa, uya kuqonda ukuba akuyomfuneko ukuba utye kakhulu.
Ukufumana iingcinga ezingaphezulu ngeziphumo ebezingalindelekanga, zama Ziziphi iimpawu zokusetyenziswa kakubi kwezilwanyana ze-intanethi?
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