Ngokungafani neziyobisi okanye utywala, ukutshutshisa i-porno kungaxhomekeka engqondweni yakho emva kokuyeka ukusebenzisa. Ngoko wenza ntoni xa umntu ekhupha?
Apha ngezantsi kukho iindlela ezimbalwa, kodwa kuqala masixoxe ngokuphulula amalungu esini. Mamela kwakhona kwirediyo yam - UBrett uchaza indlela yokujamelana neengcamango zesinxeba kunye nokuxhatshazwa ngokwesini (bonisa #21)
Le vidiyo imfutshane ineengcebiso ezimbalwa- Indlela Yokunqanda Umlingo Wezonyameko Ngokulawula Ukukhanga Nokukhuthaza, ngeNyaniso YezoMlutha.
Ukuba uzama ukukhulula isondo sakho sezocansi kwiimifanekiso zengxowa-mali (into efanelekileyo ukuba ufuna ukufumana amaqabane okwenene ukuvuselela okanye ukuvuselela impilo ye-erectile), yenza konke okusemandleni akho ukuba uhlambulule (xa kufuneka) ngaphandle kokusebenzisa i-porn okanye i-flashbacks. Oku kunika ingqondo yakho ithuba lokunciphisa ukudibanisa okubangela ukuba i-flashbacks ibangele.
Gxininisa endaweni yeemvakalelo zomzimba. Yiba nemvelo. Thatha ixesha lakho. Ukuxhuma kwizinto ezilungileyo ngokomzimba iimvakalelo. Musa ukucingela. Ukuba kufuneka usebenzise umfanekiso, qwalasela ukucinga ngokubambisana (kunye nokuqinisekileyo) kunye nomntu owaziyo. Ngaphezulu, bonani Ndiyidlwengula njani ngaphandle koononophala? (kunye nenqaku eliphantsi kwelo phepha). Ukuba awukwazi ukufikelela kuvuthondaba ngale ndlela, umzimba wakho awunjalo imfuneko uvuthondaba; Iminqweno "yokufunda" iyakuqhuba.
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Ulwazi oluqhelekileyo malunga neendlela zokuhlaziya ziyafumaneka Ukubuyisela Ubunzima Bakho. Kwiinkqubo ezithile, bona:
Nantsi indlela evela kwilungu leforum, onokuyisebenzisa ukulungiselela ukubuyela umva kwexesha elizayo. Kuya kufuneka uyenze ngelixa uziva uzolile. Emva koko unokuyisebenzisa xa kuvela ama-flashbacks elandelayo ixesha.
Isiphakamiso esivela ilungu lebhunga:
Gxila ingqalelo kwinto enoxolo. Ingaba yindawo enoxolo, umfanekiso wento entle njengokutshona kwelanga, okanye nantoni na. Ayinamsebenzi ukuba iyinyani okanye iyacingelwa, kuba ingqondo yakho ayixeleli umohluko phofu.
Qinisekisa ukuba wenza oku kunye nesimo sokudlala, njengendlela abantwana abenza ngayo. Thatha imizuzwana embalwa ukwenza ngalinye la manyathelo:
1 - Thatha umoya omkhulu ngaphakathi nangaphandle. Ekupheleni komoya, yithi chu igama elithi 'uxolo' kuwe ngoxolo
2 - Ngoku cinga ubona into enoxolo. Jonga ukuba ijongeka kanjani
3 - Yiva ukuba kuya kuba njani
4 - Yiva ukuba kungaziva njani ukuba ubekho
I-5 -Yifumane kwakhona ngokwasemzimbeni: Phefumla ngendlela umntu opholileyo oya kuphefumla ngayo
I-6-kwaye utshintshe ukuma kwakho kukuthula. Hlala okanye ume ngendlela obungaya ngayo ukuba ubuseluxolweni
7-Kwakhona, yithi 'uxolo' kuwe kancinci, kwaye ukhumbule oko ukubonayo, ukukuva, ukuziva ngokwasemphefumlweni, kunye nokuma komzimba kunye nako.
8 - Phinda inyathelo lesi-7 (okanye i-1-7) amaxesha ambalwa ukomeleza le mvakalelo
Udale nje amava onokuthi uwasebenzise ukuze uzuze.
Nanini na xa ingqondo yakho ivusa umfanekiso ongamanyala, yiphazamise ngokuphefumla okunzulu, uphume uthi 'uxolo' ngendlela efanayo kwaye uphinde ube semzimbeni: Hlala okanye ume ngendlela obuya kwenza ngayo ukuba ubudlala indima yomntu uxolo, phefumla njengomntu onoxolo.
Oku kuyakwenza ukuba ingqondo yakho ijolise eluxolweni. Isenokungawususi kwangoko umfanekiso woburheletya ukuba 'uxolo' alunamandla ngokwaneleyo (nangona luhlala lusenza njalo, okanye ubuncinci luyenza buthathaka imifanekiso engamanyala), ke phinda igama elithi 'uxolo' amatyeli aliqela kwaye ubone umfanekiso ozolileyo, kwaye khumbula into oyivileyo naziva ngayo (kwaye nibe nomzimba). Oku kuyakuyilungisa kwakhona / kuyiphinde ingqondo yakho ukuba ijolise kuxolo endaweni yomfanekiso obonisa amanyala. Khumbula, kuya kufuneka uyitsho ngale ndlela wenze ngayo kula manyathelo angasentla.
Ngokuphindaphinda okwaneleyo, imifanekiso engamanyala iya kuyeka, okanye iya kuthi ngokuzenzekelayo izenzele impendulo 'yoxolo' yakho esele ingcono kunokuzama 'ukulwa' nomfanekiso wephonografi. Ngokusisiseko, le yindlela 'yokuqweqwedisa' ubuchopho bakho ngalo lonke ixesha xa kuvela umfanekiso ongafunekiyo, oko kukukhokelela kuxolo, oluya kuthi ekugqibeleni luphele ngokupheleleyo iphonografi.
Ngelixa imifanekiso yamanyala ingakhokelela ekubeni abantu bazibethe njengoko bezama nzima ukuyisusa, ukusebenzisa le ndlela ingentla ikuvumela ukuba wenze buthathaka okanye ususe umfanekiso ngokupheleleyo okushiya ukwimeko enobuchule ngakumbi. Ndiyathemba ukuba oku kuyanceda!
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Ungasusa njani imifanekiso yeentlanzi ngaphakathi kwentloko yakho?
Ndiphumelele i-nofap amaxesha amaninzi ngenxa yoku. Ndibona inkqubela phambili kuba ndiziva ndinomnqweno wokubukela iividiyo zamanyala amatsha kodwa iividiyo ezindala endakha ndazibukela ngaphambili zezona ziyandizingela ngalo lonke ixesha.
Andifuni kuvakala ngathi yinto encinci. Ke ndiyazi ukuba isisombululo kukunganikezeli kwiminqweno kodwa loo ngcebiso icacile ayisebenzi kuba ndihlala ndisilela kaninzi. Ingxelo yam ziintsuku ezisithoba kodwa amaxesha amaninzi ndiyasilela ngemini 2,3 okanye 4. Ngaba ukhona umntu onale ngxaki inye? Kwaye woyisile njani?
Ndidiniwe yile ngxaki yokulutha.
Amava endoda enye ngokubuyela kumlinganiso
Izolo, ndiziva ndiyintlekisa.
Njengoko benditshilo kwiposti yokugqibela, ndihlala ndiphazamiseka ngamantombazana, nangona ndinentombi yam. Kwiminyaka emininzi endiyichithe ndibukele iphonografi, ukubona amantombazana amnandi kungangabangeli umnqweno wam wokuya kuthetha nabo, okanye ukucinga ngabo, kodwa ndibuyele ekhaya ngokukhawuleza kangangoko ndinako ukubukela iphonografi. Ndicinga ukuba kungafana nokutshaya umdiza emva kokunuka umsi.
Ngoku, ndicinga ukuba ndiziva ndiqhubeka ngokuthe ngcembe malunga namantombazana endijonge kuwo. Imifanekiso yemizimba yabo ihlala engqondweni yam. Baye bomelele njengama-flashbacks endikade ndinayo kwi-porn, okanye nangakumbi. Nangona le ingumnqweno, andikwazi ukuzibamba ndicinga ukuba le yinto elungileyo. Ngokukrakra, andizange ndive nasiphi na isidingo sokubukela iphonografi kwezi ntsuku zokugqibela ze-18. Ndithintela nakuphi na ukubuyela umva okwesibini okubonayo engqondweni yam. Amanqabantshintshi anqabile ukuba abangele nayiphi na impendulo yovuyo emzimbeni wam, kodwa nokuba ayenjalo, ndinokuyithintela.
Kwaye izolo ndiye ndabona ukuba ndingenza okufanayo malunga namantombazana endiwabonileyo. Ndivile ukuba lukhetho lokujonga kubo okanye hayi. Kwaye ndenze ukhetho lokuba ndingakhangeli- kuba andiyidingi, akukho mntu ufuna ukucinga ngento kuyo nayiphi na imifanekiso kwingqondo yabo. Sonke kufuneka sonelise ngobomi besondo, yile nto siyifunayo.
Ke izolo ndaziva ngathi ndiyalawula. Ndiyakwazi ukwenza ukhetho: ukucinga, okanye ukungacingi, ukujonga, okanye ukungaboni, kwi-orgasm, okanye kungekhona kwi-orgasm. Andenzi ngoku ukuba le mvakalelo ihleli, kodwa ndicinga ukuba yindawo efanelekileyo ekufuneka ndiyigcinile. Nokuba ndiphinda ndibuyele umva, ndiza kuthi ngoku ngelinye ixesha, ndinolawulo.
"Ukutshixiza" ayisiyiyo kuphela inkumbulo yokungena ngaphakathi
Umntu uthe le nto kwiforum:
Enye into endiyibonayo kwimihla embalwa yokugqibela kunye neveki yilezi ziphumo ezinobungozi neziyingozi. Umzekelo:
a) Umculi kwi-radiyo uhlabelela inqaku elithile (masithi ngenxa yomzekelo othi: "Masihambe, Masihambe!"). Xa eli nqaku likhumbuza incoko endiyibonayo kwi-porno, indawo yangoko ikhona (ubuncinane ingcinga kuyo).
b) Ndiva / khangela igama lamazwe athile, amazwekazi okanye iidolophu kwiTV / umsakazo / intanethi kunye ... iziganeko / iphepha / iinkumbulo zikhona. Njengoko uyazi ukuba, kukho ukuhlukaniswa ngokuthe ngqo kwihlabathi lezonyango, mhlawumbi izinto ezifana ne "Brazilian Girls", "Amsterdam Red Light" okanye nantoni na. Ngenxa yoko, ngokukhawuleza xa ndiva umz. "Brazil", ndikhumbula izicwangciso ezithile kwaye ndicinga: "Hayi, kuthekani ngephepha xy ...?!"
Eminye into emangalisa, ngamanye amaxesha andinakukwazi ukuyiqonda ngokucacileyo i-trigger ngokucacileyo. Umzekelo, omnye umntu wayesebenzisa igama elithi "Frau" (= isiJerman ngokuthi "owesifazane") kwaye nje ingqondo yam ivele kwangoko: ibhinqa = inkohlakalo, i-g-spot, i-squirting, i-orgasm ... ityala. Kwakungekho yeyokuqala, okwenzekayo kwaye okwenkwanthileyo ... Kwiintsuku ezithile ndiphantse ndikwazi ukucinga ngowesifazane ngokubanzi okanye ngokuthe ngqo, ngaphandle kokucinga ngcolileyo ngokufanelekileyo.c) Ngokumangalisayo kukuba, nditsho i-stupid stupid stuff, ngezinye izihlandlo. Andiyazi ukuba kutheni, kodwa kungenjalo, ukuba ndiqhube emotweni yam kwaye ngenxa yokwenza izinto ezimbi, ndiyilingisa imifanekiso ethile evela kwi-pornography (ezinye izicatshulwa zentlonelo zenziwa njengowomdlalo, ngoko ukhumbula i-shit, babesenza kwaye bethetha. Mhlawumbi kungowona uhlobo lophawu lokuthengisa kubadlali nabavelisi).
Ndiyicinga, into ephambili kukuba, ukuba uqaphela ezi zinto zikhubaza uze uziyeke. Ngokuqinisekileyo kubandakanywa intetho yabafundi ababini kunye neentetho ezingcolileyo zoonwabo. Kwamava am, ingakumbi ezi ziphatha ezimbini ziyancipha kumba malunga neentsuku ze-7, into enhle.
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