Kuthiwani ngokucabana ngexesha lokuqalisa kwakhona?

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umbuzo: Uthini umahluko phakathi kokucinga malunga ne-porn kunye nokubukela iphonografi?

Impendulo: Imouse

Ndiyabaxeka, kodwa ndicinga nge-porn okanye ngokufunda amabali "e-erotic" enza ukuba ukubuyiswa kwe-porn kube nzima kwaye kunokuba kude. Ukucingela iifoto ezingamanyala ozijongileyo iindlela ezinomdla, Okubangela i-spikes kwi-dopamine, ebonakala ngathi iyahambelana neminqweno kunye nokonyuka kokungazinzi. Oku kwandisa ithuba lokuphinda ubuye kwaye kugcine umlutha weendlela ze-neural ziphila kwaye zilungile. Cebisa le vidiyo yiCawa yeNowa- Ngaba kulungile ukucinga ngethuba lo kuphuma kwi-PIED / PMO umlutha?

Uphando malunga neengqondo zengqondo kubonisa ukuba ukugqiba okanye ukucinga ngamava kubangela ezininzi ezijikelezayo zeeural circuits njengokuyenza. Ngamanye amagama, ukucinga malunga ne-porn kuqinisa indlela yakho yokulutha. Ukususela kwisifundo - Ngaba ucinga kwaye ufezekisa isenzo sichaphazela into efanayo ye-neural substrate? - baphandi bathi:

"Ezi zinto zintathu zenkcukacha zibonelela ngenkxaso eguquguqukayo yeengcamango ezicinga kwaye zenze izenzo zinegalelo, kwinqanaba elithile, zakhiwo ezifanayo."

Ngakolunye uhlangothi, kwiiyiphi abantu kwi-forum ukusho, ukusebenzisa ingcinga yakho malunga namaqabane asemgangathweni anokufumana ukwaneliseka kunokuba uhamba ngokuzenzekelayo kwaye uvumele ukukhumbuza izilwanyana ezingamanyala kunye nokuzikhumbuza. I sihloko: Akunjalo nje nawuphi na umntu: Impembelelo yoThabo lwamaTyhulo kuMboniso (2017) -Intsimi enye kunye nezifundo ezintathu zelebhu zibonisa ukuba ukucamngca ngesondo kuvelisa ukwehla kwezothando, zona zona, ezikhuthaza abantu ukuba babandakanyeke kwezothando njengoko le yokugqibela ifuna umgudu omkhulu.

umbuzo: Kuthiwani ngokufakela ingxaki malunga nenjongo yangempela ngexesha lokuvuselela inkqubo?

Impendulo: Ngubani owaziyo?

Uninzi lwabantu luthi ukucinga ngesini sokwenyani, okanye ukujolisa kwabasetyhini / kumadoda kuhlala kunemveliso ngexesha lokuqalisa kwakhona. Uninzi lubona ukuthintela yonke imincili njengoqeqesho lobuchopho, kwaye uxele utshintsho olwamkelekileyo kumbono, njengokubona abantu bokwenyani endaweni yezinto 'zesini' Kwelinye icala, abantu bebesoloko becinga ngeeon. Kwicala lokudibanisa, iya kuba sengqiqweni into yokuphinda ubambe ingqondo yakho kwisivumelwano sokwenyani ukuba unamava amancinci ezesondo. Isitshixo sinokuba hayi ubeke amaqabane okwenene kwiimeko zakho ezizithandayo zoononopopayi. Mhlawumbi ugcine i-vanilla, ukuba kufuneka.

Ndiyayithanda imbono yalo mfo:

Ndiyifumene, fallas. Ngobusuku bokugqibela, bendihleli emva kokuphumla emsebenzini, ndixakekile ndingafakwanga (uyazi ukuba kuhamba njani) kwaye bendicinga ngesondo. Emva koko yandibetha: Ndiyonwabele kakhulu ukucinga ngabafazi abahle. Ndiyathetha ukuba indenza NDONWABE. Ukuba horny kwakumnandi kwaye kuqinisekisa ubomi izolo ebusuku kuba okwesihlandlo sokuqala ebomini bam andikhange ndiyibone njengengxaki efuna ukulungiswa. Ndiye ndaqonda ukuba yimeko yam yendalo njengendoda kwaye kubalulekile ukuba yindoda eyinyani.

Cinga ngako: ukuba ubanjwe kumjikelo we-PMO wemihla ngemihla, ubona ukuqhuba kwakho ngokwesondo njengengxaki ekusweleni ukulungiswa rhoqo. Sisoyika ukuba li-horny kuba nanini na xa siqala ukuziva ukuba silangazelela siqale ngokuzikhathaza de kube iyahamba. NGOBA? Phezolo ndifumanise ukuba ukuba awungxameli ukucima loo mlilo, kuyacaca ukuba lo mlilo nguloo mlilo ekufuneka uvutha rhoqo kubo bonke abantu, usityhalele elizweni ukoyisa kwaye uphumelele. Ibhaskiti kwimfudumalo. Ufuna ukuba uphumelele. Sisikelelekile ngokwenene ukuba ngamadoda, sisempilweni kwaye siphila.

Omnye umfana:

Ndiyaqonda ngoku ukuba ndijonga emva, ndayeka ukuhlambalaza ngento emnandi kumantombazana okwenene ngo-13. Inkolelo malunga namantombazana okwenene kukuba, kwimbono yam, i-M ephilileyo kunye neyesiqhelo yamadoda omdala asele badala ayenzeka ukuba ayenzeka kumawaka eminyaka. Iingxaki ziqala xa ugxininiso lwakho lushintsha kwi-M rhoqo kwizinto ezinobungqina kunye nabesifazane bobuxoki kwifom ye-pixel. Isikolo esiphakathi nendawo ndafumana i-VHS yam yokuqala yoonopopayi eyayineqela leentlobo ezahlukeneyo kulo. Kungekudala mna Ku funeka ukuba i-M ne-O. Ndinenhlanhla ngenxa yokuba andinayo i-intanethi ye-intanethi ndade ndiyi 18.

Emva koko ndadibana nentombazana endimele ukuba ndiyixoshe iminyaka eyi-2 (ezininzi ezinye iindlela zokuhamba kunye ne-ED, kodwa ndifuna ngokwenene ukufumana nale ntombazana) Ngoko emva koko ndacinga ukuba i-porn ingaba negalelo kwi-ED yam ndiyeke ukubukela Kwiiveki ze-3 xa ndade ndangena kwimeko yokuthandana nale ntombazana, kwaye xa ilixesha lokwenza isenzo, u-Dick wasebenza ubusuku bonke, kodwa andinakukwazi ukwenza i-Orgasm. Emva kweveki yokulala ngesondo rhoqo nale ntombazana endiyenzileyo kodwa ndiphumelele u-O wam wokuqala kukhuthazo lobufazi (iminyaka eyi-23), kwaye mandikuxelele nonke nina bantu, yimvakalelo eyoyikekayo xa oko kusenzeka kunye nentombazana onokuthi uyixelele ngokupheleleyo kuwe xa ulala naye.

Nantsi into ethethwa ngamanye amadoda malunga nokucinga ngexesha lokuqalisa kwakhona:

(Ibali lalo mfo lalivela kwenye iforum. Ucebisa ukuba uphephe yonke into emnandi, nokuba ujonge abantu basetyhini, ngelixa uqala kwakhona. Kubonakala ngathi ubanga i-3-veki yokuqalisa kwakhona, kodwa eneneni kufuneka amaxesha amabini ahlukeneyo eentsuku ezingama-21.)

Uxolo ngeposi ende kwangaphambili, kodwa ndiyakholelwa ukuba ndinento enokukunceda. Eyona ndlela isebenzayo yokubetha le nto ndiyifumeneyo yile: Kuya kufuneka uyeke ukucinga ngexeshana. Xa ndisithi yeka ukucinga, ndithetha ukuba, "Yeka ukujonga yonke into enxulumene nokwabelana ngesondo." Yeka ukujonga abafazi ukuba kuya kufuneka. Kutheni unokubuza? Ukuba likhoboka lamanyala kufana nokuba likhoboka leziyobisi, utywala okanye ukutshaya. Xa ulikhoboka lothile, i-dopamine yengqondo yakho iphuma kulawulo. Yiyo le nto ebangela iingxaki kwasekuqaleni. Sithatha isigqibo sokuyeka i-porn kunye ne-MB. Esi sisiqalo esihle.

Nangona kunjalo, into endiyifumeneyo kuxa ndiqhubeka nokujonga abantu basetyhini kwaye ndicinga ukuba iyayicothisa le nkqubo. Ukuba ufunda uncwadi lwezesayensi uyakufumanisa ukuba amanani amancinci edopamine akhutshwa nje ngokulindela ukuvuselelwa (okt, ukufuna iqhekeza lekhekhelethi, okanye kule meko iphonografi okanye isini). Oko kunokucothisa inkqubela phambili.

Beka ngale ndlela: Ukuba uyeka ukutshaya okanye utywala ungachitha usuku lonke ujonge kwizikhongozeli zabo? Ngokuqinisekileyo akunjalo, kuba kudala isilingo. Idala ukukhawuleza okufanayo kwingqondo yethu. Uyabona? Nje ukuba uyeke i-P kunye ne-MB, ukuba usajongile kubafazi abaqhelekileyo kwaye ubacingela kwimiboniso ye-porn, ayisiyiyo eyam imbono. Ke ndifumana ntoni? Malunga nonyaka ophelileyo ndifunde iposti efanayo kwizihloko ze-medhelp "kakhulu iphonografi = ilahleko iyonke ye-libido." Abasebenzisi abambalwa babenengxaki yethu kwaye iqhinga labo yayikukuziyeka ngokupheleleyo iiveki ezimbalwa; yima kwifantasy, ujonge nayiphi na imifanekiso yabasetyhini, ukuyeka ngokupheleleyo. Kubo, isebenze kwiiveki nje ezi-2-3.

Ndizamile ke nam, kwaye ndonwabe kakhulu kuyasebenza. Nangona kunjalo, ndibuye ndibuyele kwi-porno kuba bendicinga ukuba "ndiphilisiwe" kwaye kulungile ukuba ndibukele kwakhona. Ngoku ndibuyela kwesi sicwangciso. Ndenze ntoni? Ubuncinci iintsuku ze-14-21 andijonganga kwanto: akukho fantasy, akukho mifanekiso yabasetyhini. Ndizamile ukuba ndingakhangeli nakwabafazi bokwenyani. Ndiyenzile le nto kuba bendifuna ukunika ingqondo yam ithuba lokuphilisa ngaphandle kovuselelo lwangaphandle. Ngokuqinisekileyo! Kunzima kakhulu ukuyeka ngokupheleleyo iiveki, kodwa bekufanelekile. Ndaziva ukuba kundincedile ukuphilisa. Ndiva ukuba ivumele ukuba iingcamango zoononophala ziphele entlokweni yam.

Ukuyeka nje i-P kunye ne-MB, kum, bekungekho kwiipesenti ezili-100 zokuyeka. Yayiyingcinga egcina iimpembelelo zobuchopho ezingafunekiyo ziphila.

Uyazi njani ukuba yonke into iyabuyela kwisiqhelo?

Zobabini izihlandlo ndiyenzile le ndlela yayivakala ukuba i-libido yam isuke ihambe ixesha elide, kwaye ngokukhawuleza ibuyele kwakhona. Akukho ndawo. Waziva ukhulu.

Ngaba oku kuya kusebenza kwabanye abantu?

Andazi nyani. Ndicebisa nje into endiyifunde komnye umsonto kwaye ndizame ngokwam.

Umsonto onamava okuqala kwakhona axoxa ngeenzuzo kunye neengxaki zokungacingi into emnandi- The "Hayi Arousal”-Ukungatshati komzimba kunye nengqondo

Re: Ukuphulula amalungu esini ngaphandle kwe-porn? Izinto ezimbalwa ezifuna ukucaciswa (gcinani engqondweni ukuba andinguye ugqirha okanye naliphi na igunya, ngumntu nje ophakathi):

1. Ewe, abantu bebephulula amalungu esini kangangeminyaka kwaye kuphela okoko isantya esiphakamileyo se-intanethi singena kwinqanaba lokuba amatyala e-ED aqhume ngenani. Kuya kubonakala ngathi kukho unxibelelwano oluthe ngqo phakathi kwe-porn kunye ne-ED, kwaye hayi kakhulu ikhonkco phakathi kwe-masturbation kunye ne-ED. Into ekufuneka siyithathele ingqalelo ngaphambi kokubanga nantoni na ngumahluko kwimikhwa yokuphulula amalungu esini ngoku nangoku.

Ukunikezelwa kokufikelela kwi-porn engenamkhawulo, evusa inkanuko, kunokwenzeka njani ukuba umntu azibandakanye nokunyanzelisa amalungu esini xa kuthelekiswa nomntu ekufuneka ecofe ubuchopho bakhe ukuze acinge ngomfazi wobomi bokwenyani? Enye into uninzi lwabasebenzisi kule foramu bakholelwa kuyo kukuba ngaphandle kwe-porn, ubomi bethu bezesondo ngebube sempilweni kwaye buninzi ekuhlaleni, kubandakanya amaqabane okwenyani endaweni yeengcinga ezintle.

Oko kuthethiweyo, kwakutheni ukuze ookhokho bethu (kwiminyaka engama-20 eyadlulayo nangaphaya) babe ne-masturbated njengangoku? Kuba babengenakho ukufikelela kolu manyala, kufuneka sicinge (kuba kungenjalo kuya kuba kukuhanahanisa ukukholelwa kule ngxelo ingentla), ukuba ubomi babo bezesondo babusempilweni kwaye imikhwa yabo yokuphulula amalungu esini ayitshintshanga kangako. Isiphelo endinokufikelela kuso kukuba ukuphulula amalungu esini, nokuba kunjalo, nokuba kunjalo, akufuneki kubonwe njengokubi kwaye ayisosizathu se-ED!

2. Nangona kunjalo, xa kufikwa ekuphulula amalungu esini, kakhulu kuninzi. Enye ingxaki kukuba kwithiyori, singazibandakanya ekuphulula amalungu esini ukusukela ngoku, kodwa eneneni, sakuba siqalile, siqhubeka nokusebenzisa iphonografi, ukuhambisa nje ngokukhawuleza nangakumbi. Ngokukodwa ngexesha lokuqalisa kwakhona, oku kungasebenza ngokuchasene nathi. Esi sizathu sokuba ukuphulula amalungu esini kufuneka kuthintelwe de ube uziva ukuba umzimba nengqondo yakho zikulungelelwano oluzinzileyo kwakhona, ixesha elininzi! Ibhalansi e-Shaky inokuba yinkohliso kwaye umntu makangangxami! Emva koko, lukhetho lomntu ngamnye ukuba azibandakanye kuyo nayiphi na imikhwa ayifunayo, esazi ukuba yeyiphi iphonografi kunye nokuhambisa amalungu esini ngokugqithileyo.

3. Intelekelelo ithathwa njengento eyingozi ekuqaleni kuba ekuqaleni (kwiinyanga ezimbalwa zokuqala), iingcinga zethu ezingezizo ngaphandle kweenguqulelo ezibonisa amanyala esizifumana kwiintloko zethu. Inyaniso yokuba ubuchopho bakho buthe cwaka kulonwabo kunye nokuyila, ikwenza ukuba uthathe indlela elula xa usebenzisa ifantasy njengesixhobo. Awunakucinga ukuba inokuba njani le ntombazana ishushu. Awunakucinga ukuba nothando, ukhathalele isondo kunye nentombazana entle. Isisombululo? "Masikhumbule nje ukuba iphonografi eyasigcina sihleli iiyure", ithi ingqondo yakho.

Kukho ingozi apho; ayikho kwisenzo sokuzicingela. Umntu onempilo onomdla ongokwemvelo ngomntu akayi kungena enkingeni, ngelixa umlutha wezonyango ohlala ecinga ngokugxila kwixesha elidlulileyo, uya kwenza izinto zibe zibi nakakhulu. Uluvo lwam kukuba xa uqala ukubuyela kwimeko yesiqhelo, ukuba ingqondo yakho iqala ukuzicingela yodwa, ngaphandle kokuzibaxa izinto okanye ungazithembi, kuya kufuneka uyivumele. Musa ukunyanzelisa imfesane, kodwa vumela ukuba ibe njalo. Ukuba undibuza, ukungahoyi okanye ukucinezela olu hlobo lweengcinga kunokuchaphazela i-libido kwixesha elide. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ukuba ubungayi kuba semendweni olungileyo, iingcinga zakho ziya kunyanzelwa kwaye aziqhelekanga, akunjalo?

Ndicinga ukuba umahluko ophambili phakathi kwethu kunye nezizukulwana zangaphambili kukuba sinokukhetha ukubukela iphonografi. Abantu abadala banokucinga kwasekuqaleni kwaye bazame ukufumana loo ntombazana kwiibhedi zabo, ekugqibeleni kungasafanele bacinge kwakhona (okanye ubuncinci akunjalo). Kwixesha elide, ukucinga ngomntu kuya kuba yinto yokulandela ubudlelwane, kuba umvuzo uya kuba ngesondo lokwenene! Kwelinye icala, thina, siyacinga, kunokuba siye ekhaya sityhutyhe amandongomane sicinga ngendlela ebekuya kuba mnandi ngayo ukubamba loo ntombazana besicinga ngayo.

Ndicinga ukuba kuxhomekeke ngokupheleleyo kuluphi uhlobo lwengcinga. Ukuba lide lifana neP, limele libe kude netafile. Izizathu ezibini:

I-1) Iingcamango zoonombulo zingakhokelela ekubuyiseni kwakhona

2) Banokuqinisa ukujikeleza kwe-neural okujikeleziweyo esizama ukukuhlengahlengisa ngokuqalisa kwakhona. Ingqondo yakho ayenzi mahluko phakathi komfanekiso ovela kwiscreen sekhompyuter okanye ngaphakathi kwengqondo yakho, ke ukuqhuba imifanekiso efana ne-P ngengqondo yakho kwahlukile ekubukeni iP.

Ngoku ke, andiyicingi loo nto zonke intelekelelo imbi kwaye ayinamveliso. Ndifumene ukuba ngexesha lokuqalisa kwakhona, lihle kakhulu okokuqala ebomini bam, ndiqale ukuba nolunye uhlobo lwefantasy ebandakanya ukusondelelana kodwa hayi isini. Ezi fantasy zibandakanya izinto ezinjengokutshintshiselana ngoncumo, ukubambana ngezandla, ukubuyisela umva okanye unyawo. Ndiyazi ukuba oko kunokuvakala ngathi kukuhle, kodwa ezi ngcinga ziyinto ecacileyo kwaye ziyonwabisa. Andicingi ngazo njengeenguqu ezibuthathaka zeengcamango zesondo kuba zihluke ngokufanelekileyo. Olu olunye uhlobo lwefantasy alwamkelekanga kuphela kodwa ndilufumene ukuba luneziphumo ezilungileyo. Btw, andizange ndigqibe okanye MO ngexesha lokucinga okunjalo (ukuba bendinokuthi babe neentlobano zesini), ndihlala ndinazo ezi ngcinga ngelixa ndicamngca.

Kwimi, ifantasy eyamkelekileyo ilandela imithetho emininzi:

1) Ayibandakanyi naziphi na iinkwenkwezi ze-P okanye abafazi (okanye abafana) ongakhange udibane nomntu (nangona inokubandakanya abantu abacingelayo)

I-2) Ayibandakanyi isenzo sezesondo (okt akukho zitho zangasese okanye amalungu omzimba aphethwe ngokwesondo)

3) Ayibeki kugxila kumalungu athile omzimba (ngakumbi amalungu ezesondo)

I-3) ayibandakanyi ngokungqongqo ukubonwa, ikwabandakanya ezinye izivamvo ezinjengokuchukumisa, ukuvumba kunye nesandi

Ubuza ukuba kunzima ukuqhubeka nokungabi yi-PMO kwezi ntsuku. Hayi - ngenene, kulula kakhulu. Ingqondo yam iyazi ukuba la mantombazana [kwindawo yakhe yangaphambili ye-porn harem] ahambile. Kuyamkele oku kwaye kuyekile ukuzama ukundenza ndibuyele kubo. Iqhubekile. Ngoku xa ndisekhaya, ingqondo yam iyazi ukuba akukho nto isondo apho. Xa ndiphuma, ingqondo yam iyazi ukuba kukho abantu ababhinqileyo abalungileyo abanokufuna ukufumana, kodwa ukuba ekuphela kwendlela enokuthi yenzeke ngayo into yokwabelana ngesondo kukuba neentlobano zesini kunye nabo, kuba uM kunye nokucinga ekhaya akusekho kwimenyu , akusekho khetho.

Kodwa kuthathe iiveki ezisibhozo ukufika apho. Ngeli xesha ingqondo yam yayikhala ngokubulala igazi. Kwaye ngamanye amaxesha wayeka ukukhala, kodwa kungenxa yokuba ndandiqhele ukungangxoli, ukuze andothuse nangakumbi xa yayiqala ukukhala kwakhona. Yiyo loo nto ndisithi ndinqumle umabonakude. Ukuba usekhaya, kwaye umfazi olungileyo uza kumabonwakude, ingqondo yakho ithi “Hee! Kukho intombazana evela kumfazi wam! Ndiyicinga ukuba i-harem yam ayizange ilahleke emva kwayo yonke into! IHummana-hummana-hummana. ” Kwaye wonwabile kwakhona.

Ikhaya kufuneka lifile ngabafazi kuwe. Akukho nto apho. Akukho mibono, akukho buso, akukho mizimba, akukho kucinga, akukho nto. Ihlabathi ngaphandle: abasetyhini. Ikhaya lakho: liyadika njenge-f * ck, kuphela kwendlela ubuchopho bakho obufumana ngayo umyalezo obufunayo, okokuba indawo yabafazi ayisekho. Akukho.

Funda ngokugqithisileyo.

Iveki yokugqibela okanye kunjalo, njengoko ndihlambulule ingcinga yesondo engqondweni yam kwaye ndijongene nokuxoshelwa kwelokuba, ndiziva ndilahlekile, ndonwabile, ndididekile, ndithandana, ndinexhala, ndixhalabile. Into kuphela eyandibekayo yayikholo kumdali wam, uhlobo kunye nenkqubo yokuqalisa. Ukufumana umfono kwindlela yakho kuqala njengomsebenzi onzima. Iqala ukuba lula emva kwexesha. Emva koko uyaqaphela ukuba i-libido yakho iqala ukususa ngokupheleleyo kuwe, kwimiqondo yakho. Uqala ukulahlekelwa yonke iminqweno yesondo. Ngelo xesha, ndaqala ukukrakra, ndazama ukuphoqelela imfesane ngokungenasiphumo esiphumelele kwi-penis. Ngamaxesha amaninzi ndizama ukucinga kwaye ndibenzima nzima ukwakha imfesane nonke. Kwakufana nekhono lokuba ndilahlekelwe yikhono.

Ngexesha elithile ndiye ndayiyeka ngokupheleleyo. Ndacinga ukuba ubumnandi buza kuba nzima ukuyiqonda, ndinokuphumla nje kwaye ndiyiyeke idlule ngokwenyani. Oku kubangela umgca we-libido, zombini kwiibhulukhwe nasengqondweni (yayiyikrakra i-SH * T ngaphandle kwam). Kodwa, njengoko benditshilo kwiposti yam yokugqibela, ubusuku bumnyama kakhulu ngaphambi kokusa… Namhlanje bekungakholeleki! Ngethuba lokuqala ukususela ekubeni ndiyakhumbula, mhlawumbi xa ndingu 23 okanye kunjalo, ndandinokuzimela ngokuzikhethela esidlangalaleni kungabikho nto ngaphandle kobukho babasetyhini abahle. Ndaziva ngathi ndisisilwanyana! Kodwa ngendlela elungileyo! Ke ndiye ndaphumelela namhlanje emva kokuchitha umzamo omkhulu kwezi veki zimbalwa zidlulileyo ndisiya kuzo ZONKE iingcinga zesondo, kwanokwenyani.

Ndingu 30 kwaye ndaziva ngathi ndineminyaka eyi-18 (ndothuke njengesihogo yonke imihla yokuzikhethela kokunxibelelana kwabasetyhini ababonayo). Nokuba umntu uyinyani, umntu wokuqala ocinga ngento ayifunayo uye ajonge iphonografi ngephanyazo kum. Andikwazi ukuyeka ukubukela ividiyo, oko kuthetha. Nokuba ibindim kuloo nto, bendisajongile. Nangona ndiqalile ukuthatha inxaxheba kwimfesane, andinakukugcina ekuziphatheni komntu o-3 ojonga iifoto ezingamanyala.

Ingcebiso yayo kuphela, kodwa iyandisebenzela. Andililo ingcali, kodwa ukuba uyandibuza, ukuqala kwakho kwakhona kunokwandiswa kukuncamathela kwifantasy. Ubumnandi bukukhupha ngaphandle komzuzu kwaye umzuzu kuko konke onako! Andicingi ukuba nabani na unokulahleka ngokupheleleyo. Ubumnandi bezesondo mhlawumbi busempilweni kumntu ongaphiliyo kumlutha we-PMO. Kodwa ayinguwe kwaye uqinisekile njengokuba isihogo asindim!

Ingqondo isebenzisa iqhezu lamandla ngelixa uphupha emini eyenzayo xa uzibandakanya ebomini (kakhulu njengendawo yokulala). Ukuyeka ukuphupha kufana nokuqalisa ukuzilolongela amanqatha akho, nengqondo ebuthathaka. Kwakuyindlela enzima kum kune-porn. Ndineeveki ezi-2 zentloko eqinileyo kunye nobunzima. Ukuyeka ukuphupha kwakudinisa. Ndicinga ukuba impumelelo yam kunye ne-PMO ibingaphantsi xa ndingakhange ndiyeke ukuphupha.

Usuku lwayo lwe-60 kwaye andizange ndiyiqonde!

Andikwazi kulinda ukuba ndibone ngcono. Namhlanje, ndiziva ngathi nangona ndingenayo i-PMO'd konke konke, ndaye ndaya kwisiqalo esothusayo kuba bendihlala ndicinga, kwaye ndikhangela indawo yasimahla yokuthandana kwi-Intanethi. Khange ndiqonde kude kube kamva, ezo ndlela zokuziphatha zisebenza ngendlela efanayo kwingqondo enoxanduva lokulutha kwethu kwi-PMO.

Ngoku bendizama ngamandla ukuba ndingacingi nokucinga, okanye ukuchitha ixesha kwiindawo zokuthandana kunye ne-facebook, izinto zihamba ngcono kunangaphambili. Ndizama kakhulu ukuzigcina ndixakekile NGAMAXESHA ONKE. Ukuba ndisekhaya ndedwa phambi kwekhompyuter, ndiza kuba nexesha elibi haha. Ndikubonile ukunxibelelana ngokuthe ngqo phakathi kwexesha endilichithe ndicinga okanye ndisebenzisa iisayithi zokuchitha ixesha, kunye nendlela endiziva ngayo ngosuku olulandelayo ngokwemo yendalo yam iphela, ukukwazi ukugxila, kunye noxinzelelo lwam ekuhlaleni. Ngokombono wam, kubonakala ngathi kuncinci ndiyenza yonke enye inkunkuma, ngcono ndizive, kwaye iqhubeka nokuzakhela.

Kunzima kakhulu ukuhamba ngaphezu kweentsuku ezimbalwa ngaphandle kokuba nomsanqa wesantombazana, okanye ucinga ukuba i-Id ithanda ntoni kwintombazana endiyibonayo kwindawo yokuzivocavoca, njl njl. ningacingi malunga nokuba bangathanda kangakanani ukulala ngesondo ngaphandle kokuba ne 0 kwiinyanga ze-2! Ndizama nje ukucinga ngenye into xa kwenzeka oko.

Nanku ukuba nethemba lokuba kuya kuba ngcono, kwaye ndiya komelela ngakumbi kwaye ndizithembe ngakumbi, kwaye ndisondele kwinjongo yam yokufezekisa ulwalamano lokwenyani.

Hee wonke umntu, kudala ndixhonyiwe kwiiforum kodwa andikathumeli okuninzi. Ndingathanda ukubulela wonk 'ubani ngokuvuleka kakhulu malunga neengxaki zabo malunga nokuxhatshazwa koononophala kunye nokungasebenzi kwezesondo, kuncede kakhulu ukuba ndihlale ndikhuthazwa ngeli xesha. Ndifuna ukwabelana ngebali lam kunye nezinye izinto endiziqapheleyo Ngexesha lokuzama kwam ukuqala kwakhona.

Ke bendijonge iphonografi ukusukela nge-13-14, yaqala ngeziqwengana ezimfutshane ndizikhuphele (ukusasaza iphonografi kwakungafumaneki okwangoku, ngombulelo). Ekugqibeleni njengoko isantya se-Intanethi sanda ndaqala ukubukela iphonografi ngakumbi nangakumbi. Xa ndandineminyaka engama-21 ndandinethuba lokulahlekelwa bubuntombi bam, kodwa ngenxa yoxinzelelo kwaye mhlawumbi iphonografi ibangela ukungasebenzi kakuhle kwe-erectile andikwazi ukwenza. Malunga neenyanga ze-3 emva koku ndaye ndadibana nenye intombazana kwaye kwenzeka into efanayo, andinakukwazi ukwenza amaxesha amaninzi, ndinobuthathaka obuthathaka njlnjl ke kwaqala ukudakumba okunzulu kunye neziyobisi ezingamanyala.

Kwiminyaka elandelayo ye-4 ndandingakwazi ukulala ngesondo ngokuqhelekileyo, ngamanye amaxesha ukulungiswa kwam kwakuza kubomelela ngokwaneleyo ukungena kodwa kwakungazange kulungile kakhulu. Xa ndaguquka i-25 ndaqalisa ukutshata nentombazana, ndineengxaki eziqhelekileyo kwaye ndazibandakanya ukuxhalabisa (endiyakholelwa ukuba kuseyinto ebalulekileyo kulo mbuzo kuthi uninzi lwethu), wayenengqiqo kakhulu, ndayifumana imithi ye-cialis kwaye ngenxa yokunyamezela kunye nesilingo kunye nephutha ndakwazi ukulala naye ngokuqhelekileyo. Ndiyabonisa ukuba le ngxaki yokuxhaswa kwemixhala, ukusetyenziswa kwam i-pornography kunciphise kakhulu (kunzima ukujonga iifostile xa uhlala nentombazana) kwaye ipenis yam ekugqibeleni iyancatshiswa kwisini kunokuba isandla sam. Naliphi na, ekugqibeleni saqhekeka, ndabuyela kwi-porno kunye neengxaki ezindala ezahlukileyo.

Kunyaka ophelileyo ndikhubekile kule foram kunye nengqondo yakho kwi-porn kwaye ndaye ndagqiba kwelokuba ndiqalise kwakhona. Ndayenza iintsuku ze-35 kwaye ndabona ukuphucuka okukhulu, ndakwazi ukuba neentlobano zesini ezifanelekileyo… ndihlala ndincediswa nguCialis. Kodwa, ndibuyele kwi-PMO kwaye imicimbi efanayo ibuye kwakhona. Ke ndaye ndacinga ukuba ndiza kuyinciphisa ngokupheleleyo iphonografi, kodwa bendisaqhubeka ne-masturbated. Ndijonge iphonografi kabini kwiinyanga ezi-7 ezidlulileyo, kodwa ukuza kuthi ga ngoku bendisenza amaphambili kwimfesane rhoqo.

Kwam, ukuphulula amalungu esini kumdlalo obonisa imincili kubangele iingxaki ezifanayo nokusebenzisa iphonografi kwaye ndicinga ukuba emva kokubukela iphonografi engqondweni yam kunokuphinda ndiphinde ndizonwabise Ulwalamano olusondeleyo ngesondo.Ngoku ke ndikumhla wama-22 kungekho-PMO okanye ubumnandi, ndiyabona ukuphuculwa kwaye ndizimisele ukungaze ndibukele iphonografi kwakhona, kwaye ndingaziphulula amalungu esini iintsuku ezingama-90 ndize ndibone apho ndikhoyo. Ndiza kuzama ukugcina wonke umntu eposwe.

Siyabonga kwakhona.CLIFF IZIQONDO: Kwam amava amnandi kunye nokuphonyula kunemiphumo efanayo ne-PMO.

LINK - Ndikwiintsuku zam ze-69 ukuza kuthi ga ngoku, kwaye ndinokuxelela ukuba kuye kube lula ukungahoyi iingcinga ezingaphaya kwexesha.

Ndineemfesane ezininzi ngaphambili, kwaye ezokuqala ziphantse zaphela kwaphela engqondweni yam njengephupha endinokuba kulo. Kuthathe ixesha elide, bendisilwa nesilo se-PMO ukusukela phakathi kuJanuwari, kodwa kube lula kunangaphambili ukubasusa kubo.

Ingcebiso yam kuwe ayikokungazi "ungacingi ngayo", kuba ngokucacileyo uya kuba ucinga ngayo, kodwa cinga ngenye into nanini na xa ucinga ezo ngcinga.

Zama ukucinga ngendalo ngakumbi-Lilanga elihle kangakanani, ingca eluhlaza, ukutya okumnandi okutyileyo, njl.

Sukuba nexhala ngokujonga kwimizimba yabasetyhini, onke amadoda aphilileyo anesondo elomeleleyo. Ukubona imizimba yabasetyhini kunokuba luncedo kwinkqubo yakho yokubuyisela kwimeko yesiqhelo ngokuqhelana nokuvulwa ngabafazi bobomi bokwenyani endaweni yeepikseli kwiscreen.

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