IMIBUZO: Isifundo kumadoda (iminyaka yobudala eyi-41.5) eneengxaki zokuziphatha ngokwesini, ezinje ngeparaphilias kunye nokuphulula amaphambili okanye ukukrexeza. I-27 yahlulwa "njengamakhoboka okuphulula amalungu esini," oko kuthetha ukuba baphulula amalungu esini (ngesiqhelo ngokusetyenziswa kwe-porn) iyure enye okanye ngaphezulu ngosuku okanye ngaphezulu kweeyure eziyi-7 ngeveki. I-71% yalezi zilingo zobugqwetha zibike iingxaki zokusebenza zesini, kunye ne-33% ingxelo yokulibazisa ukulibazisa (iikopi ezingezantsi).
Kukuphi ukungasebenzi ngokwesondo okungama-38% yamadoda aseleyo anayo? Olunye ukhetho oluphambili lokungasebenzi kakuhle ngokwesondo yi-ED kunye ne-libido ephantsi. Isifundo asitsho, kwaye ababhali abazihoyanga izicelo zenkcukacha. Ngokwaphula umthetho olandelwayo, uJames Cantor uxele uluhlu lwezinto ezifundwayo (iSiniNet) ukuba akasokuze azikhulule iziphumo ezikhoyo.
Ikhonkco - J Sex Sex Ther.
2015 NgoNovemba-Dec;41(6):563-80. doi: 10.1080/0092623X.2014.935539.
Abstract
Ubundlobongela obuhlala bubuninzi buhlala buninzi ngokuqhelekileyo kodwa bengaqondi kakuhle isikhalazo somguli. Nangona ulwahluke kwiinkcazo zonyango zezigulana ezibhekiswe kwi-hypersexual, uncwadi luye lwagcina iindlela zokunyango ezithathwa ukuba zisebenzise yonke into. Le ndlela ibonakalise ingaphumeleli, nangona ifunyenwe kwisithuba seminyaka emininzi. Uphononongo lwangoku lusebenzise iindlela zokujonga iindawo zabantu, impilo yengqondo, kunye ne-sexological correlates yeekliniki eziqhelekileyo zokudluliselwa koxhatshazo ngokwesini. Iziphumo zixhasa ukukholwa kwamacandelo, nganye neenkalo ezihlukeneyo zeempawu. Ama-hypersexuals aseParaphilic abike inani elininzi labalingani bezesondo, ukusetyenziswa kakubi kwezidakamizwa, ukuqaliswa kwintsebenzo yesondo ngexesha elidala, kunye nobuhle njengendlela yokuqhuba ukuziphatha ngokwesondo. Ukugwema i-masturbator kubonisa amanqanaba amakhulu okuxhalabisa, ukunyanzeliswa kokukhawuleza, kunye nokusetyenziswa kwesondo njengecwangciso lokuphepha. Iziphingi ezingapheliyo zichazwe ngokukhawuleza kwangaphambili kwaye emva kokuqala kokukhulelwa. Izigulane ezikhethiweyo zazingenakwenzeka ukuba zichaze ukusetyenziswa kakubi kweziyobisi, umsebenzi, okanye iingxaki zezemali. Nangona kunjalo, eli nqaku linikeza isifundo esichazayo apho i-typology ebonakalayo ivela kwizinto ezininzi eziqhelekileyo ekuhloleni kwezesondo. Izifundo zexesha elizayo zingasebenzisa iindlela zobuchule bokubala, ezifana nokuhlalutya kwamagqabantshintshi, ukuqinisekisa ukuba ziphi na iindlela ezifanayo ezivela xa zihlolwe ngempumelelo.
Inkcazo evela kwiSifundo:
Kwinqanaba elingezantsi phawula ukuba uphahla olubanzi malunga nokusebenza kakubi kwe-erectile (ED), nangona enye yesithathu yabasebenzisi bezongxaki zeengxaki ze-porn ivele ibhengeze ukuxilwa kwe-ejaculation (DE), umlandelelwano oqhelekileyo kwi-ED kunye namaqabane. Yintoni engekho kweli phepha:
- I-71% ixelile iingxaki zokusebenza zesini kunye ne-33% ezaziwa ukuba ziye zabambezeleka. Yiyiphi intsholongwane yezocansi eyenza i-38% yamadoda aseleyo? Isifundo asitsho, kwaye Abalobi baye bahoywa izicelo zeenkcukacha. Ezinye izibini eziphambili kwizinto zesini zesifo sokungaxhatshali ngokwesondo zi-ED kunye ne-libido ephantsi.
- Amadoda awazange abuzwe malunga nokusebenza kwawo erectile ngaphandle koonwabo. Ukuba yonke imisebenzi yabo yesondo ibandakanya i-masturbating kwi-pornography, kwaye ingabi ngesondo kunye nomlingane, abanokuze baqonde ukuba babe ne-porn-baqhube i-ED.
- Ababhali bacacisa Ley et. al., I-2014 njengokunyelisa ama-porn e-ED. Akuzange, kwaye kuye kwaba njalo yahluthwa apha.
Ukugwema i-Masturbators
Xa abo bakwi-subtype yokuphepha ye-masturbator (n = 27) bethelekiswa nawo onke amanye amatyala (n = 88), bekukho imeko kumalungu eli qela ahlala evolontiya ukuba basebenzisa isondo njengeqhinga lokuphepha (100% vs. 41 %), χ 2 (1, n = 34) = 3.81, p = .051, φ = 0.33. Ngokubhekisele kwimpilo yengqondo kunye nezinto eziguquguqukayo ngokwesini, i-subtype yokuphepha ye-masturbator yayinokwenzeka ukuba inike ingxelo ngeengxaki zoxinzelelo (74% vs 23%), χ (1, n = 101) = 20.27, p <.001, φ = 0.45, kunye neengxaki zokusebenza ngokwesondo (71% vs. 31%), χ (1, n = 88) = 10.63, p = .001, φ = 0.35, kunye nokulibaziseka kwe-ejaculation yeyona ngxaki ixhaphakileyo yokusebenza ngokwesondo ( 33% vs. 7%), χ 2 (1, n = 88) = 9.09, p = .003, φ = 0.32. Abo bakwi-subtype yokuphepha yokuphulula amalungu esini babenendlela yokufumana amathuba amancinci kunayo yonke isampulu eyakha yathandana kakhulu (70% vs. 86%), χ 2
(1, n = 102) = 3.34, p = .068, φ = 0.18. Kulabo babika ubudlelwane bokuthandana, kwakukho umgangatho wokuba ubuhlobo bobudlelwane obuphelile (28% vs. 9%) okanye bunzima ngenxa yeengxaki zabo zoxhatshazo (56% vs. 50%), χ 2 (3 , n = 82) = 5.91, p = .052, φ = 0.27.
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Njengoko bekutshiwo ngaphambili, i-subtype yokuphepha ye-masturbator yenziwa ngokuzibandakanya ngaphezulu kwe-1 hr ngosuku, ngokomndilili, yokusebenzisa iphonografi / ukuphulula amalungu esini. Njengoko bekuxelwe kwangaphambili, le subtype ibinendlela ethe kratya yokuxela indlela abaziphatha ngayo ngokwesondo njengenxalenye yesicwangciso sokuphepha. Nangona ukusetyenziswa gwenxa kweziyobisi kuyinto eqhelekileyo ekuphepheni, le subtype yayingenakufane ichaze ukusetyenziswa gwenxa kweziyobisi, mhlawumbi ngenxa yokuba sele ifumene isicwangciso esisebenzayo sokuthintela ukusetyenziswa gwenxa kweephonografi, nangona oku kufunyenwe kungangqinelani nophando ekuthiwa kukuziphatha kakubi (kubandakanya Ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesini), apho ukuhlangana kunye nokuphazamiseka kokusetyenziswa kweziyobisi kufunyenwe (njengoko kushwankathelwe kuGrant, Potenza, Weinstein, nase Gorelick, 2010). Kuya kuba luncedo kuphando lwexesha elizayo ukuvavanya ukuba ngaba amadoda akolu hlobo lungephi aneengxaki zokuziphatha okunokuphepha, njengokudlala (okt, amagama evidiyo) okanye iingxaki zokusebenzisa i-Intanethi ngokubanzi. Kufanelekile ukuthelekelela ukuba uninzi lwezinto ezibizwa ngokuba kukuziphatha okuhambelana nokuziphatha zinxulumene nokuzibekel 'amangomso okanye ukunqanda kwaye zinokuphendula kwiindlela ezifanayo zonyango. Yimbono yethu yokuba iziyobisi zinxulumene nokuthintela kunye nokuzibekel 'amangomso.Ngokuhambelana nabantu abanokuthi babe phezulu ekuthinteleni okanye ekuzibekeleni bucala (umz., Beswick, Rothblum, & Mann, 1988; Flett, Stainton, Hewitt, Sherry, & Lay, 2012), abo baphulula amalungu esini babenomdla wokuxela iingxaki zoxinzelelo. Eyona nto inokuthi ihambelane noxinzelelo oluphezulu kukufumanisa ukuba aba bantu babenendlela yokufumana amathuba okuba babe kubudlelwane bezothando; mhlawumbi kunqabile ukuba bazive bekhululekile ekubandakanyeni ubuso ngobuso ubudlelwane bezesondo kunye nolwalamano. Isenokwenzeka ukuba ixesha abalityala ekusebenziseni iphonografi kunye nokuphulula amalungu esini linciphisa ixesha lokulandela ubudlelwane. Ukuphepha ukuphulula amalungu esini ababekobuhlobo babenendlela yokuxela ubudlelwane obuninzi. Oku kunokuba ngenxa yengxaki yabo yokuba nzima ukuzifihla kumaqabane abo (umzekelo, uninzi lwamaqabane abakrexezi abanganyangekiyo kunye neparaphilic hypersexourse abanokwazi malunga nomdla okanye imisebenzi yesigulana). Isenokwenzeka ukuba baphulula amalungu esini ngenxa yeengxaki kubudlelwane babo ezaqala ngaphambi kweengxaki zokuziphatha ngokwesondo; Nangona kunjalo, oku kunokuthiwa kuzo zonke iindidi, njengoko singakhange sivavanye ubukho kolu phando. Okokugqibela, kwaye mhlawumbi ikwanxulumene neengxaki zobudlelwane, kukuba abo baphulula amalungu esini ngokunokwenzeka banakho ukuxela iingxaki zokusebenza ngokwesondo kunezinye iindidi ezithile, ngokukodwa, ukulibaziseka okude. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba uqaphele ukuba akucaci nokuba ngaba ezi ngxaki zandulela iphonografi okanye iingxaki zokuphulula amalungu esini kwaye, ngenxa yoko, zinokunxulumana noxinzelelo kunye neengxaki zobudlelwane, okanye nokuba sisiphumo sokuhlalisa amalungu esini ixesha elide kunye nokuhlala rhoqo kukhokelela ekuziphatheni okubi ngokwesini ngokubhekisele kwisini somzimba ukusebenza. Ukufunyanwa kokulibaziseka kwe-ejaculation, endaweni yokungasebenzi kakuhle kwe-erectile njengesikhalazo esiphambili esichaziweyo kukwanomdla kwimeko yokuthandwa kakhulu yimithombo yeendaba ukuba ukujonga iphonografi kunxulunyaniswa nokungasebenzi kakuhle kwe-erectile. Nangona kukho iiakhawunti zeklinikhi kunye nemithombo yeendaba ehlawuliswe ngokwasemphefumlweni kunye neendawo zokuzinceda ezisasaza le nkolelo (umz., Ugqirha Oz Show, ngoJanuwari 31, 2013; James & O'Shea, Matshi 30, 2014; yourbrainonporn.com), akukho datha Ukuxhasa umbono wokuba ukubukela iphonografi kubangela ukungasebenzi kakuhle kwe-erectile (Ley, Prause, & Finn, 2014). Ngelixa amabango ale mithombo yeendaba enokuthi aqulathe ubunyani, ingxaki kukuba bacebisa ii-hypotheses ezifuna uvavanyo lwe-science, olungekenzeki. Iziphumo ezivela kolu phando, kulwazi lwethu, okokuqala kukujonga ubudlelwane phakathi kwe-masturbation / i-subtype yoonografi yoxhatshazo ngokwesini kunye nokusebenza ngokwesondo.
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