Vibrators kunye nezinye izinto eziMnandi: Xa ukuModareyitha kwehluleka (2011)

Ndiyathanda i-tee-shirt ye-Toy Toys[Bona kwakhona Vibrators kunye ne "Dead Vagina Syndrome" (uphando kunye neendaba eziphambili)]

Ngaba ungazisebenzisa iithoyi zesini okanye i-intanethi ye-intanethi ngokumodareyitha? Impendulo ilele kwingqondo yakho-hayi kulo naliphi na icebiso langaphandle, ubulumko okanye imfundiso. Kuxhomekeka kwimeko yesekethe yakho yomvuzo, indlela yakho yamandulo yokutya.

Ngokuqinisekileyo, ingqondo yakho UCanzibe ukuba sesichengeni ngakumbi kukhuthazo olunamandla ngenxa yokwenziwa kofuzo okanye ukwenzakala okudlulileyo. Ukanti ikwabalulekile ukuba loluphi uhlobo lokuvuselela ingqondo yakho. Cinga ngamava alo mfazi:

Ukusetyenziswa kweVibrator kunokubangela ukuba umntu angathandeki emfazini. Ndaqala ukusebenzisa enye kwikholeji, ndicinga ukuba ndingumfazi wanamhlanje, oxhotyiswe ngokwesondo, kwaye ndingakholelwa ukuba usebenze njani ngokufanelekileyo. Isebenze kakuhle. Kwisithuba senyanga, ndandingasenakukwazi ukwenza i-orgasm kunye nesithandwa sam, kwaye kwiinyanga ezimbalwa emva koko, ndandingasakwazi ukuyenza ngesandla sam kwakhona. I-vibrator yangena enkunkumeni kwaye ukuphendula kwam kwabuya emva kweeveki ezithile. Okwangoku, kwiminyaka elishumi kamva, ngamanye amaxesha ndiyalukhumbula uvuselelo olunamandla. Nangona kunjalo, ngokuqinisekileyo andikuphosi ukuphendula ngokwesondo elulwalweni.

Ndiye ndahlala kude ne-Intanethi ngesizathu esifanayo. Kuyakhuthaza kakhulu, kwaye ndiyazi ukuba ndiza kukhawuleza ndikhawuleze. Ndizamile ukukrexeza kanye. Ndiza ngaphantsi komzuzu omnye (akunjalo njengobomi bokwenene!) Ngenxa yokuba ukuvuselelwa kwakunzima kakhulu. Ukwabelana ngesondo okwenyani ngekhe kube nakho ukulinganisa oko. Mhlawumbi ndim okhethekileyo, kodwa ndizazi kakuhle. Ukuba bendiqala ukusebenzisa iphonografi kwi-Intanethi, bendiya kugqibela ndingomnye wabo bantu bangasakwazi kuvulwa ngaphandle kwayo. Hayi enkosi. Ndiza kugcina ubomi bam bobulili obuphilayo.

I-organism usebenzisa iindlela zendalo (cinga iminwe kunye nokucinga) akunakwenzeka ukuba yingxaki. Kwakhona kuyacaca ukuba ingqondo yakho yaguqukela ukusingatha ukungahambi. Akunakwenzeka ngokukhawuleza kwinto ethile ekugqithiseni ukuba kunciphise ukuphendula kwakho ngokwesondo.

Ngakolunye uhlangothi, kuninzi ukuvuselela okungavamile Unokuba lula ukuba yingxaki-ubuncinci kwabanye bethu. Iyakwazi ngokwenene ukunciphisa ubuzwe beengqondo, kwaye ngokunjalo ukwaneliseka.

Ndineentombi ezathi kukho ixesha elithile ebomini bakhe apho wayesebenzisa khona imfutho. Kodwa wafumanisa ukuba akakwazi ngokupheleleyo ukusebenzisana nabalingani bakhe ngenxa yokuba wayenomdla kakhulu. Uyeke umtshini, kwaye ndicinga ukuba uthe wamthatha malunga neenyanga ze-6 ukuze abuyele ejwayelekile.

Phantse isiqingatha sabathathi-nxaxheba kuyo olunye uphando Bachaze ukuba banenkxalabo yokuxhomekeka kwisishukumisi esikhuthazayo esingaphaya kwamandla.

'Okungaqhelekanga' kubhekisa kwisikhuthazo esikhupha izixa ezingaphezulu kwemichiza ye-neurochemicals kwisekethe yomvuzo wobuchopho. Oku kwenzeka xa ingqondo yethu ithatha isigqibo sokuba kukho into eheha ngakumbi kunayo nantoni na edibana nookhokho. Olu donga longezelelekileyo lwe-neurochemical lusikhohlisa ekubeni sibhalise isikhuthazo esingaqhelekanga njengoXabisekileyo. Ngelo xesha ke sinokuba lula ngakumbi. (Ngaphezulu, bona Izixhobo eziNxilisayo.)

Ukuqonda nje ukuba kunganyanzeleka njani ukuba ne-superstimuli, cinga ngoku: Xa izazinzulu zakha ibhabhathane elenziweyo "amaqabane" ngeendlela ezibaxiweyo (okt, imiqondiso esetyenziswa ngamadoda ukuvavanya ukunqwenela iqabane)

Ibhabhathane elililitye elihlanjwe ngesilivere lavuswa ngakumbi ngokwesondo libhabhathane elilinganayo elijikelezayo elinemigca emdaka ethe tyaba kune… ngowasetyhini ophilayo okwenyani.

Ayingobesilisa kuphela abakhohliswayo zizinto ezibaxiweyo. Iintaka zabasetyhini zikhetha ukuhlala kwindawo enkulu, enamabala aqaqambileyo, olungeyonyani amaqanda, kwaye bazinyamekela zabo. I-Stimuli engavamile umbhali Deirdre Barrett ichaza izinto ezinje ngala “mlinganiso ubonakala utyekelo lwakudala, kwaye, ngendlela engaqhelekanga, unomtsalane ngakumbi kunezinto zokwenene.”

Ngoku, cinga ngezinto ezithandabuzayo ezikhanyisa ubuchopho bethu namhlanje: imidlalo yevidiyo ekhudlwana kune-life, ii-casinos ezikhazimulayo, ukutya okungafunekiyo, izidakamizwa, amathoyizi eentlobano zesini ukuba enze nayiphi na ipeni, ingxoxo yekhampani ye-cam2cam.

I-Intanethi ngokwayo iyaziva ngathi ikukuxhalaba… ukusinga kwiithebhu ezininzi kuvuliwe / ukwenza imisebenzi emininzi, ukubamba izinto ezinomdla ezivela kumnatha. Kufana nengqondo yam ihlala ifuna ukonwatyiswa yinto ngoku. Ukufunda iincwadi akulonelanga kum.

Ezi zizilingo ookhokho bakho abangenako ukuzibandakanya ngokulula. Zingakhokelela kutshintsho lwengqondo olukhathazayo olunzima ukubuyela umva. Umzekelo, iziyobisi kwi-Intanethi zinxulunyaniswa nazo nokunciphisa umba wegrey kwiibhokhwe zabantwana abaselula. Ngcakazo kwaye kutywala ziye zaboniswa ukuguqula umsebenzi wengqondo, kwakhona.

Singazongamela iindlela zethu ezininzi, kodwa ukutya kunye nokwabelana ngesondo kubaluleke kakhulu. Ngokungafaniyo neziyobisi, zombini sele zifakwe kwikhowudi kumjikelo wesekethe yomvuzo njengoko kufanelekile kubukho (izinto eziphambili). Kungenxa yoko le nto uninzi lwabasebenzisi lunakho, kwaye lwenze, luthembeke kwiinguqulelo zokutya kunye nesondo nangona bengenangxaki nezinye izilingo. Amashumi asixhenxe anesithoba Abantu baseMerika ngoku baninzi kakhulu, kwaye isiqingatha siphelile. Ngu ezinye iakhawunti, isiqingatha seentlanganiso zaseMelika sichaza iingxaki okwabo Ukusetyenziswa koonobumba kwangoko ku-2001.

Inqaku kukuba uyolo "lwendalo" olunamandla lunokuthi lube yinto eyingozi yeyakho (okanye umthandayo)-Nokuba ibibonakala ingenabungozi kwinqanaba elithile lobomi, okanye ayibonakali ngathi ibangela ingxaki kubahlobo bakho. Olu tshintsho lwenzeka ngokungenabungozi kwimeko egcwaliswe ngumtsalane. Ama-Eskimos atya itywina blubber imini yonke ngoncumo, kodwa uninzi lwabantwana baseMelika bayakhala ukuba abawufumani umdla weSidlo esiMnandi sikaMacDonald.

Amashumi amabini anesibini amabhinqa asele asebenzisa ama-vibrators ngokubhekiselele kwi-a Ucwaningo lwe-2009. Ipesenti ezingamashumi amathathu nanye yabasetyhini abaselula basebenzisa i-pornography. Omnye umfana o balwa imfazwe ende ukuba abuyele ekusebenzisweni kwezilwanyana, aze aqonde ukuba ingqondo yakhe yatshintshe kangakanani, wathi:

Umfazi omnye kwabayi-1 abakwiminyaka yam abukele iphonografi. Ndiyakhumbula ndandicinga ukuba kwakupholile ukuba intombazana entle ibukele iphonografi. Kodwa ngokungathandekiyo, oku kubi kakhulu, akulunganga — kum nakubantu ngokubanzi. Ngokuqinisekileyo andifuni ukuba ubuchopho bomfazi wam wexesha elizayo buthathwe ngokungathandabuzekiyo ngoononophala, ke ubomi bakhe kunye nezakhono zam zokwenza uthando zibonakala ngathi ziyadika kwaye ziyadika. I-Jeez iyingozi. Kuyadabukisa ukubona indlela itekhnoloji embi eye yajija ngayo ubuchopho bethu ngenxa ye-intanethi ye-Intanethi.

Kuphononongo luka-2011 olukhankanywe apha ngasentla uninzi lwabasetyhini baxela inkxalabo yokuba ukusetyenziswa kwe-vibrator kwaba nefuthe elibi kubudlelwane babo kunokuba beziva ngathi buqinisa ubudlelwane babo. Ngaba wena neqabane lakho sele nidinga ukujoyina ama-somes amathathu ukuze nibe nesondo elonelisayo (Oko kukuthi, nina nobabini kunye nezinto zakho zokudlala ozithandayo kunye nezikrini ezimbini zekhompyuter kunye ne-porn oyithandayo)? Ukuba ukhuthazo lwesondo oluqhelekileyo alukwenzeli wena, ingqondo yakho mhlawumbi ilungelelanisiwe. Ke, umbuzo ngulo, ngaba ufuna ukulahla isihlwele kwaye "uziqalele kwakhona" ukuze ukonwabele ukwabelana ngesondo?

“Andinakunciphisa nje?”

Ngokuqinisekileyo. Kodwa ke ukuba unokufumanisa Ayikwazi ukunciphisa emva kokungafumani zimpawu zokurhoxa? Oku kunokubandakanya: "imfuno" enkulu ye-orgasm (nokuba ubunayo nje,iqhume"), Ukuziva ungaphenduli kangako ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo, ukuthanda abantu abathandanayo, ukucinga ngezinto ezikhuthazayo, ukunqwenela ukuba neentlobano zesini ezibi okanye ezibuhlungu ngakumbi, ukubacaphukisa abanye ngaphandle kwento, okanye ukuziva ungavumelekanga ”).

Ezi ngamanye amaxesha zinokuba ziimpawu zenkqubo yokulutha emsebenzini. Khumbula, inxenye yokuqala yengqondo ibona izinto kunye nemisebenzi ekhupha uninzi lwe-dopamine ekhuthazayo kwingqondo njengeXabiseke kakhulu. Ziyazintambo ngokwazo ukuba zibajonge. Nanini na xa usondela kwenye, umvuzo wakho wobuchopho ujikeleza unyuka usihla ngathi uyaphambana uJack Russell terrier. Oku kwaziwa njenge ku khuthazwa. Xa usebenze umendo okhuselekileyo, ukhupha ukukhukula okukhulu kwe-dopamine kunokuqhelekileyo, ukutshabalalisa izifiso ezifunayo.

Nangona kunjalo, kukho kukhula ko bungqina ukuba ukukhuthazwa kwenene kuvelisa ukungafuneki-Kwaye impendulo engalunganga kulonwabo. Isiphumo sinokuba yimfuno yokuzinkcinkca ukhangela ukoneliseka, kunye nokunciphisa ukuphendula ngokwesondo. Umzekelo, amadoda amadala abambelele kwi "vanilla," imifanekiso engamanyala ayibonakali ngathi ikhulisa iingxaki zokungasebenzi kakuhle kwezinye izinto, zihlala zincinci, amadoda asebenzisa amanyala agqithisileyo. Ngakumbi malunga nendlela i-superstimuli ezinokuqweqwedisa ngayo ubuchopho jonge oku uchungechunge lwevidiyo.

Ngokwemvelo, kunokuba lula ukuyeka i-superstimulus ngokupheleleyo kunokuba uzame ukuyisebenzisa ngokumodareyitha. (Ekuqaleni, kuhlala kunjalo ngonwabi kakhulu, nangona kunjalo.) Isizathu sokuba ixesha lokuziyeka likwazi ukuphumelela apho ukumodareyitha kufezekisa ubuxoki kuloo ngxube ye-dopamine. Kwiqondo elitshintshileyo kwaye alibuyelanga kwisimo esiqhelekileyo, ukumodareyitha kuseta umkhondo wamanzi okhuselekileyo kunye nezifiso ezibuyiselwayo esikhundleni sokwaneliseka.

Ngamafutshane, "Yonke into ngokumodareyitha" isebenza kuphela kubantu abathile, ngokubhekisele kwezinye izinto ezikhuthazayo, ezinye zexesha. Ngethamsanqa, ukuba uyasiphepha isikhuthazi apho uziva khona ixesha elide, indlela yengxolo enengxolo iya isiba buthathaka ngokuthe ngcembe, kwaye ukuthanda kwakho ukutya kubuyela kubuvakalelo obuqhelekileyo. Ukungqinelana kuyahlawula. UMark Hyman, MD wenza eli nqaku ngokubhekisele kwiminqweno yenye i-superstimulus, iswekile:

Susa iswekile kunye nezinto zokuthambisa ezenziwe ngumntu kunye neminqweno yakho iya kuhamba: Yiya kubanda turkey. … Kuya kufuneka uyeke ukuze ingqondo yakho isete kwakhona. Susa iswekile esulungekileyo, iisoda, iijusi yeziqhamo, kunye nezinto eziswiti ezingezizo ezokutya kwakho. Zonke ezi ziyobisi ziya kubangela iminqweno.

Kwakunjalo nangokwenza umdlalo wesondo kunye nokusetyenziswa kwe-erotica. Kungaba lula ukuhamba ngokungahambi kakuhle kokukrazula kwaye uqalise ubuchopho bakho kunokunyamezela ukulangazela ngokuphindaphindiweyo ukuze ugcine ukusetyenziswa ngokulinganisela.

“Xa ufuna ukunyuka uphume emngxunyeni…”

Ukuba ucinga ukuba unokusebenzisa i-erotica okanye i-vibrator yakho, zama ukuyeka ngokupheleleyo inyanga okanye ezimbini. Ngaba ungaziva ubuyela kumbono oqhelekileyo (okanye ukwanda komzwelo)? Ngaba kusihlwa ngokudlala ngothando kunelisekile kunokuba kusihlwa kunye nomtshini wakho? Ukuba uqala ukubuyela emva, ngaba uqaphela izifiso ezimbi emva koko? Njengoko uzenza iimvavanyo zakho, kuya kuba lula ukuqhuba iziphumo ozifunayo.

Unokuze ubone iingeniso ezingalindelekanga njengoko ubuchopho bakho buyabuyela ukulinganisela. Omnye umfazi wachaza ukuba xa eshiya umlenze wakhe omlingo (emva kokuya egumbini lokuxakeka kwindlovu ene-ovary eyonakalisiweyo, kunye nesicatshulwa esivela kwi-odokotela), naye wakwazi ukuyeka ukutshaya nokuphucula ukutya kwakhe, kokubili .

Kunzima ukuba nabani na kuthi ukuba samkele ukuba ukuzonwabisa okungenakubungozi kwangaphambili kuye kwaye kwaba yinto enobungozi obuyingozi. Sekunjalo nokuba ngaba uncedo luye lushintsha (umz., I-intanethi ye-intanethi yindawo yeenveli zothando), ubuchopho bethu bunako, kwaye kaninzi luyakwenza, lutshintshe. Ukuxoxa malunga nokuba into ethile elungileyo "ayilunganga" okanye "ilungile," "iyaziphatha" okanye "ayiziphathi kakuhle," icacile. Iziphumo zalo ikuwe yinto enjani, kwaye i-mileage yakho iyahlukahluka ngokuxhomekeka kububungqina bentsholongwane yakho, nokuba itshintshile, ingaba ukuthanda kwakho kukunyuka kangakanani, njalo njalo.

Kuyahlawulela ukuzijonga ngononophelo ukuze ungaphosi ngempazamo impendulo yakho yolonwabo kunye ne-superstimuli yanamhlanje. Nazi ezinye izinto zokuqala zokuqonda ezivela kubafazi nakumadoda:

I-Porn ayisiyongxaki yamadoda kuphela. Ndizifumanele, xa ndiphulula amalungu esini ndiphulukana nazo zonke iijusi zam zendalo ezihambayo ... ke xa sele ekulungele ukuba nayo, andikho! Kuya kufuneka aqokelele kwi-LUBE ngathi uphambene kwaye kufuneka ndiyeke ukufaka isicelo se-lube ngakumbi kwaye uyandikhathaza. Nokuba unayo yonke into yokuthambisa ngaphandle, ayonwabi kwaye ayonwabi ncam kuba ndicinga ukuba ndingathanda ukujonga iphonografi kunokuba ndome kwaye ndilale ... bendisoloko ndisazi ukuba xa i-**** yakhe yayinzima okanye wayeqhwalela, kungenxa yokuba wamanyala. Kwaye wayehlala esazi xa ndiza kuphulula amalungu esini kuba ndiya koma.

Ukuba ungumntu onokuya kwi-Intanethi ngokumodareyitha, kulungile, kuhle. Amandla ngakumbi kuwe. Kodwa ukuba awuyiyo-kwaye uyazi ukuba awuyiyo-kuya kufuneka uyeke ngokupheleleyo. Ndizamile isithembiso "kube kanye ngeveki"; ayizange ibambe. Kwafuneka ndiyeke ngokupheleleyo.

Emva kokuyeka iphonografi okwexeshana, ndiyabona ukuba ukubukela nje amantombazana athandekayo (aneempahla) kuphuma kakhulu kunakuxa ndandingene nzulu kwi-hardcore porn. Ndicinga ukuba luphawu lokuba ingqondo yam iyaphinda-ukuba iphinde yafumana ubuntununtunu obuqhelekileyo bokukhuthaza ukubonwa.

Ukushwankathela, "Xa ufuna ukuphuma emngxunyeni, qala uyeke ukumba." Ngokupheleleyo. Nika ingqondo yakho ixesha lokuba ubuye ulungelelanise. Ekugqibeleni, iziyolo ezifihlakeleyo ziya kubhalisa njengezimnandi kwakhona. Ukuba ingqondo yakho itshintshe kakhulu, le nkqubo kuthatha iinyanga kwaye ungonwabi. Kodwa kufanelekile

PHAWULA: I-YBOP ayithethi ukuba i-masturbation imbi kuwe. Yenza nje iphuzu lokuba ininzi yezinto ezibizwa ngokuba yimpilo zifunyenwe ukudibaniswa ne-orgasm okanye i-masturbation eqinisweni inxulumene nobudlelwane obusondeleyo nomnye umntu, kungekhona isisu / ukuhlaziya umzimba. Ngokukodwa, ukubambisana phakathi kwezinto ezimbalwa zezempilo kunye ne-orgasm (ukuba yiyinyaniso) mhlawumbi ihambelana nemibutho ephilileyo enokuzibandakanya kwi-sex and more. Ayikho i causal. Iziphumo ezifanelekileyo:

Izibonelelo zezempilo ezihambelanayo neMisebenzi eyahlukeneyo yoSondo (2010) yafumanisa ukuba ukulala ngesondo kwakuxhomekeke kwimiphumo emihle, ngelixa i-masturbation ayikho. Kwezinye iziganeko ukuxhatshazwa kwezidlova kwakunxulumene kakubi neenzuzo zezempilo-oko kuthetha ukuba i-masturbation enye ihambelane neenkcukacha zezempilo ezihluphekileyo. Isiphelo sokuhlaziywa:

"Ngokusekelwe kwiindlela ezahlukeneyo, iisampuli kunye nemilinganiselo, ukufunyaniswa kuphando kuhambelana ngokugqithiseleyo ekuboniseni ukuba omnye umsebenzi wesondo (i-Penile-Vaginal Sex and response response to it) idibene kunye, kwaye kwezinye iimeko, kubangele iinkqubo ezinxulumene kunye nokusebenza okungcono kwengqondo nokusebenza ngokomzimba. "

Ezinye iindlela zokuziphatha ngokwesini (kubandakanywa ne-Penile-Vaginal Sexual intercourse, njengokuba kukho ikhondom okanye ukuphazamiseka kude ne-peneni-zangaphakathi), okanye kwezinye iimeko (ezifana nokuhlambalaza kunye nokulala komzimba) kuhambelana nokusebenza okungcono kwengqondo nokusebenza ngokomzimba . "

Iyeza zonyango, imfundo yesondo, ulwabelana ngesondo, kunye nophando lwezesondo kufuneka kuhanjiswe iinkcukacha zeempilo zePenile-Vaginal Intercourse, kwaye zenzeke ngakumbi kwiindawo zabo zokuvavanya nokungenelela. "

Kwakhona ukujonga okufutshane ukuhlaziya i-masturbation kunye neempendulo zezempilo: Ukuphanga-mbola kuhambelana ne-Psychopathology kunye ne-Prostate Dysfunction: Comment on Quinsey (2012)

Kunzima ukudibanisa uluvo lokuba ukuphulula amalungu esini kuphucula imeko yeemvakalelo kunye nokufunyanwa kwezesini zombini ukuba ukuphindaphindwa kwamalungu okuphulula amalungu esini kunxulunyaniswa neempawu zokudakumba ngakumbi (UCyranowski et al., 2004; Frohlich & Meston, 2002; Husted & Edwards, 1976), ulonwabo oluncinci (Das , 2007), kunye nezinye izikhombisi zempilo ehlwempuzekileyo ngokwasemzimbeni nangokwasengqondweni, ezibandakanya ukunamathela okuxhalabisayo (ICosta kunye neBrody, 2011), iindlela zokuzikhusela ezingakhulanga ngokwasemoyeni, ukuphinda uxinzelelo lwegazi ukuphinda uxinzelelo, kunye nokungoneliseki ngempilo yengqondo kunye nobomi ngokubanzi ( uphononongo, jonga u-Brody, 2010). Kunzima ngokulinganayo ukubona ukuba ukuphulula amalungu esini kukhula njani kwiminqweno yesini, xa ubukhulu becala ukuphulula amaphambili kuhlala kunxulunyaniswa nokungasebenzi kakuhle ngokwesondo emadodeni (Brody & Costa, 2009; Das, Parish, & Laumann, 2009; Gerressu, Mercer, Graham, Wellings, & UJohnson, 2008; Lau, Wang, Cheng, & Yang, 2005; Nutter & Condron, 1985) kunye nabafazi (Brody & Costa, 2009; Das et al., 2009; Gerressu et al., 2008; Lau, Cheng, Wang, & Yang, 2006; Shaeer, Shaeer, & Shaeer, 2012; Weiss kunye noBrody, 2009). Ukuhamba rhoqo kwe-masturbation kukwahambelana nokungoneliseki ngakumbi kubudlelwane kunye nothando oluncinci kumaqabane (Brody, 2010; Brody & Costa, 2009). Ngokwahlukileyo, i-PVI ihambelana kakhulu nempilo engcono (Brody, 2010; Brody & Costa, 2009; Brody & Weiss, 2011; Costa & Brody, 2011, 2012), umsebenzi ongcono wesondo (Brody & Costa, 2009; Brody & Weiss, 2011; Nutter & Condron, 1983, 1985; Weiss & Brody, 2009), kunye nolwalamano olusenyongweni olungcono (Brody, 2010; Brody & Costa, 2009; Brody & Weiss, 2011).

Ngaphezu koko, nangona umngcipheko omncinci we-prostate umdlavuza wahlanganiswa nenani elikhulu le-ejaculations (ngaphandle kokuchazwa kweendlela zesondo) (Giles et al., 2003) [Qaphela ubungqina obuphikisanayo, nangona kunjalo: "Umhlaza wesifo seprotate unokudibaniswa namahomoni wesondo: Amadoda asebenze ngezesondo kwi-20 kunye ne-30 ingaba nomngcipheko ophezulu wesifo somhlaza wesibeletho, uphando lubonisa. "], Yimvama ye-PVI enxulunyaniswa ngokuthe ngqo nomngcipheko omncinci, ngelixa ukuphulula amalungu esini kuhlala kunxulunyaniswa nomngcipheko owandayo (ukuphononongwa kwisifundo, jonga uBrody, 2010). Kule meko, kuyathakazelisa ukuqaphela ukuba ukuphulula amalungu esini kukwanxulunyaniswa nezinye iingxaki zeprostate (amanqanaba aphezulu e-antigen kunye neprostate edumbileyo okanye ithenda) kwaye, xa kuthelekiswa ne-ejaculate efunyenwe kwi-PVI, i-ejaculate efunyenwe kwi-masturbation ineempawu Umsebenzi ocekeceke weprostatic kunye nokupheliswa okuncinci kweemveliso zenkunkuma (Brody, 2010). Ukuziphatha okukuphela kwesondo okuhambelana nokunxibelelana okungcono nempilo yengqondo kunye neyomzimba yiPVI. Ngokwahlukileyo, ukuphulula amalungu esini ngokufuthi kunxulunyaniswa neempawu zezempilo ezihlwempuzekileyo (Brody, 2010; Brody & Costa, 2009; Brody & Weiss, 2011; Costa & Brody, 2011, 2012). Zininzi iindlela ezinokubakho zengqondo nezomzimba, ezinokuthi zibe sisiphumo sokhetho lwendalo oluthanda iinkqubo zempilo njengesizathu kunye / okanye nefuthe lokukhuthaza ukukhangela, kunye namandla okufumana kunye nokonwabela, i-PVI. Ngokuchasene noko, ukhetho lweendlela zengqondo ze-psychobiological ezivuzayo ezikhuthazayo zokuphulula amalungu esini akunakulindeleka ngenxa yeendleko zokuqina komzimba ezinokuthi zenzeke xa kuthintela enye kwi-PVI ngokuyenza ingabalulekanga kwimpilo entle (Brody, 2010). Ngokucacileyo, ukuphulula amalungu esini kubonisa ukungaphumeleli kweendlela zokuqhuba ngokwesondo kunye nokunxibelelana ngokusondeleyo, nangona kuyinto eqhelekileyo, kwaye nokuba ayiqhelekanga ihlala kunye nokufikelela kwi-PVI. Kule meko, kuyaphawuleka ukuba ukuphindaphindeka kwamalungu e-masturbation kunxulunyaniswa nokungoneliseki zizinto ezininzi zobomi ngaphandle kwe-PVI frequency (Brody & Costa, 2009) kwaye kubonakala ngathi kunciphisa ezinye izibonelelo zePVI (Brody, 2010).

Ekugqibeleni ubone le PDF - Ulwahlulo lweNtlalo, Umoya, kunye nolwalamano kwiipatheni zokuhlaziya i-Masturbation phakathi kwaBantu abadala (i-2014)

“Ke, bonwabile abo baphendulayo abaphulula amaphambili kutshanje xa kuthelekiswa nabo bangenzanga? Umzobo 5 utyhila ukuba phakathi kwabo baphendulayo abathi "abonwabanga kwaphela" ngobomi babo kule mihla, iipesenti ezingama-68 zabasetyhini kunye neepesenti ezingama-84 zamadoda bathi babephulula amalungu esini kwiveki ephelileyo. Ukudibana okuthobekileyo nokungonwabi kubonakala kumgca phakathi kwamadoda, kodwa hayi kubafazi. Inqaku lethu ayikokucebisa ukuba ukuphulula amalungu esini kwenza abantu bangonwabi. Inokwenzeka, kodwa imeko yecandelo ledatha ayisivumeli ukuba sikuvavanye oku. Nangona kunjalo, ichanekile ngokwasemthethweni into yokuba amadoda athi onwabile awanako kangako ukuxela ukuphulula amaphambili kunamadoda angonwabanga. ”

“Ukuphulula amaphambili kukwanxulunyaniswa nokuxela iimvakalelo zokungafaneleki okanye uloyiko kubudlelwane kunye nobunzima bokuhamba ngempumelelo kubudlelwane phakathi kwabantu. Usuku lwangaphambili kunye neveki ephelileyo i-masturbator ibonisa amanqanaba aphezulu oxinzelelo kubudlelwane kunabaphenduli abangakhange baxele ukuphulula amalungu esini kumhla odlulileyo okanye kwiveki ephelileyo. Iintsuku ezidlulileyo kunye neveki ephelileyo zibonakalisa amanqanaba aphezulu oxinzelelo kubudlelwane kunabaphenduli abangakhange baxele ukuphulula amaphambili kusuku oludlulileyo okanye kwiveki ephelileyo. ”

Iingcinga ezi-15 kuVibrators kunye nezinye izinto eziMnandi: Xa ukuModareyitha kwehluleka (2011)"

  1. Amagqabantshintshi athunyelwe kuhlobo lwe "Psychology Today" lweli qhekeza
    Umfazi ubhale (ephendula umntu othe inqaku lethu belizama "ukwenza abafazi baboyike isini sabo"):

    Into endikhathazayo kuyo yonke intetho enesondo kukuba ifuna ukukhanyela ukuba ukungcangcazela okuninzi kunokuba nefuthe elibi emzimbeni. Kutheni le nto sinokuthi samkele ukuba ukwenzakala ezandleni kunokubangelwa, oh I dunno, yithi isando sejack, kodwa sifuna ukukhanyela ukuba inokwenzeka kwi-clitoris? Ndimele ukuthi, ukungcangcazela okushushu kukuziva kulungile, kodwa kundishiyile ndindisholo esibuhlungu esenza ukuba kube kufutshane nokungakwazi ukonwabela ukuthamba okungaphezulu ngokuhamba kwexesha — nto leyo ethetha ukuba kufuneka ndiyincame ngokupheleleyo ukuze ndibuyele kwakhona.

    Ukwamkelwa njengam kunye namanqaku anje ayisiyiyo apho isoyikiso silala khona. Kusezandleni zabantu abafuna ukusenza sibe neentloni zokujonga icala lethu lezesondo, abagxeka ulwazi kunye nabanciphisa incoko. Xa sivulekile ngakumbi ngesondo kuya kuba ngcono xa siza kuba.

  2. Ibhinqa lipostile oku kwi-Yahoo

    Ndingumfazi kwaye ndiqinisekile ukuba ndizikhathaza ngokwamadoda kunye nomnqweno wesini sokwenyani ngokubukela iphonografi kakhulu. Andiqondi ukuba ziziganeko ezichaphazela amadoda; Abafazi abaninzi bayachaphazeleka koku kunokuba bebengathanda ukuvuma ngokunjalo, nangona kucacile ukuba asinakubandezeleka kukungasebenzi kakuhle kwe-erectile. Mna ndilahlekelwe kakhulu kwi-libido yeyona nto iyinyani, kwaye ndicinga ukuba uninzi lwazo kukubukela iphonografi kakhulu. Ukubona i-genitalia yendoda ebomini bokwenyani akukonwabisi kuba ndibabona ngalo lonke ixesha kwi-porn. Akukho nto ivuselelayo ekuboneni abantu besini esahlukileyo behamba ze. Iyafana kum ngoku ngokujonga iindaba zasebusuku.

  3. Ibhinqa liposile oku kwi-Psychology Today
    phantsi kwinqaku malunga nokuchithwa kwezesondo zoxhatshazo:

    Ndinayo le ngxaki ngaphandle kokuba andinayo ipeni.

    Xa ndiyifunda le nto indenze ndabona ukuba yile nto bendisokola kuyo. Bendingazi ukuba iphonografi yingxaki yam. Ndijonge iphonografi, kwaye ndinomlutha kuyo kuba ndandimncinci, ndimncinci kakhulu. Ndingu-24 kuphela kwaye ubomi bam bothando bunzima kakhulu. Umyeni wam uyaqonda ngandlela ithile kodwa andikaze ndikwazi ukumxelela ukuba ivela phi, njengoko ndingamxelelanga ngesiyobisi sam. Imayini yaqala ngesiqhelo, apho ubuntununtunu bam ekuchukumiseni bancipha ngokubonakalayo, okoko ndaqala ukujonga iphonografi. Njengoko iphepha lathi, i-porno endiyijongileyo nayo yanda "ubunzima". Ndandidla ngokuguqula ubuze kwaye ngoku kwinqanaba apho ndixhalabile ngengqondo yam engqondweni.

    Ndikunzima ukuphumeza naluphi na uhlobo lwe-orgasm ngaphandle kokuvuselela i-clitoral kunye nokucatshulwa kanzima kum. Ndikhumbula ukuba ndikwazi ukulala ngesondo kwaye ndivakale ngaphandle komzamo omkhulu.

    Andikhange ndibukele iphonografi ixesha elide, kwaye ndiqalisile kwakhona, kwaye ixesha lokuhamba alikhange liyonyuse i-libido yam kodwa linokuchaza ukuba kutheni ndingenayo i-libido. Ndandidla ngokuba ne-libido egqithisileyo kwaye ndingenakukwazi ukuyilawula, ngoku andikuthandi nokuchukunyiswa.

    Ndicinga ukuba kwimeko yam, ukuyeka iifostile kunye nezixhobo ezibonakalayo kuya kuba nzima kunye nohambo olude. Ndivakalelwa kukuba mhlawumbi bekuyiminyaka ngaphambi kokuba ububele bam buyabuya, ukuba oko. Nantsi ukuthemba! Ndiyabulela ngokubhala oku kwaye ungayifaki nje ingqalelo yam kodwa abanye abaninzi!

    Ndiyathemba ukuba ababhali bayaqonda ukuba abantu basetyhini, kunye namadoda, basebenzisa iphonografi ukuphulula amalungu esini nawo. Emfihlekweni ndibheja abafazi basondele kakhulu kwisixa kunye nobukhali obusetyenziswa ngamadoda kwaye yiyo loo nto uninzi lwabasetyhini ludinga uhlobo oluthile lokukhuthaza ukufezekisa nantoni na. Vibrators ngumtyholi kwaye ndiza kube ndisusa eyam, inene kunjalo.

  4. Enye ibhinqa ejongene nokukhathazeka
    Inikezelwa yilungu lebhunga:

    Ndinomhlobo wamabhinqa onama-orgasms akhe abe njalo. Utshaye imifuno iminyaka kwaye uthi akanakuba nayo i-orgasm elungileyo ngaphandle kokuba utshaye ukhula kwaye ngaphandle kokuba ecinga ngokusetyenziswa. Ukwabonisa amanyala kakhulu kwaye akafuni ukuyeka.

  5. Intombazana e-Reddit

    Kubonakala kungabikho ukuhamba ngesondo, kodwa ujonge i-pornography kunye ne-mastubate rhoqo. Naliphi na indlela yokutshintsha oku? I-19yo intombi kunye nesithuba sokuqala, intsha ibe yintsha kubo bonke.

    Ndibe kwizikhundla zokulala ngesondo (heh) okoko bendineminyaka eyi-16, kodwa bendikhupha ngeyure le-11 ngalo lonke ixesha. Obu budlelwane bobathathu bendinabo babufutshane ngendlela emangalisayo (iinyanga ezimbalwa, iintloko) ngenxa yokuba ndandibheyile kwakamsinya nje ukuba ndinyanzelwe ukuba ndabelana ngesondo.

    Yonke into enhle kakhulu, kodwa ngokukhawuleza xa isuka kwindawo yokumisa eyomileyo (into engangange ndiyikho) ukuya kwii-handjob okanye ngaphaya kwam ndazikhupha ngaphandle kwangoko ndatshitshiswa kumfana.

    Okwangoku, bendiphulula amalungu esini okoko ndikhumbula (mhlawumbi kube kanye yonke imihla) kwaye ndibukele iphonografi (malunga kathathu ngeveki) kule minyaka imbalwa idlulileyo. Kutheni ndingenakuguqulwa ngumfana oyinyani Pha kwaye ndizimisele ukukholisa?

    Ngaba omnye umntu unamava afana nawo apho abonwabela iifoto kunye nokuhlaziya umzimba ngokugqithiseleyo kunokulala ngesondo?

  6. Ibhinqa e-Reddit
    wabhala wathi:

    I-SO yam yangaphambili kwaye ndandinobudlelwane obude obude, kwaye kulapho ke ndaqala khona ukwenza i-masturbating and porn. Ngamanye amaxesha asizukubonana iinyanga ezimbalwa ngexesha, ke ndenza i-masturbated kwaye ndibukele iphonografi phantse yonke imihla kwiminyaka emi-3. Kunyaka wokuqala wobudlelwane bethu, ndafumanisa ukuba isondo esasinalo lalibuthuntu kwaye andinakukwazi ukuphuma kwisini nje kwaphela. Ngokukhawuleza xa egqibile, ndiza kuyeka ukugqiba ukubukela iphonografi kakhulu. I-pornography yanda kakhulu njengoko iminyaka yayiqhubeka, kwaye ubudlelwane bezesondo endandinabo kunye ne-SO yam baba mandundu.

    Ndine-SO entsha, besibonana ngaphezulu konyaka. Ekuqaleni kobudlelwane bethu, wandixelela ukuba xa besabelana ngesondo, kubonakala ngathi ingqondo yam ibikwenye indawo kwaye andidibani naye kwaphela. Ngamanye amaxesha phakathi kwesini, bendiphela ndicinga ngento endikhe ndayibona okanye ndayifunda kutshanje, endaweni yakhe. Emva kokuba ndithathe isigqibo sokuthatha lo mceli mngeni kwaye ndafunda kancinci kwi-r / kareeza .. izinto zingcono kakhulu phakathi kwethu. Ndiva uxhulumaniso oluxhobisayo, kwaye ingqondo yam ayihambi kwaphela. Ubundlobongela biziva bungcono, ukuba ne-SO yam kungcono, kwaye ndiyakwazi ukwenza i-orgasm ngokulula ngoku ngokulala ngesondo kuphela. Kwaye ii-orgasms zibhetele kune-PVO.

     

  7. Kusuka kwiSyychology Today

    UKim uphawule wathi: "Ukungasebenzi kakuhle ngokwesondo kuyingxaki ekhulayo"

    Isihloko: Oku akusebenzi emadodeni kuphela!

    Kuyahlekisa ukubanga ukuba abafazi abasiqondi isidingo sokuphulula amalungu esini. Izifundo ezininzi zamva nje zibonisa ukuba ipesenti ephezulu kakhulu yabasetyhini i-masturbate, kwaye rhoqo! Kutheni le nto iithoyi zesini zowasetyhini zinokubakho ukuba akukho mntu uzithengayo?

    Ngokubhekisele kweli nqaku, ndizabalaza nalo mba, kwaye ndingumfazi kubudlelwane bexesha elide. Ndidla ngokugcoba yonke imihla embalwa, kwaye ndiye ndaqala ukusebenzisa iphonografi kuba yenza ukuba kube lula kwaye ikhawuleze ukufikelela kwi-orgasm. Nangona kunjalo, ixesha ngalinye liba nzima ngakumbi ukuya kufikelela kuvuthondaba, kwaye kule minyaka idlulileyo iphonografi endiyibukeleyo iye yanda kakhulu / ingaqhelekanga ukufumana inani elifanayo lonwabo. Andikwazi ukufikelela kuvuthondaba kunye nesithandwa sam. Kuyinyani ukuba iphonografi iyakukhathaza, kodwa nje ukuba ungabinayo i-orgasm ngaphandle kwayo, kunzima ukuyeka.

     

  8. Umfazi kwi reddit
    thumela oku:

    Ndiyakwazi ukuza xa ndiphulula amalungu esini kwi-kinky porn (ikakhulu i-gangbang). I-SO yam ngokuqinisekileyo ayiyiyo loo nto, kwaye ndinexhala lokuba isini esiqhelekileyo asisoze sandiguqula ngokwaneleyo ukuze ndize. Ngaba kufanelekile ukuba ndixhalabele? Ndingazikhulula njani koku?

  9. Ndiyavuya kuba ndingenamava amnandi ngeVibrators
    Ndingumfazi oneminyaka engama-40 ubudala, kwaye ndinembali eninzi xa kufikwa ekuphulula amalungu esini. Ukufunda eli nqaku, ndonwabile ukuba amava am ngeethoyi zesondo zazingalunganga. Malunga neminyaka emithathu eyadlulayo, ndathenga isidlidlizi (kuba ukuvuselelwa kwedijithali kwe-clitoris yam, ukugoba umqamelo, njl.njl zange kundanelise), kodwa le penis yeplastikhi ibinkulu kakhulu kwilungu lobufazi, Ngena-kwaye bendingazi ukuba ndingasisebenzisa njani esi sixhobo sokungcangcazela ngenye indlela. Emva kwethutyana, isazela sam esibi sandibamba kwaye ndasilahla. Emva kwexesha, ndeva ngesixhobo esincinci, kwaye ndalingwa ukuba ndisifumane, kodwa ngethamsanqa andizange! Ngapha koko, ndingakrwelela kuphela oko bekutshiwo kwinqaku:

    "Sinokongamela iingqondo zethu ngeendlela ezininzi, kodwa ukutya kunye nokwabelana ngesondo kuyathandeka."

    Ewe kunjalo, ihlala iyenye yeziyobisi zimbini bendikhe ndazifumana ngaphambili. Nanini na xa ukutya kwakungeyongxaki yam, ngokuqinisekileyo yayikukuhlaziya amalungu esini (ngamanye amaxesha zombini) - kubandakanya ukucamngca kunjalo, kunye nezinto zokufunda ezingafanelekanga eziya kundiguqula (ngamanye amaxesha iphonografi ethambileyo). Kwaye ndiziqinisekisile ngeendlela ezininzi. Ngelishwa, andikatshati, kwaye ukuhlangana kwam kwesondo okokugqibela iminyaka emininzi eyadlulayo. Kodwa ndingumKristu kwaye andikholelwa kwisini ngaphambi komtshato, ke andinakwenza enye into ngaphandle kokulinda!

  10. Iziyobisi ezingamabhinqa
    Ixesha elikhoyoiintsuku 7 Iingu-21 iiyure ze-2 ezedlulileyoOh, kholwani mna, abanye abafazi abayifuni i-fap.

    Bendihlala ndibukela iphonografi kunamadoda amaninzi endibaziyo. Ndingafumana isikhuthazo, emva koko ndichithe naphi na ukusuka kwimizuzu emihlanu ukuya kweyure ndikhangela ividiyo efanelekileyo ukuba ndiye kuyo kuba ndizifumene ndikruqukile zizinto ezindala ezifanayo. Ndaqala ngezinto ezithambileyo kwiminyaka yam yokuqala yeshumi elivisayo kwaye yajika yaba zezona zinto zininzi endinokuzifumana. Ndinefolda kuluhlu lwe-GB kwiPC yam. Ndibeka iifayile kwifowuni yam kunye nesidlali sevidiyo / sevidiyo ukufikelela ngokulula xa ndingenakuba kufutshane nekhompyuter. Ndifumana iakhawunti yolingo kwindawo ye-porn kuba ndabona i-gif endijike kakhulu kangangokuba kwafuneka ndazi ukuba ngubani le ntombazana.

    Inxalenye elandelayo kukucacisa ngakumbi kunye neenkcukacha ukuba konke oku kutshintshe njani (ukutshintsha) izimvo zam kwezesondo, ke ndiza kuhamba phambili kwaye i-NSFW ikhuseleke.Lo mkhwa we-porn ubutshintshile ubomi bam ngeendlela ezininzi. Umbono wokwenza kancinci uthando ubonakala ungenamdla kum. Ndandinelungu le-PIV kuphela nomfana omnye kwaye ndancanca kuba ene-ED ngenxa ye-PMO kwaye uzama ukuyilungisa. Nangona kunjalo, ndenze ezinye izinto nabanye abantu. Ndandihlala ndifuna ukubavuthela kwaye ndafumanisa ukuba indijikelezisile ngaphezulu kokuyifumana kubo. Ngapha koko, andizange ndifune ukuba nabani na aye ezantsi kum, nditsho nentombazana enikezela emva kokuba ndihlile kuye. Abafana bebengenakundibamba ngomnwe ngokwaneleyo; Yonke into kuye kwafuneka ibe roucher kum. Ndandifuna ukubizwa ngokuba ndiyinjakazi nehenyukazi. Ndacela ukubethwa ngempama kwaye uninzi lwabafana alunakuyenza. Ukwabelana ngesondo kwakuyinto yonke kodwa ukuthanda kum; Yonke into eyayilahlekile kubomi bam besini yayikhamera kunye nokuhlawulwa komvuzo. Ndandicinga ukuba ndithandana nabasetyhini, kodwa andinakuze ndizibone ndibudlelane nomfazi. Ngokusisiseko yonke into endandifuna ukuyenza nabafazi yayikukutya ngaphandle kwaye ndiyibambe ngentambo. Ke ayisiyiyo kuphela ukuba ndandizichaza, ndandibachaza nabo. Ukudibana ngokwesondo nabanye baziva belungile, kodwa khange bandenzele lukhulu. Ndiza kuxoka malunga nendlela evakalelwa ngayo kwaye ndiza kubhala i-orgasms ukuze iphele. Yaziva ingalunganga, imdaka, kwaye ndifuna nje ukushiywa ndedwa. Ngamanyala? Ndiza kuba nee-orgasms ezinamandla kwaye ndiyenze naphi na ukusuka kwabahlanu ukuya kwabahlanu ngosuku.

    Akukho mntu wakha wazi ngenxa yokuba ndimhle kakhulu apho kwaye iingxaki zam ze-PMO azange zibonise kuloo ndlela ngendlela eyenzeka ngayo kwamanye amadoda kunye no-ED. Nangona kunjalo, umonakalo owenzileyo kum ngokwasemphefumlweni ngokubhekisele kwezesondo, ukuzithemba, kunye nolwalamano luyabonakala kakhulu. Kwakhona, kwandenza ndafuna ukudlala ngothando namadoda kakhulu. “Kutheni kufuneka ndithethe nalo mfana mhle nje? Akasoze andenze ndizive ndimnandi ngokwesondo ngendlela endiziva ngayo ndedwa. ” Ndiya kuba nencoko kunye nomfana kwi-intanethi, kwaye ndivuka nje kwaye ndihambe kwi-PC ukuze ndihlaziye. Ndiza kufika emva kwexesha eklasini okanye emsebenzini kuba ndifuna nje ukungena kwiseshoni enye ye-PMP ekhawulezileyo. Ndandibuhlungu kwaye ndandifuna ukuyitshintsha. Kwakungekude nje kutshanje apho ndafika kuzo zonke iindlela enditshintshe ngazo kule. Ndikhululekile kwi-PMO kangangeentsuku ezisixhenxe kwaye ndihleli nditshona ezantsi, iifoto zoononophala zikhanya entlokweni yam ngamanye amaxesha kwaye, ukuba ndinyanisekile, ngamanye amaxesha ndiziva ngathi ndifuna ukubamba umntu wokuqala ohamba endlwini yam kwaye vele ubambe iingqondo zakhe ngaphandle.

    Ewe kunjalo, oomama baya kuphazamiseka nento yonke.

    http://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/17xrb8/i_want_to_hear_from_the_women_on_this_site/c89v2u6

  11. Ukusuka kwenye indawo
    Umfazi oselula uthi:

    Kuyanceda ukukwazi ukufunda. Ndiyintombazana eneminyaka engama-20 kwaye ndimhle le yingxaki yam. Andikabikho ukufumana amanye amabhinqa axela ukuba anayo le ngxaki nangona kunjalo. Kuyabonakala ukuba abajongi iphonografi, heh. Ndandididekile xa ndingazange ndihlale nabani na unyaka kwaye ndingakwazi ukuvusa isithandwa sam esitsha endandisazi ukuba nditsaleleke kubo bonke abantu. Ndacinga ukuba kukuzazi nje (nangona bendingenalo tu ixhala) okanye iihormone zam zazijijekile.

    Kwakungekho ukongeza nangona kunjalo, ndifana nesibane esikhanyayo sempilo phakathi koontanga bam ababelana ngesondo ngakumbi. Ukuba kukho nantoni na i-athleticism kufuneka iqhube i-testosterone yam kwaye indinike umgca.

    Namhlanje ndiye ndaqonda ukuba andinakukwazi ukuzikhupha nge-porn kwaye i-Os yam ibingafani amaxesha ambalwa okugqibela. Ndiyamangaliswa ukuba isithandwa sam sikwazile ukwenza oko. Ngapha koko, ndiye ndafumanisa ngalento namhlanje. nangona lonke ulwazi endilifumeneyo ngokubhekisele emadodeni zininzi izinto ezifanayo. ngekhe uphume okanye uvuswe ngaphandle kwe-P, hayi ukuvuswa ngaphambi kwe-M, ukubukela okugabadeleyo okungaphezulu kwe-P okubandakanya izinto ezazingahambelani ncam nobomi bam bokwenyani, njl njl.

    Ndonwabe kakhulu ukufumana ingcambu yengxaki yam. Ukuqalisa kwakhona kufuneka kube ngokukhawuleza kwaye kulula ukucinga ukuba andizange ndibe ngumlutha * (nje ndidikiwe) kwaye andizange ndibandakanyeke ekuziphatheni okubi ngenxa yonyaka okanye rhoqo njengabanye. iziphumo zakho zindenza ndibenethemba. Masinwabe! ^ _ ^ =

  12. Ndiyavuya kuba ndingenamava amnandi ngeVibrators
    Kuthunyelwe kwi-YBOP

    Ndingumfazi oneminyaka engama-40 ubudala, kwaye ndinembali eninzi xa kufikwa ekuphulula amalungu esini. Ukufunda eli nqaku, ndonwabile ukuba amava am ngeethoyi zesondo zazingalunganga. Malunga neminyaka emithathu eyadlulayo, ndathenga isidlidlizi (kuba ukuvuselelwa kwedijithali kwe-clitoris yam, ukugoba umqamelo, njl.njl zange kundanelise), kodwa le penis yeplastikhi ibinkulu kakhulu kwilungu lobufazi, Ngena-kwaye bendingazi ukuba ndingasisebenzisa njani esi sixhobo sokungcangcazela ngenye indlela. Emva kwethutyana, isazela sam esibi sandibamba kwaye ndasilahla. Emva kwexesha, ndeva ngesixhobo esincinci, kwaye ndalingwa ukuba ndisifumane, kodwa ngethamsanqa andizange! Ngapha koko, ndingakrwelela kuphela oko bekutshiwo kwinqaku:

    "Sinokongamela iingqondo zethu ngeendlela ezininzi, kodwa ukutya kunye nokwabelana ngesondo kuyathandeka."

    Ewe kunjalo, ihlala iyenye yeziyobisi zimbini bendikhe ndazifumana ngaphambili. Nanini na xa ukutya kwakungeyongxaki yam, ngokuqinisekileyo yayikukuhlaziya amalungu esini (ngamanye amaxesha zombini) - kubandakanya ukucamngca kunjalo, kunye nezinto zokufunda ezingafanelekanga eziya kundiguqula (ngamanye amaxesha iphonografi ethambileyo). Kwaye ndiziqinisekisile ngeendlela ezininzi. Ngelishwa, andikatshati, kwaye ukuhlangana kwam kwesondo okokugqibela iminyaka emininzi eyadlulayo. Kodwa ndingumKristu kwaye andikholelwa kwisini ngaphambi komtshato, ke andinakwenza enye into ngaphandle kokulinda!

  13. Ndilahlekelwe bubuntununtunu kwi-clitoris yam kwi-vibrator yam
    Ndilahlekelwe bubuntununtunu kwi-clitoris yam kwi-vibrator yam

    Molo NoFap, bendihleli okwethutyana ngoku kwaye bendixoxa malunga nokuba ndiqale kwirejimeni yeNoFap. Ndifunde i-hentai kancinci kwaye ndenza i-masturbate phantse yonke imihla. Ndiyaqonda ukuba kufuneka ndiyeke: Ndilahlekile ngokubonakalayo kwi-clitoris yam kwi-vibrator yam, ndizifumana ndijolisa ngokwengqondo kubahlobo bam abangamadoda, kwaye ndilahlekelwa lixesha elininzi ekufuneka ndilichithile kwiiprojekthi zomsebenzi.

    Nangona kunjalo, ndinoloyiko lokuba ukuba ndiyekile, ndinokuba nentembelo yokuba uninzi lweeFapstronauts zinamava kwaye / okanye zinokuziva zinomdla ngokwasemzimbeni kubahlobo bam abangamadoda. Ndinomlingane kubudlelwane obude, kwaye andifuni ukudlala ngothando ngempazamo okanye ndinike imiqondiso yokuba ndinomdla xa ndingekho. Ukucacisa, ndicace gca kwindlela endiziphethe ngayo ukuba ndikulwalamano oluhle kwaye andinamdla komnye umntu, kodwa andifuni kuphuhlisa naziphi na iindlela zokuziphatha ezingathethiyo ezithetha ngenye indlela.

  14. Ngenye inyanga akukho noonopopayi, i-masturbation okanye i-vibrators
    Ngenye inyanga akukho noonopopayi, i-masturbation okanye i-vibrators

    Ndingumfazi we-26 oneminyaka elidala. Ndandisebudlelwane obude obungenamsebenzi obungenamsebenzi apho ndakwazi ukusebenzisa i-porno ukuba ndiyifumene. Emva kobudlelwane bephelile, ngokuqinisekileyo ndandisa ukusetyenziswa kwamabhonografi kwimihla ngemihla. Ndadibana nam ngoku siyazibandakanya kwaye silala ngesondo rhoqo. Nangona kunjalo, xa ndingekho emsebenzini ngeenyanga ezimbalwa, ndandidla ngokuphinga amaninzi ngamaxesha. Ngexesha lakufika ekhaya, andizange ndive ngathi ukulala ngesondo okanye ngesondo akuzange ndive

    Ndabuyela emsebenzini kodwa ndandidla i-masturbating nokubukela i-porn ubuncinane i-2-3x ngosuku. Ndabona ukuba wayengenakukwazi ukundithabatha ngomlomo (wayesebenzisa onke amaxesha!) Kwaye akanakwenzeka ngezandla zakhe.

    Sele zine iiveki ndingabinayo i-masturbation, i-porn okanye i-vibrators kwaye ndiziva ngathi nditshintshile !!! Ukwabelana ngesondo kwethu kunye kuye kwaba nesiqhamo ngakumbi kwaye kunxibelelana. Andinayo imifanekiso engamanyala ebaleka entlokweni yam. Unako ukundikhupha ngoku ngoku kokubini ngomlomo nangezandla zakhe kwaye ndiziva ngathi uzaliseke kakhulu. Ndiyamlangazelela ngokuchasene nokunqwenela iphonografi. Ndisafumana izibongozo kodwa ndinako ngakumbi kwaye ndikulungele ukuzilawula.

  15. Umfazi-akakwazi ukwenza i-orgasm kunye namadoda, yedwa kuphela: ibali lempumelelo

    Mholo

    Nditshitshisa nje ukuba ndibe nenxaxheba kwinkqubela yam kude kube ngoku.

    Ndiqale nge-nofap ngoJanuwari, iintsuku ezingama-247 ezidlulileyo ukuba zichaneke. Isizathu sokuba ndikwazi ukuzikhupha ngendlela endiyithandayo kodwa andinakukwazi ukwenza i-orgasm kunye neqabane (naliphi na iqabane), nantoni na abayenzileyo okanye nokuba bazamile kangakanani.

    Emuva xa ndandineminyaka eyi-19 ndingazange ndenze i-masturbated ngaphambili ebomini bam, kwaye ndandisebenzisa i-orgasm kuphela kwi-sex-top -IV ye-PIV (endiyifumanayo ayinqabile, njengoko abaninzi abafazi bafuna ukuvuselelwa, kodwa andizange). Ngeminyaka eyi-20 ndandinayo incasa yam ye-orgasms, kwaye xa ndingatshatanga ndizifumanele umvundla-impazamo enkulu, i-PIV O ayikaze ibonwe kwakhona, okanye naluphi na uhlobo lwe-O kunye nabani na. Kule minyaka ilandelayo ye-14 bendinako O kuphela kumvundla, ngelixa ndicinga (okanye ndibukele iphonografi). Iminyaka eyi-6 eyadlulayo ndayiqhekeza umvundla kwaye ekugqibeleni ndafunda ukusebenzisa isandla sam, kodwa kwafuneka ndicinge okanye ndibukele iphonografi ku-O. Ndandinokwenza kuphela i-orgasm kunye neqabane, ukuba NDANDIZIHLALE ngendlela ethe ngqo ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo kwaye ndicingelwe, ngenxa yoko bendingekho. Andikwazi ukuvuswa ngokwasemzimbeni kunye neqabane lam kwakhona. Mna nangona oku kungenxa yokuba besikunye phantse iminyaka elishumi kwaye i-spark ibihambile-kodwa eneneni kungenxa yokuba ingqondo yam yamkela kuphela isandla sam kunye neengcinga ezingekho ngqiqweni njengomthombo wolonwabo lwe-orgasmic.

    Ke, ndondliwe kukwazi ukuzanelisa kwaye ndiziva ndophukile apho, ndaye ndagqiba kwelokuba ndizame i-nofap. Ndiyeke uononophala kwaye andizange ndiyijonge kanye emva kokuyeka, okwakungeyona ingxaki njengoko ndandibukela kuphela amaxesha ambalwa ngenyanga kwaye andizange ndibe ngumlutha kuyo. Ndandingenakukhutshwa kuyo nangona, nangona nje ukubukela amaxesha ambalwa ngenyanga. Ndizamile nokuyeka i-MO, endiphumelele ngayo, ndinemigca emide, kodwa ke bendiya kuba neveki engaqhelekanga yokubuyela umva apha naphaya. Okona kubaluleke kakhulu ndaye ndagqiba kwelokuba ndiyeke ukucinga ngezinto ezingeyonyani okanye ezingamanyala. Ezi ngcamango zazihamba kunye nokuvusa kunye ne-orgasm kwiminyaka eyi-14, kwaye ezi ngcamango zaziphazamisa ngokwenene umsebenzi wam wesondo wengqondo.

    Kukho imiba ye-2 efuna ukuhlenga;

    • Ngokwasemzimbeni-bendinenguqulo yabasetyhini yokubamba ukufa. Ndino O kuphela ukuba ndithambise iklit yam ngoxinzelelo oluthile, ulwalathiso kunye nesantya. Ke ndiye ndayeka ukuba ndonwabile kulo naluphi na uhlobo lokuchukumisa kum, ndingasathethi ke ngomnye umntu.
    • Ngokwengqondo - bendineenguqulelo zabasetyhini kuzo zombini i-PIED kwaye DE. Ndingakwazi ukuvusa umzimba okanye ufikelele eOkuba ngaba ndisezweni elimnandi okanye ubukele i-pornography. Akukho mntu kwaye akukho nto eyenzekayo ebomini yangempela yabangela ukuba ndivuke ngokwenyama, nangona ukuba ndandiyidoda kwaye ndizithoba ngesondo. Ngoko ke, O kunye neqabane lakho akunakwenzeka.

    Nantsi indlela eye ngayo ukuza kuthi ga ngoku;

    Imihla ye-20 + imibandela yokuvuselela yaqalisa ukuphucula
    Usuku lwe-40 + ngesondo kunye nokuqala ukuqala ukuziva kakhulu ngakumbi mnandi
    Usuku 47; ndaye wokuqala wam u-O kwisini somlomo- kwindawo ethe tye yokuhlala-ubuso ngobuso (isadinga loo nto yokulawula) -baqhubekile benazo ukusukela ngoko
    Usuku lwe-70 + ngexesha lokuphindaphinda, unako ukuya kwi-MO ngaphandle kokucingela okokuqala, ukusuka kwiphatha kuphela. Kananjalo unako u-O ukusuka ekuthinteni kunye nokunyamezela kunokuba uchukumise kakhulu.
    Usuku lwe-200 + ngexesha lomnye ukuphindaphinda isigaba, unako ukuya ku-MO ngaphandle kwekliniki ngqo ngqo okokuqala, ukufanisa isondo. Kakhulu ukonyusa ukuthambisa ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo- ngamanye amaxesha ukuya kwinqanaba le-gushy
    Usuku 246 (izolo!); Ndineyokuqala eyokuqala ngo-O ngesondo ngomlomo ngelixa ndilele- Ngokubalulekileyo, le yeyona orgasm yokuqala bendikhe ndanayo ebomini bam apho ndingakhange ndithe nkqo / ngaphezulu, kwaye ngenxa yoko andilawulwa sisindululo. Ke ngobuchwephesha, lixesha lokuqala ebomini bam ukuba ndikwazi ukulala ndiphumle xa omnye umntu endizisa kwi-orgasm, ngaphandle kwegalelo eliphuma kum

    Apho ndibeke khona 'ixesha lokuqala' ngaphezulu, ndithetha okokuqala ngqa, ebomini bam bonke.

    Ke kundithathile iinyanga eziyi-8 ukuya kweli nqanaba. Andikwazi ukuba no-O ukusuka kwi-PIV ngesondo njengokuba ndandidla ngaphambi kokuba ndiqale ukuhlaziya i-masturbating, kodwa ndiyakholelwa ukuba kuya kwenzeka ukuba ndiqhubeka nokuhamba nale nto, njengoko ndiyakwazi ukuya kwi-MO yangasese ngoku. Amandla omzimba akhona (awayengekho ngaphambili, ndandingakwazi ngokomzimba xa ndandingu-PMO'ing kunye nefantasy MO'ing ngalo lonke ixesha), licala nje lengqondo lokulibuyisela kwisini sokwenyani phuma ngoku.

    Ngokumangalisayo i-MO'ing yam ayikaze inciphise ukuqhuba kwam ngesondo okanye ukutsala kwam amaqabane, okanye amandla am okusondelelana. Ndihlala ndingumntu onesondo kakhulu kumlutha wam MO. Khange ndisebenze ngokufanelekileyo kwakhona. Kwaye njengomntu owabelana ngesondo kakhulu, oku kwakundicaphukisa.

    Kufanelekile ukuba sikhankanye ukuba ukubamba ukufa, i-PIED kunye ne-DE konke kuyabonakala kwindoda, kunye namalungu esini ngaphandle kwaye kucacile. Kodwa eyasetyhini, apho yonke icocekile kwaye ingaphakathi, awungekhe uxelele. Awuqondi ukuba kukho ingxaki ixesha elide, kuba awukwazi ukuyibona. Kwaye ngelixa indoda iimfuno ukuvuswa ngokwasemzimbeni ukuba ulale ngesondo, umfazi akenzi njalo. Ndiyayonwabela imvakalelo ye-lube, kodwa ndichithe iminyaka eyi-14 ndixhomekeke kuyo kuba umzimba wam ubungaphenduli. Ukuba bendiyindoda, ndiqinisekile ukuba ngendikucwangcisa oku ngokukhawuleza nje ukuba iibits zam ziyeke ukusebenza ngokufanelekileyo, endaweni yeminyaka eli-14 ezantsi emgceni. Ngoku ndikwi-30 yam, kwaye ndichithe yonke i-20 yam nge-MO yokulutha kuphela ekuphenduleni kum. Ngalo lonke elixesha alunakuqondakala ukuba yintoni eyona ngxaki.

    Ngapha koko, icebo lam yile. Ukuba iphonografi okanye ukuphulula amalungu esini ngandlela thile kuchaphazela umnqweno wakho wesini, ukuphendula kwakho komnye umntu, umsebenzi wakho wesondo okanye amandla akho e-orgasm, ngoku lixesha lokuqala ukuthatha inyathelo. Kungathatha ixesha elide, kungathatha ixesha elide, ukuzibamba kunganyamezeleki ngamanye amaxesha, kwaye uza kuphinda ubuye ngamanye amaxesha. Ngamanye amaxesha uya kuziva ngathi akunantsingiselo, ukuba ayisebenzi. Kodwa ke ngeke sebenza. Ukuba uyazama, kwaye uthule uthuli kwaye uphinde ubuyele kuyo emva kokuwa, ngokuthe chu kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo, ingqondo yakho iya kuphinda ibambe ngocingo ngasemva, ubuntununtunu bakho kunye nokuphendula kuya kuqala ukubuyela. Kum, ukuphindaphinda kuyeyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu ukuza kuthi ga ngoku, hayi ukuyeka. Ukuba bendingenaye umntu oza kudlala naye, ngubani owayeyazi imicimbi yam kwaye ekulungele ukuba nomonde kum kwaye andincede ndifunde konke kwakhona, ngekhe ndikwazi ukwenza oku, ukuqhuba kwam ngesondo kuphezulu kakhulu ngaphandle kwesondo. Umlingane wam, ophulukana ne-PA ngokwakhe, undinike umlomo omnandi kangangeenyanga, ngeveki nganye, ndisazi kakuhle ukuba ngekhe kubekhona i-orgasm kuyo, kodwa uzimisele ukuyenza nokuba kunjalo, kuba iyandiva kwaye inceda ingqondo yam ukuba iphinde ifunde. Olu hlobo lokudlala kunye nokuqonda olufunekayo.

    Sukuxhonywa kakhulu kwiintsuku ze-90. Andizange ndibe ngumlutha woononophala kwaye kundithathe ixesha elide kunokuba ndifike apho ndikhoyo ngoku, kwaye andisekho apho ndifuna ukuba khona. Yicinge ngale ndlela intsha yobomi eya kuqhubeka, kwaye ube nomonde kuyo :)

    Ndiyathemba ukuba ndiza kubuya ngelinye ixesha ukuze ndithi i-PIV orgasms yam ibuyile :Dkodwa kungakhathaliseki, ndiya kuqhubeka, kuba ukukwazi ukuxoka emva kwaye ufumane ulonwabo kwaye O kumaqabane am ubuso yeyona nto ingcono! :)

    LINK - Umfazi-akakwazi ukwenza i-orgasm namadoda, kuphela kwedwa-ibali lempumelelo ukuza kuthi ga ngoku!

Amagqabantshintshi zivaliwe.